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Welcome to the internet site of the adoption practice "Krawitz and Shenker". Social workers Sue Krawitz and Sheri Shenker specialize in adoption and related services. We have both been involved in the field of adoption for over 11 years. During this time we have been privileged to facilitate hundreds of adoptions, both locally and internationally. We offer you a personalized and professional service in order to meet your adoption needs. Our services in this field include counseling of birth parents, counseling of couples, screening of applicants for adoption, adoption placements, international adoptions and home studies, family adoptions and post adoption aftercare. A vital aspect of adoption is pre and post adoption support. Our practice regularly offers support groups for adopters. We also offer extensive services in counseling and legal social work. Our practice is situated in Johannesburg, but we are able to work with you, wherever you may live, as we work throughout Southern Africa. We are also privileged to be able to offer South African adopters the option of adopting internationally, from Eastern Europe, as we have established ties with an international child placement agency. Recent changes to South African law now make it possible for foreigners to adopt South African children.

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The Infinite Mind: Attachment

The Infinite Mind: Attachment

Week of January 2, 2002

It's human to connect. Without the opportunity for consistent relationships early in life, though, development founders. This show explores attachment disorder and attachment problems that affect children who have been abused and neglected. Guests include psychiatrist Dr. Charles Zeanah, clinical psychologist Robert Karen, Thais Tepper, the founder of the Network for the Post-Institutionalized Child, and Joyce Peters, the adoptive mother of a child with attachment disorder.

Host Dr. Fred Goodwin begins the show by noting that attachment disorder is a relatively new term that was absent from psychiatric textbooks as little as five years ago. Since then, an increase in adoptions from Eastern Europe, Russia and China and a new appreciation for the importance of environment in shaping children have brought attachment problems to the fore. Dr. Goodwin notes that the term attachment disorder is reserved for children who are so damaged by abuse and neglect they don't bond with caretakers and wreak havoc on everyone around them. Many of them, Dr. Goodwin points out, make remarkable recoveries.

Joyce Peters then discusses her daughter, Elizabeth, who was abandoned by her birth mother at the age of four. After that, Elizabeth was moved from 10 foster homes until, at the age of 8½, she was adopted by Peters. Elizabeth had tantrums, stole, lied, played with fire and rebuffed contact with Peters. Eventually, a doctor diagnosed Elizabeth with attachment disorder. She has since received therapy. Peters recounts her daughter's progress and says, since Elizabeth can now talk about her traumatic past, says she's confident Elizabeth will make it. You can e-mail Joyce Peters at joy2522@aol.com.

Der Vorstand von ICCO e.V. war in Haiti

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Der Vorstand von ICCO e.V. war in Haiti

Es war uns möglich, neue Kontakte zu knüpfen.Wir haben verschiedene Kinderheime angeschaut und mit einigen Leitern Vereinbarungen getroffen. Für unsere Ehepaare haben wir verschiedene Unterbringungsmöglichkeiten ausfindig machen können.

Sehr beeindruckend war unsere Fahrt mit den Missionaries of Charity an den Rand der City Soleil zu deren medizinischer Versorgungsstation. Dort warteten bereits Hunderte von Kranken zum Wechseln der Verbände, Versorgung kranker und unterernährter Kinder. Nach zehn Minuten medizinischer Ausbildung mit Kittel und Ein-Weg-Handschuhen versehen haben wir schwerste Wunden im Bereich von Beinen und Armen gereinigt, Verbände gewechselt, Medikamente verteilt, Babies und Mütter versorgt.

Auf diesem Weg dorthin und zurück wurde deutlich, dass die Menschen unter unvorstellbar schlechten Verhältnissen leben, unter einfachen Planen am Straßenrand zwischen Dreck, Abfällen und riesigen Müllhalden, die sich mitten auf der Straße befinden. Diese Bedingungen weisen auf die Ursache der entsetzlich vereiterten Wunden hin, die unter diesen Bedingungen offensichtlich nicht mehr zu heilen sind, so dass die Durchblutung der Gliedmaßen unterbrochen wird, bis die Gliedmaßen amputiert werden müssen.

No more orphanages for Kosovo's forgotten children

Foster care
No more orphanages for Kosovo's forgotten children

 

Poster of child adoption campaign
Graphic: Luan Tashi

There are more than 80 babies in Kosovo needing permanent homes. One half are in Pristina Hospital. They are the newest casualties in Kosovo's struggle to find a balance between post-war freedoms and old-world mindsets. Because of the enormous stigma associated with being a single mother, babies are being abandoned by women at an alarming rate.

"Pregnant mothers come from all over Kosovo to give birth at Pristina Hospital," says Gabrielle Rutten, the Head of UNMIK's Social Services Division of the Department of Labour and Social Welfare.
"They give a false name, give birth and then leave," explains Rutten. In addition to the 44 at Pristina Hospital, another 37 are being temporarily housed in small homes set up to care for them.

Kosovo is at a cultural crossroads. Much needs to be done to prevent the abandonment of babies-first by educating young people on safe sex, then by enlightening society on single motherhood. But until mindsets and hearts change, Kosovo's social welfare system must do what it can to make sure that forgotten babies are not forgotten by society.

Rutten and her team at Social Welfare want to take advantage of the important societal role of the family to get these babies into real homes. But while strong family bonds are an intrinsic part of Kosovo culture, the public is not aware that there are babies that can be adopted. The reason: in the past, many parentless children were simply institutionalized until they came of age.

They do not want Kosovo to become like some other countries where thousands of orphaned or abandoned children are condemned to a life of institutions and neglect. But international adoption is not an option for Kosovo, as this requires formal agreements signed between countries. Pending settlement of Kosovo's final status, the province cannot enter into international agreements by itself. Even when international adoption does become a viable option, Rutten says, Social Welfare will be looking first toward families within the diaspora from the same Kosovo community.

UNMIK is committed to placing babies with permanent, adoptive families. Meanwhile, the question remains: what to do until families become available? Everyone agrees that they must be taken out of the hospitals as quickly as possible. Since policy is not to continue using orphanages, the solution in the interim is foster care.

But here UNMIK battles the widespread notion that foster care has to be a long-term solution instead of a preliminary step leading to adoption.

"Foster care was known and used in Kosovo in the past," says Rutten. "But usually if a child entered foster care, he or she was with a family for the long-term. What is different now is short-term foster care. Social Welfare wants foster care to be a short-term measure while an adoptive family is being found." 

So UNMIK, in cooperation with UNICEF, is launching a foster care campaign to explain this to the many families who still believe that institutionalized care is best for orphans, unless families can be found that will adopt them permanently.

"Even if families are not in a position to adopt a child for life, they need to know that they can still help a child by giving him a temporary foster home," says Rutten, who believes that no child now born in Kosovo should ever have to enter an orphanage.

As part of the new campaign, foster families have to attend classes and complete a screening programme. In return, they will receive a small stipend to help care for a child for up to six months. UNMIK itself is committed to placing each child with a permanent adoptive family within that six-month window.

But UNMIK keeps running into the cultural roadblock that says that children should not be moved from one family to another. "They would rather a child stay in a hospital, i.e. institutionalized, than be cared for by an interim family," comments Rutten who strongly disagrees. "Children should not be institutionalized. As long as we are here that will never happen, and we will never, ever start new orphanages," she reiterates. 

If a foster family cannot be found, babies will be sent to one of several NGO-run homes with a maximum of ten children each. In January 2002, the doors will open to a fourth home for the babies waiting for adoption. 

"From January forward we hope we will be able to house these babies in a more or less normal situation and at least get them out of the hospitals," says Rutten.

With the foster care campaign in full swing, UNMIK hopes it will not be long before all of them are in the arms of a loving family.


Stacia Deshishku
Social Affairs correspondent

INTER-COUNTRY ADOPTION: THE EUROPEAN UNION, ROMANIA AND THE INTERNATIONAL COMMUNITY (UNRC = acquis)

22. The new strategic direction on child health care and welfare protection in Romania

must, therefore, fully respect EU values as expressed in both the Copenhagen

criteria and the acquis communautaire, as these reflect accurately the UN

Convention for the Rights of the Child.

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Baroness Emma Nicholson - in 2002 or 2003's report - Europol - killed by Socialist Group

Iin 2002 or 3 she wrote in her report that Europol should investigate - the socialist group of the European Parliament voted it out.

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Hungary: Reports of parents selling their children for purposes of adoption;

Hungary: Reports of parents selling their children for purposes of adoption; prevalence of this activity and which social groups are commonly associated; average price received for the sale of a child

Publisher Canada: Immigration and Refugee Board of Canada

Author Research Directorate, Immigration and Refugee Board, Canada

Publication Date 18 November 2002

Citation / Document Symbol HUN40383.E

Debbie's crusade to save the orphans of Chernobyl.

FROM RUSSIA WITH LOVE; Debbie's crusade to save the orphans of Chernobyl.


HAPPY FAMILY: Debbie Deegan and her husband Mick with children Mikey, seven, and Sophie 13, and orphan Zeina, also 13

Byline: CAOIMHE YOUNG 

HOUSEWIFE Debbie Deegan has given hundreds of children the most precious Christmas gift - love. 

The energetic mum's crusade began when she took care of Russian orphans Zeina and Valya during a holiday in Ireland from their home near Chernobyl. 

Their plight touched Debbie so deeply that she adopted Zeina and found a home for Valya near her home in Dublin. 

But her compassion didn't end there. 

Five years later the 38-year-old from Clontarf, Dublin, runs one of the biggest and best orphan-ages in Russia. 

And this year she knew more than 300 children had something to look forward to on Christmas Day. 

The mother of three said yesterday: "The children have come such a long way. 

"They laugh, they play and they have ambitions." 

Debbie described how the process of adopting Zeina was no easy task. 

She said: "Zeina never went back to Russia but Valya had to return for just under a year. 


"They came over here for a short holiday with the Chernobyl Children's Trust in 1996. 

"Zeina developed meningitis so we were allowed to keep her in Ireland during the adoption process. 

"I would have loved to adopt Valya myself but I already had two children and it would not have been fair on them for me to adopt another two kids. 

"But the adoption wasn't easy. There was a lot of red tape to deal with here in Ireland. It was very frustrating. 

"Zeina is 13 now and she's like any other child. She's got an Irish accent and she considers herself Irish. 

"And Valya now lives less than a mile away in Clontarf. She was adopted by a friend of mine. 

"It is brilliant to see the two girls reunited. They are great friends." 

But giving Zeina and Valya the love they deserve was just the first step for Debbie. 

She flew out to the orphanage in Hortylovo near Bryansk, 250 miles south of Moscow, to investigate the conditions. 

She was so appalled she decided she had to help the forgotten children of the former Soviet Union. 

She said: "I didn't find a home for Valya straight away. 

"So I went out to see the conditions she was living in and I couldn't believe my eyes. 

"We'd all heard stories but when it's there in front of you it's something you can never forget. 

"The children were dirty, smelly and needy. They'd been abandoned by their parents. 

"The buildings they lived in were neglected and in some cases dangerous. 

"I went in with this dreamy theory that we could paint the orphanage yellow and put upfrilly curtains and everything would be OK. But the problem was far deeper than that. 

"What we had to do was give these children a future and make sure they didn't end up in prison or in prostitution. 

"They needed to be hugged and kissed and needed to learn to value themselves." 

Debbie called her charity To Russia With Love. The organisation has now provided the orphanage with a medical block, a library, a computer room and a woodwork centre. 

Debbie said: "We built a new kitchen and showers and found sponsor families in Ireland for each child. 

"For the first time in their lives they have clothes and toys. 

"They lived in institutions all their lives. Most of them have never seen a teapot or made a telephone call - they didn't know what ordinary family life is like. 

"Most of the kids have at least one parent but he or she has been deemed unfit to look after them. 

"The children were rejected because parents were alcoholics, in prostitution or in prison. 

"The kids have no self-esteem and unless we can change that they'll go exactly the same way." 

Debbie has visited Russia 37 times since she founded To Russia With Love. 

She paid tribute to the generosity of Irish people who help fund the charity. 

She said: "Irish people have been the backbone of the organisation. Their generosity astounds me. 

"We are constantly running dances and raffles and they always give what they can." 

But Debbie's mission of love is far from over. 

The Russian Department of Education has asked her to help rebuild other orphanages. 

She said: "In the whole of Russia there are 600,000 children in care, about the same as one fifth of the Irish population. 

"We've decided to take on another three - that's 600 more children and by September we'll have another 10." 

TO Russia With Love needs donations. If you can help phone 01-8881705/6/7. 

Cheques can be sent to Bayview House, 49 North Strand Road, North Strand, Dublin 3.

Or pay in to Bank of Ireland account 53009615, sort code 900594. 

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