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IN THE HIGH COURT OF JUDICATURE AT BOMBAY ORDINARY ORIGINAL CIVIL JURISDICTION AND IN ITS GENERAL AND INHERENT JURISDICTION INDIAN ADOPTION PETITION NO. 20 OF 2023 WITH JUDGE’S ORDER NO. 38 OF 2023 IN INDIAN ADOPTION PETITION NO. 20 OF 2023

1-IAP-20-2023.doc Vina Khapde (P.S.) IN THE HIGH COURT OF JUDICATURE AT BOMBAY ORDINARY ORIGINAL CIVIL JURISDICTION AND IN ITS GENERAL AND INHERENT JURISDICTION INDIAN ADOPTION PETITION NO. 20 OF 2023 WITH JUDGE’S ORDER NO. 38 OF 2023 IN INDIAN ADOPTION PETITION NO. 20 OF 2023 Bal Asha Trust, Mumbai …Petitioner Versus 1. Ashu Singhal 2. Riddhi Singhal …Prospective Adoptive Parents / Respondents ---------- Mr. Rakesh Kapoor i/b. M/s. Rakesh K. L. Kapoor & Co. for the Petitioner. Mr. O. Hareendran, Scrutiny Officer, Indian Council of Social Welfare present. Mr. Dilip S. Gurav, Chamber Registrar present. Mr. Sunil Kumar Arora, Executive Director of Bal Asha Trust, Mumbai present. ---------- CORAM : R.I. CHAGLA J DATE : 25 January 2024 ORDER : 1. This Application is made by way of Affidavit dated 19th December 2023 which is taken on record. By the said Affidavit, the 1/7 2024:BHC-OS:1809 ::: Uploaded on - 01/02/2024 ::: Downloaded on - 06/02/2024 11:18:50 ::: VERDICTUM.IN 1-IAP-20-2023.doc relief has been sought with regard to annulment of Adoption order passed by this Court on 17th August 2023, and for directions to the Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA) to re-register Ganesh @ Karthik Singhal (“the said male minor child”) as ‘Free for Adoption’ for identifying suitable prospective adoptive parents at the earliest. Further direction has been sought with regard to the investment of Rs.2,00,000/- which has been made in the said male minor child’s name for his benefit by the said adoptive parents as directed by this Court vide order dated 17th August 2023. 2. Mr. O. Hareendran, Scrutiny Officer has tendered the Report of the Indian Council of Social Welfare dated 16th January 2024 which is taken on record and marked ‘x’ for identification. 3. By order dated 17th August 2023, this Court had granted adoption of the said male minor child to the adoptive parents by Judge’s Order No.38 of 2023 in Indian Adoption Petition No.20 of 2023. This was pursuant to a joint Petition filed by the Specialized Adoption Agency (Petitioner-Institution) and the said adoptive parents. 4. Thereafter, the said male minor child’s physical custody 2/7 ::: Uploaded on - 01/02/2024 ::: Downloaded on - 06/02/2024 11:18:50 ::: VERDICTUM.IN 1-IAP-20-2023.doc was given to the adoptive parents after the adoptive parents had completed all due procedures under Adoption Regulations Chapter III. 5. In the said Affidavit dated 19th December 2023 filed and affirmed by Mr. Sunil Kumar Arora, Executive Director of Bal Asha Trust (Petitioner-Institution), it is stated that 5 months after the adoption Petition was allowed on 17th August 2023, the adoptive parents complained to the Petitioner-Institution about uncontrollable bad behaviour and habits of the said male minor child. 6. The Petitioner-Institution advised the adoptive parents to undergo counseling sessions in order to understand the said male minor child’s behaviourial issues better and try remedial measures to address the alleged behaviourial issues of the said male minor child. The Petitioner-Institution had informed all the concerned authorities i.e. the Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA), State Adoption Resource Authority (SARA), District Child Protection Unit (DCPU), and Specialized Adoption Agency (SAA) who prepared home study report by email dated 19th October 2023 about the adoptive parents’ inability to keep and take care of the said male minor child. 3/7 ::: Uploaded on - 01/02/2024 ::: Downloaded on - 06/02/2024 11:18:50 ::: VERDICTUM.IN 1-IAP-20-2023.doc 7. Thereafter, as per the instructions of the PetitionerInstitution the adoptive parents underwent their first Counseling Session with the Counselor of Specialized Adoption Agency “Bharatpuria Shiksha Samiti” Ghaziabad, U.P. on 28th October 2023. In this counseling session, the adoptive parents informed that they observed the overeating behaviour of the said male minor child and found that the said male minor child was picking food from the dustbin etc. After this incident, they took the said male minor child to the pediatrician and the Doctor suggested few blood tests. They conducted all the blood tests and it has been revealed that the said male minor child has borderline levels of Leptin and Diabetes. Further, the Doctor opined that the said male minor child may be suffering from obesity and other health issues related to diabetes. The first counseling session and blood test reports have been placed on record at page nos.13 to 28 to the said Affidavit. 8. The second counseling session took place on 18th November 2023 and the Counselor found that the adoptive parents are not ready to keep the said male minor child as their own and take necessary remedial measures to rectify certain eating habits of child. The Counselor also found the adoptive parents do not have emotional bonding with the said male minor child, though the child is fond of 4/7 ::: Uploaded on - 01/02/2024 ::: Downloaded on - 06/02/2024 11:18:50 ::: VERDICTUM.IN 1-IAP-20-2023.doc the adoptive parents and their seven year biological daughter who is an elder sibling. The second counseling report has been placed on record at page nos.29-31 to the said Affidavit. 9. On 2nd December 2023, the said adoptive parents have executed an Affidavit stating interalia that “We have not bonded with the child, hence we would like to return the child”. In the said Affidavit, the adoptive parents have stated that they are ready to follow the CARA Regulations and orders of this Court and authorities for the dissolution of this adoption. The said Affidavit has been placed on record at page nos.32-35 to the said Petition. 10. Thereafter, the said male minor child was brought back to the Petitioner Institution on 18th December 2023 by the adoptive parents. 11. The Petitioner Institution by the said Affidavit is seeking annulment of the order passed by this Court on 17th August 2023 for the best interest of the said male minor child and permitting CARA and the Petitioner-Institution to commence the process of finding another adoptive home for the said male minor child in accordance with the procedure under the Adoption Regulations. 5/7 ::: Uploaded on - 01/02/2024 ::: Downloaded on - 06/02/2024 11:18:50 ::: VERDICTUM.IN 1-IAP-20-2023.doc 12. Having considered the averments in the said affidavit as well as the report of Mr. O. Hareendran, Scrutiny Officer, Indian Council of Social Welfare, dated 16th January 2024 which is marked ‘x’ for identification, I am of the considered view that it would be in the interest of the said male minor child that the adoption order dated 17th August 2023 is annulled and consequential reliefs sought for in the said Affidavit are granted. 13. In view thereof, the following order is passed; (i) The order dated 17th August 2023 which has allowed the Indian Adoption Petition No.20 of 2023 is recalled and adoption of the said male minor child is accordingly annulled. (ii) The Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA) is directed to re-register the said minor male child as ‘Free for Adoption’ for identifying suitable prospective adoptive parents at the earliest. (iii) The investment of Rs.2,00,000/- which has been made in the said minor male child’s name for his benefit by 6/7 ::: Uploaded on - 01/02/2024 ::: Downloaded on - 06/02/2024 11:18:50 ::: VERDICTUM.IN 1-IAP-20-2023.doc the prospective adoptive parents as directed by this Court vide order dated 17th August 2023, shall be returned to the prospective adoptive parents. (iv) The adoptive parents are directed to return to the Petitioner-Institution all the original reports and/or any other original documents pertaining to the said male minor child immediately. (v) This order is passed in the disposed of Indian Adoption Petition No.20 of 2023. (vi) Parties to act on an authenticated copy of this order. [R.I. CHAGLA J.] 7/7 ::: Uploaded on - 01/02/2024 ::: Downloaded on - 06/02/2024 11:18:50 ::: VERDICTUM.IN

Child Protection Unit to declare 2 children free for adoption if family does not contact within 60 days


July 26 – District Child Protection Unit South Goa has issued a public notice stating that two children under their care will be declared legally free for adoption no persons comes forward to claim that they are their family members within 60 days.  Both are girls aged 7 and 9. The children’s parent/relatives whereabouts are not available, informed DCPU, South.  

Habtamu de Hoop: 'I think many friends would be helped by our politics, but they will never vote left'

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The youngest member of parliament Habtamu de Hoop (GroenLinks-PvdA) is Frisian, whatever Johan Derksen may claim. His adoption is 'a beautiful story' and also entails a responsibility, he thinks. 'I felt that I had to do something with this happiness.'


Habtamu de Hoop was just able to grab one beer in the party tent on the Terp last night. A debate in the House of Representatives had overrun, he arrived later than he wanted in his familiar Frisian Wommels. The village festival lasts three days, green-yellow-red flags flutter on the facades, streamers are strung in almost all gardens – the uniformity betrays a lively, close-knit village culture.

Tomorrow, at the matinee, everyone will be dressed in a farm theme. The group of friends from De Hoop will be playing farmer golf. The men will be dressing up as farmers, with a red farmer's handkerchief and a flat cap. The women will be playing holes , a tuft of grass with a ring around it. 'Uh yeah', says the 26-year-old, laughing. 'That doesn't make any sense of course.'

'Sheer High Handedness': Bombay High Court Expresses Displeasure Over CWC's Conduct In Handling Father's Case For Child's Custody

The Bombay High Court on Friday expressed the need to train officials of the Child Welfare Committee (CWC), displeased over the manner in which the committee declared a child free for adoption despite the biological father’s pleas for the child’s custody.The court said it would order records of the present case to be placed before the appropriate department for consideration. “Whether...


 

In Mumbai, buy a baby boy in seven days for 2 lakhs

Mumbai: In an explosive sting operation that lasted for about a week, MiD DAY blows the lid off a thriving baby-selling racket in the city, in which infants are sold like commodities for ₹ 2-3 lakh.

Two MiD DAY reporters posed as a couple and approached the syndicate   operating out of the innocuous, even respectable, setting of an orphanage for disabled kids in the far suburb of Ulhasnagar. At the end of the seven days, a six-day-old male child was sold to the undercover scribes for ₹ 2.30 lakh, with zero paperwork and no waiting time.

A resort for innumerable childless couples in this city desperate to enjoy the joys of parenthood without the hassle of the long-winded legal adoption process, the orphanage offers many options for the illegal transaction.

 

The easiest of these is pay the cash and take the child home within a week, bypassing the interminable waits (anywhere over 2 years) and the extensive documentation required to establish your credentials and financial status. All one needs do is produce an identity proof -- authenticity no bar -- and the alleged racketeers hand over the child along with the birth certificate with your name on it.

The babies are procured from marginalised couples, who perforce or willingly, sell their offspring for a few thousand rupees: the promise of square meals or some extra money is enough to induce the poor women into being exploited and making reproduction their trade. While they get a minimum amount, the few employees abetting the illicit trade pocket a major share of the rewards.

The kingpin of the racket has been supplying newborns to builders, businessmen and other affluent people across the state, deprived of natural parenthood.

Other than the straightforward purchase, the alleged offenders offer the alternative of surrogacy at the price of ₹ 10 lakh. The surrogacy option included choosing to establish sexual contact with a woman who would then bear the child in her womb, rather than the more traditional IVF (in-vitro fertilisation). For this, the rate card is contingent on the financial standing of the customer, and the demands of the surrogate mother. She may ask that her accommodation and medical expenses be borne till the time she delivers, other than her fee of a couple of lakhs.

After confirming the presence of the syndicate, we decided to 'buy' a child to establish the existence of this child trafficking.

The following is an in-depth account of the sting -- as narrated by MiD DAY reporters Bhupen Patel and Shubha Shetty-Saha -- starting from February 13, when they found out where the racket is taking place, and concluding seven days later with the sale of a baby.

Day 1: Monday

After a tip-off that some orphanages in Ulhasnagar are involved in selling newborns, we began approaching them incognito. After visiting a few ashrams, we confirmed that one Vijaya Sonawne, who cooks food for the orphans in the ashrams, is the woman who runs the syndicate.

Day 2: Tuesday

After running a background check, we approached her as a couple from Nashik. Since she belongs to the same place, we presumed it might help our cause.

We managed to win her confidence on the very first meeting, and she agreed to give us a newborn male child for ₹ 3 lakh (which was finally renegotiated to ₹ 2.3 lakh). She asked us to come the day after to see the baby.

Day 3: Wednesday

We met Sonawne outside Central Hospital in Ulhasnagar Sector-3. She told us that another woman (probably an agent) who works in a surrogacy clinic in Mulund, would take us to the baby, who was in a slum in Ulhasnagar with his family.

On our way there, Sonawne cautioned us not to speak to anyone about the money except her. She said she knew the 'right people' in the court so she could get the paperwork in order in just a day. She even volunteered to be the guarantor.

Bhupen: Maa baap ke samne kuch nahi bolne ka?

Sonawne:Maa baap to hoyenge naa samne.

Bhupen:Lekin woh log ko kuch nahi bolneka?

Sonawne:Nahi, kuch nahi bolneka. Abhi vakil se hi baat ki humne.

Bhupen:Kya bola vakil?

Sonawne: Woh karke dega.

Bhupen:Lekin woh bol raha hai naa ek din mein ho jayega.

Sonawne:Haan haan, ek din mein.

Bhupen:Toh hum logo ko kya kya lana padega?

Sonawne:Sirf address proof chahiye.

Bhupen: Matlab ID-card mein address proof?

Sonawne:Kuch bhi chalega.

(We tried to negotiate the price with Sonawne, who warned us that if we tried haggling, the child would be sold to someone else. )

Bhupen: Lekin tum usko bolo thoda kum karneko.

Sonawne: Main tumko bola naa. Yeh roj roj nahi milta hai. Saamne wala bhi to apna khudka baccha de raha hai. Nashik se bhi log leke gaye hain. Bade bade business hain. Paanch hazar rupaye woh log ne pyaar se mujhe diya tha.

Bhupen:Kitna kum ho sakta hai lekin. Hum log thoda financial crisis mein hai.

Sonawne:Abhi tumko kya bola. Raat ko isliye maine usko 11.00 baje phone kiya. Woh bolti hai ki saamne wale ka ekdum final hai. (Referring to another case) Maine kiya hai ye. Ek kiya hai. Teen mahina hua yeh baat ke liye. Phir mereko maloom hai woh logo (the child's parents) ka aadat. Phir woh bolte hai jaane do hum logo ke paas koi doosra ayega. Lekin apne ko jarurat hai naa.

Sonawne: Jinhone liya tha na pehli baar, unhone doodh ki bottle tak rakha tha Nashik mein. Lekin uski mummy bolti ki mereko bachcha deneka nahi. Nahi boli. Unko paisa diya tha ₹ 20,000. Sab ho gaya tha. Pandit se pooja-path sab kiya tha. Magistrate ke saamne bola mereko nahi dena hai.

Shubha:Arrey baap re.

Sonawne: Main unko bola jo naseeb mein hai, woh tumko milega. Phir hum log Nashik se wapas ghar aaye Ulhasnagar mein. Woh bole ke madam humko tumhare pe vishwas hai, aisehi chhod ke gaye paisa mere paas. Teen lakh rupaya. Aisa teen mahina mere paas paisa pada tha. Tabhi mereko phir yeh (infant) Ghatkopar se mila. Phir unko diya na to itni khushi ho gayi. Maine usko do din apne paas rakha, nihlaya. Usko upar ka doodh diya. Usko aadat lagaya. Do din tak usko aang ka doodh (breast milk) pilaya. Teesre din bottle ka diya. Ekdum mast raha mere paas. Phir do mahine ke baad mere paas aaye maine unko dattak patra banake diya. Woh dattak patra bhi hai unke paas.

Bhupen: Accha kal nahi ho sakta kya? (Asking about the paperwork)

Sonawne:Kal woh nahi ho payega.

Shubha:Registration?

Sonawne: Haan.

Shubha:Inko bahut jaldi hai.

Bhupen: Accha abhi maa baap se kya baat karneka.

Sonawne: Kuch bhi nahi. Saamne wali bhi aayegi na to kuch baat nahi karneka. Sab baat karneka. Mere se karneka. Pehle baccha dekho phir medical report dekhneka. Main bhi aisa phasane ka kaam nahi karti hai.

Bhupen: Yeh area mein, Thane mein, kahi diya hai kya baccha aapne.

Sonawne:Nashik mein diya chaar paanch baccha.

Bhupen: Aur Alibaug mein?

Sonawne: Woh Kalyan mein rehte hai. Lekin procedure karne ke liye woh Alibaug mein gaye. Bhagwan bhi dekho na jidhar deneka kitna deta hai. Aur apne ko ho nahi raha hai.

Shubha:Yeh jo madam (Ratna) aa rahee hai, yeh aapke bharose wali hai na?

Sonawne: Unse hi maine saamne wale ko diya hai. Uska ghar var sab kucch mereko maloom hai. Vitthalwadi mein uska ghar hai.

Bhupen: Lekin yeh Mulund se aa rahi hai na abhi.

Sonawne: Mulund mein baby tube karne ke liye hospital mein ladki leke jaati hai yeh. Unka woh hospital hai, bahut bada hai, aapne paper mein bhi pada hoga.

Shubha:Aapke pati kya karte hai?

Sonawne: Mera pati Nashik mein hai, bada dukaan hai humara. Flat hai mera, chaar room hai. Government ka bhi mereko one room mila hai.

Shubha:Idhar kaun rehta hai?

Sonawne: Idhar main aur meri mummy rehti hai. Mera transfer idhar ho gaya na isi liye.

Bhupen: Woh jo stamp paper banate hai uspe kya likha rehta hai?

Sonawne:Woh jo maa baap hai, woh likh ke dete hain, 'hum humari marzee se bacchha de rehe hain'.

Bhupen:Kitne rupiya ka stamp paper?

Sonawne: Woh 100 rupiye stamp paper pe.

Shubha:Baad mein kuch problem nahi hoga na?

Sonawne: Nahi nahi. Yeh jo dattak patra hai na, tumko school mein ayega, ration card mein uska naam dalne ayega.

Shubha:Matlab birth certificate jaisa hai.

Sonawne: Haan Haan, matlab woh (birth certificate) bhi un log ke naam se ayega na. Woh bhi tumhare naam se banake degi. Matlab woh jo card hai naa, uske upar tumhara naam dalke. Uske upar kuch nahi rehta hai. Bas mummy ka naam hota hai; aur ladka hai ya ladki, yeh hota hai. Mahanagarpalika (municipal corporation) mein meri saheli hai. Woh karke degi.

Shubha:Uska kuch extra paisa hoga kya?

Sonawne: Nahi nahi. 100-200 rupiye ki baat hai. Aise hi karke degi. Woh chhodo. Mere taraf se paise ka tension mat karo. Aise zindagi mein bahut paisa dekha hai aur bahut kamaya hai.

In the second half of the day, we were introduced to the woman, Ratna Ubale from Mulund. She took us to a slum where the mother of the child was introduced to us. She lived in a big family, with her husband, two kids, sister, brother and others. She was apparently selling the kid because she did not want it. Ratna was heard boasting about how she dissuaded the mother from aborting the child, so she could make some money after the birth.

Shubha: (after looking at the child): So cute

Sonawne: (comments on the baby's nose): Yacha naak bagitla ka, majya poori sarkha hai.

Bhupen:Iska wazan kitna hai.

Sonawne:Dhai kilo.

Ratna:Ata sukla tari nahi tar janamla tevha mast hota (The baby has become thin now but he was healthier when at the time of the birth).

Sonawne:Mast zoplay na (How restfully it is sleeping).

Shubha: Haan.
 

Sonawne: Baal bill mast hai naa.

Shubha:Haan.

(We then proceeded to pose for pictures with the baby)

Ratna (explaining why the woman doesn't want to keep the child): ek ladka aur ek ladki hai usko.

Bhupen:Bahut achha, pyara bachha hai.

For the sake of appearances, we handed over ₹ 101 to the baby's mother for good omen, and got out of the house. We waited outside the door to listen in on their conversation. Ratna and the baby's aunt were trying to persuade the mother to give it away. Since she was planning to abort the child anyway, she should give it away and help herself to some extra cash, they argued to coax her into their plan.

Once outside, Sonawne warned us again not to discuss the deal in front of Ratna.

Day 4: Thursday

Following telephonic negotiations with Sonawne, she agreed to give the child for ₹ 2.20 lakh. Since it was the day of the BMC election, the courts were shut, and the woman asked us to come the day after to get the paperwork sorted.

Day 5: Friday

We visited Sonawne to hand over the first instalment of ₹ 60,000. She asked us not to come the next day for the remainder. "It's a Saturday, not an auspicious day to take the child home," she explained. She asked us to give the remainder at the earliest, and take the baby and get the documents fixed later.

Bhupen: Mausi, do me bitha do na (negotiating to bring the amount to ₹ 2 lakh).

Sonawne: Nahi do mein nahi, who log bolte hai un logo ke paas doosri party hai.

Bhupen:Baki ka paisa de diya to turant bachcha de denge?

Sonawne: Yeh hath mein paisa, yeh haath mein bachcha. (Talking about Ratna) Uss din phone pe didi (Shubha) ne sab suna. Woh boli kaisi ajab aurat hai. Usko boli medical report sab poora kaam karke deneka. Mummy ka bhi report aur uska bhi report. Woh bol rahi thi kal hi paper banao. Maine to kal hi stamp paper lekar rakh liya tha. Vakil bola mein notary karke de deta hu. Tumko boli na main ek din mein karke degi. Vakil to apna aadmi hai. Usko main fees ek mahine baad degi. Itna to vishwas hain na vakil ka.

Bhupen: Aur kuch thoda bahut kum to karega na.

Sonawne:Main tumko kya bola, 30,000 main khud dungi tumko apne taraf se. Mereko tum 6 mahine mein do, itna vishwas hai mereko. Main government servant hoon, aisi vaisi raste wali aurat thodi hi hoon. Nashik mein tum mera flat dekho, ghar dekho. Tumko yakin nahi aayega. Tumko do bees (Rs 2,20,000) lana hoga poora.

Bhupen:60,000 diya na... toh aur mereko aapko dena hai 1,60,000.

Sonawne: Haan.

Bhupen:Matlab abhi maine aapko yeh paisa diya, aap kisi aur ko bachcha nahi dikhaogi.

Day 6: Saturday

We were told to bring the cash and take the baby on Sunday.

Day 7: Sunday

As per Sonawne's instructions, we went to Ulhasnagar with the remaining amount of ₹ 1.6 lakh. There, Sonawne took the money and said, "Get your identity proofs on Tuesday and I will see to it that your paperwork is done." After a wait of about four hours, the child was handed over to us with his medical reports, along with a casual remark that we should take care of it. Sonawne asked for another ₹ 10,000 which we paid her, bringing the sum total to ₹ 2.3 lakh.

Following that, we approached a government organisation, Childline, whose officials approached the Child Welfare Committee (CWC), which then helped admit the baby in Vishwa Balak Kendra orphanage in Nerul. This was accomplished with the help of social worker Sharad Barse, who works with Aasra Childline in Kalyan. We gave a copy of the videos recorded during the course of the sting to Barse. The evidence will be submitted to the CWC.

Surrogacy through intercourse

During our interaction with Sonawne, we stumbled upon a sordid case of how a woman conceived for a rich businessman.

According to Sonawne, a builder from Alibaug, who desperately wanted a son, approached her. His wife had given birth to two sets of twin girls. Since she had to undergo C-sections both the times, he didn't want to risk her health again. The builder was reluctant on adoption as well as IVF-surrogacy. So Sonawne suggested that she could get a woman to stay with him and bear him a child through natural intercourse, she said. She arranged a woman from Nashik, she claimed. The intercourse happened with the wife's knowledge and consent.

The builder bought the lady a flat to stay for a while, and impregnated her. At a sonography centre near Shirdi, which Sonawne claimed is yet another of her contacts, it was discovered that the sex of the foetus was male.

According to Sonawne, the woman is six months into pregnancy today and is being looked after by the builder's wife.

'Exploiting surrogates'

During our first meet with Ratna Ubale, one of the alleged abettors of the child trafficking syndicate, she dropped a hint that we should also opt for a surrogate child, and went on to elaborate the procedure followed by her clinic.

Ratna said that she has been working in a clinic at Mulund, which helps couples keen on surrogacy. She explained that if we opt for it, we would have to pay the mother ₹ 2.45 lakh, and bear her medical expenses. The total expenditure would be up to ₹ 10 lakh.

However, according to Sonawne -- the key person of the syndicate -- Ratna who has been helping her clinic to get surrogate mothers from the outskirts of Mumbai -- takes away a major portion of the fee meant for them. Sonawne revealed that she had housed one such surrogate mother who had been brought to her by Ratna.

Sonawne added that Ratna gets a commission of ₹ 20,000 for every surrogate she brings. Apart from that, she takes ₹ 2,000 from the ₹ 8,000 paid to surrogate mothers every month by the couple. Further, after the child is delivered, Ratna takes ₹ 50,000 from the total of ₹ 2.5 lakh paid to the mother.

Adopting a baby legally

Legally adopting a child is a long-drawn-out process, where at every step the eligibility of the couple wishing to adopt a child is tested. It requires many documents:

1 Residence proof
2 Bank account statements
3 Photographs of the couple
4 Medical certificates, tests, which include HIV tests
5 Salary slips
6 Three letters of guarantee from friends, but not family, of the couple
7 Two Doctors' certificates: one from a family doctor, another from a gynaecologist
8 One letter from a guardian, who promises to take care of the child, if it is a working couple
9  A letter from a family member promising to take care of the child if the parents pass away before the child turns 18.
 
The process

First, the couple is asked whether they would prefer to adopt a boy or a girl. Then, they are asked to submit the above documents.

A social worker visits the couple's house, and interviews them to gauge the authenticity of their claims and to know if they will be good parents. After the social worker's nod, the couple is allotted a child according to the availability.
 

The age of the child depends on the age of the parents. It is the sole discretion of the charity organisation as to which child to be allotted. If the couple doesn't like the child, they have to provide ample reason why they are saying no. The organisation ensures that the child has gone through all medical tests. The couple is asked to get the child tested by their own doctor for further assurance. Then the legal process starts. It takes at least three months for the couple to take the child home.
 
Monetary considerations

Some organisations do not accept any money but ask for a mandatory deposit of about ₹ 20,000-50,000 in the child's name. Some organisations ask the aspiring parents to pay a nominal amount of ₹ 50 per day of the period that the child was with the orphanage, plus medical expenses, if any, borne by the orphanage during the child's stay there.  

Sunita Williams to adopt Gujarati girl

AHMEDABAD: During her last visit to Gujarat in September 2007, astronaut Sunita Williams had expressed shock over female feticide in the state. "Why should you allow the society to limit you by the virtue of your sex. Limitations are only in your mind," she had told a gathering of girls in Kadi town.

She plans to make her next visit to Gujarat - after she completes her space expedition - more meaningful.

Family members say Sunita has made up her mind to adopt a girl from Ahmedabad. The American-Indian astronaut's sister, Dina, has already started the process to adopt a daughter from an Ahmedabad-based organisation.

"Like her sister , Sunita too has expressed her wish to adopt a child, preferably a girl. We will start the spadework soon. She will start formalities after she returns from the expedition," says her Ahmedabad-based cousin Dinesh Rawal.

Defence for Children - Past, present and future

This year, Defence for Children Nederland is celebrating its 40th anniversary. Defence for Children is the only legal children's rights organisation in the Netherlands, located in Leiden on the Hooglandse Kerkgracht in the old children's orphanage. The lawyers who work there assist children, families, lawyers and care providers with their legal assistance needs on a daily basis. The Children's Rights Helpdesk handles around 1,000 cases each year in which children's rights are at stake and the organisation can make a difference free of charge.

Defence for Children investigates abuses and provides information to professionals, parents and children about children's rights. They also stand up for children so that their rights are respected and unjust systems and situations are addressed. We are committed to changing legislation and regulations to ensure that children's rights are always respected.

Director Mirjam Blaak

Mirjam Blaak has been the director of Defence for Children Netherlands for 5 years, she has worked there for 21 years. 'When I got to know the work of Defence for Children, I knew I wanted to be involved. After my studies in cultural anthropology, I did all kinds of work and I became acquainted with the Convention on the Rights of the Child and wanted to contribute to it. Because it concerns all aspects of children's lives and it concerns seeing children.'

'I called Stan Meuwese, the director at the time, every month to ask if I could come and work at Defence for Children. After three months he couldn't let me wait any longer. " The funding isn't in place yet, but come on, he said. "That was 21 years ago this year.'

Adoption agencies looked at with suspicion following news report on 'baby-selling'

They are the abandoned of the earth. Each year, an incredible 11.5 lakh Indian babies are dumped like human garbage in the backstreets and by-lanes of the country. Unwanted and unloved, their future extends into a long and dark tunnel with just one, barely discernible glimmer of hope at its end-adoption.


They are the abandoned of the earth. Each year, an incredible 11.5 lakh Indian babies are dumped like human garbage in the backstreets and by-lanes of the country. Unwanted and unloved, their future extends into a long and dark tunnel with just one, barely discernible glimmer of hope at its end - adoption.

But last month, even that faint glimmer was abruptly, if temporarily, snuffed out following grossly exaggerated reports in the Daily Mail, a London daily, that a Calcutta-based adoption agency was selling babies outside the country. Though the report was later refuted, the damage had been done. Suddenly, adoption had become a bad word and adoption agencies exposed to the harsh glare of suspicion and even hostility.

In the sparkling clean clinic of the International Mission of Hope, the agency mentioned in the Mail report, four-month-old Baisakhi hovers at the edge of death. She suffers from a serious ailment that requires open heart surgery. Cherie Clark, executive director of the mission, had arranged for an American family in Oregon to adopt the baby and also arrange to have the necessary surgery performed.

But by last fortnight, hopes of Baisakhi making the life-saving trip had receded drastically after the mission found itself the target of a reluctant governmental inquiry and Indian authorities have suddenly become chary of permitting babies to leave the country.

Reducing Sexual Violence against Children, with special attention for sexual exploitation of children in travel and tourism, in 25 countries in Africa, Asia, Europe, Latin America and the Middle East

  Terre des Hommes TdH Netherlands and Terre des Hommes International Secretariat (International Federation) in Geneva have supported the consultancy and expert meeting which will lead to the publication of the report of the UNSR on the Sale of Children on illicit adoptions during the Human Rights Council Meeting in March 2017. The draft report is written by consultant Nigel Cantwell. An expert meeting was held on 19-20 September 2016 to verify the findings and discuss the outcomes and recommendations. The expert meeting was organised by Terre des Hommes Netherlands staff in cooperation with the University of Leiden.61 The expert meeting was attended by UNSR Ms. Maud de Boer-Buquicchio as well as a number of international experts on (illegal) adoption, such as David Smolin, Claire Achmad, Hans van Loon, Laura Martinez, Sarah Guebreyes (African Child Policy Forum), Bernadette Babejo (Philippines Central Authority), Carolina Pimentel, Nekane Lavin and Dorian Hall. The final report will be published in March 2017.   
 


 

MUM'S LOVE I pray one day my boys will be back where they belong…with me, says mum whose kids were taken by their dad 7 years ago

It has been six months since Nataly last saw her boys, and now the 50-year-old mum is facing Christmas without them


Since then she’s fought in courts to get her boys home but faces Christmas without them.

As she climbs into bed each evening, Nataly Anderson whispers goodnight to her two little boys.

But she can only mouth the words to their photos as her nine-year-old twins have been taken, against her will, to live in Croatia by their father.

It has been six months since Nataly last saw Luke and David (both names changed), and the 50-year-old is now facing Christmas without them.