Before leaving India, we sat down with the tour members for India Ties Kolkata and asked them what the journey was like for them - what made them travel with Ties, how the trip has impacted their relationships to themselves and their families and if they would recommend a Ties tour to anyone considering it. Excerpts have been edited for clarity.
Michelle, adoptee: It's been a couple of years that I've been wanting to go back. I turned 40 and I finished my studies and I lost my job all at the same time - it just seemed like a perfect moment to do something for me, to take some time for me, and maybe to redefine, think about who I am. And I realized that in order to do that, I needed to know a little bit more about where I came from. And it just felt like a right time. I mean, there's never a right time: I've got two kids, got a lot going on, never a right time. But the more and more I thought about it, the more and more I thought the time is now.
What impact has this trip had on how you see yourself, your identity, or your story?
Lizzie, adoptee: This trip has given me more of a sense of pride in who I am. I feel like visiting this country has been so important to me. I've wanted to do it for a long time. I used to feel a lot of shame about being Indian or being born in India. I had maybe a negative impression of India growing up. I didn't know a lot about India growing up, and I had false impressions about India growing up. But by taking this trip and visiting my birthplace, as well as other cities in this country, exposed me to so many things I didn't know about India, and I've learned a lot about this country. I'm very happy that I took this trip.