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Spanish couple will adopt kid abandoned by mother
Aug 10th, 2010 - SUCHITRA KALYAN MOHANTY |
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The future was dark for five-year-old girl Bipasha when she was abandoned by her unwed mother, but it seems that there was a ray of hope for her, as a Spanish couple has recently approached the Missionaries of Charity for her adoption and filed a case of adoption in a Delhi court.
After hearing the plea, district judge (DJ) Gyan Prakash Mittal allowed the plea of the Spanish couple — Jordi Miralles Gomez and his wife — seeking Bipasha’s custody.
The DJ also directed the couple to furnish a surety of Rs 5 lakh for Bipasha’s adoption. Bipasha, who was born on January 21, 2005, was allegedly abandoned by her single mother at the Missionaries of Charity at Kanpur, Uttar Pradesh.
Seeking adoption of Bipasha, the Spanish couple pleaded before the court that since they had a son out of their marriage in 2004, but now, they wanted a girl.
The couple further told the court that they cannot have another child due to medical reasons.
The couple’s petition said, “Being very fond of children and having a desire to give home and shelter to a destitute child, we are keen and desirous of being appointed as guardians of a minor female child.”
The couple also submitted their passports, marriage certificate, sterility and health certificates, police clearance certificates, financial statements, employment, income certificates and property certificates to claim the adoption.
The child was declared legally free for adoption by the Child Welfare Committee, Kanpur, in 2009.
“For appointment of the guardian, the paramount consideration is the welfare of the minor,” the court observed while granting custody of Bipasha to the couple.
Taking into consideration that the gross annual income of the petitioners was Euro 1,29,000 (approximately Rs 80 lakh), the court said, “I am of the firm opinion that they were capable of maintaining themselves, their biological son and the female child
 

Court registry traces Dutch adoption

Court registry traces Dutch adoption
TNN, Aug 10, 2010, 06.13am IST
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MUMBAI: The 35-year-old record of the inter-country adoption of Daksha Van Dijck, which theBombay HC had directed its registry to trace, turned out to be four-five hand-written lines in the registry's record.

Van Dijck, now a psychologist, was adopted in 1975 by a Dutch national. She came back to India in 2001 in search of her biological parents. The court directed the registry to contact the Shraddhashram Mahilasharm for the adoption records and adjourned the case till August 13.

US tops list of adoptions from India

   
US tops list of adoptions from India
New Delhi, Aug 9 (IANS):

At least 3,976 Indian children were placed for inter-country adoption through the Central Adoption Resource Agency (CARA) with the highest 1,500 placed in the US between 2005-2009, the Rajya Sabha was informed Monday.

Of the 3,976 children adopted in foreign countries, the highest - 1,500 - were placed in the US, followed by 679 in Italy and 320 in Spain. 

CARA monitors the welfare of children placed for inter-country adoption through post-adoption follow-up reports received from enlisted foreign agencies which are accredited to the government of the receiving country, said Women and Child Development Minister Krishna Tirath.

CARA has laid down guidelines for regulating inter-country adoption. These are based on the provisions of the Hague Convention on Inter-country Adoption 1993, ratified by India in 2003, as well as the directions of the Supreme Court.

Have mercy on a father, Madge

Have mercy on a father, Madge

 

Aug 8, 2010 12:00 AM | By BONGANI MTHETHWA 

Malawian dad of Madonna's adopted child wants to see her


SAVING UP: James Kambewa hopes to get enough money to visit his daughter in London Picture: JACKIE CLAUSEN
SAVING UP: James Kambewa hopes to get enough money to visit his daughter in London Picture: JACKIE CLAUSEN
quote 'I think about her every day. Having a baby is a blessing. So I go through the emotional pain of not living with her every day' quote

The Malawian father of pop star Madonna's adopted daughter is waiting tables in Durban to save up for a flight to London to see his only child.

If James Kambewa makes it that far, it will be the first time he sets eyes on the five-year-old since her controversial adoption by Madonna about a year ago.

Kambewa moved to South Africa from his home town of Kasungu last September, missing a rare chance to see Mercy in the flesh when the 52-year-old singer and her daughter visited Malawi in April to set up a £10-million academy for girls.

In an interview with the Sunday Times this week, an emotional Kambewa recalled his heartbreak at never having met "my baby".

"As a father, I think about her every day. Having a baby is a blessing. So I go through the emotional pain of not living with her every day," he said.

But the shy 26-year-old, who has accepted he will never gain custody of his daughter, admitted he had no idea how to go about securing a meeting with Madonna and his child.

"I would like to make peace with Madonna so I can meet my baby," he said.

"I need someone to advise on me how to go about doing that. From the time I learnt that my daughter was still alive, I've been longing for a chance to meet her."

He said he had initially opposed his daughter's adoption by the singer because he wanted her to grow up as a Malawian and be raised according to his own culture.

"Sadly, she can't learn any of that now, but I would still like her to be raised in a good way that any child is supposed to be raised," he said.

Kambewa has only seen his daughter on TV and in newspapers. He does, however, have six pictures of her taken when she was three, sent to him by a friend. He would not elaborate on how his friend had obtained those photos.

Mercy's mum, who was 14 when she fell pregnant, died while giving birth to her, and Kambewa said he believed that his daughter had died with her.

He said he discovered later, through a friend, that Mercy was alive and at an orphanage.

He declined to talk about circumstances around the discovery of his child, except to say: "It's a very long story and I don't want to talk about that."

Relatives of Mercy's mother, who were angered that Kambewa had shirked his responsibility as a father, reportedly backed Madonna's adoption bid.

Kambewa had tried unsuccessfully to convince the Malawian authorities that he was the biological father of the child.

Despite having offered to go for a DNA test to prove paternity, as well as his willingness to appear in court, his efforts were fruitless.

Madonna had met Mercy at a Malawi orphanage in 2006 - the same year she adopted another Malawian child, David Banda, from another orphanage.

Malawian law prohibits foreigners from adopting unless they have been resident in the country for at least 18 months. However, the country's supreme court overturned a lower court ruling barring Madonna from adopting Mercy and decided that the singer's charity work in the country made her worthy of adopting a child from there without being a permanent resident.

Madonna's charity, Raising Malawi, helps feed, educate and provide healthcare for more than a million orphans.

But human rights groups accused the government of giving the singer special treatment and said the case would encourage foreigners to adopt Malawian children at will.

"I would appreciate if Madonna could even send me pictures of how she looks like now as I don't get any pleasure of being with her. It's emotionally painful for me as a father," he said.

"I'm very happy that Madonna is taking care of her. But as a parent, from the moment I heard that she was still alive, I wanted to meet with her and I'm hopeful that I'll meet her one day."

Formulate law on inter-country adoptions: SC

Formulate law on inter-country adoptions: SC

First Published : 08 Aug 2010 11:30:28 AM IST
Last Updated : 08 Aug 2010 11:41:06 AM IST
 
NEW DELHI: Expressing apprehension that Indian children adopted by foreign nationals could be exploited, the Supreme Court has asked the Government to consider formulation of a suitable law to regulate inter-country adoptions.
A bench of Justices Markandeya Katju and T S Thakur observed that presently there is no legislation in the country on such adoptions as a result of which Indian children adopted by foreign parents are vulnerable to exploitation.
The bench passed the direction while appointing Solicitor General Gopal Subramanium as amicus curiae (special counsel) to assist the court on the tricky issue while dealing with the special leave petition filed by a cerebral palsy-afflicted American and his wife who wanted to adopt a mentally challenged 11-year old boy.
"Why should we interfere with the concurrent findings of the District Judge and the Delhi High Court that the child could be exploited. The question is once the child is taken out of the country, the jurisdiction of Indian courts ends.
(Then) What will be the fate of the child," the bench asked a senior counsel appearing for the couple.
The Delhi High Court had on August 31 last year rejected the plea of Craig Allen Coates and his wife Cynthia Ann Coates, residents of Winnebago, USA, to adopt a minor Indian after holding that the couple, already having two sons and a daughters, intended to exploit him as a domestic help.
It had concurred with the findings of a District Judge that the intention of the couple did not appear to be bonafide.
"The real intention of the appellants (Coates) in adopting the child who is suffering from mental delays (mental growth has not kept pace with age) appears to exploit him as domestic help for the husband who has been suffering from cerebral palsy since birth," Justice V B Gupta of the High Court had observed.
The boy is presently lodged at a child welfare centre in Saritha Vihar.
The High Court had said the wife was working as a supervisor nurse and getting a huge salary in the US and the couple wanted to adopt the boy so as to employ him to look after her husband.
It also imposed a cost of Rs 20,000 on the couple for abusing the process of law. Aggrieved by the High Court's ruling, the couple filed the SLP in the Supreme Court.
The apex court, while refusing to grant any immediate relief to the couple, said in an order, "We also request the Law Commission to consider recommending legislation on the matter of inter-country adoptions as at present there is no legislation on the subject and there is a pressing need for the same.
"The Law Ministry, Government of India, may also look into the matter," the bench said, while adjourning the matter by four weeks.
 
 

Brekelmans: Goedbedoeld, maar toch mislukt

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  Goedbedoeld, maar toch mislukt

Nederland telt honderden particulieren initiatieven gericht op hulp aan arme landen. Die hulp is altijd goed bedoeld en komt ook heel vaak echt aan bij de mensen die het nodig hebben. Maar soms gaat het mis. Zoals in het geval van oud CDA-statenlid Maarten Brekelmans.

Disability Rights International Launches New Name and Website

Disability Rights International Launches New Name and Website

August 6, 2010, Washington, DC– We are proud to announce our organization’s new name, Disability Rights International. Our mission has not changed. Formerly Mental Disability Rights International, we remain committed to protecting the human rights and promoting the integration into society of people with disabilities. Our new name reflects the reality that people with any kind of disability—whether mental or physical—are often shut away from society, locked in institutions, and denied basic human dignity and rights.


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The Worldwide Campaign to End the Institutionalization of Children

After years of fighting abuses against children on a country-by-country basis, Disability Rights International has gathered much evidence that the institutionalization of children with disabilities is a worldwide problem. Over the past 16 years we have documented abuses against children in over 25 countries in the Americas, the United States, Eastern Europe and Russia, the Middle East and Asia.  The dangers of institutionalizing children are pervasive and take place all over the world, including well-resourced, developed countries.  Disability Rights International is calling for an end to the institutionalization and abuse of children.      

The goal of the Worldwide Campaign to End the Institutionalization of Children, including our forthcoming report and follow-up advocacy, is to challenge underlying policies that lead to abuses against children on a global scale.  One of the main drivers of institutionalization – particularly in developing countries – is the use of misdirected foreign assistance funding to build new institutions or rebuild old crumbling facilities, instead of providing assistance and access to services for families who want to keep their children at home. Disability Rights International’s worldwide report will document the role of international funders in perpetuating the segregation of children with disabilities.       

Locked away and forgotten      

Children with disabilities around the world are locked away in institutions and forgotten – many from birth. We have seen children left permanently tied into cribs and beds where many die. Some die from intentional lack of medical care as their lives are not deemed worthy. Some die from lack of touch and love. Most in these conditions never make it to adolescence. And those who do are condemned to a lifetime inside the walls of an institution just for having a disability. Children with disabilities are rarely eligible for foster care in countries where it is available and parents who do want to keep their children with a disability almost never receive any help or support. And governments and international donors spend millions worldwide building and rebuilding these torture chambers for children with disabilities instead of supporting families, substitute families when necessary and community services and education.     

    

Child in Restraint Chair

Child in restraint chair at the Judge Rotenberg Center in the US

Atrophied Child in Romania

A teenager in Romania, muscles atrophied from a lifetime in a crib

Jorge in cage

A teenager with austism, Jorge, locked in a filthy cell in Paraguay

Findings by Disability Rights International on conditions of institutionalized children includes:    

– In Mexico, there is almost no official oversight of children in private institutions, and children have literally “disappeared” from public record. Preliminary evidence suggests that children with disabilities have been “trafficked” into forced labor or sex slavery; 

– In the United States, children with autism and other mental disabilities living at a residential school in Massachusetts are being given electric shocks as a form of “behavior modification”; 

– We have found children with autism in Paraguay and Uruguay locked in cages;

– In Turkey, children as young as 9 years old were being given electro-shock treatments without anesthesia until we exposed the barbaric treatment; 

– In Romania, we found teenagers with both mental and physical disabilities hidden away in an adult psychiatric institution – near death from intentional starvation. Some of the teens weighed less than 30 pounds;

– In Russia, we uncovered thousands of neglected infants and babies in the “lying down rooms,” where row after row of babies with disabilities both live and die in their cribs.

– In almost all institutions with children, we find them rocking back and forth, chewing their fingers or hands or gouging at their eyes or hitting themselves – all attempts to feel something rather than nothing and a reaction to total sensory deprivation and a lack of human love or contact;

Instead of providing children with the families or caregivers and the love they need, self abusive children in institutions are tied into cribs and chairs, tethered into strait jackets, wrapped tightly into blankets, and hands covered completely in plastic bottles, causing more pain to a child already living a horribly abused and neglected life.  

The reform of international development policy is essential to our goal of ending the worldwide institutionalization of children with disabilities.  We have found that the United Nations, European governments, and other international donors play a major role in perpetuating the institutionalization of children with disabilities. In developing countries, the infusion of foreign financial support can have tremendous influence on social policies and human rights.  Well-meaning but misguided international donors have, unfortunately, been part of the problem in much of the world.  International support has often been used to rebuild and refurbish orphanages, psychiatric facilities, and other institutions at the expense of community programs and families. This support reinforces outmoded systems of institution-based services and perpetuates discrimination and segregation of children with disabilities worldwide.     

We need to establish a worldwide consensus that institutionalization of children with disabilities can and should be brought to an end. We need to fight to protect those children suffering today and to stop the next generation of children with disabilities from ever being locked away and forgotten   

Surgeons arrested in Ukraine for selling transplant organs

Surgeons arrested in Ukraine for selling transplant organs

Donors were recruited and paid up to $10,000 for their kidneys and other organs

Ukraine's interior ministry says four surgeons and four others have been arrested for taking part in a scheme to recruit organ donors from former Soviet countries and transplant the organs into wealthy foreigners.

The head of the ministry's department on human trafficking, Yuriy Kucher, says the scheme was headed by an Israeli who was arrested last month.

Kucher said yesterday that they sought mostly kidneys from people in Ukraine and other countries. Most of those who sold their organs for up to $10,000 (£6,300) were impoverished young women.

Surgeries were performed in Kiev, Azerbaijan and Ecuador, Kucher said. The surgeries cost up to $200,000 apiece.Those arrested have been charged with human trafficking and face up to 15 years in prison if convicted.

China police rescue 22 abducted women, children

China police rescue 22 abducted women, children

BEIJING — Police rescued 22 women and children abducted by a human-trafficking ring that operated in southern China for two decades, state media reported Thursday.

Eighteen victims were reunited with family members during an emotional ceremony Wednesday in Nanning city in southern Guangxi province, the official Xinhua News Agency said.

Guangxi police uncovered the ring during a three-month investigation and arrested seven people in coastal Fujian province on July 22, Xinhua said. One of the suspects confessed to police the group had operated since 1989, kidnapping women and children from cities in Guangxi to sell in Fujian.

Human trafficking is a serious problem in China, which has a thriving black market in girls and women who are sold as brides. Babies are also abducted or bought from poor families to sell to childless couples.

Newspaper photos and television images showed an emotional reunion, with weeping mothers hugging their children.

State broadcaster China Central Television showed one father crying as he sat next to his son, telling reporters: "It has been a few years. Every time I saw other people with their children on the streets I would think of him. I missed him so much."

Introducing Andrew-Aleksandar Thomas Santor!!

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 4, 2010

Introducing Andrew-Aleksandar Thomas Santor!!

We have just received word this evening that the Bulgarian court has approved our adoption. He is officially our son!!! We had been checking our email ALL day, knowing that our case was being heard today, and had finally given up on hearing anything. Jen checked one last time around 6:30 while we were heating up dinner and getting ready for the college home group we host. There was the email! We all started screaming and kissing. We've been wired ever since. You can imagine how difficult it was to put the kids to bed tonight!









We are told that the actual court decree will take another two weeks. After that the Bulgarian agency will work on getting his new birth certificate and paperwork required by the Hague convention. We will not know our travel dates until this happens, but we are expecting no later than early September.

Money for the remaining amount continues to trickle in. On Monday night, our 3yr. old niece emptied her piggy bank into our donation jar that sits on the counter. We've learned to thank God for every penny of provision and not discard even the smallest gift.

We are still needing over $9,000 to finally bring our son home. This amount includes air fare, agency fees, medical exit exam and a weeks worth of accomodations while we travel. If you would like to be a part of bringing Andrew home please click on one of the fundraisers listed on the sides of this post. Just in the last few weeks we've received $40 from a friend at church, $10 for a loaf of Jen's bread, the piggy bank money from our niece, and even a $10 donation via the "Donate" button on this page.

Another friend from church is offering a photography class. The cost of the class will be donated to our adoption fund. Just to have someone help by taking up our cause is a tremendous blessing and we are so grateful.


God has provided every cost upfront from the first $550 application fee. So we are in no positon to doubt his provision now. This is His story and He will be faithful to finish what He started.

On a side note:
Two weekends ago Jen suddenly felt the urgent need (nesting?)to make sure everything was in place for Andrew's homecoming, even though we had no news. We needed two dressers for the boys and wanted bookshelves to organize our home (specifically the homeschool materials that had accumulated in piles throughout the house).

We decided to take a trip to IKEA to see what we could find. We found two solid wood dresser within our budget, but were not sure if the dimensions would fit so we decided to go home and check the measurements. On our way out the door we notice the "As Is" section. There we discovered two 4' w X 6'h solid wood bookshelves. $62 a piece, marked down from $250! We grabbed them.

When they were assembled at home they not only fit all of our home school supplies but also all of Aaron's books that have been sitting in boxes in our attic for the past 7yrs. We took some measurements and realized that it would not be difficult to build in a corner desk between the bookshelves. Jen's mom and dad eagerly planned the whole thing out so that once we had the money we could finish it off.


The following weekend we returned to pick up the two dressers that we now knew would fit; however, this weekend there was only one on the shelf. As we spoke with a service guy in the "As Is" section, Jen's dad noticed two solid wood dressers already loaded on a cart, bigger and better than the two we were trying to buy. $49 a piece, marked down from $200!

Jen's dad was determined to make our desk happen now and suggested quickly looking down an aisle for desk tops. We found an exact sized piece of wood for the desk and the shelf above only $20 a piece, so now we wouldn't have to wait. The very next day her parents came and worked until 1a.m. to finish the desk.

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Altogether we bought 2 brand new, solid wood dressers, 2 brand new, solid wood bookshelves and a custom built, solid wood desk for only $328!! Again God provides.