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KOCHI: Petition of a couple from Thiruvananthapuram in the High Court to cancel the adoption as they could not get along with their adopted daughter. The High Court directed the Thiruvananthapuram District Legal Service Authority Secretary to give a detailed report after talking to the girl. The plea will be heard again on November 17. Retired Justice Devan Ramachandran is considering a petition filed by a government official and his wife.

The only son of the petitioners died in a car accident on January 14, 2017  The petitioners say that the death of their 23-year-old son left them weak and they decided to adopt a child to overcome the grief. A 13-year-old girl was legally adopted on February 16, 2018, from Nishkam Seva Ashram in Ludhiana, Punjab due to a delay in adoption from Kerala. They provided educational and all other facilities to the child. The petition also states that the girl from North India is unable to accept them as her parents. As there was no reconciliation, the child was placed under the care of the Thiruvananthapuram Child Welfare Committee on 29 September 2022. When the girl grew up, she was transferred to the Swadar home. The couple's demand is to cancel the adoption process and send the child back to the ashram in Ludhiana. A petition was filed earlier in the High Court for this purpose. However, the petition was disposed of on December 12, 2022, directing action to be taken under the Adoption Regulations, 2017. This year the central government revised the adoption regulation. According to this, action should be taken to cancel the adoption through the District Collector. An application was made to the Collector but no action was taken. The Ashram in Ludhiana was also unwilling to take the child back. The couple approached the High Court again. The government counsel informed the High Court that the girl said that she was staying at the Swadar home because her parents did not want her to stay with them. The High Court then ordered the district legal service authority secretary to talk to the girl and submit a report. 

Grief of the couple Sometimes the child shows violent behaviour and will close the room and sit inside without eating. The child herself has said many times that before we adopted her, another North Indian family adopted her and they cancelled the adoption and returned her to the ashram. She had told us that she was not interested in studying in Kerala and wanted to study in the Hindi region. We took her to a higher secondary school run by Malayali teachers in Madhya Pradesh. The violence continued there also. Finally, we brought her back as requested by the principal. In 2021, she attacked my wife and tried to leave the house. After that mental health treatment had to be given. (From the application made by the parent to the chairperson of the Child Welfare Committee for adoption of the child)

After adoption turns agonising, elderly couple approaches Kerala HC seeking annulment

Taking all the necessary legal steps, they officially welcomed the child into their lives in 2018, having adopted her from the Nishkam Seva Ashram, an institution under the Government of Punjab.


KOCHI: After the untimely demise of their only son in a car accident in 2017, an elderly couple from Thiruvananthapuram found themselves grappling with intense loneliness and emotional trauma. Seeking solace and a new purpose in life, they made the difficult decision to embrace parenthood once again through adoption.

Realising the complexities and intricacies involved in the adoption process in Kerala, they approached a centre in Punjab, where they discovered a 12-year-old girl who captured their hearts. Taking all the necessary legal steps, they officially welcomed the child into their lives in 2018, having adopted her from the Nishkam Seva Ashram, an institution under the Government of Punjab.

However, their hopes took an unexpected turn as the adoption process brought them immense mental anguish, ultimately leading them to contemplate returning her to the place of adoption. 

The reason: The girl, hailing from North India, struggled to accept the couple as her parents. 
Driven by an unwavering desire to return to her roots, the girl’s firm stance left the couple with no choice but to make the painful decision, placing her under the care and protection of a child care centre in Thiruvananthapuram. They moved a petition before the Kerala High Court seeking a directive to the Thiruvananthapuram district collector to take steps to annul the adoption. 

Guillermo turned out to have been stolen as a baby: Fiom starts campaign

The 'Grandmothers of the Plaza de Mayo' have been campaigning in Argentina for years. The reason? Their grandchildren were stolen forty years ago during a military dictatorship in the country. There are now indications that several stolen babies have ended up in the Netherlands. That is why Fiom, the institute for descent issues, has started a campaign.

 

During the military dictatorship in Argentina, which lasted from 1976 to 1983, around 500 children were stolen from their biological parents. Currently only 137 have been traced. Due to indications that some predatory babies may be staying in the Netherlands, a Fiom campaign has recently been launched. The institute wants to guide predatory babies to their biological families.

Early doubts

One of those Argentinian predators is Guillermo Amarilla Morfino. He lives in Argentina, but is temporarily in the Netherlands for his work as a representative of the ESMA Memory Site Museum. Morfino's doubts about his origins started early. "From an early age I doubted whether the people who raised me were my real parents."

King at the 125th anniversary of The Hague Conference on Private International Law

His Majesty King Willem-Alexander will attend the celebration of the 125th anniversary of The Hague Conference on Private International Law (HCCH) on Wednesday afternoon, September 12. The intergovernmental organization draws up international treaties ('Hague Conventions') to achieve uniform international regulations. The anniversary celebration will take place in Theater Diligentia in The Hague.

HCCH focuses mainly on (international) civil proceedings, child protection and commercial and financial legislation. The organization has developed a total of 38 Hague Conventions and other instruments that have broad international support. Among the most important Hague Conventions are: facilitating the use of public instruments abroad, intercountry adoption and child abduction. In 2019, the HCCH will finalize a new treaty on the recognition and enforcement of foreign judgments.

82 member states are affiliated with the organization. The European Union is also a member. In addition, 69 countries (non-members) are affiliated with one or more international treaties drawn up by HCCH.

Adopted Paula finds her twin sister in China - Geadopteerde Paula vindt haar tweelingzus in China

Geadopteerde Paula vindt haar tweelingzus in China

Vijf geadopteerde Nederlandse vrouwen gingen in China op zoek naar hun biologische ouders. De 23-jarige Paula Vrolijk vond haar familie en blijkt onderdeel van een eeneiige tweeling.

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“Ze lijken als twee druppels water op elkaar”, zegt een oom, die net aan de lunchtafel is komen aanschuiven. Paula Vrolijk en haar tweelingzus Yiling Zheng kijken elkaar glimlachend aan. Ze hebben de opmerking van diverse familieleden gehoord sinds ze elkaar 24 uur geleden voor het eerst ontmoetten. De twee hebben dezelfde neus, dezelfde voortanden en hun oren hebben dezelfde vorm.

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‘Korea is hiding our past’: the adoptees searching for their families – and the truth | Global development | The Guardian

‘Korea is hiding our past’: the adoptees searching for their families – and the truth

Amid allegations of a corrupt adoption system in Seoul that falsified children’s records, those sent to Denmark as youngsters are desperate to find out their real stories

 

In the summer of 2022, Sussie Pflug Brynald, a Danish citizen, walked through the doors of Holt Children’s Services in Seoul, South Korea, looking for answers about her past. The agency had handled her adoption 49 years earlier when she was, according to Holt, a Korean orphan.

Brynald had brought with her a bottle of Danish liqueur and souvenir shot glasses adorned with Vikings and Danish flags. She had been told that bringing presents to the adoption agency might help her get some of those answers.

Green light for use of genealogical DNA databases

The Limburg court gives permission for the use of genealogical DNA databases for kinship research in two cold case cases. The Public Prosecution Service (OM), the police and the Dutch Forensic Institute (NFI) will now use this internationally successful detection method in the context of a pilot, in the hope of forcing a breakthrough in stalled investigations.

Private DNA databases

Kinship research using (private) genealogical DNA databases can provide a solution when all available investigative resources have not led to a breakthrough in a criminal case. By comparing the DNA profile of an unknown dead person or an unknown suspect with the DNA profiles of people in a genealogical DNA database, (distant) relatives of this unknown person can be identified. With the help of these relatives, it is possible to determine the identity of the suspect or unknown dead victim through family tree research.

Cold case Hill murder  

The first cold case case in which this method is used concerns a home invasion with a fatal outcome. On August 14, 2004, the Leukel couple from Berg en Terblijt were brutally robbed in their home. An unknown man attacked them with, among other things, a saw. Sjef Leukel (68) died on the spot from his injuries. His wife ended up in a coma, from which she woke up after ten days. The case became nationally known as the 'Heuvel Murder'. Despite extensive and lengthy investigation, the offer of a reward for the golden tip and the presence of many perpetrator traces, the identity and motive of the perpetrator have remained unknown until now.

JOHN VAN DEN HEUVEL DECLARED “WANTED FUGITIVE” BY INDIAN JUDGE

Dutch Journalist and TV host of the television show ‘KIDNAPPED’ Joannes Maria Van den Heuvel has been signaled as a wanted fugitive by an Indian Criminal court after the judge has issued his non bailable Indian national Arrest warrants in Insiya Hemani’s kidnapping case. He was indicted by the Indian prosecutors for the attempted kidnapping and abduction of Insiya Hemani from India in October 2016 which was captured on camera. The Indian intelligence had advance information and was following him during his kidnapping mission in India during October 2016. Insiya’s father Shehzad Hemani pressed criminal charges in India against him and others for Insiya’s attempted kidnapping and abduction, deprivation of liberty, extortion and criminal conspiracy. An Indian criminal court after going through all the video evidences, other evidences collected by the Prosecutor and after viewing the episodes of Television how KIDNAPPED was convinced that he acts like a mercenary and then indicted him and issued his non bailable arrest warrants and declared him a wanted fugitives in India after he failed to appear in courts after various court summons given to him. If arrested, John Van den Heuvel will face upto 12 years of rigorous imprisonment in India since the Indian courts and prosecutors have credible evidence which proves that he is part of an international child kidnapping cartel and an organized crime syndicate which abducts and kidnaps children for the television show aired by RTL4. The Indian foreign affairs, has also contacted their counterparts in Suriname, Spain, Mexico and Turkey among other countries where John van den Heuvel is probably a wanted fugitive for similar child kidnapping offenses and it appears that such countries have assured India for their support to bring the child kidnapper to justice. A copy of his Indian National Arrest Warrant is enclosed herewith for reference. Previous press articles stating such facts are: https://www.mid-day.com/articles/mumbai-news-dutch-journolist-bookedkidnap-bandra-businessman-files-fir/18565177 FOR IMMEDIATE PRESS RELEASE 26 MARCH 2018 CONROS GROUP INDIA http://www.indialivetoday.com/dutch-journalist-john-van-den-heuvel-bookedfor-kidnapping-child-after-shehzad-hemani-bandra-businessman-filesfir/197740.html https://www.hartvannederland.nl/nieuws/2017/vader-insiya-klaagt-john-vanden-heuvel-aan-voor-kidnapping/ https://www.ad.nl/amsterdam/vader-insiya-doet-aangifte-tegen-ex-vrouw-enjohn-van-den-heuvel~adc60ba6/ http://www.at5.nl/artikelen/172910/vader-insiya-doet-aangifte-tegen-vanden-heuvel-voor-kidnapping The other 10 co-accused wanted fugitives in this case are; VD Wiel, Loth Roy, Gallas Peter, Leks Frits, Veerman Tijmen, Nadia Rashid, Adnan Rashid, Sadia Rashid, Nighat Tahera Rashid and Erland Galjaard of RTL who are also wanted fugitives by the Indian Police and Prosecution services in this child kidnapping case. End of Press Release

Deprivation’s Mark on the Brain

IN 2000, professor of pediatrics Charles Nelson went on a trip that would change the course of his life—and the lives of dozens of others. As an expert in developmental neuroscience, Nelson was accompanying two colleagues on a visit to St. Catherine’s Orphanage in Bucharest, Romania, which was part of a network of state-run orphanages established by the former dictator Nicolae Ceaușescu. A series of disastrous policy decisions by Ceaușescu had resulted in more than 170,000 Romanian children being abandoned to these institutions throughout the 1980s, where they were victims of severe neglect.

By the time Nelson arrived, Ceaușescu had been out of power for more than a decade, but the situation in the orphanages remained dire. One of Nelson’s colleagues who ran an international adoption clinic had noted that many children reared in such institutions developed neurodevelopmental problems, including attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), autism, and a host of pathological behaviors; these observations matched Nelson’s own impressions on meeting young orphans in Bucharest. He and his colleagues wanted to know why institutional rearing so often led to disability and psychopathology.

His visit marked the beginning of the Bucharest Early Intervention Project (BEIP), a first-of-its-kind study on the long-term effects of psychosocial deprivation on children raised in institutions. When Nelson and his colleagues originally established the project, they enrolled 136 institutionalized Romanian children whose average age was 20 months and randomly assigned them to remain in the institution or be adopted by a foster family. They also enrolled 72 children who had never been in an institution as a control group. For the past 22 years, he and his colleagues have followed the lives of these Romanian orphans to understand how their early experience affected their subsequent neurocognitive development. The research, described in more than 100 papers and a book, traces the profoundly negative effects of psychosocial deprivation on both behavioral and brain development.

The project’s most recent research revealed that children who were removed from the institutions and raised in foster homes exhibited faster and more dramatic paring of brain matter in the prefrontal cortex from age 8 to age 16 than children who remained in the institutions.

Among children who grew up in these orphanages, “The regions of the brain where changes were most pronounced are regions that are involved in higher order social and cognitive abilities, which help explain increases in things like ADHD,” says professor of psychology Katie McLaughlin. “These findings show that far and away the best thing we can do to support healthy brain development, and development across other domains, is to ensure that children have access to stable caregiving.”

■ Two years in prison for baby smuggling in Romania :A baby for $6,000

■ Two years in prison for baby smuggling in Romania
:A baby for $6,000
 

Bucharest (taz) – The British media were shocked by the “harsh verdict” and defended the Mooney couple. They only wanted to free orphans from a miserable life - now they have to go behind Romanian bars for their good intentions.

In Romania, on the other hand, the British couple attracted little pity - but their case caused even more of a stir: while trying to smuggle the three-month-old baby Monica across the Hungarian-Romanian border, which they had previously bought for $6,000, Adrian and Bernadette Mooney caught. Last Friday, a Bucharest court sentenced the couple to 24 months in prison for illegal border crossing and illegal adoption. The parents, Florin Baiaram and Florina Dimir, both 17 years old, each received a one-year prison sentence, which they will have to serve when they come of age. The broker of the deal, an acquaintance of the parents, has to be behind bars for 28 months.

Although the two Brits are the first foreigners to be convicted of child trafficking in Romania, the adoption business is booming. After the relevant legal regulations were generously relaxed in the summer of 1990, the Romanian Ministry of Justice registered around 10,000 adoptions abroad in the following 12 months - a third of all adoptions in the world. However, the authorities once again put a stop to the “child transfer”, which was only loosely controlled by the state-run “Romanian Committee for Adoptions” (CRA): foreign citizens are now only allowed to adopt children who are on the CRA’s list, and only then if no Romanian parents have been found for them within six months.

Child trafficking is now illegal. In southern Hungary, for example, two years ago the police discovered a Romanian smuggling ring that was selling Romanian children to western countries. According to the Romanian Ministry of Justice, traffickers also use legal tricks to obtain adoption papers. Under the pretext that these are children suffering from AIDS or disabled and therefore in need of humanitarian aid, in reality healthy children are being “exported”.