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China should ease pain from one-child policy repercussions

In 1992, I was abandoned as a baby and found in a public place in Hefei, China. For almost two years, I lived in an orphanage and with a foster mother. Then my adoptive mother flew me to Sacramento, California, where I grew up.

My existence here in the United States is due to China’s infamous one-child policy, which was imposed for more than three decades before it was eased to a two-child policy in 2015.

I am one of more than 90,000 children adopted from China and raised in the US between 1992 and 2018.

About 40,000 other children went to families in the Netherlands, Spain and Britain.

In her devastating poem, One Art, Elizabeth Bishop writes of loss in a way I relate to. She describes misplacing stuff like keys and a watch, but also losing things a little less trivial: names and places; rivers, cities and continents; and finally, that mysterious “you.”

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Verdens bedste adoptionssystem bliver til verdens dyreste kontrolsystem!

The world's best adoption system becomes the world's most expensive control system!

Chairman Michael Paaske has written the following chronicle for Jyllandsposten: https://jyllands-posten.dk/debat/kronik/ECE11800889/world-best-adoptionsystem- becoming-to-world-pricest-controlsystem/

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From the world's best adoption system to the world's most expensive control system

By Michael Paaske, President of Adoption & Society

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‘Gekleurde adoptiekinderen zeggen zich een bounty te voelen: bruin van buiten, wit van binnen’

Let adoptive children eat with them in the pot, they will feel at home the quickest, was the idea for a long time. Meanwhile, people think differently. Femmie Juffer, herself the mother of two adopted children, missed good tips and advice and therefore wrote a book herself.

It is the late 70s when Femmie Juffer decides to adopt two girls with her husband: Shira from Bangladesh and Elina from Peru. Juffer still remembers how people at that time could almost give an enchanting advice: just give them food to eat kale, even though they are used to rice.

"With the knowledge of today you could call that color blind," says Juffer, who is not only an adoptive parent but also a special professor of adoption and foster care at Leiden University. ,, It was well-intended. With that statement they wanted to prevent the children from becoming confused about where they belonged. But it is also an untenable idea: adoptive children sooner or later find out that they are a bit different from the rest.

Identity

Colored adoptive and foster children often say they feel bounty: brown on the outside, white on the inside

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