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'Stel mishandelt jarenlang adoptiekinderen'

'Stel mishandelt jarenlang adoptiekinderen'

Uitgegeven: 4 februari 2011 10:41
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DORDRECHT - De politie heeft deze week een echtpaar uit Hendrik-Ido-Ambacht aangehouden die hun geadopteerde kinderen jarenlang zouden hebben mishandeld.

 

Het gaat om een 58-jarige man en zijn 53-jarige vrouw. Dat heeft het Openbaar Ministerie (OM) in Dordrecht vrijdag bekendgemaakt.

Het echtpaar adopteerde de kinderen eind jaren negentig. De mishandeling van de nu 18-jarige jongen en het 16-jarige meisje zouden vrijwel direct zijn begonnen. Van het meisje zou onder andere een arm zijn gebroken.

 

De jongen werd in 2010 in een opvanginstelling geplaatst. Daar kwam de zaak uit toen de jongen vertelde over de mishandelingen. Het meisje was toen ook al uit huis.

 

Aangifte

 

De politie startte het onderzoek, nadat de jongen aangifte had gedaan. Volgens het OM kwamen bij het gezin verscheidene hulpverleningsinstanties over de vloer.

De man en de vrouw zijn donderdag voorgeleid aan de rechter-commissaris. Die besloot dat het tweetal nog zeker twee weken blijft vastzitten.

Perfekte Eltern für das Kind - und nicht umgekehrt

Perfect parents for the child - and not vice versa Würselen families found their sons and daughters in Romanian orphanages. Interested parties must adjust to some bureaucratic hurdles.

BY OUR EDITOR RALPH ALLGAIER

AACHEN.

Suddenly everything went fast: on Mondays the call came, Marika and Günther Kreutz sat in the car on Tuesdays, and on Thursdays the couple from Wuerselen in the Romanian town of Temesvar held their future daughter in their arms: Georgiana, two years and three months old. A moment that both had long been working for.

With Karin and Markus Schroeder, the events were similar: As soon as the message was received, they made their way to a Romanian village called Babadag - on roads that eventually became more and more lonely and hickeliger, until finally the children's home was reached , Here the Schroeders picked up their son Dominik Vasile.

Sierra Leone parents demand kids' return

Sierra Leone parents demand kids' return
2011-02-02 12:05
 
Freetown - Scores of relatives of a group of 29 children whom they say were illegally adopted from Sierra Leone 14 years ago stormed the children's ministry Tuesday to demand the return of their offspring.

Families chanted "we want our kids back" and "return our children fast", five months after government pledged to get to the bottom of trafficking claims through a commission which has yet to begin its work.

A weeping Bintu Koroma said her six-year-old child was taken from her on the pretext of protecting her from the war that was then raging in Makeni, in the north of the country.

"I am fed up with getting no clear detail as to what has happened to my dear Posseh. Nobody is telling us the truth and it is only the government that can now help us to get to the truth of the matter."

The government promised in September that the creation of a three-man fact-finding committee headed by a high court judge would make a fresh attempt to clear up the case.

The commission would investigate the incident in which some 40 parents overall claim that their children were taken to the United States for adoption without their consent by a local NGO, Help a Needy Child International (HANCI).

HANCI was established in 1996, setting up child survival centres in Freetown and Makeni where it offered services of schooling from kindergarten to tertiary level.

When civil war broke out, parents sent their children to the organisation for protection and after the war, which ended in 2002, parents allege when they came to fetch their children they were told they had been adopted.

HANCI has repeatedly claimed the adoptions were legal.

New Social Minister Denis Sandy said the commission was being held up due to logistical reasons.

"None of these people would frame a story that each of their 29 children were taken for adoption illegally and insist that their children be returned," he said.
-         AFP

Blog: Happy Birthday Berhanu and Divine Appointment (meeting Birth Mother)

Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Happy Birthday Berhanu and Divine Appointment


So Berhanu had another birthday....only five months after his last birthday. Are you are wondering how that is possible? Well, there was quite a lot of confusion about how old Berhanu was at his adoption in March 2005. He seemed the size of three year old, but acted developmentally older. We went back and forth...is he 3? 4? almost 5? When he turned six (or so we thought) he still had no signs of losing any baby teeth and his body was not that of a six year old...so we had him turn six again the nest year. This past August he turned eight years old and that is what his U.S. birth certificate says. Then in November when Mike and Yasab traveled to Ethiopia to bring home Towabech...they met Berhanu's birth mom! This was a miracle for sure. Mike and Yasab visited Kidane Mehret (KM) the orphanage where several of our children came from. The Sisters who run KM were overjoyed to see Mike and see Yasab all grown up and beautiful. As they were hugging and sharing cheek kisses..... an Sister L. asked Mike if they wanted to meet Berhanu's birth mom?! At Berhanu's adoption I had searched and searched for any information about Berhnau's birth parents . I admit we gave up on ever finding them. Now here was Sister L. telling Mike that Berhanu's birth mother was named Tigist. And she worked near by KM and had shown up recently asking for any news of Berhanu! The Sisters sent someone to tell her that Mike and Yasab were there at KM. Soon Tigist was running up the KM steps to meet them! It was amazing. Not only did God work out the timing for Mike and Yasab to visit KM when the Sisters were there, and the Sister who knew where Tigist was could send for Tigist so Mike and Yasab were able to to be able to meet her.... God also worked out many other details to answer many many of His children's prayers. Yasab who was adopted in January 2004 at age 10 is now almost 18. She lost her ability to speak and understand Amharic after she was adopted by us. Yasab had prayed to be able to understand more Amharic on her trip back to Ethiopia with Mike. God gave ALL her Amharic back to her! She feels it was especially for Tigist....Berhanus' birth mother. You see this lovely woman Tigist is a devote Christian. She loves and trusts God and has prayed for this day when she could find Berhnanu's adoptive family. She and Berhanu's birth father loved baby Berhanu very much. After he was diagnosed with eye cancer they did everything possible for him. He had the surgery to remove his eye. But they had no more money to pay for the chemo. At some point Tigist became a single mom. His family made the very difficult decision to place him at KM. KM was able to provide for him to get the 5 courses of chemo he needed for his rentinoblastoma. Tisgist had prayed and prayed that he would survive his cancer and that someday he would be adopted and have a new family that would love him like she did. Tigist continued day by day and through the years to pray for her child Berhanu. Her prayers were not only for a Christian family for him but also that God would somehow get word back to her that her little boy was okay. She knew that it was a long shot she would ever have any contact with his adoptive family but she asked God for that as a special "personal" request. So I will tell you that Mike and Yasab could share with me that Tigist is EXACTLY like Berhanu. Not only does she look exactly like him she acts exactly like him. Guess his ADHD hyperactive behavior is not caused from all his chemo as we thought! Tigist is constantly moving and talking a mile a minute! Maybe she knew time was short with Yasab and Mike and she needed to make sure to relay all the information possible to them before they left. She shared amazing things. Things that will be ever so precious to Berhanu about his life before he came to us. Yasab, with her God given fluency in Amharic was able to understand and translate it all for Mike. When they walked Tigist back to her work they made plans to meet the next day for lunch. The next day they met for hours talking and getting to know each other. When Yasab shares about that time she still can not speak of it without choking up from the joy of how God answered this woman's prayers. Both Mike and Yasab know this trip and chance meeting was not for them or ever Berhanu, but for Tigist....this young woman who LOVES the Lord and trusted Him to save her baby. God gave Tigist hours with Berhanu's new family where she could learn all about him and be assured his family they were also believers and that Berhanu was being raised to love and serve God. One cool thing was that I had created a nice photo album for Mike to give the Sisters at KM with pics of our kids who came from KM. Many of those photos were of Berhanu. Mike gave that album to Tigist. We will continue to send her photos and letters from Berhanu. I know that in the next few years we will be taking Berhanu back to visit her (along with our other Ethiopian kids old enough for that kind of trip) I just LOVE when things happen to show me just how much God adores His children to answer prayers. She didn't "need" to meet our family face to face...but God worked it out because he loves her so much. Just because He is that kind of awesome God....in charge of making dreams come true and working out all the details.




You wonder how this ties into a "Birthday" post? Tigist also told Mike and Yasab Berhanu's real birthday. She was super clear, no doubts about it, no confusion over Ethiopian/American calender. Berhanu's birthday in January 19th and he turned 9 years old. This is also the same day as the birthday of one of his favorite sister's Haiminot age 20. So Berhanu had another birthday five months after his last one this past August. We will have to go to court to get it changed on birth certificate. That is just one of those minor details to add to my list of things it takes me years to accomplish..

And the BIG reason for this post...Happy Happy 9th Birthday Berhanu! You are a wonderfully sweet and brilliant son Berhanu and I am so thrilled I get to be your mom!

Efforts are under way in Oklahoma to find a home for Liberian-born sisters

Efforts are under way in Oklahoma to find a home for Liberian-born sisters

At least three people have expressed an interest in adopting the four girls adopted by Ardee and Penny Tyler from a Liberian orphanage in 2005. The Tylers relinquished custody of the girls after a lengthy court battle and felony convictions for child abuse.

BY ANN KELLEY 0

Published: January 31, 2011

FAIRVIEW — Four sisters adopted from a Liberian orphanage are orphans again, but not for long.

A quest to reunite Nepal's lost children with their families

A quest to reunite Nepal's lost children with their families

By MEGHAN MITCHELL, QMI AGENCY

Last Updated: January 31, 2011 12:00am

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Conor Grennan is pictured with some of the children from the Little Princes Children’s Home. (Supplied Photo)

Adoptions of foreign children by Americans drop to lowest level since 1995

Adoptions of foreign children by Americans drop to lowest level since 1995

David Crary, The Associated Press 
NEW YORK, N.Y. - The number of foreign children adopted by Americans fell by 13 per cent last year, reaching the lowest level since 1995 due in large part to a virtual halt to adoptions from Guatemala because of corruption problems.

China remained America's No. 1 source of adopted children, accounting for 3,401, according to figures released by the State Department on Monday for the 2010 fiscal year. Ethiopia was second, at 2,513, followed by Russia at 1,082 and South Korea at 863.

 

Guatemala was the No. 1 source country in 2008, with 4,123 adoptions by Americans. But the number sank to 756 for 2009 and to only 51 last year as the Central American country's fraud-riddled adoption industry was shut down while authorities drafted reforms.

The overall figures for 2010 showed 11,059 adoptions from abroad, down from 12,753 in 2009 and down more than 50 per cent from the all-time peak of 22,884 in 2004.

The last time there were fewer foreign adoptions to the U.S. was in 1995, when there were 9,679.

The latest figures did not include the more than 1,100 children airlifted from Haiti to the United States after the earthquake in January 2010. Most of those children were in the U.S. adoption pipeline, but the adoptions were not finalized by the end of the fiscal year.

The adoptions from Ethiopia were up by more than 200 from 2009, but adoptions from Russia fell by about 500.

Some pending adoptions from Russia were slowed after a Tennessee adoptive mother put a 7-year-old boy on a plane back to Moscow, unaccompanied by an adult, in April. As a result, U.S. officials agreed to a Russian demand to negotiate a new, binding agreement to cover adoptions between the two countries.

Organizations representing U.S. adoption agencies have called on the U.S. government to be more active in trying to reverse the decline in international adoptions. However, the State Department says any such efforts must be accompanied by initiatives to provide better options for orphans in their home countries, including support for birth parents and foster care.

"Not every child is going to be eligible for international adoption," said Susan Jacobs, the State Department's special adviser on children's issues. "The first thing we need to do is protect children in their own countries."

The State Department also reported that 43 American children were adopted by residents of foreign countries last year - 19 of them went to Canada and 18 to the Netherlands.

Poinsette: Adopting Third World children is voluntary colonization

Poinsette: Adopting Third World children is voluntary colonization

Freelance commentary

Bruce Poinsette | Freelance columnist

Published: Monday, January 31, 2011

Updated: Monday, January 31, 2011 01:01

Half a life: Abandoned, adopted, abandoned

Manisha (name changed) is 15 and brighteyed . She might be the regular teenager . The adults in contact with her say she is

polite and disciplined and is always ready to help anyone in trouble. But Manisha is not a regular teenager and hers is no

ordinary story. She lives in a home run by an NGO in Gurgaon for abandoned or abused children or those with special needs.

She is the helpless victim of inter-country adoption gone terribly wrong.

Six years ago, Manisha was adopted by an American family from a centre in Mumbai. But soon enough, they were unwilling to

Painful affairs of child adoption in Nepal

Anil Giri – AHN News Correspondent
Feature Story, Nepal (AHN) – Last September, American couple Haydn Hilling and his wife Edvige desperately wanted to take home their adopted Nepali child, Kailash. Though the American couple that hails from Louisiana spent more than one-and-a-half years getting the necessary paperwork required for the adoption, the process has come to a standstill following the United States’ decision to halt adoptions of abandoned children from Nepal.
The U.S. administration halted the adoption of Nepali children due to growing allegations of child trafficking and falsification of documents, often in connivance with government authorities.
A joint statement issued by the U.S. Department of State and the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services in the first week of August said the step was taken to protect the rights and interests of Nepali children and their families after field visits to orphanages and police departments showed that documents describing children up for adoption as abandoned were often unreliable.
Another 10 countries–Canada, Denmark, Germany, France, Norway, Sweden, Switzerland, Spain, Italy, and the United Kingdom–have also halted inter-country adoptions from Nepal.
According to Nepal’s Ministry of Women, Children and Social Welfare, new rules were put in place last December and some stern measures have been added to the process.
“The Hague Secretariat also wants the smooth resumption of child adoption here,” chief of the ministry’s legal section, Sher Jung Karki said. The new set of policies allows local placement agencies to charge US$5,000 to adopting parents, while the government charges US$3,000.
Any foreign placement agency must set up a liaison office in Nepal and pay the government US$10,000 that will be handed over to an organization working for the welfare of children. Subsequently, the process of inter-country adoption of street children is subject to widespread abuses, the government has banned the adoption effective from Jan. 5.
The new policy also allows Nobel laureates, heads of states/governments, foreign ministers, celebrities, or a couple with an annual income of over US$300,000 to become foster parents, while others cannot.
Largely, a vulnerable adoption process that had been taking place in Nepal since several years has compelled the US government more alerted and posed a ban. That was the reason that they could not adopted two – year – old Kailash which made them running from pillar to post that their call will be heard.
Now the list is long. As many as 56 American families are facing heartbreak due to the US Government decision to ban child adoption from Nepal until Nepal’s legal provision ensures that adopted children were not fraud and claim genuine.
These desperate 56 parents have instituted an alliance and had registered a petition in US Congress. “We respectfully request that the Right Honorable members of the US Senate and House petition the Department of State and USCIS within the Department of Homeland Security to assist the “Nepal Pipeline families” in obtaining visas to bring their children home immediately,” the petition reads.
In response to the petition, 14,398 letters and emails were sent far to support their campaign. Moreover they have internet campaign through blog, http://theywaitnepal.blogspot.com/. One can find the photos of to be adopted Nepali child and their US mother. “These families are struggling to bring home their legally adopted children who are stuck in Nepal awaiting visas that will allow them to enter the US,” they write in their blog.
Many anxious parents are waiting in the US also. Many are stranded since August, 2010.
It seems that child adoption in Nepal has been turned into a profitable business as dozens of websites and privately organizations have claimed that there were many advantages of adopting children from Nepal. “There are many advantages for adopting from Nepal. Even though Nepal is an economically poor country, children are cared for very well with few incidences of abuse or neglect. If you like the idea of adopting a baby or toddler, it would be an excellent country to consider,” claims, adoptionark.
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