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November 8, 2007

By Dr. Jane Aronson

I met my son Des for the first time in October of 2003. Well, it wasn’t a real meeting — just a video tape meeting. A dear friend who had adopted a child from Ethiopia wanted me to consider an adoption from that country and told me that I could see some nice waiting children on a video if I contacted the agency she used. I had no intention of doing such a thing and that was that. I did not call the agency.

One fall day, I received a video tape from that dear friend and I didn’t open the package. I knew what it was and didn’t dare. I was happy with one child, my partner, and my work and was afraid to make any changes. By about 1 a.m. the next day, I hadn’t opened the package, but had passed it by enough times to want it. Finally, I put the video tape into my TV and watched it by myself as my 3-year-old son, Ben, and my partner, Diana slept upstairs.

Mexican Officials to Sign International Agreement with IAC at Gala Event

Mexicos Sistema Nacional para el Desarollo Integral de la Familia (DIF) will sign agreement with the IAC to launch adoption management system pilot program in one of their 32 states

ATLANTA GA (PRWEB) September 24, 2003 -– On Saturday, September 27, 2003, representatives of the Mexicos Sistema Nacional para el Desarollo Integral de la Familia (DIF) will sign an agreement with the Intercountry Adoption Congress (IAC) to pilot an adoption information management system in one of the countrys 32 states. This historical event will take place during the IACs International Dove Ball at The Ritz-Carlton, Buckhead.

National DIF General Director Ana Teresa Aranda Orozco, General Subdirector Dr. Carlos Pérez López, and Project Coordinator Arturo Cornejo Moreno Valle will travel from Mexico City to Atlanta for this prestigious event. This milestone will mark the culmination of a relationship that began a year ago between the IAC and the DIF.

Georgia Governor Sonny Perdue and First Lady Mary Perdue, who are serving as Dove Ball honorary chairpersons, former Governor George Busbee and First Lady Mary Beth Busbee, Georgia State Senator Jeff Mullis, and Georgia Congressman Mac Collins, to name a few, will be on hand to witness this landmark agreement.

The IAC, a 501 (c) (3) non-profit human rights group, was formed to give orphans a strong advocate and to overhaul adoption systems badly in need of repair. Through a partnership with a technology company, the IAC has been granted a license for an adoption information management software which the organization can offer to government entities gratis.

Scandal threatens EU commissioners

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Scandal threatens EU commissioners

An investigation into the European Commission's statistical bureau - Eurostat - could lead to high-level resignations in the next few weeks, reports the BBC's Tim Franks in Brussels.

Dorte Schmidt-Brown is 37 years old and on indefinite sick leave.

Helping or hurting? Irish charities in Romania

Helping or hurting? Irish charities in Romania

Thu, Sep 4, 2003, 01:00

Madam, - The article by Anne McElhinney and Phelim McAleer on the impact of Irish aid on the crisis in Romania's state orphanages ("Helping or Hurting?", Weekend, August 30th) was interesting, if flawed. It is right that we question the spending and effectiveness of all aid funding, but any such questioning should be intelligent and should stem from a full understanding of the issues involved. Most problems in Romania's childcare system are far more complex than your article would have us believe.

The problems of the early 1990s have not gone away. Until recently, the government of Romania was using statistics and propaganda to deal with the issue, and it found willing co-propagandists among a few tame foreign journalists in Bucharest's café society.

The government had a simple way of dealing with the huge numbers in State care: re-categorise large segments of them, and they disappear from the statistics. It was a lot easier than applying resources to deal with the problem, and gullible people in key areas of politics and the media bought the charade.

Statistik- Partnerländer

Statistik


Die Länder, mit denen ICCO e.V. zur Zeit zusammenarbeitet, sind Vietnam, Bulgarien, Südafrika, Nepal, Haiti, Russland und Indien. Mit weiteren Ländern finden Verhandlungen über eine Zusammenarbeit statt.

2/3 der Bewerber haben ein Kind erhalten, etwa 1/3 der Bewerber scheidet aus dem Verfahren aus. (Beispiel: im Jahr 1999 gab es etwa 270 Bewerber-Ehepaare, die überprüft wurden; es kam zu 171 Vermittlungen)

Die Bewerber können also generell gute Hoffnung auf eine Vermittlung haben.

Seit 1998 hat ICCO e.V. insgesamt 798 Kinder aus verschiedenen Länder vermittelt. Im Jahre 1998 belief sich die Zahl der Auslandsadoptionen auf 44 Kinder, 1999 auf 171, 2000 auf 173, 2001 auf 181 und 2002 auf 229 Kinder.

ICCO e.V. hat im Jahr 2001 über 430.000.-DM, einschließlich Patenschaften,
gespendet.

Wenn Sie motiviert sind, mit einem Kind zu leben, es zu begleiten, zu fördern und zu lieben, sowie sich die Zusammenarbeit mit uns vorstellen können, so wenden Sie sich gern an uns.

Guatemala--February, 2003

Ethica is a non-profit education, assistance and advocacy group, which seeks to be an impartial voice for ethical adoption practices worldwide. In order to maintain our impartiality, Ethica does not accept monetary donations from agencies or other child placing entities, nor are any of our managing Board of Directors currently affiliated with adoption agencies. Ethica strives to develop organizational policy and recommendations based solely on the basic ethical principles that underscore best practices in adoption and speak to the best interest of children. Ethica believes that all children deserve permanent loving homes, preferably within their family of birth. When remaining with their birth families is not possible, and children cannot be adopted by families within their country of birth, intercountry adoption may be in the child's best interest.

Ethica supports the ideals embodied in the Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Co-operation in Respect of Intercountry Adoption. It is imperative that countries take measures to ensure that decisions about a child's future are made in their best interests and that adoptions take place in an environment that provides adequate safeguards to the children, and their families. It is equally vital that adoption professionals, both in the United States and abroad, continue to evaluate current adoption processes and identify areas where protections to children can improve.

On November 26, 2002 Guatemala ratified the Hague Convention, and the Convention is due to enter into force in Guatemala on March 1, 2003. In recent years, much attention has been focused on problems within the intercountry adoption process in Guatemala, and Ethica commends the Guatemalan government for the interest it has shown in improving its process. The process of bringing a country's adoption program into compliance with the Hague Convention can be quite daunting, as witnessed by the years-long implementation process undertaken by the United States. Crafting a system which simultaneously balances the pressing needs of children and creates a central adoption authority that conforms to international standards is difficult at best. It is, therefore, imperative that consideration be given to allowing adoptions to continue in the interim, provided that additional protections can be added to strengthen the current process.

There seem to be two divergent points of view regarding the current situation in Guatemala. In 2000, UNICEF commissioned the Latin American Institute for Education and Communication (ILPEC) to conduct a study of Adoption and the Rights of the Child in Guatemala. The report was reportedly designed to "help provide support for the Congress of the Republic of Guatemala by identifying those elements most essential to the formulation of a law on adoption." This report coupled with a report by the UNICEF Special Rapporteur on the sale of children, child prostitution and child pornography, Ms. Ofelia Calcetas-Santos, has been the source of many of the concerns regarding Guatemalan adoptions. In the conclusion of the ILPEC report, it states, "Until such time that an adoption law becomes a reality, it is recommended that all direct and private adoptions be suspended so as to favor the large number of institutionalized children."

On the opposite end of the spectrum are many attorneys and agencies that currently work within Guatemala to place children through direct and private adoptions. These entities emphatically disagree with much of the information in the ILPEC and UNICEF reports, and protest, quite convincingly, that the private adoption system provides much needed services to the children of Guatemala and that they undertake many of the social service functions that the State fails to provide. They also express understandable concern over the difficulties in realistically implementing a central adoption system within a country which lacks the infrastructure and resources needed to function adequately. It is also noted that DNA testing, which is required by the US Government, serves to ensure that one of the most serious allegations, that children are being kidnapped for adoption, is no longer a concern. Most adoption service providers involved in Guatemala favor a continuation of private and direct adoptions, and assert that the current system already contains protective mechanisms.

Displaced Children and Orphans Fund

USAID's Displaced Children and Orphans Fund supports programs that photo of Angolan mother carrying child. USAID/Lloyd Feinberghelp families and communities provide the necessary care, protection, and support for children in need:

Children affected by armed conflict

Street children

Children with disabilities

Children otherwise separated from appropriate care-giving situations

Prosecutors Probe Reported Corruption In Armenian Child Adoptions

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Prosecutors Probe Reported Corruption In Armenian Child Adoptions

15.08.2003
By Emil Danielyan
State prosecutors are investigating a recent RFE/RL report which exposed apparent government corruption in the adoption of Armenian children by foreigners, it emerged on Friday.

The story, which appeared on the web site of the RFE/RL Armenian Service on June 23, suggested that the adoption procedures involve thousands of dollars in informal expenditures, apparently bribes paid by adoptive parents and their agents to Armenian officials administering the process.

An official in the prosecutor’s office told RFE/RL that Prosecutor-General Aram Tamazian has instructed his subordinates to look into the matter and report their findings to him. The official said the order followed a written request sent to Tamazian by Social Security Minister Aghvan Vartanian who was apparently alarmed by the report.

It is not yet known whether the preliminary inquiry will result in a criminal case. The prosecutors may question some government officials involved in the foreign adoptions.

The report in question is based on information collected by Ara Manoogian, an Armenian-American based in Nagorno-Karabakh. Posing as a U.S. woman interested in adopting an Armenian child, he has communicated by-email with Americans knowledgeable about the issue. Several of them told him that the entire process cost them between $9,000 and $13,000 per child and that most of the expenses were bribes paid to local officials. They all acted through Yerevan-based mediators.

A foreign adoption in Armenia typically takes between four and six months and requires a chain of positive decisions by several government bodies. The most important of them is a special government commission made up of high-ranking officials, including the ministers of justice, education, health and social security.

Its day-to-day affairs are managed by Aram Karapetian, a senior member of Prime Minister Andranik Markarian’s staff. Interviewed by RFE/RL in June, he strongly denied that any government official might have accepted kickbacks in return for facilitating foreign adoptions.

The final decision to allow a foreign national to adopt an Armenian orphan is given by the full cabinet of ministers. Officials say the government made about 30 such decisions in the first half of this year.

Lawyers consider gay adoption rights

Lawyers consider gay adoption rights

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Lawyers consider gay adoption rights


By Bill Rankin, The Atlanta Journal-Constitution


SAN FRANCISCO - While national debate simmers over the issue of
same-sex marriage, the nation's largest legal group today will consider the
rights of gay and lesbian couples to adopt children.


In a vote scheduled for today, the American Bar Association's
governing body will vote on a resolution that applies to unmarried couples
who are either heterosexual or gay. It calls on the 410,000-member lawyer
group to support state laws and court rulings that permit joint adoptions
and second-parent adoptions by unmarried people.

'I was pregnant - and then my lover sold me and my baby'

Luljeta was young and in love. At 18, the young Albanian woman was pregnant and her parents had accepted her boyfriend, who said he ran a restaurant and always seemed to have lots of money. But when it came to the ninth month, everything changed. Luljeta was beaten and locked up for a month until one night her boyfriend bundled her into a dinghy, packed with 18 terrified young girls, heading across the Adriatic for Italy.

'There's no point crying now,' he screamed. 'We're going to sell the baby and you'll end up on the street.'

A couple, she learnt later, had put down a $2,000 deposit for her baby. Her boyfriend was delivering the goods.

Luljeta - who dares not reveal her real name - is one of a few cases now emerging in Italy that suggest human traffickers, no longer satisfied with their income from enslaved prostitutes, are impregnating them and selling their babies.

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