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Helvedet i Klarup

Hell in Klarup

I remember from my childhood the stories of the Brems from Klarup, who adopted a total of nine children from abroad. Some of them were children of German women and African-American men who had been posted as soldiers in Germany. Ole Brems, who was a psychiatrist, and Lise Brems, was first a sunbeam story that appeared in the local newspaper and in the weekly magazines - think that so many children with such an uncertain fate could be saved by two Danish community backers. And I remember a TV interview with a lady named Tytte Botfeldt (that name was so remarkable in itself that I didn't forget it). She was dying, but could still tell of her efforts to found the Danish branch of Terre des Hommes. This interview also emerged as a sunbeam story.

A few years later, the Brems couple reappeared in the media. Three of the nine children in Klarup had died because of the systematic cruelty of the adoptive parents. What happened next to the other six kids, I don't know. But because these were children in North Jutland at my own age, it started many thoughts.

There is an interesting article in Information on Adoption and how the countries that have previously delivered many adoptive children to Europe and North America are no longer so willing to do so. A much-talked-about TV show about the fate of two Ethiopian adoptive children focused on adoptions from abroad for some time. And earlier this year came the book Child Import, which unveils how adoptions from abroad began. It is a book I want to read - the whole story of the cruel married couple in Klarup I have thought about occasionally.

It was Tytte Botfeldt who had helped to place adoptive children with the Brems family. According to Jyllands-Posten, when she was dying (maybe it was in the TV interview?) She should have stated that

End of adoption from abroad: Danish adoption agency in major financial problems

End of adoption from abroad: Danish adoption agency in major financial problems

The country's only international adoption agency has so far stopped bringing in new adopters.

The adoption agency DIA no longer takes in adopters from year-end. (© (c) DR)

BY EMIL SØNDERGÅRD INGVORSEN

PM. 7.10

Adoptions to LGBT people in England reaches record high while overall number continues to decline

The number of adoptions by LGBT+ couples has reached a record high, according to the Department for Education, while the overall number of adoptions has dropped for the fourth year in a row.

490 adoptions were to same-sex couples in England in 2018/19, which broke the previous record of 450 and means that at least one in seven adoptions were to LGBT+ people this year.

Statistics do not record whether single adopters are LGBT+, or whether couples are LGBT+ if they are in an opposite-sex relationship, so it is likely the number is actually higher.

Of the 490 adoptions to same-sex couples, 240 were to married, 100 were in a civil partnership and 150 were same-sex couples not married or in a civil partnership.

In contrast, the total number of adoptions in England in 2019 fell for the fourth consecutive year to 3,570, despite the number of looked after children in England continuing to rise.

Research into Family Origins

Bill 113, An Act to amend the Civil Code and other legislative provisions as regards adoption and the disclosure of information (2017, Chapter 12), was adopted and received assent on June 16, 2017. The amendments to the confidentiality rules regarding the identity of adopted persons and their parents of origin came into effect on June 16, 2018. For more information, visit the section Legislative amendments.

The information on this page does not replace that of the official legislation.

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International law

Background of international adoption

Review of child adoption process sought to curb trafficking of infants

MANILA, Philippines — The alarming prevalence of “baby-for-sale” cases should prompt a

comprehensive review of the adoption process and anti-trafficking laws in the Philippines, detained

Sen. Leila de Lima said Wednesday.

“Assessments from experts point out that one of the problem areas that exacerbate the baby-for-sale

trade is the adoption system in the Philippines,” De Lima, chairperson of the Senate Committee on

Generatie Tanara Romania

For over 15 years we’re working with the International Social Service, we started as a collaborator and then we went to being a correspondent for Romania.

Through the programs developed with the International Social Service we primarily try to help the unaccompanied minors found in various Western European countries and beyond.

We try to bring them home, when possible, mediate a reconciliation with his family and to offer alternatives to study or work here in Romania. It seems simple, but actually is really not in reality. It’s very much work. Only until now we had hundreds of cases of children who reached adulthood returned to Romania that once here felt like strangers in their own country.

Also through SSI we managed to successfully answer to children who reached adulthood now looking for their Romanian parents who have given them for international adoption decades ago.

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Het afstaan van een kind is een zeer ingrijpende gebeurtenis

The suffering of distance mothers and adopted children must teach us the danger of normative pressure in the event of unintended pregnancy, says Astrid Werdmuller of Fiom.

Astrid Werdmuller December 4, 2019, 11:32

Hans Nijhuis asks (Opinion, November 23): "Can a bridge be built between abortion and adoption? Abortion less often, having children born and having them adopted by partners who would love to have their own child. "

In 2007 such a sound came in the news, then from politics. The government felt that women should be more often made aware of the possibility of adoption instead of abortion. Both proposals testify to little knowledge about unintended pregnancy and about distance for adoption.

The suffering of distance mothers and adopted children must teach us the danger of normative pressure in the event of unintended pregnancy, says Astrid Werdmuller of Fiom.