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‘Gekleurde adoptiekinderen zeggen zich een bounty te voelen: bruin van buiten, wit van binnen’

Let adoptive children eat with them in the pot, they will feel at home the quickest, was the idea for a long time. Meanwhile, people think differently. Femmie Juffer, herself the mother of two adopted children, missed good tips and advice and therefore wrote a book herself.

It is the late 70s when Femmie Juffer decides to adopt two girls with her husband: Shira from Bangladesh and Elina from Peru. Juffer still remembers how people at that time could almost give an enchanting advice: just give them food to eat kale, even though they are used to rice.

"With the knowledge of today you could call that color blind," says Juffer, who is not only an adoptive parent but also a special professor of adoption and foster care at Leiden University. ,, It was well-intended. With that statement they wanted to prevent the children from becoming confused about where they belonged. But it is also an untenable idea: adoptive children sooner or later find out that they are a bit different from the rest.

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Colored adoptive and foster children often say they feel bounty: brown on the outside, white on the inside

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Helvedet i Klarup

Hell in Klarup

I remember from my childhood the stories of the Brems from Klarup, who adopted a total of nine children from abroad. Some of them were children of German women and African-American men who had been posted as soldiers in Germany. Ole Brems, who was a psychiatrist, and Lise Brems, was first a sunbeam story that appeared in the local newspaper and in the weekly magazines - think that so many children with such an uncertain fate could be saved by two Danish community backers. And I remember a TV interview with a lady named Tytte Botfeldt (that name was so remarkable in itself that I didn't forget it). She was dying, but could still tell of her efforts to found the Danish branch of Terre des Hommes. This interview also emerged as a sunbeam story.

A few years later, the Brems couple reappeared in the media. Three of the nine children in Klarup had died because of the systematic cruelty of the adoptive parents. What happened next to the other six kids, I don't know. But because these were children in North Jutland at my own age, it started many thoughts.

There is an interesting article in Information on Adoption and how the countries that have previously delivered many adoptive children to Europe and North America are no longer so willing to do so. A much-talked-about TV show about the fate of two Ethiopian adoptive children focused on adoptions from abroad for some time. And earlier this year came the book Child Import, which unveils how adoptions from abroad began. It is a book I want to read - the whole story of the cruel married couple in Klarup I have thought about occasionally.

It was Tytte Botfeldt who had helped to place adoptive children with the Brems family. According to Jyllands-Posten, when she was dying (maybe it was in the TV interview?) She should have stated that

End of adoption from abroad: Danish adoption agency in major financial problems

End of adoption from abroad: Danish adoption agency in major financial problems

The country's only international adoption agency has so far stopped bringing in new adopters.

The adoption agency DIA no longer takes in adopters from year-end. (© (c) DR)

BY EMIL SØNDERGÅRD INGVORSEN

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Adoptions to LGBT people in England reaches record high while overall number continues to decline

The number of adoptions by LGBT+ couples has reached a record high, according to the Department for Education, while the overall number of adoptions has dropped for the fourth year in a row.

490 adoptions were to same-sex couples in England in 2018/19, which broke the previous record of 450 and means that at least one in seven adoptions were to LGBT+ people this year.

Statistics do not record whether single adopters are LGBT+, or whether couples are LGBT+ if they are in an opposite-sex relationship, so it is likely the number is actually higher.

Of the 490 adoptions to same-sex couples, 240 were to married, 100 were in a civil partnership and 150 were same-sex couples not married or in a civil partnership.

In contrast, the total number of adoptions in England in 2019 fell for the fourth consecutive year to 3,570, despite the number of looked after children in England continuing to rise.

Research into Family Origins

Bill 113, An Act to amend the Civil Code and other legislative provisions as regards adoption and the disclosure of information (2017, Chapter 12), was adopted and received assent on June 16, 2017. The amendments to the confidentiality rules regarding the identity of adopted persons and their parents of origin came into effect on June 16, 2018. For more information, visit the section Legislative amendments.

The information on this page does not replace that of the official legislation.

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International law

Background of international adoption