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Orphanages can be a child's best hope

Orphanages can be a child's best hope

I write in response to the commentary featuring the work of Lumos and the call to "end orphanages" everywhere and the reference of the "horrific" situation in India ("An end to orphanages," May 7). I was both heartened and saddened to read the piece. Heartened because there is no greater need for our children than that of keeping them in their families and with your global influence and there can be no better ambassador for a worldwide embracing of alternative care options for vulnerable children. Saddened, because the reasons the authors have so rightly listed — those of extreme poverty, discrimination and disability — are not so easily wished away by the single-minded focus on closure of institutional care.

In a country like India where the number of vulnerable children is expected to be more than 24 million by 2030 and rate of adoption is abysmally low (for reasons ranging from social stigma to extreme vetting to counter the danger of trafficking) and where community-based programs are in their infancy, institutional care with a rights-based approach and individual child care plan is often the child's only hope. India has some small group care models that are well established and are able to provide children with access to safety, health, education and social development tailored to their individual needs, a solution where other forms of alternative care are yet to evolve or even be conceptualized.

Our experience of 22 years has shown that Indian children in institutional care are mostly orphans or, equally heartbreakingly, have been abandoned by their own families. Those who have some distant family are very reluctant to take responsibility for them. The prime objective of Lumos is to transform an outdated and harmful system into one which supports and protects children and enables them to have a brighter tomorrow. We see an obvious connect between Lumos and Udayan Care here, perhaps through a wider lens. We think it important to differentiate between large child care institutions and other models, like Udayan Care which has small group homes, lifetime committed mentors to the children, personalized care and social integration that includes community schooling and a participatory approach.

Interestingly, Harry Potter himself finds the love of a true family only once he is at Hogwarts in Hagrid and Dumbledore and friends that are like siblings, far away from the "kinship care" of the Dursleys. Hogwarts too is an institution, one that values Harry for who he is as a special individual, just like each child in our care. The dilemma here is that in circumstances where the ground realities are complex and do not allow for the child to be safe and protected in other forms of alternative care, is it not simplistic to undermine the role that safe institutions can play? Should then the emphasis not be on improving standards of care and monitoring mechanisms at institutions rather than propagate for their full closure?

Online agency seeks to streamline adoption in Japan

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Online agency seeks to streamline adoption in Japan

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STAFF WRITER

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Mumbai: Nuns shown the door for torturing orphanage kids at Amboli

five nuns of St Catherine's Home have been transferred from the shelter for inflicting physical and mental abuse on the inmates; after a year-long inquiry on the matter following mid-day's report

The 95-year-old St Catherine’s Home in Amboli came under scrutiny last year after some inmates filed an FIR alleging mental and physical abuse; (left) mid-day’s report on April 10, 2016, on the abuse

The 95-year-old St Catherine’s Home in Amboli came under scrutiny last year after some inmates filed an FIR alleging mental and physical abuse; (left) mid-day’s report on April 10, 2016, on the abuse

The inmates of St Catherine's Home, Amboli, have finally got some sense of justice. Over a year after mid-day reported the mental and physical abuse of some inmates of this home, a state committee has come down heavily on the shelter for brushing aside the allegations.

Its 35-page investigation report has confirmed that the allegations of abuse are true and recommended that the five nuns-cum-caregivers named in an FIR filed last year be transferred.

Kidnapped or not: No guarantee that children are returned to parents

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Kidnapped or not: No guarantee that children are returned to parents

ADOPTION FRAUD IN CONGO (FINAL) FLOORING RE LOOKING ALL FILES ORPHANAGE

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TEXT: KURT WERTELAERS

ADOPTIEBEDROG (Zembla - Sri Lanka)

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Strongsville-based European Adoption Consultants connected to disturbing child abuse case in Texas

Strongsville-based European Adoption Consultants connected to disturbing child abuse case in Texas

Mona Kosar Abdi

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5:05 PM, May 10, 2017

STRONGSVILLE, Ohio - Soliciting bribes, falsifying documents and adopting trafficked children, the accusations against European Adoption consultants keep piling up.

Leistet die Politik einer „Enteignung der Kinder“ Vorschub?

Leistet die Politik einer „Enteignung der Kinder“ Vorschub?

Von Sabine Menkens | Veröffentlicht am 09.05.2017 | Lesedauer: 6 Minuten

AUTOPLAY

Wenn Pflegekinder plötzlich zurück zu ihren leiblichen Eltern müssen, ist das für die Kleinen oft eine emotionale Katastrophe. Ein neues Gesetz soll die Kinder besser vor einer erzwungenen Rückkehr schützen.

Quelle: N24/ Eybe Ahlers

Part 3 on adoption fraud in Congo: "They wanted only girls Nobody wanted Jacques."

Part 3 on adoption fraud in Congo: "They wanted only girls Nobody wanted Jacques."

TEXT: KURT WERTELAERS PICTURE: THE BENOIT FREINE

8/05/17 - 07:00

"He's right!" If we show the pictures of the little Jacques we made three days earlier, start to dance the people of his native village and sing. © Benoit Freine.

VIDEO "I was already in the car, but I forgot my sandals. I have them go get quickly into the orphanage. When I walked out, I saw driving away the car. It's my fault, I should never have forgotten my sandals . I miss my friends a lot. " But it was not the little Jacques debt (7). He just did not fit the profile of adoption. While his real parents 850 kilometers from Kinshasa did not know where their child, Jacques remained in the orphanage.

ADOPTION FRAUD IN CONGO (2) A VISIT TO THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS

"Dear girls, we miss you so. Your home is here "

ADOPTION FRAUD IN CONGO (2) A VISIT TO THE BIOLOGICAL PARENTS

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TEXT: KURT WERTELAERS

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