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25-02-2010 - Aanvulling op nieuwsbericht Adoptie uit Ethiopië, 19-02

25-02-2010 - Aanvulling op nieuwsbericht Adoptie uit Ethiopië, 19-02 Naar aanleiding van het bericht van vrijdag is er een aantal vragen bij Wereldkinderen binnengekomen die wij graag willen beantwoorden. Wat is de reden dat Wereldkinderen nogmaals onderzoek wil verrichten, als de gevolgde procedure tot nu toe als betrouwbaar werd gezien en het Ministerie van Justitie dit niet eist? Het onderzoek waar hier op gedoeld wordt, is de controle van de achtergrondgegevens van de kinderen in het fosterhuis, waar de hele tijd al sprake van is, in samenwerking met het Ministerie van Women Affairs in Ethiopie. Het Ministerie van Justitie in Nederland heeft toegestemd in het hervatten van de procedures onder de voorwaarde dat bovenstaand onderzoek (controle) per dossier is afgerond. Waarom kiest Wereldkinderen ervoor om dit onderzoek samen met MOWA uit te voeren? Het Ministerie van Women Affairs fungeert als centrale autoriteit en is daarom vanzelfsprekend betrokken Waarom heeft Wereldkinderen niet al eerder zelf onderzoek gedaan? Gedeeltelijk had Wereldkinderen al zelf onderzoek gedaan en deze kinderen zijn inmiddels voorgesteld voor adoptie en naar Nederland gekomen. Na het bezoek aan Ethiopie met het Ministerie van Justitie, Stichting Afrika en Wereldkinderen is afgesproken met Mowa dat de controle van de achtergrondgegevens van de kinderen die nu nog in het fosterhuis van Wereldkinderen verblijven met hen samen gedaan zou worden. Stichting Afrika had voor deze tijd al deze controles al afgerond. Wereldkinderen heeft een groter aantal kinderen in het tehuis. Wat is de geschatte omvang en tijdsplanning van het onderzoek? Vanuit Ethiopie is bekend geworden dat alle dossiers van de nog aanwezige kinderen in het fosterhuis zijn opgehaald. Hier is uit af te leiden dat de controle is begonnen. Er is geen indicatie te geven hoe lang dit gaat duren. Er is op tal van momenten aangegeven dat de verkiezingen voor vertragingen kunnen zorgen. Zodra er nieuws is, zullen wij via de website hierover berichten. Worden er vanaf nu weer nieuwe kinderen in het tehuis opgenomen? Op dit moment ligt de prioriteit bij de controle van de in het tehuis verblijvende kinderen en worden er geen kinderen in het tehuis opgenomen. http://www.wereldkinderen.nl/site.php?id=nl_news&nieuws_id=329

Arib wants clarity on adoption from Ethiopia

Arib wants clarity on adoption from Ethiopia
11 January, oral questions - Fake adoption papers and parents who under false pretentions relinquish their children. Arib (PvdA) aks clarity about these 'horrible' adoption practices in Ethiopia. According to minister Opstelten (Justice) there is no reason to interfere: "Each signal of child trafficking is reason for investigation."
Parents in Ethiopia get the promiss that their children will get a good future and come back when they are 18 year. The Brandpunt-broadcast of 9 January reported on adoption practices in Ethiopia. That is child trafficking under the pretext of adoption, means Arib. If it were up to her, minister Opstelten should investigate into such practices. But for the minister there is no reason to reconsider the adoption relation between the Netherlands and Ethiopia, as extra measures have been taken.

 

Arib wil opheldering over adoptie uit Ethiopië
11 januari, mondelinge vragen - Vervalste adoptiepapieren en ouders die onder valse voorwendsels hun kinderen afstaan. Arib (PvdA) vraagt opheldering over deze "vreselijke" adoptiepraktijken in Ethiopië. Volgens minister Opstelten (Justitie) is er geen reden om in te grijpen: "Elk signaal van kinderhandel is aanleiding voor onderzoek."
Ouders in Ethiopië krijgen de belofte dat hun kinderen een goede toekomst krijgen en weer terug mogen als zij 18 zijn. De Brandpunt-uitzending van 9 januari maakte gewag van adoptiepraktijken in Ethiopië. Dat is kinderhandel onder het mom van adoptie, meent Arib. Als het aan haar ligt, stelt minister Opstelten een onderzoek in naar dergelijke praktijken. Maar voor de minister is er geen aanleiding om de adoptierelatie tussen Nederland en Ethiopië te heroverwegen, omdat er al extra maatregelen zijn genomen.

Comment Gerard Lucon (Handicap International)

Par Gerard Lucon (xxx.xxx.xxx.143) 1er avril 13:08
Gerard Lucon

c’est marrant je suis de la même generation mais je n’ai pas grandit avec comme référence l’ex-pétainiste arriviste tueur de grévistes et d’algériens, l’infâme françois mitterrand

de plus avoir Delors comme référence est une démonstration du caractère du bonhomme, Jacques Delors, ami de François de Combret, lui même ancien conseiller de Giscard d’Estaing, banque Lazard, exporteur d’enfants roumains vers la France jusqu’au moment où la Roumanie a stoppé le trafic.... et membre de l’Opus Dei

De fréquentable sur les 3 idoles, il ne reste que De Gaulle ..... mais quand "gant de crin" a-t-il été gaulliste ?????

vous oubliez dans sa biographie la rougeur de son visage qui n’est pas due à une couperose avancée mais au fait qu’il continue à se maquiller avec un gant de crin

et le plus grave dans sa triste carrière, qu’il ait fait 4 enfants dans la ségolénitude, prenant ainsi le risque d’une multiplication incontrolée sur notre territoire

PNG orphanage reports buying baby

PNG orphanage reports buying baby

 

The PNG orphanage decided to buy the baby to give it a better chance in life. [www.sxc.hu]

Created: Wed, 18 May 08:02:40 UTC+0200 2011

An orphanage in Papua New Guinea's highlands says it has bought a baby in Enga province for about $US124.

The Bible Faith Outreach charity's orphanage director, Rosa Kepo, told Radio Australia's Pacific Beat a woman who had bought the baby boy from his mother sold him to them.

Ms Kepo says she is not sure if it is illegal to sell babies in Papua New Guinea.

She says the orphanage decided to buy the baby to give it a better chance in life.

"The people who bought this baby, they don't have a job. I know that and they would have not looked after the baby and the baby would still be on the streets again, if that baby grew up," Ms Kepo said.

"But otherwise I am sure that the baby would not survive, they would want to resell it again."

The original asking price for the baby was $US32, but the price inflated to $US118 when BFO became involved.

Rosa Kepo says babies are sold regularly in the area.

"It's hard for women to look after babies. Some are very poor, some are high school children who have unwanted babies so that's what they do," she said.

She says if more jobs were created people would not be as likely to sell their babies.

"If there is more jobs created and people can look after their families with a better income then I don't think this would be going on," Ms Kepo said.

"I really want the government to see what I'm doing, because we are raising these children ... so they can do something with their lives, not just going on the streets."

Ces blouses blanches qui s'occupent de bébés abandonnés

Ces blouses blanches qui s'occupent de bébés abandonnés

Photo : un couloir de l'institut Gustave Roussy, à Villejuif

(De Rocourt, Belgique)

Abandonner son enfant à la naissance, le confier à l'adoption. Dans de nombreux cas, c'est au sein des services hospitaliers que ces futures mères viennent trouver refuge. Comment le personnel de l'hôpital gère-t-il moralement de telles situations ? Reportage dans l'une des plus grandes maternités de Belgique : l'hôpital St-Vincent de Rocourt.

Après plus de vingt années au service social de l'hôpital St-Vincent de Rocourt, Marie Daenen connaît bien la question :

« Même si les cas d'abandon sont rares [un ou deux par an pour l'hôpital St-Vincent, ndlr], on tente toujours de déceler la véritable raison qui pousse ces futures mères à s'orienter vers une telle décision, car il s'agit parfois d'un problème financier ou autre que nous pouvons aider à résoudre.

Le tout pour moi est de rester à ma place, de rester dans la neutralité, et je dois dire que je n'ai jamais de difficultés à y rester. Nous sommes formés pour ça. »

 

La formation du personnel encadrant serait un facteur déterminant dans la gestion personnelle de ces cas délicats d'abandon d'enfants. De manière infaillible ? L'assistante sociale précise :

« Je travaille exclusivement autour de la maman, mes collègues infirmières sont plus autour du bébé confié à l'adoption, un peu comme des mères de substitution. C'est vrai qu'il est plus aisé de rester dans un espace de travail neutre quand on est en contact avec la mère et non en contact avec le bébé. »

 

La formation ne suffirait donc pas. Selon Marie Daenen, la confrontation avec le nouveau-né pousserait plus facilement ces femmes, ultra majoritaires dans le milieu professionnel infirmier, à déroger quelque peu à la sacro-sainte distance avec le patient. Aussi jeune soit-il.

Vie privée, vie clinique

Derrière les portes du service des grossesses à hauts risques de l'hôpital, Sophie a du mal à parler de son vécu avec ces mères et ces enfants au destin particulier.

« Je ne sais pas si je peux vous parler de mon expérience moi… Parce que, vous savez, il y a des choses que monsieur tout-le-monde ne peut pas comprendre. Par exemple, que je puisse aimer mon travail alors qu'il arrive que je sois confrontée à quatre bébés morts en une semaine. »

 

Vous savez, je ne suis pas là pour juger ces mères, je fais mon travail, point barre. Mais c'est vrai qu'au début, je ne prenais pas assez de distance et j'ai vite compris que dans ce métier, il faut faire abstraction de son opinion pour survivre. »

 

A la différence des assistantes sociales, il semble que la formation que reçoivent les infirmières pendant leurs études ne soit pas suffisante pour leur permettre de rester au mieux dans un espace neutre face au patient. Seule l'expérience de terrain donnerait à ces femmes les outils nécessaires à la construction d'une distance professionnelle entre elles et le nouveau-né.

Un métier à sensations fortes

« Je ne suis pas un robot. C'est difficile de ne pas juger une mère lorsque l'on procède à l'accouchement, surtout quand on est soi-même maman. Ce sont aussi parfois des accouchements très difficiles émotionnellement pour moi.

Je me souviens de ce cas, il y a une dizaine d'années, où la maman voulait être endormie durant l'accouchement pour ne pas en garder de souvenirs. Quand la tête du bébé est apparue, une autre infirmière et moi avons dû appuyer sur le ventre de la mère pour l'en faire sortir le plus rapidement possible. »

 

A moitié cachée derrière une armoire à pharmacie, Myriam, infirmière au quartier d'accouchement depuis près de dix-huit ans, parle avec lucidité de son métier et des émotions qu'ont provoquées en elle certains actes d'abandon marquants.

« Mais ce qui caractérise pour moi toutes ces femmes, c'est leur courage et non leur lâcheté. Un lien s'est créé entre elles et l'enfant durant neuf mois et elles vont devoir vivre avec ce manque durant tout le reste de leur vie. »

 

Un cocon pour poupons

Placés au centre néo-natal après leur naissance, ces nouveau-nés confiés à l'adoption sont pris en charge par une infirmière de référence qui va les cajoler et réaliser un album photos rempli de commentaires qui sera emporté avec le bébé vers la pouponnière ou vers la famille d'accueil.

Une fois de plus, les infirmières de ce service ne cachent pas leur attachement pour ces bébés abandonnés. C'est le cas de Dorothée, rencontrée au 5e étage du grand bâtiment.

« Quand on a tenu un de ces bébés dans ses bras des heures durant, qu'on l'a promené dans les couloirs, qu'on l'a nourri, c'est dur de le voir partir, mais c'est comme ça. »

 

Sylvie, sa collègue depuis 7 ans, ajoute :

« Il est même déjà arrivé qu'une collègue entame une procédure d'adoption pour un de ces bébés dont on s'était occupé. Nous l'avions en tout cas énormément encouragée. »

 

Humains et généreux, ces hommes et ces femmes s'investissent de corps et d'esprits auprès de ces bébés délaissés. Exténués par leur travail et confrontés à des cas où la morale personnelle est parfois mise à rude épreuve, ces professionnels de la santé peuvent vaciller.

Ce qui leur manque ? Un lieu de parole qui puisse servir d'exutoire. A défaut, c'est encore auprès de leurs collègues qu'ils recherchent une oreille compréhensive.

‘I was made to give my baby away’

‘I was made to give my baby away’

Seema Shinde tried to commit suicide on Tuesday. She says her in-laws rejected her as she was of lower caste, her husband tricked her into giving baby to adoption centre

 

Nadeem Inamdar
     

 

Posted On Thursday, April 21, 2011 at 01:41:15 AM

 

 

Seema and Prashant at their wedding in Alandi

Around 7.30 pm on Tuesday, when Seema Devidas Shinde stood contemplating the dark waters of the river Pavana over the railing of the M M Vidyamandir bridge near Kalewadi in Chinchwad, there seemed little else to do, except jump. A few minutes ago, her husband Prashant had categorically told her that their marriage was unacceptable to his parents as she belonged to a lower caste. She had already given her four-month-old baby to an adoption centre.

Happily, Seema’s depths of despair didn’t find the river’s rocky bottom, thanks to the timely intervention of an alert bystander. Her rescuer then took her to the Kalewadi police chowky, where yet another ugly episode of the silent battle of the castes was recorded in the station diary.

Sometime in 2009, Seema told police, she met Prashant Kadam at the private educational institute for young children where she was working as a teacher, and Prashant was posted as store keeper. They soon fell in love, and the intimacy developed into a physical relationship. She was seven months pregnant when their marriage took place in Alandi on November 7, 2010. Her baby, a girl, was born on December 26 that year in a Bhosari hospital. 

“When our baby was born, Prashant told me that he would take me home on the condition that I deposited the baby with an adoption centre. I trusted him and gave the baby to Nachiket Balgram in Akurdi. However, Prashant did not keep his promise. 

On Tuesday, I met him at the bridge and told that I will commit suicide. He was unfazed, and said his family would never accept me as their daughter-in-law. I could not bear to take his words, and decided to end my life. What could I do? I had given my baby to the adoption centre for my husband’s sake,” Seema told Pune Mirror after recording her statement with the police.

That evening on the bridge, Seema says she flatly told him to stop playing with her emotions and take her home. Prashant refused, she claimed, saying it was impossible as they belonged to different castes. She added that prior to this, Prashant had refused to take her home on several occasions, citing pressure from his parents. 

“Prashant said I was unwanted in his house since I am from the Mahar community. His parents assaulted and abused me and don’t want me to stay with them,” Seema told Mirror. In her written statement to Kalewadi police, Seema claimed she had gone to meet her in-laws twice, but was assaulted and driven out of the house by Prashant’s mother and sister.

Sachin Phulsundar
Seema Shinde’s statement being recorded in the presence of activists on Wednesday

After avoiding several calls, Prashant finally spoke to Mirror. “I did not place any such condition that the baby should be deposited at the adoption centre. The girl’s parents had demanded Rs 1 lakh for settling the dispute. They have complained against me to police because I did not give them money. I have not uttered casteist comments against her. Right now, I am not in a position to speak as I am hurt by the allegations levelled against me by her family and their supporters,” he said.

Seema was brought to the Kalewadi police chowky on Wednesday afternoon by local Maharashtra Navnirman Sena (MNS) activists. The activists demanded that Prashant be booked under the Atrocities Act and arrested. However, police inspector (Crime) Bhagwat Sonawane of Chinchwad PS said the police wanted to try for an amicable end to the dispute, as it was a family matter.

However, her baby is still hers, and she can take succour from that fact. “I can take my child back as officials have kept that option open,” Seema said, a barely perceptible smile on her lips.

?   I did not place any condition that the baby should be deposited at the adoption centre. The girl’s parents had demanded Rs 1 lakh for settling the dispute. I have not uttered casteist 
comments against her

- Prashant Kadam Husband

 ?   My husband Prashant said I was unwanted in his house as I am from the dalit community. His parents assaulted and abused me and don’t want me to stay with them

Geadopteerde Libanese kinderen slaken noodkreet

  Geadopteerde Libanese kinderen slaken noodkreet

Verslag: Marc Schrikkema  Redactie: Josefin Hoenders 

In 1975 kregen twee Libanese baby's de oerhollandse namen Steven Sonneveld en David-Jan Baan en werden ze ter adoptie afgestaan aan echtparen in Nederland.
De burgeroorlog in Libanon was net begonnen en een stroom van vaak illegale adopties kwam op gang. Duizenden Libanese kinderen werden wereldwijd geadopteerd. Maar liefst 400 Libanese kinderen kwamen in Nederland terecht, veelal door bemiddeling van het domineesechtpaar Ibrahim en Adla Chemayel.


Nu, ruim 35 jaar later, zitten Steven en David-Jan met vele vragen over hun herkomst. Doordat de kinderen bij hun geboorte in het ziekenhuis al Nederlandse namen kregen en de identiteit van de biologische moeders nergens werd vastgelegd is het terugvinden van zelfs maar een de vrouwen vrijwel onmogelijk.
Onlangs richtten Steven en David-Jan de stichting Children of the Cedars op, in de hoop op die manier meer druk op de Libanese overheid te kunnen uitoefenen hen in hun zoektocht bij te staan. Als ook maar een van de 400 moeders gevonden wordt, dan is hun missie geslaagd. EenVandaag volgde Steven en David-Jan bij hun pogingen meer duidelijkheid te krijgen over hun verleden, in de hoop de toekomst vrijer tegemoet te gaan.

Woman held for child trafficking

Woman held for child trafficking
HATIM AL-MASOUDI
MAKKAH: Police in Makkah have arrested a woman on charges of trafficking and selling children.
Police spokesman Abdul Muhsin Al-Maiman said the woman was of an Asian nationality and that she had been detained by the Commission for the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice (the Hai’a).
“They set up a plan and arrested her for human trafficking and selling children,” he said. “They found her with a newborn baby. The case was passed over to the Al-Ajyad Police Department, and during questioning she confessed to having taken the child from a family in Jeddah and taking him to Makkah.”
– Okaz/Saudi Gazette __

Chinese baby trafficking leaves farmers forlorn

May 16, 2011

Chinese baby trafficking leaves farmers forlorn

By Anthony Germain,
CBC News

China is investigating the kidnapping and trafficking of babies by family planning officials who allegedly sold them to be adopted in the United States and other western nations.

Forty-seven year old Yang Li Bing puffs on a cigarette as he shuffles through photos of a daughter he hasn't seen in seven years.

"After she was taken in 2004, I could hardly sleep and I asked my wife if we could have another. But losing Yang Ling was too difficult," he says. "My wife left me."

Yang is one of many poor farmers in the remote village of Gao Ping in China's Hunan province, where residents say the family-planning officials who enforce the country's one-child policy have seized at least 20 babies and sent them to orphanages to be adopted abroad.

Yang says he has little faith in the Communist Party's ability to investigate misconduct by the local officials. After Yang went public with his story, other farmers came forward. The incidents all happened between 2002 and 2005.

At the time, Yang - like many poor farmers - was working far away in a factory in Guangdong province when he received a call from his father.

"As soon as I was told they had taken Yang Ling, I rushed back to Hunan and went to the family planning office. But they told me I was too late. My daughter had been adopted by a family in the United States."

Yang argued that he was not in violation of the one-child policy, he says. His one-year-old daughter was his only child.

"An official told me to stop complaining, that I was still young enough to have another child," he says. "When I kept demanding they return my daughter, several uniformed people in the family-planning office took me outside and beat me."

Took daughter by force

Another villager, 40-year-old Zeng You Dong, tells a similar story. With four daughters, Zeng admits that he was in violation of the population control law. In the Chinese countryside, many farmers keep trying to have children until a son is born.

Zeng says his second and third daughter were twins. Shortly after their births in 2002, he and his wife decided that Zeng's brother could take care of the elder twin.

Zeng was also away working when his brother called to say the one-child-policy officials had swarmed the house and used force to seize the girl.

'I know she probably has a better life in the United States, but she was never an abandoned baby. I loved her and I want her back'-Yang Li Bing

"When I returned, they said I could pay a fine to get her back. Then they doubled the fine, later they tripled it," Zeng says. "In the end, I couldn't pay and they told me it didn't matter: She had already been sent from the orphanage and to a foreign family, probably Americans."

Couples in the United States, where demand for foreign babies is highest, have adopted more than 70,000 Chinese babies since the early 1990s. Spain is second, followed by Canada, now home to more than 11,000 babies from China.

It is nearly impossible to determine how many adoptions consist of children stolen from their birth parents. After a similar scandal in 2005 in a different part of Hunan province, a study in the Cumberland Law Review determined that as many as 1,000 babies had been kidnapped and sold to orphanages for a finder's fee worth a couple hundred dollars per baby. A Chinese orphanage owner who was later sentenced to prison was found to be using the adoption profits to open a number of private old-age homes.

Foreign couples often pay up to $35,000 in a variety of administrative costs and fees to adopt a Chinese child. But where the money flows, and how the various agencies and middle men in the adoption process get paid, is difficult to track. One thing is certain: That kind of money being paid to orphanages in China's poorest provinces creates a strong incentive to produce babies for foreign adoptions.

Apart from the cash incentive, family-planning officials operate under a great deal of pressure and are expected to meet population control quotas.

Babies' names changed

This latest baby-trafficking scandal to hit Hunan has a different twist: Family planning officials are accused of abusing their power to designate babies as "abandoned" despite evidence those babies were still wanted by their parents.

Furthermore, it appears those officials also used their administrative power to give the babies new identities. In this case, all 20 babies in question were re-named "Shao," a reference to Shaoyang, the city closest to where the children were abducted. By changing their identities and processing the stolen children through legally recognized orphanages, the chances of any impoverished Chinese parent ever finding their child are almost nonexistent.

Farmer Yang says officials forged a document claiming he voluntarily gave up his daughter. But Yang can't read or write. Though uneducated, he has a rustic eloquence when he describes the stealing of children from his village as a violation of basic law and human rights.

"I know she probably has a better life in the United States, but she was never an abandoned baby. I loved her, and I still love her and I want her back."

After agreeing to be interviewed by CBC News, Yang was apprehended by police and held for several hours. He and the other villagers were warned not to talk to any foreign journalists. Despite being beaten for raising a fuss about his stolen daughter, Yang remains defiant.

"Kids are not products," he says. "Not everything made in China is made for export."