It must take undying conviction and courage to fight for what hasn’t been given to an entire community by the patriarchal society that we live in. Yet Akkai Padmashali and her husband Vasu’s unflinching activism for acceptance and inclusion has made them the first-ever transcouple to legally adopt their three-and-a-half-month old son recently. This may be the latest achievement as the first trans person ever to do so but for Padmashali this is certainly not her ‘first’ achievement.

Bangalore-based Padmashali, who tried to kill herself at the age of 12 because it became difficult for her to deal with the pressures of being called out a different gender than what she believed herself to be, has now been battling it out for the rights of the trans community for three decades now. In these 30 years of working with various organisations and the government she has a lot to show, Padmashali first had to fight for acceptance as a transgender person in Karnataka and then to get her marriage registered. Next she became the first transgender person in the country to get a driving license stating her gender as female and the first transperson to receive the Rajyotsava Prashasti, the second-highest civilian honour of the state of Karnataka.

Talking to SheThePeople.TV about the recent adoption of her son, she says she dreamt of adopting a child since the time she was unmarried. “After getting married, I and Vasu, we both felt that we need a child. The adoption of a baby was a long-held desire and a dream for me. But after marrying Vasu, the hope now seemed a reality. So, we approached a few orphanages but they refused to give us a child assuming that transgenders are mostly seen on the streets as sex workers and beggars. Their notion was that if they give us a child then by default the child will be forced into sex work or begging, but that’s not the case with us, I will let my child decide what he wants to do in life. It will be his decision entirely.

As a woman and a feminist, I need to see a child as a child. The assigned sex might be a boy or a male but let me not decide it for my child. I want him to grow as a child who can decide for himself what gender he wants to give himself,” says Padmashali who adopted her son from her sister’s relative.

On how can we as a society let children grow with people of all genders and if we have reached there yet, she is of the opinion that it would only be possible with people who have a progressive outlook. She recounts one incident from her life when she visited one of her friends’ houses where the friend’s mother shut the eyes of her 2.5-year-old grandson so he couldn’t see Padmashali, just because she is a transwoman.

On October 2, 2019, the Intercountry Adoption Accreditation and Maintenance Entity (IAAME) suspended the approval of A Love Beyond Borders (ALBB) for failing to maintain substantial compliance with accreditation standards.

During this suspension, ALBB must cease to provide all adoption services in connection with intercountry adoption cases. ALBB is required to transfer their cases to another accredited or approved adoption service provider. If you have an open case with ALBB, please contact them directly to find out how the suspension will affect your case. We also encourage families to review the information published by IAAME about selecting a primary provider/adoption service provider and the accreditation/approval requirements.

Affected families may wish to review information about Case Transfer Responsibilities on the Department of State’s website.

The Department of State does not review or approve case transfer plans and has a limited role in their execution. The Department communicates with competent adoption authorities about the accreditation status of agencies and persons and case transfer plans, as needed. The Department also facilitates communication to the public about the outcome of accrediting entity determinations.

For more information, see IAAME’s website. If you have any questions about this announcement, you may direct them to IAAME at contact@iaame.net.

With adoption, the truth is ultimately the best

Council investigator Ans Bosman tells about searching for your origin and the importance of clear legislation.

Ans Bosman has been working as a council investigator for more than forty years at the RvdK in Rotterdam, where she mainly did adoption cases. "If adoptive children are told that they have been ceded, they may be sad about that," says Ans. "Processing their unknown past is comparable to a mourning period. People struggle with questions about their origins and origins and ask themselves: who am I really? ”The RvdK has been approaching a large group of people for years looking for information about their descent, for example because they have been abandoned or have been abandoned. foundling. Ans has supported many of these people in their search and therefore knows from experience how important that knowledge is. "That's how I know a middle-aged woman who has persisted in her search for years. At regular intervals she comes by to dig through her entire file for the umpteenth time. She does that, as she says herself, hoping to find a clue to her past. "

The passage of time does not ease the sorrow of an unknown past. "We recently helped a 70-year-old woman with information about her pedigree," says Ans. "Now that she had grandchildren, she went looking for her origins. We have found an old file about her adoption. Then you see that, even in old age, all kinds of things suddenly fall into place. People can, for example, place traits of themselves that caused them to fall out of tune in their adoptive family. "

Honesty is the best policy

There are many instances of prospective parents traveling from far corners of the country to Delhi to adopt a child. Such cases could also include physically disabled children or a single mother.

Taking a humane view of such instances, a Delhi court on Thursday

asked the ministry of women and child development and Central Adoption Resource Authority

(https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/topic/Central-Adoption-Resource-Authority) (CARA) if adoption matters could be filed in

courts within whose jurisdiction the proposed adoptive parents lived.

A 47 year old woman from the Philippines was jailed for six years on Thursday for her role in an illegal adoption case for a same sex couple — a Greek Cypriot and a Turk.

The couple have left Cyprus taking the baby. European and international warrants have been issued for their arrest but their whereabouts are unknown.

Cyprus’ adoption law specifies that a couple must be married in order to adopt, effectively barring same sex couples who can enter into civil partnerships here but cannot marry.

The defendant had brought the baby to Cyprus from the Philippines, appearing on a forged birth certificate as its birth mother. The Greek Cypriot man, who was the woman’s employer and is married to the Turkish man, appeared as the father on the same birth certificate.

The case dates back to 2018 when the Greek Cypriot man asked the Family Court for sole parental custody.

"There are a number of different schemes by which adoptions are being fraudulently induced in Northwest Arkansas"

by: Lauren Krakau

Posted: Oct 3, 2019 / 10:59 PM CDT / Updated: Oct 3, 2019 / 10:59 PM CDT

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ROGERS, Ark. (KFTA) — Following yet another report of fraudulent adoptions in Northwest Arkansas, a local attorney is doing everything he can to put a stop to the crime.

There’s a child, born to parents who have been poor for generations, not allowed to educate themselves or their children, ostracised from main society for centuries. There’s another child, born to some parents, but left with none, thrown in a dumpster, or left in a park, to die or to survive on its own, no idea where to get food from, or even how to get food, nowhere to go, and no one to love him/her.

It would be natural to think that both these children deserve sympathy and affirmative action in some form, if only from the voice of conscience that resides deep within us. That conscience speaks to the Government to take care of the destinies of these siblings in distress.

However, throughout its long existence, the Planning Commission did not think so.

As a result, in the above example, the first child gets benefitted under government schemes to go to school and college, coaching, hostels, reservation, loans and even sponsorship for studies abroad.

The second child? Well, if he/she is lucky enough to be in the 0.5% of all orphans that get to, through a rare concatenation of events, reach an orphanage, then the child has access to some food, limited education (only till age 14) and then at age 18, is shunted out to brave the streets again!

Consultation of Dutch distance files with retroactive effect free of charge for adopted persons

On September 30, 2019, Minister Dekker (Legal Protection) announced that access to Dutch distance files should be free of charge for adopted persons. Adopted persons who have incurred costs in the past to view the waiver file or to obtain pedigree data from the file, can reclaim the amount paid by them.

In his speech, held during the Start Conference on 'In-depth research into distance parents and distance children', Minister Dekker said that the Ministry of Health, Welfare and Sport is contributing to the financing of both access to distance files and financing for search actions by Fiom. This contribution from the Ministry of Health, Welfare and Sport means that inspection of Dutch distance files can take place free of charge. For searches, the minister refers to the institutional subsidy that Fiom already receives. The personal contribution for national searches (€ 85) remains.

Right to pedigree information

Adopted persons do not automatically have the right to inspect the distance file. The waiver file is the property of the waiver mother (the woman who has renounced her child). He must therefore give permission for inspection. The distance file not only contains information about the child's descent, but also displays the feelings and considerations of the distance mother. This information is often very personal.

It observed that trafficking in human beings is a multi-layered phenomena that can take different forms and occur in various industries.

The Crime Branch of Delhi Police in February last year busted a child trafficking racket following a tip off and recovered a 10-day-old old baby from Jahangir's possession. (Photo: Representational)

New Delhi: A court here has ordered framing of charges against seven people for allegedly abducting children, including newborns, and selling them.

It observed that trafficking in human beings is a multi-layered phenomena that can take different forms and occur in various industries.

"There common characteristic is the element of constraint, deceit, threat, fraud, coercion, etc. used with an aim to economically and/or sexually exploit one or other persons and besides that there are other, less widely known forms of trafficking," Additional Sessions Judge Anil Antil said.

By Ellalyn de Vera Ruiz

Legal adoption experts, foreign diplomats, and representatives of local and international child-caring and child placement institutions have gathered together in Manila to further boost public awareness on the process of inter-country adoption.

Led by the Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD), through the Inter-Country Adoption Board (ICAB), the 15th Philippine Global Consultation on Child Welfare Services anchored on the theme, “Identifying the Needs of Children in Inter-country Adoption.”

The global consultation, which takes place every other year, serves as a platform to discuss and review policies and procedures to ensure that the best interest of Filipino children who are up for inter-country adoption will be prioritized and upheld.

DSWD Secretary and ICAB chair Rolando Joselito Bautista led the event and served as the keynote speaker.