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Central Florida family struggling with international adoption

Central Florida family struggling with international adoption

Ian and Lisa Lord are trying to expand their family by adopting an 8-year-old girl living in Nigeria, but they're struggling with getting a visa for the little girl.

ORLANDO, Fla. - Ian and Lisa Lord are trying to expand their family by adopting an 8-year-old girl living in Nigeria.

Her name is Ivy.

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Scots forced adoption scandal: Experts fear health timebomb for thousands of hidden victims

Victims of forced adoption fear generations of their children will suffer because they have no way of knowing if they are at risk of genetic illness.

Experts say the government has a legal responsibility to prevent unnecessary suffering potentially affecting the 60,000 Scottish mothers and the children taken from them because they were not married from the 1950s through the 1970s.

Author Eileen Munro, 53, from Edinburgh, says her shattered childhood, and the effect forced adoption had, led to the death of her own son Craig at the age of 22.

She said: “My mother suffered forced adoption when she had me and my whole life has been torn apart because of that. I believe it also led to the death of my own son in circumstances which should have been prevented.”

Eileen was adopted as a baby into a chaotic home with a couple who had alcohol problems. She said: “As a result I was never ­vaccinated. Of course I had no idea. When I became pregnant at 16 with my own child, I contracted German measles.

An adopted Bangladeshi girl in search of her biological family

Hasina, a Canadian-Bangladeshi woman, has urged everyone through her Facebook page to help find her biological parents and family in Bangladesh.

Born in Dhaka, the 44-year-old woman was orphaned as a baby and brought to Families for Children (FFC) orphanage in Dhaka, according to the information provided in her Facebook page "Finding Root for Hasina".

Later, she was adopted when she was three and sent to Canada to live with her new family in 1980.

As she is told that many child traffickers appeared at that time and many were adopted without their biological parent's consent, Hasina wonders if she has anyone back in Bangladesh.

Unfortunately, the current authority of the orphanage couldn't get her any information, she said.

Cold War-Era Greek Adoptee Finds Her Family, Founds Mission to Help Others

Linda Carol Trotter (born Eftychia Noula), is the president of The Eftychia Project, a nonprofit group that provides assistance and support — free of charge — to Greek adoptees who are searching for their roots.

Growing up as a typical American child in San Antonio, Texas, she had been born in the village of Stranoma in Nafpaktia, and had been given up for adoption because she had been born out of wedlock and her mother had been “a bit of an outcast” since giving birth to her.

Grecian Delight supports Greece

A lady in the village “who had a reputation for getting rid of unwanted babies” took her mother away to Athens after becoming Eftychia’s godmother, Trotter says.

Pretending to have her mother’s interests in mind, the woman told her to get a job to support herself, and give the child to the Athens Nursery while she got herself back on her feet. After doing so, she could then go back to the Nursery and reclaim her daughter.

Compensation for adopted children possible but government not responsible

Adopted children are allowed to search for their parents and there is a lot of understanding that they want to do this, but the State is not responsible for paying for this search. This is apparent from the vast majority of responses to a Radar poll about compensation for the search for biological parents. Of the 852 responses, 691 are against financial compensation from the State. 128 of the respondents do think that compensation should be made and 33 people do not know or have certain conditions under which this compensation must take place.

The NOS recently reported that the Dutch government does not intend to offer financial compensation to adoptees who want to look for their biological parents. This is apparent from the rejection of a liability claim by lawyer Dewi Deijle. She argues that the Dutch State is legally liable for abuses in adoptions from abroad.

Ban on intercountry adoptions

Intercountry adoptions have been in the news a lot lately. These were banned after the Joustra Committee ruled that too many abuses had taken place. 'The Dutch government has failed to act by looking away for years', said outgoing Minister of Legal Protection Dekker when the new ban was announced.

Juris Dewi Deijle believes that there should therefore be a compensation fund for adoptees who want to find or have sought their biological family. However, Minister Dekker did not agree. 'Extremely disappointing', says Deijle.

„Kinderwens is beste motief voor adoptie" - Stichting Flash viert tienjarig bestaan

„Kinderwens is beste motief voor adoptie"

Stichting Flash viert tienjarig bestaan

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HILVERSUM - Een reünie van meer dan duizend adoptie-ouders en enkele honderden jonge, donkere kinderen. De adoptiestichting Flash vierde zaterdag in Hilversum haar tienjarig bestaan.

Uit de lotsverbondenheid van een wekenlang verblijf in het exotische, maar onbekende Verre Oosten, waar de aanstaande adoptieouders hun verwachtingen en onzekerheden hebben gedeeld, zijn vaak goede vriendschappen ontstaan. In een Hilversums schoolgebouw haalden zij herinneringen op, vaak aan emotionele gebeurtenissen, te midden van hun spelende kinderen.

It’s the story that shames Britain – a quarter of a million unmarried mothers made to give up their babies. Now they, and the ch

It’s the story that shames Britain – a quarter of a million unmarried mothers made to give up their babies. Now they, and the children callously wrenched away, want justice. Here, five victims reveal: The cruel legacy of forced adoption

Every night, Alison Devine used to lie in bed planning how she would escape with her baby son. At 17 she’d fallen pregnant after a one-night stand with a ‘Jack the Lad’.

And when she started to show at six months, she was swiftly packed off to an unmarried mother and baby home called The Haven, run by the Baptist church, in Yateley, Hampshire. It was 1961.

At night she could hear the babies cry in the nursery, but wasn’t allowed to go to them. ‘I often thought I’d just take a pram and do a bunk with him,’ she says. ‘But they had someone on guard at the nursery door, and anyway, I thought they’d catch me and lock me up.’

Alison was one of an estimated quarter of a million pregnant women and girls — almost all unmarried and under the age of 24 — who, in the 1950s, 1960s and 1970s, were sent away to have their babies at a network of church-run homes that stretched across the UK.

Ties that bind: Why India must expand foster care

Rani, who runs a tea stall, has six children to raise. Three of them are her own. The other three are children of her friend Sujita, who succumbed to Covid-19 six months ago. Bound by an unspoken commitment, Rani took Sujita’s children under her wing.

With children orphaned in the second wave of Covid-19 gaining national attention, Sujita’s children appeared on the radar of the district authorities. Rani was directed to produce them before the district’s child welfare committee (CWC). To her horror, the children were sent to the local shelter home on the grounds that Rani is unable to provide for them. Since then, she has been knocking on every door she can in the hope of getting them back. Rani’s agony brings into focus the issue of foster care versus institutional care. Fostering has yet to gain currency as an established form of child protection in India. It is a temporary arrangement in which the foster parents have only guardianship rights and are responsible for nurturing the child in a secure and personalised family set-up. The foster family exercises no control over the child’s assets, nor is it bound to extend inheritance rights over its own assets to the foster child. By contrast, in the system of adoption, the adopted child becomes a legal member of the family, entitled to property rights.

There is currently a global push for non-institutionalised care solutions for orphaned children, in acknowledgment of every child’s right to be raised in a family. A growing corpus of research highlights delayed physical and mental development in the often overcrowded and under-resourced shelter homes, and increased likelihood of social and behavioural problems.

India is home to nearly 30 million orphaned and abandoned children. The legal adoption of these children presents a two-fold challenge. Long-winding adoption procedures result in just a fraction of them finding a home. The annual adoptions facilitated by the Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA) are as low as 3,000-4,000. Secondly, there is a reluctance to adopt because of the onerous life-long commitment and enforceable legal rights of the adopted children. Foster care, by comparison, offers a more flexible ecosystem. It has the added security of regular follow-ups on the well-being of the child, compared to legal adoption where there is little or no follow-up. Denying foster care to parents below a certain economic threshold, as in Rani’s case, is not only ethically revolting but also legally untenable. In most countries, foster parents are financially supported by the state for the child’s care. There is great merit in extending state support to foster parents of modest means, especially when they can provide a socio-cultural environment similar to the one the child comes from. In India, too, district agencies receive annual funds to support fostering, which largely languish unutilised.

A legal framework to promote foster care in India was introduced by the central government through the enactment of the Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection of Children) Act. However, the Act left it to the states “to make rules for purposes of carrying out the scheme of foster care of children,” resulting in a sporadic and uneven implementation. Even today, several CWCs are not aware of the relevant legal provisions. Many avoid the responsibility of selecting foster families, approving childcare plans, and conducting mandatory monthly inspections to help check misuse of the foster system for abuse and exploitation.

Maharashtra: PILs seeks relief for Covid-affected specially-abled and orphans

Two public interest litigations (PIL) have been moved in the Bombay high court (HC) seeking protection and various reliefs to over 1,450 children orphaned after their parents succumbed to the Covid-19 infection and setting up of special Covid wards in Covid care centres with specially trained medical staff to attend to visually-impaired patients and special vaccination facilities for them

The first PIL filed by Gayatri Patwardhan, a social worker from Pune through advocates Asim Sarode and Ajinkya Udane has claimed that while the state has announced various reliefs and gave assurances of taking care of children orphaned due to Covid, there was no guarantee of the authorities keeping their word, hence the PIL sought various directions for the benefit of such children.

The petition has sought to increase the grant of ?1,100 per month for children up to the age of 18 years under the Child Care Scheme and Foster Care Policy to ?5,000 per month. The petition also seeks free education for orphaned children and to start and implement Education Sponsorship Programme (ESP) under the Juvenile Justice (Care and Protection) Act and the Integrated Child Protection Scheme (ICPS) guidelines.

The PIL also seeks directions to authorities to properly identify and prepare documents pertaining to caste certificate, birth certificate, property documents and identification records of orphaned children.

The second PIL filed by Swagat Thorat, editor of a Braille Magazine, has raised concerns over the lack of healthcare facilities for visually impaired people and seeks reliefs including special Covid-19 wards, ‘barrier-free’ hospitals with specially trained medical staff to attend them and special vaccination facilities for them. The PIL also seeks direction to the state Disability Commissioner to provide data of visually impaired people who succumbed to Covid-19 infection, so that their families can be compensated through various government schemes.

Maharashtra kicks off foster care scheme: Women and Child Welfare department invites people to register online

Forty children from orphanages in Mumbai, Pune, Solapur, Amaravati and Palghar are set to get foster families. As part

of an experimental scheme initiated by the state government, those wanting to be foster parents can register online with

the Women and Child Welfare (WCF) Commissionerate (https://wcdcommpune.org), which is located in Pune.

After a scrutiny of family backgrounds and a rigorous selection process by the District Child Protection Unit, these

families will get Rs 2,000 per month from the government to ensure the protection and rehabilitation of orphaned