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Colombian visitors get teary adios

Colombian visitors get teary adios

News Staff Reporter

Published:July 22 2010, 08:11 AM

Updated: July 26, 2010, 2:34 PM

Love knows no language barriers -- or borders.

That was all too plain to see at Buffalo Niagara International Airport as tears streamed down the faces of members of two American families and the five children they hope to adopt, who were returning to their native Colombia.

The orphans, between the ages 8 and 14, have lived with the Buffalo-area families for the last three weeks on a trial basis. The stay is considered a key step on a six-to-10-month path leading to their adoption.

"It's the start of their having a family forever," said Elena Martinez, director of the FANA orphanage in Bogota, before boarding the plane with the children for the 2,650-mile flight to Colombia, where they will return to foster families.

The orphanage specializes in finding homes for older children without parents, said Judith O'Mara, director of adoptions and foster care for Baker Victory Services. The Lackawanna agency works with the orphanage to place children in Western New York.

Baker Victory Services also makes available picture dictionaries and computer-generated translation programs to help families and children who don't share the same language communicate and provides translators.

For Oscar, 14, Silvia, 10, and Cristian, 8, coming to Western New York meant living with a Pendleton family who wants them and can give them a stable life.

"We stressed to them from the beginning that we are adopting you, not might adopt you," said Paul Donahue, who welcomed the children, as did his wife, Clare, and their three children, Emily, 19, Matthew, 17, and Eileen, 15.

The Colombian children said they had two wishes -- to go swimming and ride a roller coaster.

"We taught them how to swim, and they were doing cannonballs in the deep end," Clare Donahue said.

The kids also rode the Silver Comet 21 times in a row at Martin's Fantasy Island on Grand Island, with Paul Donahue in tow every time.

The children had another first-time thrill -- riding in a car. "They fight over who gets to sit in the window seat, because the window goes up and it goes down, it goes up and it goes down," Clare Donahue said, chuckling.

A certain amount of creativity was used to foster communication, Clare Donahue said. With daughter Eileen, who has passed the Spanish Regents exam, interpreting, the family pantomimed a lot, she said.

The family turned to Colombia to adopt a child after efforts to do so in Mexico failed.

Clare Donahue said the time spent with the Colombian children was "fantastic" and added that she can't wait for them to return and officially become part of the family.

Patrick and Natalie Bubb of Williamsville, with their children Francesca, 12, and Dominic, 11, said they hope to be able to go to Colombia in late summer or early fall to bring back their adopted children, Isabel, 10, and David, 9.

Unable to have more children, they turned to adoption, seeking children closer to their own kids' ages. They considered adopting children from the United States but didn't want to do an open adoption, in which the birth parents are involved before and after the adoption.

The faster track for adopting older children appealed to them. Also, Natalie Bubb is a Spanish teacher.

Patrick Bubb declared the three-week visit "awesome," even with some squabbles that developed as the weeks went on, like the sibling rivalry that surfaced when Francesca shared her bedroom and clothes with Isabel.

The Colombian children were fascinated by the variety of food available in the United States and anxious to try new things besides their usual diet of beans, rice and pork, the Bubbs said.

"They like chicken wings and pizza," Paul Bubb said. "They also think Americans eat a lot of food."

An excited David had his first visit to a zoo, taking pictures of the animals to take back with him.

The Colombian children, including two others who stayed with another Buffalo-area family, didn't know each other before but bonded through FANA and during their visit here, the Bubbs said.

And they bonded with their new families.

"We're going to miss them. I just hope between the American and Colombian governments that the paperwork will go through as quickly as possible," Paul Bubb said.

Girl to visit a home she never knew

Girl to visit a home she never knew

Wednesday, July 21, 2010
By MIKE BOONE, The Gazette
 

Some wide-angle lenses are wider than others.

Montreal filmmaker Maureen Marovitch is making a documentary about adoption in China. And she's doing it while waking up every morning in Lachine.

Inflation rising, but PAPs can adopt kids with just Rs 3K salary

Inflation rising, but PAPs can adopt kids with just Rs 3K salary

RAJKOT: High rate of inflation is a matter of worry for officials of Kathiyawar Nirashrit Balashram, one of the most renowned orphanages for adoption in the state.

They have written to Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA), an autonomous body under ministry of social justice and empowerment, Government of India, suggesting increase in the current monthly income for prospective adoptive parents (PAP) from Rs 3,000 to Rs 7,500 per month in view of the rising inflation.

According to CT Parikh, retired district and sessions judge and chairman of the adoption committee of this orphanage, at present orphanages across the country follow the guidelines laid down by the government.

According to the guidelines, PAPs should have regular source of income with a minimum average monthly income of at least Rs 3,000 per month. However, lower income will be considered taking into account other assets and support system like own house etc. This is one of the criteria which must be fulfilled.

"Looking at the current price rise, income of PAPs should be higher as it is in the interest of the orphan. We have to think of best placement of orphans through adoption in the country. Sound financial and educational background with good repute in the society is a must for PAPs, who want to adopt children from orphanages. The simple logic is, how can a couple, which earns Rs 3,000 per month, provide good education and medical attention to the child in these time?" asks Parikh.

During the last 20 years, 300 such children have been adopted from this orphanage. Of these, 125 have been adopted by foreign nationals.
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/rajkot/Inflation-rising-but-PAPs-can-adopt-kids-with-just-Rs-3K-salary-/articleshow/6220717.cms

Adoption fees at private agencies hiked for first time in decade

Adoption fees at private agencies hiked for first time in decade

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MANITOBANS looking to adopt a child through a private agency will see their fees rise by more than 50 per cent.

On Wednesday, Family Services Minister Gord Mackintosh approved the first increase in private adoption fees in more than a decade.

Fees for private adoptions within Manitoba will be allowed to rise to $8,500 from $5,500. Agency fees for international adoptions will soar to $8,800 from $5,800.

There are three private, not-for-profit adoption agencies in Manitoba. Adoption Options Manitoba assists with private adoptions of Manitoba kids, while Canadian Advocates for the Adoption of Children (CAFAC) and UAS Eastern European Adoption facilitate international adoptions. The three agencies have arranged a total of 488 adoptions since 1999.

Mackintosh said the higher fees will not apply to families who are already in the process of adopting a child.

Manitoba will still have the lowest fees in the country, he said. Private adoption fees in other provinces range from $10,000 in Alberta to $14,000 in Ontario.

Officials with CAFAC and Adoptions Options said Wednesday they need to increase their fees to survive.

Patti Sutherland, a board member Friends of Adoption Manitoba, which provides resources for people who are thinking about adopting or have already adopted, said the fee hike may look large on paper, but it is well justified considering the work involved.

"It was becoming formidable for private agencies to survive," Sutherland said. "So if the question they face is 'Do we close our doors or do we increase our fees?' we definitely support the increase."

Sutherland said families usually pay their fees over time throughout the adoption process, and that there are subsidies available for lower-income families.

The province says there have been 48 private adoptions in Manitoba over the past two years and 64 involving Child and Family Services.

larry.kusch@freepress.mb.ca

 

Republished from the Winnipeg Free Press print edition July 22, 2010 B3

http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/local/adoption-fees-at-private-agencies-hiked-for-first-time-in-decade-98998559.html

 

Good comes from chaos in Haiti

Good comes from chaos in Haiti

Posted: 28 July, 2010

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(Bethany photo)

Haiti (MNN) ? Six months ago, few would have said that the Haiti earthquake could bring good. The quake, however, has brought awareness to one very important thing: adoption.

Bethany Christian Services reports a 26 percent increase in the interest of domestic and international adoptions in 2010 than over the same time period in 2009. John VanValkenburg says this is due in large part to the January disaster as people were struck by the incredible needs of Haitians, especially Haitian orphans.

"Currently, adoptions are still closed in Haiti, but what we were able to do [right after the quake] was capture a lot of people who were interested and send them some information," explains VanValkenburg. "Some of those people have decided to wait until they can adopt from Haiti, and other people looked at other options."

In a Bethany press release, the organization says Intercountry Adoption placements are up 66 percent since 2009, and over 5,000 more inquiries about Intercountry Adoption have been made. This brings the total of this type of inquiry up to 10,567 in just six months.

The unprecedented numbers had Bethany staff swirling for a while, but as the number of requests and inquiries has died down, the ministry has had time to catch up and enjoy the way God is using the church and His people to help the helpless. Still, there is much work to be done.

VanValkenburg says, "Globally, there's an estimated 163 million orphans. That was probably about 15 to 20 million less just a few years ago; so the number is increasing, which just goes to show that adoption alone isn't going to solve this problem."

Adoption and foster care certainly help, though. Even one adopted child into a Christian family is worth the process, especially if the child comes to know Jesus Christ.

If you feel God calling you to volunteer with Bethany, to be a foster parent, or to consider adoption, call Bethany at 1-800-BETHANY. For further contact information, click here.

 

 


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Phone: 616-224-7610
Alt. Phone: 800-652-7082
Fax: 616-224-7436
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About Haiti

  • Population: 10,157,000
  • People Groups: 9
  • Unreached Groups:
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  • Primary Language: French
  • Primary Religion: Christianity
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Police use DNA against human trafficking

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Forum: Onderwerp: Even voorstellen-Pondok Pelangi

Geplaatst: Zo jan 18, 2009 13:34 Onderwerp: Even voorstellen-Pondok Pelangi Hallo, ik ben nieuw op dit forum dus wil ik mezelf even voorstellen. Mijn naam is Sofian, geboren op 12 april 1981 en momenteel wonend in Dongen. In Juni 1981 ben ik geadopteerd vanuit het weeshuis Pondok Pelangi. Anderhalve maand voordat ik daar terecht kwam heb ik bij een man (die Jopie Sajetapie heet) in huis gewoont. Tevens heeft Els Wunnink hier ook een rol in gespeelt die destijds werkzaam was voor de stichting die meehielp bij de adoptie. Volgens Jopie kom ik uit Leuwiliang (bij Bogor) en heb daar 4 broers en 2 zussen waarvan 1 overleden. Helaas is er bij mij niet meer bekend. Op forums heb ik gelezen dat Mevr. Wunnink is overleden maar ondertussen heb ik gehoord dat dit niet waar is. Als iemand iets herkend in mijn verhaal zou ik daar graag mee in contact komen..

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Excerpts from memo sent to President Bush and updated to include passage of Resolution

monday, august 14, 2006

Excerpts from memo sent to President Bush and updated to include passage of Resolution

Summary:

In June of 2001, the country of Romania closed legal avenues for the adoption of unwanted children by loving parents from other countries. This change in policy was done in order to answer the charges made by Romania’s former EU rapporteur of corruption in the child welfare system and a need to review the currently child welfare legislation. Unproven accusations of adoptive parents selling their children’s organs and “baby buying” fueled the EU bureaucrats request for a total ban on inter-country adoption as a condition of Romania entering the European Union. Consequently, the new legislation which was signed into law in January 2005 bans all inter-country adoptions except in the case of biological grandparents, and has left 1,100 adoptions that were in progress suspended in permanent limbo. American (and European) families have now waited 3 - 6 years to adopt children whose adoptions were in progress prior to the ban.

Discussion:

Comment Petition: de ce sunt de acord... [Anca Ionela]

de ce sunt de acord... [Anca Ionela]
sunt Ionela si sunt de acord cu aceasta petitie. Va spun si de ce. In 2000 am fost adoptata de o familie de italieni, impreuna cu fratele meu, dar Ion Tiriac si Emma Nicholson au inchis adoptiile. Ne-au ascuns pe mine, pe fratele meu cu inca alti trei copii adoptati de la acelasi centru, in azilul de batrani al carui director era chiar directorul educativ al centrului. Mergeam la scoala cu gardienii de la centru, eram paziti la usa clasei ca niste puscariasi. Ne luau de la cursuri si ne duceau pe camp sau la depozitul de fier vechi al unui cunoscut de-al directorului spunandu-ne ca ne ascund ca sa nu ne ia strainii organele.10 ani am trait terorizata, inspaimantata de aceasta "grija" parintasca. In loc sa fim lasati sa mergem in familiie adoptive, am primit batai din partea mamelor sociale, chiar si a gardienilor, insulte la adresa noastra, umilinta si dispret. Acum dupa 10 ani, viata noastra este goala... plina de traume psihice, de cosmar, de deziluzii, de minciuni, de manipulare psihica. In ultimii 3 ani, toti copiii au fost dati afara din centru, in locul lor au fost adusi batrani pentru ca nu mai erau copii...si majoritatea au ajuns in strada.Cele mai multe fete au fost violate chiar de unii angajati ai centrului si "consiliate" sa declare anchetatorilor, ca au facut dragoste de buna voie si nesilite de nimeni. Din 98 de copii cati eram atunci, doar 10 au terminat o scoala, restul fiind pe nicaieri, cu dificultati de integrare sociala. O parte dintre acestia au dormit si dorm inca pe sub scarile unor blocuri, prin parcuri, in adapostul de noapte unde dorm majoritatea boschetarilor. Ce ne-a oferit statul roman pana acum? Mancare si dormit, ca la puscariasi. Nu tu dragoste, nu tu familie, nu tu educatie, nu tu siguranta, un viitor fara speranta. In prezent centrul de copii a devenit azil de batrani, iar 30 de copii au fost trimisi sa " invete" in Fagaras intr-o scoala de copii bolnavi psihic. 
Auzi "Gica" iti propun sa o adopti pe o colega de-a mea. Are 19 ani. A fost adpotata in 2000 de o familie de profesori universitari din Verona, dar nici ea nu a ajuns la familia adoptiva, din aceleasi motive. Stii ce s-a intamplat in ultimii 10 ani in viata ei? Iti spun eu: a fost violata la varsta de 14 ani. A furat si fura in continuare. Are dosare penale de furt calificat la politia din Fagaras si Brasov. A fost data afara din centru la implinirea varstei de 18 ani. Acum se prostitueaza intr-un bar de noapte din Fagaras. Halal grija! Halal viata!
Poti s-o adopti daca vrei. Ea inca isi doreste familie... Si sti care mai este paradoxul? Familia adoptiva din Italia a venit in ultimii ani, s-o intalneasca, sa o incurajeze, sa o sustina moral si financiar, dar ea era plecata si in Austria sa isi profeseze meseria pe care a invatat-o in timpul institutionalizarii !!!
Pentru stiinta ta, in Romania sunt la aceasta ora peste 70.000 de copii abandonati si aproximativ 3000 de familii atestate ca fiind apte sa adopte un copil. De ce nu se fac adoptii nationale? Iti spun tot eu: romanii nu adopta copii de tigani. In plus, fa tu socoteala, Gica ce cheltuieli asigura statul roman pentru cresterea unui copil in orfelinat. 20 milioane lei vechi pe luna. Asa ca, Gica draga, plateste tu in continuare din salariul tau pentru toti orfanii Romaniei sau si mai bine, adopta-i pe toti !!! Sigur, presedintele Romaniei care se opune adoptiilor internationale te va premia si va fi nasul copiilor tai. 
Semnat ANCA IONELA LUCIA unul dintre initiatorii petitiei. [09/06/2010 18:00]

Congo e adozione internazionale: alla ricerca di una regolamentazione

Congo e adozione internazionale: alla ricerca di una regolamentazione

Bambini africaniUn segnale positivo per l’infanzia abbandonata nella Repubblica Democratica del Congo, dopo le numerose difficoltà riscontrata nel Paese nella gestione delle pratiche adottive.

E’ in corso in queste ore a Kinshasa la prima Tavola rotonda per le adozioni internazionali promossa dal Ministero della Famiglia in collaborazione con Ai.Bi. Un incontro fondamentale che è stato organizzato con un obiettivo specifico: dare una regolamentazione al sistema delle adozioni internazionali in un Paese in cui, secondo le stime di Unicef, sarebbero 4,5 milioni i bambini senza famiglia.

L’incontro mira, per la prima volta nella storia del Paese africano, a mettere insieme i rappresentanti dei Ministeri congolesi competenti in materia di adozioni (Ministero di Giustizia, Ministero Affari Sociali, Ministero per l’Infanzia, Ministero degli Interni, Ministero degli Affari Esteri, Ministero della Salute), i referenti delle Organizzazioni Non Governative che promuovono l’adozione internazionale e quelli delle associazioni locali di tutela dell’infanzia. Positiva la partecipazione dei rappresentanti degli Enti autorizzati italiani Ai.Bi e NOVA.

La tavola rotonda, che si è aperta martedì 20 luglio al Centro studi CERP di Kinshasa, intende gettare la basi per avere un quadro normativo completo e definito per la regolamentazione delle adozioni internazionali. Ad oggi infatti il Paese presenta un quadro normativo lacunoso per quanto riguarda la protezione dell’infanzia abbandonata e la disciplina delle adozioni internazionali. Il governo congolese inoltre non ha firmato la Convenzione de L’Aja del 1993, principale strumento di diritto internazionale per la tutela dei diritti dei minori adottabili e delle aspiranti famiglie adottive.

Gli enti autorizzati che operano nel Paese hanno sempre lavorato per garantire trasparenza e certezza delle condizioni di abbandono dei minori e un attento controllo delle procedure adottive; tuttavia finora è mancata una procedura formalmente riconosciuta dalle istituzioni locali e condivisa tra tutti gli attori coinvolti nelle adozioni internazionali.

Da qui l’importanza della tavola rotonda promossa a Kinshasa: promuovere un quadro normativo omogeneo e coerente per l’adozione internazionale. A chiusura dei lavori sarà elaborato un documento contenente una proposta di regolamentazione delle adozioni che sarà poi sottoposto all’Assemblea nazionale congolese.

“Ogni giorno che un bambino vive fuori dalla famiglia é un giorno di diritto violato”: questo lo spirito che ha animato i rappresentanti della Tavola Rotonda nei tre giorni di lavoro.