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Adopted in 1979, 33-yr-old back to ‘find roots’

Adopted in 1979, 33-yr-old back to ‘find roots’

Adopted in 1979, 33-yr-old back to ‘find roots’  Anuradha Mascarenhas Canada-based Damle couple was first family settled abroad to adopt child from SOFOSHMousami had first come to the orphanage run by the Society of Friends of Sassoon General Hospital in Pune when she was barely a few days old, and alone. A few months later, when she left the place in 1979, she had a family complete with parents and an elder brother, and a surname — Damle.Thirty three years ago, Vijay and Vidya Damle were the first Indian couple settled abroad to fly down to Pune to adopt a girl child from SOFOSH. On Monday, Mousami was back at the orphanage, but she was not alone this time.“It’s an emotional moment and about finding my roots,” says Mousami, a former staff sergeant with the US air force who loves cycling and outdoor sports. She now works at an advertising firm in New York.“My biggest challenge was to always let Mousami know that she was loved,” says Vidya, 57. She and her husbandhad decided to adopt a girl child when their son, Sarang, was two years old.Vijay, 64, who was an engineer with a construction company, is originally from Thane and had migrated to Canada with Vidya, who is from Belgaum. “I worked as an accountant when we were in Canada,” says Vidya, who gave birth to Sarang soon after her marriage. “After two years, I felt the need to have a daughter and decided why not adopt,” she says.“It was, in fact, easier to adopt then as I flew down from Canada, saw Mousami as a two-month-old baby and fell in love with her. The papers were processed and she was with us after two months,” Vidya recalls. She says it’s easier to raise an adopted child abroad. “Frankly, nobody cares whether you have adopted a child or are a single mother abroad. We were a family and Sarang and Mousami, like other siblings so, had their own share of fun and rivalry. There were moments when we as parents felt like pulling our hair. But this family bonded well andsoon became a role model for others, encouraging them to go for adoption,” says Vidya.The Damles are on their fifth visit to SOFOSH. Earlier too, they had participated in several workshops organised here to encourage adoption. “Mousami is at ease with her 84-year-old great grandmother and has an increasing list of cousins and relatives both in the US and in India,” says Vidya.Mousami says she would like to adopt a child if there were an option. There have been a total of 2119 adoptions so far at SOFOSH since 1974, of which 1,012 were girls. According to officials, as many as 662 adoptions since 1974 had been by couples settled abroad, of which 480 were girls.

How does an adoptee get deported? More easily than one might think

How does an adoptee get deported? More easily than one might think

Photo by Geoff McKim/Flickr (Creative Commons)

An "examination room for adopted children" in Guangzhou, China, April 2010

Q: How does someone adopted legally as a baby by American parents get deported?

A: Relatively easily, and it's happened to several one-time adopted kids.

The case that's been getting media attention lately is that of Kairi Abha Shepherd, a 30-year-old Utah woman who was adopted from an orphanage in India when she was three months old. In spite of her legal adoption when she was an infant, the 10th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals recently upheld an immigration court's decision that Shepherd is in the United States illegally and is deportable.

How and why? It's tricky, but it's a situation that quite a few adoptees have fallen into over the years. Shepherd's adoptive mother, who also adopted other children, died from cancer when her daughter was eight years old. At the time of her death, she had not completed her daughter's application for U.S. citizenship, although the girl was in the country legally.

And there lies the problem. While there are now laws in place that protect younger adoptees, older adoptees not covered under a 2000 statute whose parents failed to naturalize them remain legal residents, subject to deportation if they run afoul of the law. In 2007, Shepherd caught the attention of U.S. Immigration and Customs Enforcement when she was jailed in Salt Lake City for a probation violation; in 2004, she had pleaded guilty to check forgery, a deportable offense.

Like others in her situation, she didn't know she could be deported until this happened. Some background from a story in the Deseret News:

A widow and single mother to seven children, Erlene Shepherd died in 1991 of breast cancer, never having filed the proper paperwork for Kairi Shepherd, her youngest child. Kairi Shepherd went to live with one of her adoptive siblings, a sister, until she was 14, and then an adoptive brother until she graduated from high school, Smith said.

A sibling said their mother had filed the proper paperwork for her other children.


This is almost always the catch in these cases, which are fairly rare, but do happen every so often. Younger adoptees are covered by the Child Citizenship Act of 2000, which made citizenship virtually automatic for most adopted children brought into the U.S. But it doesn't apply retroactively. According to news reports, Shepherd was 11 months too old to qualify for protection under this law when it took effect in February, 2001.

At the same time, tighter immigration laws that took effect in 1996 made it easier to deport non-citizens, with legal residents convicted of certain crimes, including some misdemeanors, losing most forms of relief under the law. Caught in the middle are people like Shepherd.

Others deported in recent years have included Jess Mustanich, adopted from El Salvador by two U.S. citizen parents from the San Jose area when he was six months old. After years fighting his deportation, he was sent to El Salvador in 2008, at 29. His parents had divorced before naturalizing him, and his father said he'd run into roadblocks after that. At 18, Mustanich and some friends stole from his father, who called the cops - and he was convicted of burglary.

From a story I wrote about him just after he was deported:

Described by his father as “a middle-class white kid” raised in an Anglo household, Mustanich learned a handful of Spanish words from Latino detainees while in immigration detention, but is otherwise starting over as a stranger in a strange land.

Speaking by phone Friday from a San Salvador hotel, he described going through customs at the airport.

“They brought out some guy, and he asked, 'Why don't you speak Spanish?' ” Mustanich said. “I told him it was because I was adopted, and he said, 'Then why are you here?' ”


Not all the former adoptees deported have been young. A few years ago, ICE deported Alejandro Ebron, a Japanese-born man from California who was nearing 50 when he was sent back to Japan. He had been adopted in 1959 as a one-year-old by Navy sailor who was Filipino American and who raised him with his Mexican American wife, both long deceased. I interviewed Ebron for another story while he was detained in San Diego, contesting his deportation:
"I grew up thinking I was half Filipino and half Mexican," Ebron said. "They could send me to Mexico and I would get by. I can speak a little Spanish. But Japan? I'm going to be in trouble if they send me there."

Others who have been deported in recent years include Jennifer Haynes, who was also adopted from India. Deported in 2008, she continues fighting to return to the U.S., where she has a family of her own. Some of these cases have turned especially tragic. Joao Herbert, a young Brazilian-born adoptee, was deported there in 2000 at age 26. Not long afterward, he was murdered.

The website Pound Pup Legacy, dedicated to adoptees and foster children, has a list of former adopted children who have been deported or face deportation.

Complainant in adoption racket case alleges threat

Complainant in adoption racket case alleges threat

 
AADITI JATHAR LAKADE : Pune, Fri Nov 05 2010, 06:15 hrs

US: Adopted Indian faces deportation

US: Adopted Indian faces deportation

Chetan Chauhan, Hindustan Times

New Delhi, May 12, 2012

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Govt may help Kairi Shepherd

Govt may help Kairi Shepherd

Cheta
Chauhan
, Hindustan Times

New Delhi, May 20, 2012
The Indian government may provide help to 30-year-old Kairi Shepherd, who faces threat of deporation from United States after a local court rejected her claim for residency. Kairi Shepherd was just three months old when she adopted by Erlene Shepherd from an orphanage in India,
the youngest of her eight adopted kids.Erlene died when Kairi was eight years old, and she had not acquired US citizenship. At
17, Kairi was convicted of forging cheques to pay for her drug habit.

At 30, she faces risk of being deported back to India as US federal court
recently upheld the government’s right to deport Kairi as she had failed to
qualify for citizenship by a few months under the Child Citizenship Act of
2000.

Until 2000, parents were simply required to file a form before the adopted
child turned 21 to claim citizenship. Apparently, Erlene had filled Kairi’s
form, but failed to file it before her death.

After 2001, legal international adoptions automatically conferred citizenship
on children adopted by US citizens. Kairi, however, missed the deadline by
turning 21 a few months before the new law came into force.

With her case been highlighted by Hindustan Times. the ministry of external
affairs has asked Indian Embassy in Washington to provide details about her
case. "We have sought more details about the case," an external affairs ministry
official said.

The Central Adoption Resource Authority, mandated to look into all cases of
inter country, adoption has also asked MEA's intervention. The authority,
however, said it can't do much as Kairi Shepherd's adoption took place before it
came into being.

"It is sad that CARA has washed its hand-off her (Shepherd's case)," said
Anjali Pawar, director of Pune based NGo Sakee, which has filed a public
interest litigation in the Supreme Court against inter country adoption.

Although Kairi is out of jail but is in hiding fearing deportation by US
Immigration agencies. Her biggest fear is that if she lands in India there will
be no one to take care of her. Kairi is suffering from multiple scolerisis.

She, however, hopes that the Indian government will help as she has turned
into a "global orphan". The US has refused to acknowledge her even though she
has been staying there for almost thirty years and here in India, it will be
difficult to trace her roots. "I have no documents to trace my Indian parents,"
Shepherd had told Pawar.

Shepherd's is not the only case of deportation of adopted Indian kid. In
2008, Jennifer Haynes, 32, who was sexually abused by her adopted father, was
deported after being caught with drugs.

You may try the last chance in US, high court advises Haynes

You may try the last chance in US, high court advises Haynes

2009-12-11

Mayura Janwalkar / DNA

Mumbai: Jennifer Haynes, 28, who was deported to India from USA owing to incomplete adoption formalities 20 years ago, will now have to seek US citizenship on humanitarian parole.

Humanitarian parole is often a "last chance" to gain entry to the US for individuals who are not otherwise eligible for a visa. The parole is valid for a maximum time limit of one year, although this time can be extended indefinitely while in the US.

"We are concerned about her two children more than anything else," justice Ranjana Desai of the Bombay high court said on Thursday.

Arguing on behalf of the union government and the central adoption regulation authority (Cara), additional solicitor general DJ Khambata told the court that Haynes lived in the US for 20 years and the American government could consider granting her citizenship on humanitarian grounds.

"We will give any certificate to consider on humanitarian grounds," Khambata said.

Haynes was deported to Mumbai in July 2008, as she did not gain American citizenship in spite of having been adopted by an American family and lived there for the past 20 years.

She filed a petition in court, seeking a passage back to the US and de-registration of the agency that processed her adoption.

"She was not advised properly. Those [adoptive] parents did not bother about her," justice Desai remarked. Haynes's advocate Pradeep Havnur told the court that her documents were confiscated by the immigration officers at the Chhatrapati Shivanji International Airport on her arrival last year.

The court has summoned the immigration officers with the seized documents to court on January 12. In the meantime, Haynes has been asked to make a humanitarian parole application to the US embassy.

She was adopted, assaulted & deported

he was adopted, assaulted & deported

2009-01-15

Mayura Janwalkar

MUMBAI: Nearly 20 years after she was adopted by an American national, 27-year-old Jennifer Haynes is back in Mumbai, seeking action against the Americans for International Aid and Adoption (AIAA), the agency that had processed her adoption papers. 
Speaking to DNA on Wednesday evening, Haynes said, "I was fighting with the immigration authorities in the US. They said that my documentation for US citizenship was unfinished and wanted to deport me. With the Indian government accepting my repatriation, I came back in July last year. Ever since, I have been living in a Chembur hostel."

In her petition, which was mentioned before Bombay High Court on Wednesday, Haynes has sought a court direction to Central Adoption Resources Authority (Cara) to deregister AIAA and other foreign agencies, based in the US and registered with the Indian Government, and stop inter-country adoption until she is sent back to her family.

"For all these years, nobody ever told me that I am not an American citizen. It is because of AIAA that I have landed in this situation," Haynes said. 
She has stated in the petition that her adoption process was carried out in violation of the UN Convention onthe Rights of the Child, 1989 and the Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Cooperation in Inter-Country Adoption.

Her advocate, Pradeep Havnur, said that the petition had been filed, but it was yet to get a date for hearing.

Born in India in 1981, Haynes was adopted by Edward Hancox, who flew her to the US in November 1989. It was the beginning of a nightmare for her. "I was sexually abused by my first foster father. I changed nearly 50 foster homes, but everywhere the abuse continued. Nobody was willing to accept me," she told DNA.

She married Justin Haynes in 2002 and lived with him and their two children -- Kadafi, 5 and Kanassa, 4 -- in Michigan. "My husband works in a construction company. I used to be a housewife. I talk to my family in Michigan only once in two weeks," said a frustrated Haynes. "I want to be back with my family. I am going crazy here."

Not having the necessary documents, she is finding it difficult to get a job in the city. "Now, I have no means to sustain myself. I am surviving on the money that my mother-in-law sends me," she added.

Jennifer Haynes meets her long-lost brother

Jennifer Haynes meets her long-lost brother

2010-03-16

Mayura Janwalkar

Mumbai: Jennifer Haynes, 28, who was deported to India abruptly in 2008, finally traced her roots after over a year-long search. She met her brother, Christopher, 24, who lives in Ambernath. But in the reunion there was no drama, no emotion.

“I felt nothing. Nothing hurts anymore. I only think of my kids,” Haynes said.

Haynes, a mother of two, was adopted by US national George and Melissa Hancox in 1989. Haynes, however, claims she had a rough childhood in 50 different foster homes and suffered sexual abuse. She was deported by the US immigration authorities as her citizenship formalities were not completed at the time of her adoption.

“My brother visited me in Chembur with his wife and child. He’s a tailor and they’re very poor,” said a stoic Haynes. “We do look alike. He never went to school and grew up on the streets. He still calls me Pinky,” Haynes said. Arguing before the court on Monday, her advocate Pradeep Havnur said Haynes’s mother had left her in the care of Clarice D’souza of the now defunct Kuanyin Charitable Trust for a few days and D’souza without authorisation from Haynes’s parents had given her away in a foreign adoption.

“My mother died in 2006 but my father is in an alcoholic rehabilitation center. I met my aunt who told me that he took to alcohol after I was sent abroad without his knowledge,” Haynes said.

Seeking the de-registration of the Americans for International Aid and Adoption that processed her adoption, Havnur said Haynes’s should be treated as a state guest as she does not have accommodation or a job here.

Additional solicitor general DJ Khambata said, “I wish we could have done that for millions of Indians too.”

Khambata told the court that the government was willing to help Haynes seek a US citizenship on humanitarian grounds. Justice FI Rebello and justice Amjad Sayed have directed Haynes to apply to the US authorities on humanitarian grounds in two weeks.

nsufficient info keeps Haynes in the doldrums

nsufficient info keeps Haynes in the doldrums

2009-06-11

Mayura Janwalkar

Mumbai: There seems to be no respite for Jennifer Haynes. The Central Adoption Resources Authority (Cara) filed an affidavit before the Bombay High Court on Wednesday, saying the US embassy does not have enough information on Haynes.

The 28-year-old was deported to Mumbai from the US in July 2008. "I make some money by teaching English to some children. But I need my documents to get a decent job," she said. Haynes is gradually coping with life in the city from where she was adopted almost 20 years ago.

Cara's deputy director Jagannath Pati said in the affidavit that the US embassy has said they have 'insufficient information to come to any sound conclusion' and it was 'attempting to locate Jennifer in Mumbai to discuss her situation'.

Speaking to DNA on Wednesday evening, Haynes, however, said nobody had contacted her. Her advocate Pradeep Havnur said nobody had tried to contact him either. Haynes was deported to Mumbai after the US authorities found some discrepancies in her citizenship documents.

DNA was the first to report Haynes's case against Americans for International Aid and Adoption (AIAA) that had processed her adoption papers in 1989. In an email to Pati, the AIAA said Haynes was eight years old when she was adopted. Her first adoptive parents gave up guardianship because of her 'difficult behaviour in home and school'. Another email said the agency wanted to assure the high court that they did their duty to the maximum extent possible under Indian and US laws.

But advocate Jamshed Mistry who argued Haynes's case on Wednesday termed Cara's affidavit 'highly inconclusive'.

In a letter to Pati, the Indian Council of Social Welfare (ICSW) said Haynes could not be helped because its records were washed away in the deluge of July 26, 2006. "Our office in Chembur was completely submerged in water. All furniture, documents, and files were damaged," reads the ICSW letter.

High Court reserves order on Haynes plea in adoption case

High Court reserves order on Haynes plea in adoption case

2010-04-13

The Bombay High Court on Monday reserved its order in an adoption ‘racket’ case where a 27-year-old woman was deported from the United States following alleged fraudulent adoption process.

Jennifer Haynes, a mother of two, who was adopted by American couple George and Melissa Hancox in July 1989, had moved the high court seeking action against the Americans for International Aid and Adoption (AIAA) that had processed her adoption papers.

The Central Adoption Resources Authority (CARA) had last year filed a report stating that alleged fraudulent adoption process was carried out by an American agency (in her case).

The high court on Monday indicated that it is likely to dismiss Haynes’s petition seeking the de-registeration of the adoption agencies that sent her to the US in 1989 without, as alleged by her, following proper procedures.

Haynes was deported by the US immigration authorities as her citizenship formalities were not completed at the time of her adoption. She has claimed in her petition that she had a rough childhood in 50 different foster homes in the US and faced sexual abuse.

After hearing the arguments, Justice FI Rebello remarked, “The grievance now is not that of adoption but of citizenship.” The court had earlier directed Haynes to apply to the US embassy on the grounds of humanitarian parole. Additional solicitor general D J Khambata had said that the Centre would support her application. However, her advocate Pradeep Havnur told the court that without a high-level intervention Haynes’s application will not be considered. The court observed that as an adult Haynes had not applied for US citizenship and continued to live in the US as a child of her adoptive parents.

Haynes was convicted in a case of illegal possession of drugs in July 2004 and was under probation in prison. When her case reached the Board of Immigration, it was found that her citizenship formalities were incomplete at the time of her adoption in 1989 and they decided to deport her. She recently traced her brother in Ambarnath.