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Crisis zorgt voor minder adopties

Crisis zorgt voor minder adopties

      AMSTERDAM - Het aantal Nederlandse ouderparen dat een adoptieverzoek doet loopt sterk terug. Dat komt vooral door de economische crisis.   

Foto:  ANP

Dat zegt directeur Peter Benders van Stichting Adoptievoorzieningen zondag tegen de NOS. De kosten van een adoptie kunnen oplopen tot 35 duizend euro.

In 2006 werd 2569 keer verzocht om een eerste kind te adopteren. Vorig jaar was het aantal verzoeken gedaald naar 956. Benders ziet een overeenkomst met het begin van de jaren tachtig, toen er ook een economische crisis was en het aantal verzoeken daalde.

Chronische ziekte

 

De afname is voor een deel ook te verklaren door nieuwe vruchtbaarheidstechnieken en het teruglopen van het aanbod van gezonde adoptiekinderen.

Tegenwoordig worden vaak kinderen uit bijvoorbeeld China en India ter adoptie aangeboden die een chronische ziekte hebben of anderszins begeleiding nodig hebben. Dat er minder wordt geadopteerd is een wereldwijde trend, zegt Benders.

Door crisis minder adopties

Door crisis minder adopties

Een adoptiekind met zijn moeder»Een adoptiekind met zijn moeder         NOS    

Door verslaggever Pauline Broekema

Het aantal adoptieverzoeken van ouders in Nederland loopt terug. Waren er in 2006 nog 2.569 verzoeken om een eerste kind te adopteren vorig jaar liep het terug naar 956. Volgens directeur Peter Benders van Stichting Adoptievoorzieningen is de economische crisis de hoofdoorzaak.

Daarnaast zijn er ook andere factoren. Zo maken steeds meer vrouwen met succes gebruik van nieuwe vruchtbaarheidstechnieken. Ook loopt het aanbod van jonge adoptiekinderen sterk terug. Wel worden veel 'special needs kids' aangeboden. Dit zijn kinderen met een chronische ziekte of kinderen die extra lichamelijke of geestelijke begeleiding nodig hebben.

Dikke portemonnee

Benders ziet een historische parallel met begin jaren 80 toen er ook een economische crisis was en zich eenzelfde dalende trend voordeed. Vooral bemiddelde ouders adopteren. De kosten voor een adoptie kunnen oplopen tot 35.000 euro.

Door de recessie lijkt adoptie alleen nog maar te zijn weggelegd voor mensen met een dikke portemonnee. Het echtpaar Stokkel zou heel graag nog een tweede kindje willen adopteren. Maar moeder Yessica raakte haar baan kwijt en kan in deze economische slechte tijden niet aan ander werk komen. Dus zal Vaglary, die drie jaar geleden uit Haita kwam,  zonder broertje of zusje blijven. "Dat bekekent dus," zegt moeder Yessica, "dat een kinderwens niet in vervulling kan gaan."

China en India

Het kleinere aanbod van kinderen lijkt ook een rol te spelen. Vooral in landen met een groeiende economie zoals China en India worden kinderen vaker in eigen land geplaatst. De afname van adoptie is wereldwijd, zegt Benders. In de Verenigde Staten, van oudsher het land met de meeste adopties, is eveneens sprake van een sterke afname.

Naar de terugloop van het aantal adopties is nog geen wetenschappelijk onderzoek gedaan. Wereldkinderen, één van de vergunningshouders, is daar mee bezig.

Pleegzorg

Femmie Juffer, Professor of Adoption Studies, Universiteit Leiden, denkt dat sommige ouders kiezen voor pleegzorg. Mensen die in adoptie zijn geïnteresseerd krijgen eerder dan vroeger iets over pleegzorg te horen en dat kan leiden tot de keuze voor pleegzorg in plaats van adoptie.

"Bij de Stichting Adoptievoorzieningen zijn  al ontslagen gevallen. Peter Benders verwacht dat de vergunningshouders door de afname zullen besluiten verder te samen te werken.

Lees ook de weblog van Pauline Broekema

Een echte Urker jongen

Een echte Urker jongen

Soms heb je in dit vak van die ontmoetingen die je nooit meer vergeet. Twee jaar geleden was ik op Urk. Voor een onderwerp over een wonderlijk negentiende eeuws onderzoek. Waarmee een arts de raszuiverheid van de Urkers wilde aantonen. Daarvoor roofde hij schedels van het plaatselijke kerkhof. Twee jaar geleden werden ze teruggegeven. En herbegraven. We filmden de kerk waar de overdracht met een kleine plechtigheid plaats had. In de straten bij de kerk hing de vlag uit.  Dat kon niet zijn vanwege de afsluiting van die onverkwikkelijke affaire. Wat de reden wel was bleek toen een busje stopte.

Het portier zwaaide open en een jonge vrouw stapte uit. Op haar arm droeg ze een piepkleine donkere baby. Pieter Jacob, roepnaam P.J. Uit de Verenigde Staten. Of we zijn aankomst mochten filmen, vroeg ik . `Graag!’ zei de moeder. En  straalde alsof ze licht gaf met de trotse, boomlange vader aan haar zijde. Zo liepen ze naar hun met slingers versierde woning.

Met de thuiskomst van de baby kwam een einde aan de lange jaren dat ze bezig waren geweest een kind te adopteren. `Mijn wondertje’ zoals moeder Janneke hem noemde.  Dat wondertje, dat in de hand van zijn vader Albert paste is nu, zoals zijn ouders zeggen, een echte Urker jongen. Gisteren zag ik hem weer. Hij was in dracht, vanwege Urkerdag.  Op die feestdag halen de Urkers hun oude goed uit de kledingkast. `Altijd vrolijk, zo staat ie  ’s ochtends op, zo gaat ie ’s avonds naar bed’ vertelde moeder Janneke. En we bekeken nog eens de foto’s van de eerste dagen met z’n drieën in Amerika. En zijn aankomst.  P.J speelde ondertussen met een bal op het veldje bij het huis. Kwam geregeld langs voor een knuffel.

Naar goed Urker gebruik, het was tenslotte zaterdag, serveerde vader Albert een gebakken visje. Zo werd een gedenkwaardige week afgesloten. Want de Kinderbescherming gaf toestemming voor de adoptie van een tweede kindje. Janneke en Albert hebben lang gewikt en gewogen. De financiële  consequenties overwogen. Dan maar botje bij botje leggen. Ze willen dat P.J niet alleen blijft. Anderen is het door de recessie niet gegeven een kindje, of een tweede te adopteren. Heel verdrietig, vindt Janneke. Want  ze gunt iedereen het grote geluk dat haar en haar man ten deel viel toen Pieter Jacob in hun leven kwam.

Irish flock to Florida for child adoption opportunities

Irish flock to Florida for child adoption opportunities

Figures highlight huge increase in adoptions from Ireland

By: PATRICK COUNIHAN | Published Sunday, May 27, 2012, 8:23 AM | Updated Sunday, May 27, 2012, 8:23 AM

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Help Kairi Sheperd an Adopted Indian Girl Stay in Her Home in the U.S.

Help Kairi Sheperd an Adopted Indian Girl Stay in Her Home in the U.S.

May 27, 2012

Kairi Sheperd

by Rita Banerji

Kairi’s story forces us to ask many questions about the fate of  India children who are adopted abroad.  How do you determine where a person belongs? Is it determined by the color of their skin? The place of their birth? Or is it determined by the environment they’ve been raised in, the people they connect with and the only place they’ve known as ‘home?’

Can you return a child to a country you’ve adopted her from, 30 years after the adoption, like you would return a merchandise purchased from a shop? Are children ultimately commodities to be bought, sold, exchanged and returned?

Kairi who was adopted as a baby, and is now 30,  is virtually stateless because her adopted mother in the United States failed to do the paperwork for her citizenship before she died.  She has no citizenship in India either since she was adopted out according to Indian legal proceedings 30 years ago.   Kairi is now being referred to as the “Global Orphan.”

Kairi whose mother died after her birth, was adopted from India by an American woman, Erlene Shepherd.  Erelen took Kairi with her back to the United States when Kairi was just 3-months-old.

Erlene died of cancer when Kairi was 8-years-old.   Erlene’s death left Kairi in the lurch because now not only was she orphaned for the second time, but suddenly she also had no citizenship.  How did that happen? To claim Kairi’s U.S. citizenship, Erlene had to file papers with the US government re-adopting the child before she turned 21.  However, Erlene died without doing so, leaving Kairi orphaned and stateless.

Kairi fell through the cracks of the system again as happens so often with abandoned children.

Kairi as a little girl wearing a T-shirt with an American flag. She never knew that she isn’t American!

She developed a drug addiction.  Later Kairi was arrested and convicted of the felony of check forgery – a crime she committed because of her drug habit.  This is one the factors that prompted deportation proceedings against Kairi.  She is being deported as a “criminal alien.”

The US Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) said the deportation proceedings were in line with immigration enforcement priorities.  Their spokesperson Virginia Kice said, “ICE has reviewed Ms Shepherd’s case at length and believes seeking her removal is consistent with the agency’s immigration enforcement priorities, which include focusing on identification and deportation of aliens with felony criminal convictions.”

At the age of  30, Kairi  now is staring at the prospect of being deported from the United States to India, a country she left when she was 3 months old.  After her adoption Kairi has never been to India!

Kairi says being sent back to India would end her life as she knows it.  She has never lived in India.  Does not know the language and culture.  Has no family.  How will she survive? It is like taking any child who has grown up in the U.S., lived there all his/her life and suddenly exiling them, without any means, to a foreign country which they have no understanding of.  It is a terribly inhumane!  Kairi who suffers from multiple sclerosis says, “The deportation order which may force me to part from my physicians, family, and friends here, could be a death sentence to me.”

There are at least 40 cases of adults adopted as children in a foreign country who  have been deported to their countries of origin.

In 2008, Jennifer Haynes who had been adopted from India, was similarly deported from the US to India.  Jennifer had been adopted by an American couple when she was 8 years old.  She moved to the U.S. where she was  sexually abused by Edward Hancox, her adoptive father.   She was then moved from one foster parent to another, and ended up being moved through almost 50 foster homes.  In 2008, when Jennifer was 32 years old, she was charged with drug possession,  and it was also determined that she had no legal status in the U.S.  There after she was deported to India.   She had two children, ages 8 and 9 years who live in the U.S. without their mother.  Jennifer  says, “I am away from them for more than four years now and I am not sure if I will ever see them again. What kind of law is this?”

Kairi has a safety net though.  She cannot be deported if India does not issue travel documents to her. Her family, adoptive sibling, friends, and lawyers working pro-bono on the case, are hoping the Indian government will simply ignore US efforts to persuade New Delhi to accept her.

HERE’S HOW YOU CAN HELP KAIRI:

  1. Send an email to the External Affairs Minister and urge the Government of India not to assign any travel documents for Kairi.  Here is the email eam@mea.gov.in
  2. If you are in the United States please send an email to President Obama and Secretary Clinton and tell them that Kairi is America’s child and the government must protect her.

EXCLUSIVE: Kairi Abha Shepherd’s unedited answers to India America Today

EXCLUSIVE: Kairi Abha Shepherd’s unedited answers to India America Today

Article | May 27, 2012 - 1:03pm | By Tejinder Singh

 

Kairi Abha Shepherd/ Photo provided by Kairi through a mutual connection

Washington DC - Kairi Abha Shepherd responded to questions from India America Today through a mutual connection; below are her unedited answers. Kairi, like her foreign-born siblings, was raised a Mormon. None of them were granted US citizenship, which raises the question as to why the Mormon church community did not step in to provide the necessary assistance.

Adoption made easy

Adoption made easy

Many people assume the adoption process is expensive, lengthy and cumbersome. That was true in the past, but now things have changed and it is simple, straightforward and affordable, writes NJOKI CHEGE

There are several reasons why people  adopt but for whatever reason you choose to do it, it important that you realise adoption must be done the legal way, in order for both the child and parent(s) to enjoy their full rights.

But what exactly is adoption? The laws of Kenya describe adoption as the permanent assumption of the parental rights and responsibilities in a legal manner of a child that is not naturally yours.





Gaciku Kangari, the executive director of the Kenyans to Kenyans Peace Initiative Adoption Society (KKPI) — a registered adoption society, says the process of adoption in not only simple and straightforward, but affordable as well.

“If you want to adopt, the first step is to approach a registered adoption society that will help you through the legal and social process. An adoption society sees your adoption right through to the end,” she notes.

Parents then make an inquiry and are taken through a simple interview. Here, they are introduced to the laws that govern adoption.

Gaciku explains: “A sole applicant or a couple where each is at least 25 years old and at least 21 years older than the child are allowed to adopt. A relative of the child may also adopt. By the way, a single female is only allowed to adopt a girl, unless in special circumstances where the boy is over five years old.”

Like any other legal process, legal documents such as your national identity card, a certificate of good conduct and a reference letter from your religious leader is required.

And what about the cost implications?

It costs about Sh8,000 to Sh12,000 depending on the adoption society you choose.

After a home assessment scheduled with a social worker, your request goes before a case committee that scrutinises your application — most of which go through hassle-free.

International standards

The next step requires you to describe the child of your preference, but you have to bear in mind that the adoption agency will place you with a child that resembles you!

Offers Gaciku: “Adopting has been made easy as Kenya subscribes to The Hague Convention on Adoption of Children, an international instrument of the United Nations to regulate and guide child adoptions worldwide.”

Once they identify a child for you, then it’s a smooth ride. The first two weeks are used for bonding, which is followed by a letter of release and placement thereafter.

“After a month or so, you go home with your child, but you will be under a three-month placement period in which we will observe you and the child,” says Gaciku.

Unlike common belief that you require a lawyer before you start the process of adoption, you actually require one as soon as you get your child.

“The lawyer comes in much later to help you file a case in court and get a hearing date on which a judge will either give you an adoption order or rejection. Only a high court judge, not even a magistrate, can issue an adoption order,” says Gaciku.





While you are at it, it is important that you get an adoption lawyer, as there are some lawyers who are not familiar with the Children’s Act.

You don’t have to have a lawyer, as these days courts are friendlier and encourage self-representation.

The whole process, in totality, takes about six months, but it could take longer if you choose to drag the whole process. It is entirely up to you to fast-track the process.

CHALLENGES

Beside the financial scare that posed a threat to adoption until Eve Woman established otherwise, the biggest challenge to adoption remains the ignorance and lack of understanding surrounding the process.

“Kenyans are yet to warm up to the idea of adopting and accepting adopted children. A lot of awareness creation is needed surrounding the adopted child and their rights,” says Gaciku.

The adoption process is also riddled with cultural taboos that forbid adoption, and surprisingly, in the Kenyan adoption scene, as Gaciku notes, there is a preference for girls as opposed to boys.

Citizen of no land: The story of Kairi Shepherd

Citizen of no land: The story of Kairi Shepherd

by May 25, 2012

Kairi Shepherd, a 30 year-old Indian-origin adoptee is staring at the prospect of deportation from United States to India and says being sent back to India would end her life as she knows it.

“The deportation order which may force me to part from my physicians, family, and friends here, could be a death sentence to me,” said Shepherd, who suffers from multiple sclerosis.

Hers is a strange and tragic tale that reveals how children adopted across borders often fall through the cracks of domestic law.

Utah native Erlene Shepherd adopted a three-month-old Kairi from a Kolkata orphanage. Kairi was one of the 11 children the single mother adopted from across the globe. Erlene died when Kairi was eight.

Kairi Shepherd. File image. Image courtesy Anjali Pawar/ Sakhi

When Kairi was arrested and convicted of felony check forgery – a crime she committed to feed her drug habit – a US court and Kairi discovered that she was not a US citizen. The court then upheld the right of the US government to deport Kairi to India.

How did Kairi fall through the cracks?

To claim Kairi’s citizenship, Erlene had to submit a form with the US authorities before her adopted daughter turned 21 years old. But Erlene died without doing so, making Kairi, a nobody’s child. If parents who are technically granted legal guardianship by the sending country, don’t re-adopt their children after their arrival in the US, then their children are not US citizens.

She also does not benefit from the 2000 Child Citizenship Act, which represented a significant step forward and provided automatic citizenship for adoptees, because it does not retroactively include adult adoptees.

“The Child Citizenship Act failed to include all adoptees upon its passage in 2000 and so brought into question adoption’s most fundamental claim, a forever loving home. Adoptee vulnerability to removal and undocumented status violates an adopted person’s rights as outlined in the Hague Convention on Inter-country adoption to which the U.S. is a signatory and the UNCRC, which sending countries like India have ratified,” said Jennifer Kwon Dobbs, community adviser with AdopSource, a resource group for adoptees in the US.

Dobbs has tracked 40 cases of adult adoptees who have been deported to their countries of origin.

In 2008, Jennifer Haynes was deported from the US to India in a similar manner. Adopted by an American couple, she was sexually abused by her foster father, and spent years being shipped from one foster parent to another.

Charged in a case of drug possession, she was sent back at the age of 32. Her children- eight and nine years old- are growing up in the US without mother.

“I am away from them for more than four years now and I am not sure if I will ever see them again. What kind of law is this?” said Haynes.

The Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA), central government body which sanctions inter-country adoption says that it cannot be held responsible because it was non existent when Haynes and Shepherd were adopted. CARA was formed in 1990.

“Currently we issue conformity certificates in case of every inter-country adoption to facilitate immediate citizenship of the adopted child,” said Anu J Singh, director, CARA, adding that the Authority has written to the Indian Ministry of External Affairs (MEA) and the US Embassy for details of the Kairi Shepherd’s case.

The MEA has been maintaining that it is looking at ways to provide legal assistance to Kairi to challenge the US order.

International Mission of Hope, the Kolkata orphanage which put Kairi in adoption, shut shop ten years ago and Kairi’s last hope is a favorable order from the US Supreme Court.

Ministering to Kenyan children

Ministering to Kenyan children

By
Greg Mellen Staff Writer
Updated:   05/25/2012 09:14:29 PM PDT

India steps in for Kairi Shepherd

India steps in for Kairi Shepherd

25 May 2012, 2107 hrs IST, AGENCIES

India today asked the United States to treat with "utmost
compassion" the issue of deportation of Indian-American orphan Kairi Abha
Shepherd who faces the prospect of being sent back to her country of birth where
she was adopted by an American woman 30 years ago.

"It's a tragic
humanitarian issue and should be treated by the US with utmost compassion",
Foreign Secretary Ranjan Mathai told reporters .

He said the Indian
Consulate in San Francisco had written to concerned US authorities on the issue
but was yet to get any response from them.

Shepherd, who has said that
deportation would be like "death sentence" to her, under US laws can't be sent
back toIndia unless Indian government provides necessary travel documents for
her.

"Before carrying out a deportation, ICE (US Immigration and Customs
Enforcement) must first obtain a travel documentto ensure the receiving country
will admit the alien who is being returned," ICE spokesperson Lori K Haley told
PTI without commenting on the deportation case of Shepherd.