by Sofia Nordgren, born in Bangladesh and adopted to Sweden
My name is Sofia Nordgren. According to my adoption documents, I was born in Bangladesh in 1973, although my exact date of birth has never been verified. I was adopted to Sweden in April 1976 and grew up in a small rural village in Dalarna, far from the capital, Stockholm.
I was adopted into a family that already had a biological daughter who was three years older, according to the information I was given. I grew up in a highly homogeneous environment where there were no other people of colour, immigrants, or adoptees. As a child, I experienced racism and bullying at school, which deeply shaped my sense of identity and belonging.
In 1995, I took a decisive step and moved to Stockholm, where I have lived ever since. The city offered greater access to diversity, adoptee communities, and opportunities for work and connection.
I made my first return journey to Bangladesh in 1999, travelling alone as a young woman, without language skills or local contacts. In 2025, I returned twice more, once in April and again later in the year, as part of my ongoing search for truth, origins, and connection.