In a Q&A with Prism, author Paige Towers discusses a 2008 case of familicide in Iowa that involved the murders of four adopted children from Korea
Paige Towers’ new book, “What They Stole: A Familicide Rooted in Intercountry Adoption,” traces the Evangelical origin story of the Holt Adoption Program that facilitated the adoption of hundreds of thousands of Korean children, including Ethan, Seth, Eleanor, and Mira, by Steven Sueppel and his wife Sheryl. In 2008, Sueppel murdered his wife and children in Iowa before dying by suicide.
I came to the Sueppel’s story with more than curiosity over a true-crime story.
I’m a Korean American adoptee who organizes at the intersection of reproductive justice and adoption. And my adoptive father—like Sueppel—abused me in our idyllic suburban house while he was seen as a successful, upstanding husband and father. In both cases, no one thought to intervene.
In mainstream adoption narratives, children are first made into objects of pity and charity to warrant our initial family separation, and then we are expected to prove the inherent goodness of the system that displaced us. In the case of Ethan, Seth, Eleanor, and Mira, even in death they are folded back into a story told by someone else that centers the perspective of the adult who abused them: Sueppel’s unraveling, his financial crimes, his religious delusions, and ultimately, his violence. But Sueppel is not an exception.