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On the Rhetorics of Dr. Diane B. Kunz, Esq., Crusader for International Adoption

In an aggressive piece the director of the Center for Adoption Policy in New York, Dr. Diane B. Kunz, Esq. reacts on the dwindling numbers of children who are adopted from abroad in the United States. The numbers went down from 17,000 in 2008 to 7,000 last year. The article, published on the Center’s website (http://www.adoptionpolicy.org/...), blames the Department of State (DOS) and UNICEF and their attitude towards international adoption for the decline. Dr. Diane B. Kunz, Esq. writes: ‘When speaking at international forums such as the Fifth International Policy Conference on the African Child: Intercountry Adoption: Alternatives and Controversies (May 29-30, 2012; http://www.africanchildforum.org/...), DOS and UNICEF speak with one voice, defining international adoption as cultural genocide, a sign of national failure or as a cover for fraud.’

Who doesn’t like a fiery pen, which scribbles angrily hyperbolic allegations? I do, for sure, but ‘cultural genocide’? That is even for me a bit too wild. I asked UNICEF about this and they emailed me, that ‘this is a gross misrepresentation of UNICEF’s position on inter-country adoption’ and referred me to their position paper on the subject. UNICEF, being an international organization, formulates pretty lame and bureaucratic: ‘UNICEF supports inter-country adoption, when pursued in conformity with the standards and principles of the 1993 Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Co-operation in Respect of Inter-country Adoptions – already ratified by more than 80 countries.’ Not the language of anti-adoption Nazi’s I would say. It says further: ‘Inter-country adoption is among the range of stable care options.  For individual children who cannot be cared for in a family setting in their country of origin, inter-country adoption may be the best permanent solution.’ It is not poetry, I agree, but I imagine that the Department of State whether they like it or not, has to take this same international perspective.  The US is – most of the time – part of a community of countries, who try to work together and try to find solutions for problems in concert with others.

I checked that African conference where according Dr. Diane B. Kunz, Esq. UNICEF and DOS misbehaved. Well, most of the speakers were from African countries and only two sessions gave word to members of adoptee receiving, western countries. In one of them I found an American official, Ambassador Susan Jacobs, Special Advisor for Children’s Issues of the US Department of State. Would she have spoken about the ‘cultural genocide’ that international adoption would be? I didn’t ask, so to not embarrass myself.
  I didn’t see a UNICEF speaker. If UNICEF was involved it was maybe to wreak havoc in the hallways in between the sessions and to pick up the check at the end of three days in May 2012 in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia.
 The results of the conference can be read in a report online. It is obvious that the African countries were and are collaborating to find a collective answer to the very western and very invasive solution to the problems of parentless children (or orphans) in their countries, which is international adoption.
 To suggest that the US or UNICEF instigated the following paragraphs would be rather patronizing:
  'The term "adoption" does not feature in African languages and in many African countries adoption is a concept that most people are not familiar with, which signifies the fact that intercountry adoption is a "foreign practice".’
And:
  ‘Awareness  should be  raised  throughout  the continent as to what adoption entails and that intercountry adoption should be a measure of last resort.’

The final result of the conference is formulated in a document and it is clear that Africa, other than Dr. Diane B. Kunz, Esq. wants us to believe, is just not in favor of international adoption: ‘The conference adopted the Addis Ababa Communiqué on Intercountry Adoption which calls for a reversal of the current trend of resorting to intercountry adoption as a primary solution for African children in need of alternative care. Instead, the communiqué calls for prime priority to be given to enabling all children in Africa to remain with their families and in their communities. The communiqué therefore calls upon African States, Civil Society organisations and Treaty Bodies to assume their responsibilities in ensuring the wellbeing of all children in Africa.’ I know, no poetry either.

Interestingly and surprisingly enough the document expresses Dr. Diane B. Kunz, Esq.’s position:
‘The US fully endorses intercountry adoption and does not regard it as a measure of last resort. despite the acknowledgement of the principle of subsidiarity, the main purpose of intercountry adoption is considered to be the upbringing of a child by a loving family, even when this entails the physical removal of a child from his or her family or country of origin.’ It sounds as if Dr. Diane B. Kunz, Esq. and not Ambassador Susan Jacobs was in Addis to express the American position!

Hester was stolen as a baby: 'I never want to live without an identity again'

In this weekly column, people talk about something they 'never want to experience again', never want to do again or never want to do again. This week: Hester Bouwmeester (45) from Lebanon knew early on that something was not quite right with her adoption. Still, it came as a shock that she was stolen from the hospital as a baby. "They told my parents I was dead and already buried."

 

"I was ten days old when I arrived in the Netherlands. That date is about the only thing that is correct on my adoption papers, it turned out. My adoptive parents in the Netherlands received a phone call that I was born and they flew to Lebanon to pick me up. My mother had fertility problems but had a great desire to have children. The spirit of the times was very different then, she and my father really thought they would do well to 'save' a child from the war. They did this with the best intentions and went from there. that the adoption was completely legal.

At that time, adoption was romanticized: parents did something 'good' and the children should be especially grateful that they were lifted out of poverty. It ignored the fact that children were being torn from their natural environment and their families. In my case that was even more harsh, because I had a twin sister whom I would not see again until forty-five years later."

"I grew up in the Netherlands in a warm, loving family. Eighteen months after my arrival, my parents adopted another baby from Lebanon through a recognized foundation. I got along well with my sister, we could play around in the yard of our farm. "I wasn't unhappy, but I always felt 'different'. As if I was missing something. At school I found it difficult to connect with other children."

Adopted at 6, 51-year-old Swiss seeks birth parents in Kolkata

KOLKATA: A 51-year-old man, rescued from a life on the streets in Kolkata by a shelter and then adopted by a Swiss couple when he was just six, has planned a trip to the city of his birth to trace his biological family.
Samim Pantellini, who works in a warehouse in Basel, plans to visit during Durga Puja (in early October) to try and glean information abut the children’s shelter, from where he was adopted. But he knows his search wouldn’t be very easy.
 

 

All he knows is that the adoption centre was in Narkeldanga, and that the plot on which it once stood now houses the BC Roy Memorial Hospital for Children. Secondly, he does not have any files or records that could throw light on his birth or the circumstances of his early life. To make matters more complicated, he speaks only very little English, Bengali or Hindi. “I have been trying to trace my next of kin in Kolkata for a long time,” he told TOI from Switzerland. “Unfortunately, I do not know my surname, as I’m not able to remember anything from my early childhood, probably because of trauma endured from living on the streets. I can’t even remember any words from my native language Bengali.”
He remembers his parents telling him, though, that he was from the slums neighbouring the adoption facility.

“From that, I figured out that I must’ve been living around Narkeldanga, Kankurgachi, Phoolbagan, Ultadanga, Bagmari... probably living on the streets,” he said.
Pantellini has spread the word on social media. Subhajit Das, a local resident, saw one such post on Facebook and has offered his help. “Observing the migratory patterns of the area around the adoption centre, it is safe to assume that Samim may not have come from a Bengali-speaking family. There are a number of Urdu speakers and also those who migrated and settled in the nearby slums from neighbouring states. There have been repeated waves of railway workers, who settled around Phoolbagan from other states,” Das said.

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