Urgent Warning for people attempting to or about to internationally Adopt from Uganda
If you are trying to adopt, or about to adopt from Uganda - TREAD WITH CAUTION.
I will not break any confidences or highlight specific cases... but we have recently engaged with and met with quite a few families who are going through the adoption process and quite frankly – it’s a complete mess. In an official capacity I hear and witness ‘nightmare’ scenarios every single day. I pray and hope that the families who have had a bad experience in Uganda are brave enough to blog about what is really taking place on the ground. Please consider it because the truth has to come out.
The government is working extremely hard to ‘clean’ up the process and put in place robust mechanisms to ensure that the children being internationally adopted ARE actually available for adoption and the processes are transparent and ethical. However, until these measures are in place I would strongly advise that international adopters TRUST NOBODY and BELIEVE NOTHING that you are being told (verbally or on paper). The sweetness of the words and promises you hear will snare you in and are venomous, you must be careful.
We suggest that you demand all of the background information on the child. Has everything been done to find their family or find a domestic solution? When you receive background information on a child, scrutinize it and ask questions and don’t stop asking questions throughout the process. Try and get someone on the ground to verify the information. If a relinquishing order has been obtained please follow it up and investigate the circumstances surrounding that order. Check to see if the child is actually living in an institution and how long they have been there. We see lawyers and baby homes ‘plucking’ children from communities to supply the demographic demand of international adopters and ‘routing’ them through children’s homes. We see the Ugandan families being convinced and even coerced into allowing their children to be adopted for opportunity reasons. It’s disgusting.