Dad, mum, brush your teeth
TRANSFER IN THE WEST IS THE ONLY CHANCE FOR LIFE WITH FAMILY FOR MANY INDIAN CHILDREN. BUT ADOPTIONAL COUPLES MUST LEAD A SOMETIMES OF BURDEN AGAINST BUREAUCRACY
Shy, Jegan points to the crumpled photo in his brown hand. Then he breathes, "Dad, Mum." The man in the picture is holding a blonde woman in his arms, the little Indian's finger moving on the paper: a laughing boy and a girl with cheeky pigtails driving a white motorboat, Jegan looks questioningly "Brother," remembers Sister Paulina, "Brother and Sister."
The six-year-old speaks Tamil, he can barely speak English. German not at all. He could already learn his first words for months Schwäbisch, if there were not the hurdles of bureaucracy: Since September 2003 Monika and Ulrich Kippelt from Alfdorf fight in Stuttgart for the adoption of the Indian orphan. The story of Jegan and his new parents is a drama with great feelings, disappointments and hopes and an uncertain ending. It shows how difficult foreign country options are - and how important.
In India, for example, Jegan had little chance. Although his unmarried mother had given him immediately after birth in an orphanage in southern India Kerala, and male babies are usually the easiest to convey. But when the doctors found a chronic thyroid disease in the child, it was clear that there would be no Indian adoptive parents: the cost of the drugs are too high. Therefore, Jegan moved to Chennai as a two-year-old to the Franciscan nuns in the baby home Saint Thomas Mount, which has the state license for adoptions in the West. Decisive condition: They must have been rejected three times by Indian couples.