Woman adopted in 1950s finds long lost mum who she thought was dead

10 March 2021

A woman adopted from Southport in 1953 was brought to tears when she found out her birth mother was still alive.

Margaret, who grew up in Warwickshire, was adopted from Southport when she was just six months old.

Born in 1953, the woman always believed her birth mother was one of the many Irish women who came over in the 1950's for the sake of adoption.

Margaret went on BBC2 's DNA Family Secrets in order to search for her birth mother.

Going into the show, the only thing Margaret knew about her biological mother is the name written on her birth certificate, although she wasn't convinced that it was a real name.

Margaret said: "I've made up this story that she [birth mother] was an Irish lady, she came over, had me and probably went back to Ireland."

Margaret was adopted from Southport when she was just six months old. (Image: BBC)

Margaret knew she was adopted and says that she had a very happy family life growing up.

Margaret got teary as she told the BBC2 show's host Stacey Dooley that she thought of her biological mother on her birthday every year.

She said: "I always used to think, if nothing else she would've thought, 'yeah, I gave birth on that day'."

Margaret told her daughter Anna that she thought she'd left it too late to find her birth mother (Image: BBC)

When speaking to her daughter Anna, Margaret admitted that she didn't think she had a chance on meeting the woman who gave birth to her.

She told her daughter: "I think realistically I've left it too late to find the birth mum because I don't think she would be alive.

"Something I keep thinking about if [the family] may have a photo, so that would be nice."

Margaret's DNA was analysed at University of Leicester to find answers about the 67-year-old's birth mother.

Professor Turi King told Margaret: "We found one first cousin, six second cousins, 19 third cousins and we know about this because of how much DNA they share with you.

"And that led us to your grandparents, Margaret and James.

"So that led us to concentrate on their daughters and more specifically their youngest daughter Bridget."

Professor Turi King revealed to Margaret that they had found her mother by using her DNA

It was revealed that Bridget had another son and daughter, who the show spoke to.

"They really, really didn't think Bridget had had any other children and there was this family story that the eldest sister had had an illegitimate child who had been given up for adoption."

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They tested Margaret's DNA against both of the sisters to find out who her birth mother was.

Professor Turi King revealed that Bridget was in fact Margaret's birth mother.

Margaret got emotional looking at pictures of her birth mother, noting the similarities between them.

Margaret got emotional looking at a photograph of her birth mother (Image: BBC)

Margaret had one thing left that she wanted to know, sitting across from Stacey she asked the thing on her mind.

Margaret asked: "I've just got one question, is she still alive?"

Stacey smiled as she told the woman: "She is. Your mum's still alive.

"She lives in Ireland, she's in a care home, she's got dementia, but she's alive."

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Margaret struggled to hold back the tears with the news about her birth mother, Stacey then handed the adoptee a letter from her newfound siblings.

The letter told Margaret what her birth mother was like and things that she had liked to do when she was healthier.

Margaret couldn't help but cry as she read that her half-siblings were looking forward to meeting her.

Margaret struggled to hold back the tears as she read a letter from her half-siblings (Image: BBC)

The 67-year-old has been over the moon since finding out about her birth family and has been in touch with her siblings.

She said: "It's just beyond words, you know, birth mum still alive - how amazing is that?

"I wanted to know if she had a good life, and I know she has.

"I spoke to my sister first, and we were on the phone for I think nearly an hour.

"I said, 'I've always wanted a sister' and she said, 'I've always wanted a sister!'."

Margaret is planning a trip to Ireland to meet her new family and birth mother in person.

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