Fwd: FB chat Sue walter
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From: "Arun Dohle" <arundohle@gmail.com>
Date: 14 Aug 2017 12:47
Subject: FB chat Sue walter
To: <infoagainstchildtrafficking@gmail.com>
Cc:
Hi Arun, I hope it's OK to write a private message. I am not sure of your connection with adoptions, or if you were adopted. I was very surprised that you mentioned the abortion aspect to the group. While this is true, I have never seen it written down before and I am very concerned about the adoptees and how this may affect them. I have struggled for many years wondering how to say this to them and not traumatize them. I was just curious about your thoughts on this. Now that it's out there, I will address it on the general feed.
Du hast Sues Anfrage angenommen.
I was the first person with IMH to go to the nursing home looking for abandoned children. I cannot describe in words the shock and horror that there were live birth abortions going on. These babies literally laid there and died until we came along. It was so shocking and unbelievable; our only focus was to save their lives and give them homes. Initially, we did not think about the birth -mothers and their presumptions; although The babies were in the same room with the women in process of having an abortion, and they did see us take the babies. I left, and I'm not certain of the date, but the mothers did start signing releases at some point.
Arun
I m adopted
and run
india.againstchilstrafficking.org
india.againstchilstrafficking.org
india.againstchilstrafficking.org
sorry
typo
india.againstchildtrafficking.org
india.againstchildtrafficking.org
where are the release forms you mention ?
thanks for contacting me
if you google my name
there is all out about me
I am happy to hear there are people like you who are actively trying to prevent trafficking. I can only say and you can believe it or not, that was never our intention. I have only heard of the releases, but was no longer in India when that happened.
Arun
i started with my own search
then set up
Do you feel most adoptees no of the abortion attempts?
Arun
www.againstchildtrafficking.org
Against Child Trafficking Inter-country adoption is a legalised form of child trafficking
i don't understand
ok
you meant " know"
not " no"
got it
Those to whom that happened
will know
every cell in their bodies
might remember
even if not conscious
Trauma goes deep
i believe one can deal with it
once one consciously knows
I agree that at some level children now; however it's another to have it pointed out to them. We shall see if there are any post about this being a true Maddock realization. We did place children in India, but there weren't enough Indian families who wish to adopt. I have had many discussions especially with older children. I only know our motive was to save lives and hopefully enrich them.
I have wanted to share this information, but was always afraid to. Maybe it's good that we've had this conversation and it will help others.
Arun
yes
I ll be straightforward honest
i want every little peace of paper
related to this
if we cannot find back the mothers
i want a CBI investigation
i believe you
about. your motive
However some people may have had other motives
i m not grumpy about the past
however all #cribmates should be able to know the full truth
and be able to know their original identities
Let me be straight
i d appreciate an affidavit from you
Arun
are you 100 %
sure, that it were abortions ,?
not that the mother's were told something else ,? their babies died ,?
who translated for you ?
I do not have any documentation- here's what I know: I went in to the nursing home and asked for abandoned babies. They brought me into a room where there were four very tiny babies laying in one small crib. There was a row of about 10 women laying in beds having induced labor. The nurses said to choose one. I said I couldn't choose just one. They took me back to see Dr. Chatterjee and he said I could take all of them. Three of them we're about 3 pounds and one was 1.5 pounds. We had difficulty even finding a hospital that would care for them; we were not yet set up to do so at that time. We found a place; two of them survived two did not. I was so traumatized I could not return. I have not read all of your information, but I personally see a big difference between trafficking children and helping abandoned children find homes.
Arun
I d be traumatised like you
Seriously
So i do understand
There's s a full documentary
one of many
Then you may better get to know me
I would like to see the documentary. The women who wrote the article for the London newspaper, came over, stayed with us, cried with us when babies died. Shared their admiration for us in bringing these babies in and trying to save their lives. They then went back and wrote a horrible article, and left out all the good things. I trusted them, so now I'm a little leery.
Arun
http://www.channelnewsasia.com/news/catch-up-tv/undercover-asia-s4/manufactured-orphans-8864316
I m off to bed
almost 2am here
in India
catch up soon
and thanks for contacting