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After nearly five years of searching, a village in Quang Binh is finally getting answers about the fate of 13 children

After nearly five years of searching, a village in Quang Binh is finally getting answers about the fate of 13 children


A Ruc mother in Quang Binh Province holds up photos of her two children. She claims a local center sent them out of the country without her consent.

The Italian International Adoption Commission has pledged to cooperate with Vietnamese authorities in reviewing accusations from an ethnic minority community that a welfare and education center conned them out of 13 of their children.

Without their knowledge, the families claimed, their children were sent abroad for adoption back in 2006.

The accusations were initially dismissed by local authorities.

Last year, a UNICEF-commissioned report brought their allegations to light once again. The report cites a Danish anthropologist working in the area as saying that the children had been adopted by American and Italian couples.

Late last year, Quang Binh Provincial authorities issued an apology to the Ruc parents.

Since then, the Italian Embassy has reviewed specific information regarding five of these children and has confirmed that four are in Italy.

The US Embassy has refused to confirm or deny these allegations, citing privacy rights.

The fate of the other nine remains a mystery, for now.

Last week, Italian officials said that the adoptions were conducted in a legitimate fashion.

“We emphasize that the dossiers on the thirteen children, whose names we got only in December 2010, have been thoroughly investigated,” said Daniela Bacchetta, vice president of the Italian Commission for International Adoption. “Even today, they appear to be flawless.”

Despite her confidence in the legitimacy of the adoptions, Bacchetta said the case remains open.

“Should the outcome of the investigation carried out by the Vietnamese authorities confirm the assumptions of irregularities, we would agree on the steps to take with the Vietnamese Central Authority,” she said.

Earlier this month, Thanh Nien Weekly reported that the birthparents of 13 Ruc children in the north-central province of Quang Binh had come forward and claimed that they had been deceived by the employees of a provincial assistance center.

The parents, most of whom are impoverished and illiterate, claimed that representatives from the center had offered to educate and care for their children in a nearby town.

As a result, they turned them over in early 2006.

Six months later, they claimed, the kids were gone and no one would tell them where they were.

The center director Le Thi Thu Ha recently told Vietnamese media sources that all 13 children were turned over to an Italian adoption agency.

The Sai Gon Giai Phong newspaper quoted Ha as saying that all of the children were being brought up in Italy, mostly around the southern city of Naples.

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Dr. Peter Bille Larsen worked in Quang Binh in the late 1990s. In 2008, he says, he alerted Vietnamese authorities and embassies of the parents’ complaints.

Larsen, familiar with the Ruc community, helped deliver specific information and documents regarding five children to Vietnamese authorities in 2008.

The Italian authorities reviewed these recently, and confirmed that four were living in Italy. The fifth, they say, must be somewhere else.

The UNICEF report released last November claimed that some of the children had also been adopted by American couples. Larsen also said that American adoption agencies were operating in the region in 2006, though he could not confirm whether or not the children were in the US.

In 2008, the US and Vietnam agreed not to renew their bilateral adoption agreement.

However, US embassy officials could not confirm nor deny that any of the thirteen children had been adopted by American couples.

“Due to privacy rights, we are not able to release information about US citizen adoptive parents or adoptees from the Quang Binh Province,” a US State Department official said.

Lorenzo Angeloni, the Italian Ambassador to Vietnam, confirmed that the Italian Commission for International Adoption (CAI) is conducting its own assessment of the issue.

Ambassador Angeloni said that five Ruc children were processed by the Italian organization.

“CAI is well aware of the investigations regarding five children belonging to the Ruc minority (please note that only five children were adopted through Italian organization[s]) and is conducting assessment on the matter,” he wrote in an email.

Bacchetta claimed that only four children were adopted by Italian parents and that all related procedures were conducted with “flawless, comprehensive and conclusive” documents.

“No trace of the fifth child could be found and hence he was not adopted by any Italian couple,” she said.

Asked to clarify a possible contradiction between her and Angeloni’s statements about the number of children adopted, Bacchetta said: “I confirm my previous statements [ ... ] Ambassador Angeloni’s statement had a more general approach, based on our comments to the UNICEF/ISS draft, without the update I have thoroughly explained.”

Bacchetta said the Italian authorities were surprised by the figure, thirteen.

“Only after reading the report drafted by the International Social Service on behalf of UNICEF did we learn that the procedures that allegedly caused concern involved 13 children,” she said.

However, Larsen questioned this assessment.

He said documentation sent to Italian authorities included official letters by the social authorities saying the children would be returned to families “upon improved conditions.”

“The so-called letters giving all rights to the center, on the contrary, were handwritten, undated (except for the year 2005) – and signed by illiterate parents,” he said.

He said testimonies from birthparents have revealed a lack of parental consent. They discovered that their children were adopted after approaching the center, and in some cases, birthdate change.

“How this can be considered flawless is still a mystery or is this really representative of businessas-usual in the adoption system? I hope not.”

Larsen said that from 2008, authorities had been encouraged to undertake thorough investigations of all suspected Ruc cases (estimated then to be around 13) as well as others undertaken in the province. He said countries with active adoption agencies in the province, including both the US and Italy, have been encouraged to investigate all adoption cases undertaken in the province.

“There is a risk and concern that the Ruc may not have been the only parents experiencing such kinds of irregularities. We will soon learn about the true extent of these practices in the concerned center and province from a more comprehensive investigation,” he said.

Amidst all the systematic irregularities revealed in the case, it is most important to consider that after all these years, Ruc birthparents are still hoping to see their children again. “The case should not get lost in bureaucratic corridors and legal procedures,” he said.

 

After 18 months, adoptions at Pune's Preet Mandir resume

After 18 months, adoptions at Pune's Preet Mandir resume

Published: Saturday, Feb 5, 2011, 10:11 IST

By Bhagyashree Kulthe | Place: Pune | Agency: DNA

A ray of hope has dawned upon a number of orphans in Preet Mandir, whose adoptions had been held up for the last one-and-a-half years. On Thursday, a 2-year-old girl was finally united with her South African adoptive parents, bringing joy all around.

This was the first adoption at Preet Mandir after the Bombay high court’s green signal to resume the process, which had been halted for many months following a Central Bureau of Investigation (CBI) probe against the adoption agency.

Government simplifies adoption procedure

Government simplifies adoption procedure

By: Hungary Around the Clock
2011-02-04 09:42

The cabinet expects simplified adoption procedures and the introduction of related child care benefit to lead to a rise in adoptions, social affairs state secretary Miklós Soltész told reporters on Thursday.

 

Child care benefit for those who adopt children up to age ten has been available since January 1.

 

One of the adoptive parents may stay at home with the child for six months even if the child is beyond the age at which maternity benefits would be paid.

 

The number of adoptions has fallen in the past ten years. At present about 2,000 couples are waiting to adopt babies.

 

These changes are expected to persuade more women to give birth and give up their babies for adoption instead of having abortions, Soltész said. He added that abortion cannot be banned, nor is it worth banning it.

 

He confirmed that no changes are planned to regulations on adoptions for same-sex couples.

'Stel mishandelt jarenlang adoptiekinderen'

'Stel mishandelt jarenlang adoptiekinderen'

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DORDRECHT - De politie heeft deze week een echtpaar uit Hendrik-Ido-Ambacht aangehouden die hun geadopteerde kinderen jarenlang zouden hebben mishandeld.

 

Het gaat om een 58-jarige man en zijn 53-jarige vrouw. Dat heeft het Openbaar Ministerie (OM) in Dordrecht vrijdag bekendgemaakt.

Het echtpaar adopteerde de kinderen eind jaren negentig. De mishandeling van de nu 18-jarige jongen en het 16-jarige meisje zouden vrijwel direct zijn begonnen. Van het meisje zou onder andere een arm zijn gebroken.

 

De jongen werd in 2010 in een opvanginstelling geplaatst. Daar kwam de zaak uit toen de jongen vertelde over de mishandelingen. Het meisje was toen ook al uit huis.

 

Aangifte

 

De politie startte het onderzoek, nadat de jongen aangifte had gedaan. Volgens het OM kwamen bij het gezin verscheidene hulpverleningsinstanties over de vloer.

De man en de vrouw zijn donderdag voorgeleid aan de rechter-commissaris. Die besloot dat het tweetal nog zeker twee weken blijft vastzitten.

Perfekte Eltern für das Kind - und nicht umgekehrt

Perfect parents for the child - and not vice versa Würselen families found their sons and daughters in Romanian orphanages. Interested parties must adjust to some bureaucratic hurdles.

BY OUR EDITOR RALPH ALLGAIER

AACHEN.

Suddenly everything went fast: on Mondays the call came, Marika and Günther Kreutz sat in the car on Tuesdays, and on Thursdays the couple from Wuerselen in the Romanian town of Temesvar held their future daughter in their arms: Georgiana, two years and three months old. A moment that both had long been working for.

With Karin and Markus Schroeder, the events were similar: As soon as the message was received, they made their way to a Romanian village called Babadag - on roads that eventually became more and more lonely and hickeliger, until finally the children's home was reached , Here the Schroeders picked up their son Dominik Vasile.

Sierra Leone parents demand kids' return

Sierra Leone parents demand kids' return
2011-02-02 12:05
 
Freetown - Scores of relatives of a group of 29 children whom they say were illegally adopted from Sierra Leone 14 years ago stormed the children's ministry Tuesday to demand the return of their offspring.

Families chanted "we want our kids back" and "return our children fast", five months after government pledged to get to the bottom of trafficking claims through a commission which has yet to begin its work.

A weeping Bintu Koroma said her six-year-old child was taken from her on the pretext of protecting her from the war that was then raging in Makeni, in the north of the country.

"I am fed up with getting no clear detail as to what has happened to my dear Posseh. Nobody is telling us the truth and it is only the government that can now help us to get to the truth of the matter."

The government promised in September that the creation of a three-man fact-finding committee headed by a high court judge would make a fresh attempt to clear up the case.

The commission would investigate the incident in which some 40 parents overall claim that their children were taken to the United States for adoption without their consent by a local NGO, Help a Needy Child International (HANCI).

HANCI was established in 1996, setting up child survival centres in Freetown and Makeni where it offered services of schooling from kindergarten to tertiary level.

When civil war broke out, parents sent their children to the organisation for protection and after the war, which ended in 2002, parents allege when they came to fetch their children they were told they had been adopted.

HANCI has repeatedly claimed the adoptions were legal.

New Social Minister Denis Sandy said the commission was being held up due to logistical reasons.

"None of these people would frame a story that each of their 29 children were taken for adoption illegally and insist that their children be returned," he said.
-         AFP

Blog: Happy Birthday Berhanu and Divine Appointment (meeting Birth Mother)

Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Happy Birthday Berhanu and Divine Appointment


So Berhanu had another birthday....only five months after his last birthday. Are you are wondering how that is possible? Well, there was quite a lot of confusion about how old Berhanu was at his adoption in March 2005. He seemed the size of three year old, but acted developmentally older. We went back and forth...is he 3? 4? almost 5? When he turned six (or so we thought) he still had no signs of losing any baby teeth and his body was not that of a six year old...so we had him turn six again the nest year. This past August he turned eight years old and that is what his U.S. birth certificate says. Then in November when Mike and Yasab traveled to Ethiopia to bring home Towabech...they met Berhanu's birth mom! This was a miracle for sure. Mike and Yasab visited Kidane Mehret (KM) the orphanage where several of our children came from. The Sisters who run KM were overjoyed to see Mike and see Yasab all grown up and beautiful. As they were hugging and sharing cheek kisses..... an Sister L. asked Mike if they wanted to meet Berhanu's birth mom?! At Berhanu's adoption I had searched and searched for any information about Berhnau's birth parents . I admit we gave up on ever finding them. Now here was Sister L. telling Mike that Berhanu's birth mother was named Tigist. And she worked near by KM and had shown up recently asking for any news of Berhanu! The Sisters sent someone to tell her that Mike and Yasab were there at KM. Soon Tigist was running up the KM steps to meet them! It was amazing. Not only did God work out the timing for Mike and Yasab to visit KM when the Sisters were there, and the Sister who knew where Tigist was could send for Tigist so Mike and Yasab were able to to be able to meet her.... God also worked out many other details to answer many many of His children's prayers. Yasab who was adopted in January 2004 at age 10 is now almost 18. She lost her ability to speak and understand Amharic after she was adopted by us. Yasab had prayed to be able to understand more Amharic on her trip back to Ethiopia with Mike. God gave ALL her Amharic back to her! She feels it was especially for Tigist....Berhanus' birth mother. You see this lovely woman Tigist is a devote Christian. She loves and trusts God and has prayed for this day when she could find Berhnanu's adoptive family. She and Berhanu's birth father loved baby Berhanu very much. After he was diagnosed with eye cancer they did everything possible for him. He had the surgery to remove his eye. But they had no more money to pay for the chemo. At some point Tigist became a single mom. His family made the very difficult decision to place him at KM. KM was able to provide for him to get the 5 courses of chemo he needed for his rentinoblastoma. Tisgist had prayed and prayed that he would survive his cancer and that someday he would be adopted and have a new family that would love him like she did. Tigist continued day by day and through the years to pray for her child Berhanu. Her prayers were not only for a Christian family for him but also that God would somehow get word back to her that her little boy was okay. She knew that it was a long shot she would ever have any contact with his adoptive family but she asked God for that as a special "personal" request. So I will tell you that Mike and Yasab could share with me that Tigist is EXACTLY like Berhanu. Not only does she look exactly like him she acts exactly like him. Guess his ADHD hyperactive behavior is not caused from all his chemo as we thought! Tigist is constantly moving and talking a mile a minute! Maybe she knew time was short with Yasab and Mike and she needed to make sure to relay all the information possible to them before they left. She shared amazing things. Things that will be ever so precious to Berhanu about his life before he came to us. Yasab, with her God given fluency in Amharic was able to understand and translate it all for Mike. When they walked Tigist back to her work they made plans to meet the next day for lunch. The next day they met for hours talking and getting to know each other. When Yasab shares about that time she still can not speak of it without choking up from the joy of how God answered this woman's prayers. Both Mike and Yasab know this trip and chance meeting was not for them or ever Berhanu, but for Tigist....this young woman who LOVES the Lord and trusted Him to save her baby. God gave Tigist hours with Berhanu's new family where she could learn all about him and be assured his family they were also believers and that Berhanu was being raised to love and serve God. One cool thing was that I had created a nice photo album for Mike to give the Sisters at KM with pics of our kids who came from KM. Many of those photos were of Berhanu. Mike gave that album to Tigist. We will continue to send her photos and letters from Berhanu. I know that in the next few years we will be taking Berhanu back to visit her (along with our other Ethiopian kids old enough for that kind of trip) I just LOVE when things happen to show me just how much God adores His children to answer prayers. She didn't "need" to meet our family face to face...but God worked it out because he loves her so much. Just because He is that kind of awesome God....in charge of making dreams come true and working out all the details.




You wonder how this ties into a "Birthday" post? Tigist also told Mike and Yasab Berhanu's real birthday. She was super clear, no doubts about it, no confusion over Ethiopian/American calender. Berhanu's birthday in January 19th and he turned 9 years old. This is also the same day as the birthday of one of his favorite sister's Haiminot age 20. So Berhanu had another birthday five months after his last one this past August. We will have to go to court to get it changed on birth certificate. That is just one of those minor details to add to my list of things it takes me years to accomplish..

And the BIG reason for this post...Happy Happy 9th Birthday Berhanu! You are a wonderfully sweet and brilliant son Berhanu and I am so thrilled I get to be your mom!

Efforts are under way in Oklahoma to find a home for Liberian-born sisters

Efforts are under way in Oklahoma to find a home for Liberian-born sisters

At least three people have expressed an interest in adopting the four girls adopted by Ardee and Penny Tyler from a Liberian orphanage in 2005. The Tylers relinquished custody of the girls after a lengthy court battle and felony convictions for child abuse.

BY ANN KELLEY 0

Published: January 31, 2011

FAIRVIEW — Four sisters adopted from a Liberian orphanage are orphans again, but not for long.

A quest to reunite Nepal's lost children with their families

A quest to reunite Nepal's lost children with their families

By MEGHAN MITCHELL, QMI AGENCY

Last Updated: January 31, 2011 12:00am

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Conor Grennan is pictured with some of the children from the Little Princes Children’s Home. (Supplied Photo)