It is possible to acknowledge that transnational adoption occurs in a world marked by inequality, while at the same time insisting that it can be in the best interests of the child if it is done ethically. Denmark should reopen international adoption
The Danish government's decision to stop international adoption as of January 2024 is a fatal mistake that risks harming orphans who are now left to an uncertain future. Instead of putting the best interests of children at the center, the debate has been about criticizing the mistakes of the past, while today's orphans are overlooked.
Author Maja Lee Langvad , who herself is an adoptee and was recently interviewed by this newspaper in connection with her acceptance of the Montana Literary Prize, wants a permanent end to international adoption, which she believes is an extension of colonial structures. Langvad makes an important point about the price many adoptees have paid to become part of a new country and a new family. But recognizing structural injustice does not mean that international adoption is inherently wrong. Many adoptions have occurred out of genuine need – children who were abandoned, without care or the opportunity to stay in their family of origin – just as many adoptive parents do not act out of a colonial mindset, but out of a desire to give a child love and security. And for many like myself, adoption has been a path to life, opportunity and the support of a family.
Of course, adoptions must be ethically sound, and as an adoptee, I recognize the need for an impartial legal investigation of transnational adoptions to Denmark. Serious mistakes and cases of fraud must be avoided. But stopping transnational adoptions indefinitely fails the children who are currently in orphanages without the prospect of a stable family. My own adoption has been life-changing, and it is deeply concerning that Denmark is now closing its doors to children in the same situation.
International adoption has long been a political hot potato and divided the waters among adoptees. But why do we almost only hear about criticism and negative stories? There are over 20,000 adoptees in Denmark, and hardly everyone believes that adoption is fundamentally wrong or driven by evil intentions.