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Adoptie Standpunten SGP

It is most beautiful when children grow up with their own parents. That is natural and it is familiar. However, there are cases where, unfortunately, this is no longer possible. A suitable alternative must then be sought. Sometimes that is close by, with family or other acquaintances. But often you have to look for a solution further away. Foster care or adoption is a solution for these children. Care in a foster family is preferable to a stay in an institution. That is because of the added value of the stability and privacy of a family. That is why the availability of sufficient foster parents and adoptive parents is of great importance. Such parents deserve full support from the government.


Adoption is a lengthy process. The time limits and the procedures that apply must - wherever possible - be shortened and simplified.    

The costs of adoption must also be reduced.    Justice must take active action against abuses such as child trafficking and illegal adoption.    

The possibility for same-sex couples to adopt children should be deleted.    

With a decreasing number of adopted children from abroad, it is advisable to call for more attention to forms of long-term foster care.

There must be good provisions for foster parents, including a sufficient foster parent allowance and generous leave arrangements. For example, the foster child may not be duped by the costs of student transportation. When recruiting and selecting foster parents, foster parents may not be excluded on the grounds of religion or belief.    

In the event of an unwanted pregnancy, it is important to pay attention to the possibilities of adoption and foster care. All women must receive information about alternatives to abortion tailored to their emergency situation.

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Het is het allermooist als kinderen bij hun eigen ouders opgroeien. Dat is natuurlijk en het is vertrouwd. Er zijn echter gevallen waarin dat helaas niet (meer) mogelijk is. Er moet dan gezocht worden naar een passend alternatief. Soms kan dat dichtbij, bij familie of andere bekenden. Maar vaak moet er op zoek worden gegaan naar een oplossing verder weg. Pleegzorg of adoptie is voor deze kinderen een uitkomst.

Opvang in een pleeggezin verdient trouwens de voorkeur boven verblijf in een instelling. Dat zit ‘m in de meerwaarde van de stabiliteit en beslotenheid van een gezin. Daarom is de beschikbaarheid van voldoende pleegouders en adoptieouders van groot belang. Zulke ouders verdienen voluit de steun van de overheid.

  • Adoptie is een langdurig proces. De termijnen en de procedures die gelden dienen -waar mogelijk- verkort en vereenvoudigd te worden.
  • Ook de kosten van adoptie moeten verlaagd worden.
  • Justitie dient actief op te treden tegen misstanden als kinderhandel en illegale adoptie.
  • De mogelijkheid voor paren van hetzelfde geslacht om kinderen te adopteren, moet worden geschrapt. 
  • Bij een afnemend aantal adoptiekinderen uit het buitenland verdient het aanbeveling om meer aandacht te vragen voor vormen van langdurige pleegzorg. Er dienen goede voorzieningen voor pleegouders te zijn, waaronder een toereikende pleegoudervergoeding en royale verlofregelingen. Het pleegkind mag bijvoorbeeld niet gedupeerd worden door gesteggel over de kosten van leerlingenvervoer. Bij werving en selectie van pleegouders mogen pleegouders niet op grond van godsdienst of levensovertuiging worden uitgesloten. 
  • Bij ongewenste zwangerschap is het belangrijk dat er aandacht wordt gegeven aan de mogelijkheden van adoptie en pleegzorg. Alle vrouwen moeten informatie krijgen over speciaal op hun noodsituatie afgestemde alternatieven voor abortus.

LAAT KINDEREN ZOVEEL MOGELIJK IN OORSPRONKELIJKE OMGEVING OPGROEIEN

LET CHILDREN GROW UP IN ORIGINAL ENVIRONMENT


Many adoptive parents devote themselves heart and soul to their children. Nevertheless, the interests of the child must be paramount and the starting point must be that children can grow up as much as possible in their original environment and every effort must be made to prevent adoption from turning into child trafficking. Adoption from abroad is also a vulnerable process, where a lot can go wrong. Therefore, adopting children from abroad must be handled with care and with extreme care. The government carefully checks whether there is no question of child abduction, child trafficking or corruption. The retention period for adoption files must be considerably extended.

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LAAT KINDEREN ZOVEEL MOGELIJK IN OORSPRONKELIJKE OMGEVING OPGROEIEN

Veel adoptieouders zetten zich met hart en ziel in voor hun kinderen. Niettemin moet het belang van het kind voorop staan en het uitgangspunt zijn dat kinderen zoveel mogelijk in hun oorspronkelijke omgeving op kunnen groeien en moet er alles aan gedaan worden om te voorkomen dat adoptie tot kinderhandel verwordt. Adoptie uit het buitenland is bovendien een kwetsbaar proces, waarbij veel mis kan gaan. Daarom moet er terughoudend en uiterst zorgvuldig worden omgegaan met adoptie van kinderen uit het buitenland. De overheid controleert nauwgezet of er geen sprake is van kinderontvoering, kinderhandel of corruptie. De bewaartermijn van adoptiedossiers moet fors worden verlengd.

Verslag bijeenkomst Wereldkinderen..

Report meeting World Children ..

This summer I was approached by a Master's student in Educational Sciences at Leiden University. In collaboration with, among others. The Wereldkinderen Foundation hoped to learn more about international adoption in the Netherlands. Her goal was, as a neutral third party, to gather information about the context of intercountry adoption in Bangladesh in the 70s and 80s. This student wanted to try to collect a wide range of opinions and stories from different sources. She came to me through my blogs that I wrote about Bangladesh and adoption. She said that she had read my blogs with pleasure. She wanted to hear my story and ask me some questions and if she could use some information from me. Upon hearing that she did this in collaboration with Wereldkinderen, I became a bit skeptical. Wereldkinderen was not so loved by many adopted people and I also had my thing with Wereldkinderen. She asked if I knew more people who wanted to participate in this. I'd look for her. But not everyone was eager to lend his / her cooperation. She was sorry, but after I explained why, she understood. The invitation to a meeting follows. I didn't know they gave them a meeting for this either. Wereldkinderen wanted to invite all adopted people from Bangladesh to present their findings they have made in recent months to us. What findings? And what do they have for something new that we don't know yet? I would go. I later doubted, also because world children were vague about this gathering. And it wasn't next door. After I had spoken to the student last Monday, I decided to go to the meeting on Wednesday 27 November. With the knowledge that there will be nothing new. But yes, the miracles are not over yet! After a journey of 2.5 hours I arrive at Wereldkinderen in The Hague. I thought I would see black from the bengal who had all come to this meeting. But unfortunately, I only saw 7 brown heads, while we are really with 500 .. the turnout was therefore very thin. The opening.. The director of Wereldkinderen, who was also new there, opened the meeting. Was he a director? I wondered. I didn't really see anyone standing there radiating authority, standing firmly in his shoes and knowing what he was talking about. No, none of this! I found him nervous and confused.

The first speech was made by the master student. From the week when I had her on the phone, she told me she was quite upset, mainly because there was so much negative about this meeting. But she did well. What I found unfortunate was that she summarized the information she got from my blogs in one go. On the contrary, she could have made a story out of it and elaborated on it. In her story, I also missed examples of the misunderstandings that existed during the adoptions. Or sharing the experiences of adopted people. I also indicated this to her. They could not obtain information from former Wereldkinderen employees, unfortunately they are no longer there. From a few people, such as Dr. Preger, a doctor who worked in Bangladesh, could also have approached them and obtained interesting information. By the name Dr. They all looked a little sheepishly at Preger. A missed opportunity for World Children. Mr Manzur was blamed for everything and what is the share of World Children? They still act as if they know nothing. DNA database .. An adopted from India, who works at Fiom, told about her own adoption, the search and DNA database. How or what you can do, where you need to be, etc. I found it boring and long-winded. Also because we have been working on this for so long. This entire meeting was one big child's play. Wereldkinderen could have done much more than what they have done so far. Tips for the next meeting .. first check everything out, get the most out of it. Make an inventory of the needs of the adopted and respond to this again. Several adopted people interview, tell their story, try to reach more people, etc ... so enough learning points for Wereldkinderen. Adoption remains a sensitive topic with many adopted people and everyone experiences it differently and everyone deals with it in his / her own way. There is a lot of anger and frustration at various authorities .. Because do you know what adopters would really want? The magic word: RECOGNITION! That World Children take on their responsibilities and can admit that they made mistakes at the time. Then maybe there is a possibility for a cooperation between World Children and the adopted ones ..

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Verslag bijeenkomst Wereldkinderen..

Couple use Twitter to rescue newborn girl abandoned on Indian garbage dump

(CNN)Vinod Kapri, an Indian filmmaker based in New Delhi, checks Twitter first thing every morning -- like virtually every journalist on the planet.

On Friday, something amid the relentless stream of content caught his attention: a graphic video of a newborn baby, who was left abandoned on a garbage dump, naked and wailing.
Almost moved to tears, Kapri showed the video to his wife Sakshi Joshi, who is also a journalist. "We were very upset," Kapri told CNN. "I couldn't watch the whole video -- I could hear her crying and that was enough," Joshi said.

Both immediately knew what to do. "Our conversation suddenly shifted to: 'We should adopt her," Joshi added.
So Joshi tweeted a request to her followers to send over any information they could find about the baby, saying she and Kapri wanted to adopt her if they could locate her.
"We had no idea of the location of the video or its authenticity," Kapri said. "We see many fake videos of babies on social media."
In a couple of hours, Joshi's tweet -- and her husband's following post in English -- went viral, with hundreds of netizens searching for clues that could allow the couple to locate the girl.
"Everybody on Twitter was keen to find the girl," Joshi said. "Twitter had the biggest role in the whole story."
"Everybody has (their) own ideology and opinions, but this was beyond ideology. It shows that humanity still exists, calling to everyone in this world," she added.
Thanks also to their journalistic sources, the couple started to get some leads that the girl was found in Rajasthan.

So Kapri asked one of his former colleagues and friend, Rahul Choudhry, to go and find her "on a personal level."
Choudhry found out the baby girl had been admitted in a serious condition to the Jawaharlal Nehru Government Hospital in the city of Nagaur. He visited the facility and sent a video of her to Kapri, who immediately tweeted it to his followers.
"Then we had a long chat with the doctor and we told him we had the intention of adopting the baby. Even though we're not legal parents, we already felt emotionally connected," Kapri said.

The doctor told him that the baby was doing well and that only her weight, 1.6 kg (3.5 pounds), was cause for concern. But he invited Kapri and Joshi to come to Rahjahstan to see the baby.
So on Saturday, the couple drove 500 kilometers (311 miles) to Nagaur.

In the meantime, they asked their Twitter followers about the adoption process.
"We never had any intention of adopting a baby. I'm already 46," Kapri said. "We had no idea about the process. We started researching and we found out that adoption is quite tedious and long in India."
"We are both going to do our medical checkups, the application will take 2-3 more days," he added.
Once they got to the hospital, words failed them.
"I can't express my feelings ... what me and my wife felt was just beyond words, I completely lost my words. Inexplicable," he said.
And on Father's Day, Joshi tweeted a picture of the three of them together, saying: "The whole Kapri family is dying to have her in the family."

As a temporary name, Joshi and Kapri decided to call her "Pihu," which was suggested by some Twitter users.
"It's the name of a bird and a film I directed. The main character has a 2-year-old," Kapri said.
CNN has reached out to the hospital for comment.

DRAMA MICU?EISORINA,feti?a de numai8 ani,luat? dela familia care...

DRAMA MICUZEISORINA, the little girl of only 8, taken by the family who she grew her date for adoption in the US, she took the street over 300 people! State authorities, IMPOSSIBLE!

More than 300 people protested in Baia de Aram on Sunday, empathizing with the Sarmatian family, who was left without one of the girls he had taken from the orphanage and raised them, and now the authorities they gave it to adoption for a couple in America. If, initially, the Mehedinti Court refused to accept the adoption, the court's argument being in the meaning of the little Sorina to remain with the family that grew up, the judges at the Court of Appeal

Craiova have finally determined that the 8-year-old girl is taken from this family and left in the USA. The S?r?mat village, which had priority in adopting the baby, according to Romanian law, accuses officials of the General Directorate for Social Assistance and Child Protection (DGASPC) Mehedinti committed a series of forgery in the documents filed in the court file.

The wives Mariana and Vasile ?r?m?t wanted to take a little girl in the placement, but they returned home with two little girls. Andreea had at that time nine months, and only she wanted to take her wives, except that her neck Sorina, a girl of only one year and two months, was hanging on the woman and she did not let go. Since then, the ones two grew up together in the house of the Sheremat family in the Negoie?ti village, near Baia de Aram?, as two

sisters. They share the same room, they are dressed the same way, they go to school together, they are practically and Mariana and Vasile call them "mommy" and "daddy". It must be said that the Sarmatits have two children, theirs, who are now married to their homes. Andreea adopted it after some time, but Sorina did not she met the conditions of adoption, because she was interested in her an aunt from time to time, but husbands

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That's a false story. The child has been registered on CARINGS and it will be rehablitated through adoption by #CARA as per the legal process. The child has been named Ganga and will be placed in the State Government's Adoption Agency.

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Baby abandoned in garbage bin, rescued by Indian couple

Indian filmmaker and journalist couple to adopt newborn girl abandoned in Rajasthan.

Filmmaker and journalist @Vinodkapri and his wife @SakshiJoshi, who want to adopt the baby.Image Credit: Twitter/@Vinodkapri

She lay hunched on her belly. Tiny hands and feet digging into the earth. Dried leaves and dirt sticking to her tender skin, cries renting the air. Yet another abandoned girl child. Yet another new-born baby in a garbage dump.

But, there’s a happy ending to this story – we hope.

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Indian Tweep @ACJangid7 posted in Hindi on June 12: “I don’t know when or where these pictures are from? But, where it is. It is a stigma in the name of humanity. The person who has discarded his flower-like baby as soon as she was born on a pile pf garbage, with no mercy for his own blood, how much lower will you fall? Please spare these babies!!”

From Noida to Nagaur, couple wants to adopt newborn found in garbage

From Noida to Nagaur, couple wants to adopt newborn found in garbage ANI | Updated: Jun 16, 2019 14:51 IST RELATED NEWS 21.6.2019 From Noida to Nagaur, couple wants to adopt newborn found in garbage https://www.aninews.in/news/national/general-news/from-noida-to-nagaur-couple-wants-to-adopt-newborn-found-in-garbage20190616145134/ 2/11 Nagaur (Rajasthan)[India], Jun 16 (ANI): After being found in a garbage dump, Pihu now looks at a bright future with a journalist couple making efforts to adopt the abandoned newborn. The couple on Sunday met the Nagaur District Collector in order to inquire about the legal procedure to make the baby girl a part of their family. "We are trying our best to initiate the legal procedure in order to adopt the child. In this regard me and my wife met the Nagaur Collector in order to understand the adoption procedure," Vinod Kapri (/search? query=Vinod Kapri), a filmmaker and journalist, told ANI. Before meeting the Collector, Kapri and his wife Sakshi Joshi (/search?query=Sakshi Joshi), a TV news anchor went to JLN Hospital to meet the baby and enquired about her condition. On getting to know that the child's condition is improving, the couple travelled straight from Noida to Nagaur to inquire about the legal procedure. After battling for her life, the newborn is now stable. 21.6.2019 From Noida to Nagaur, couple wants to adopt newborn found in garbage https://www.aninews.in/news/national/general-news/from-noida-to-nagaur-couple-wants-to-adopt-newborn-found-in-garbage20190616145134/ 3/11 TAGS Newborn (/search/?query=Newborn) "The present condition of the child is stable, however, she is having a recurring problem in breathing," said Dr Mula Ram of JLN Hospital. A video of the newborn lying helplessly on a mound of garbage caught the couple's attention. On watching the viral on social media, they named the child Pihu. Kapri tweeted photos from his hospital visit and wrote, " A BIG shout out for team of Doctors at JLN Hospital , Nagaur , Rajasthan. Dr RK Sutaar and team , you guys are simply superb. Thanks again for taking care of little one and other new borns." While his wife Sakshi also tweeted Kapri's photos with the baby. "This is final post from me. The whole Kapri family is dying to have her in the family. We will try our BEST to adopt her as per rules and guidelines. The whole Thanks a lot for all your love and support #HappyFathersDay," she wrote alongside.

(ANI)

Journalist couple to adopt newborn girl abandoned in Nagaur

Act of kindness has restored faith in humanity, say social media users

A journalist couple has offered to adopt a newborn girl who was abandoned and found lying on a heap of garbage in Rajasthan’s Nagaur town, after a video of the infant soaked in blood went viral on social media. The girl is recovering in Nagaur’s Jawaharlal Nehru Government Hospital.

Journalist and film-maker Vinod Kapri and his wife Sakshi Joshi, a news anchor with a television channel, decided to take care of the child when they noticed the video. As they enquired about the girl and were informed that she had been shifted to the hospital, they volunteered to help her.

Mr. Kapri shared the child’s video on Twitter, showing her sleeping on the hospital bed under medical care. The couple informed on the social media that they would meet the child soon and adopt her through the legal process.

Mr. Kapri, who appealed to the government authorities to expedite the process of adoption through the Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA), informed through a tweet on Saturday morning that Union Health Minister Harsh Vardhan had called the doctors at the hospital and advised them to give the best possible medical attention to the girl.

Commentators on social media platforms praised the couple’s gesture profusely and wished a speedy recovery to the infant. A follower on Mr. Kapri’s Twitter account commented: “The screams of this child are haunting, but your lullabies mute them all.” Several other commentators said that the couple’s act of kindness had restored the faith in humanity.

SC: NOC mandatory from receiving country for inter-country adoption

The on Friday ruled that a can adopt a child from only after acquiring NOC (No Objection Certificate) from the diplomatic mission of that country in

Karina Jane Creed, an Australian national residing in for the past four years, moved the apex court seeking a direction to (CARA) to issue NOC for adoption of two female siblings.

Karina claimed in 2016 CARA has already registered and processed her application, but refused to issue, thereafter, she began visiting the children and they identify her as their mother.

Gaurang Kanth, representing CARA, vehemently opposed Karina's claim stating that she has adopted a short-cut by moving the court instead of acquiring an NOC from Australian authorities.

"India and are signatories of the Hague Convention, which aims to ensure best interests of the child, and it against trafficking. NOC from the receiving foreign country is mandatory as per the guidelines of the convention. If it is breached then it has larger ramifications especially related to the security of the child," said Kanth in a counter to Karina's petition.

A vacation bench comprising Justices and queried Karina's on the measures she has taken to avail visas for the children if adoption is completed.

Karina's replied that the Australian authorities have issued a letter, but could not clarify if it would be sufficient to avail the visa.

Kanth countered that Karina has been residing in India for past four years, as a consequence, the Australian authorities could not conduct a home study report regarding her eligibility to adopt children.

"The foreign country has to prepare a home study report of the prospective adoptive parents and upon finding them eligible sponsor their application to CARA for adoption of a child from India," Kanth submitted before the court.

Upholding Kanth's argument, the court said, "A or a person of Indian origin or an overseas citizen of India who has habitual residence in India can apply for adoption of a child from India to CARA along with from the diplomatic mission of his country in India."

Then, the court queried Karina on a specific issue, "After the expiry of your visa in India, how do you propose to ensure travel for the adopted children to What is the surety that will recognise these children as part of your family and issue the visa?"

Her could not answer the query to the court's satisfaction. Karina initially filed a petition in the Delhi High Court, which was dismissed, and then she challenged it in the top court.

According to the Article 5 of the Hague Convention, the receiving country has to determine if the prospective parents are eligible and suited to adopt, ensure the prospective parents have been counseled and the child will be authorised to enter and reside permanently in the country.

Kanth argued that Karina's petition failed to confer with this article.

Though, Kanth contended that CARA conducted a home-study regarding Karin's eligibility as a prospective parent and she fared well. "Then, we allowed her to establish contact with the children, who are based in She met them many times and produced pictures with children establishing the bond," said Kanth.

The court observed that Karina has attached pictures in her petition and "it appears that the petitioner has built up a bond with the children who have also become very fond of the petitioner. Learned counsel appearing on behalf of the petitioner submits that the children know the petitioner as their mother. Admittedly, however, the children are not in pre-adoption foster care of the petitioner."

Dismissing Karina's petition the court noted that although it has sympathy for her, "but regret our inability to help her."

(can be contacted at sumit.s@ians.in)