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Scottsdale man adjusts to diaper, other daddy duties

Scottsdale man adjusts to diaper, other daddy duties

 

When Craig Juntunen asked his wife, Kathi, about adopting children, she reminded him how he struggled through Thanksgiving around nieces and nephews.

He glared at misbehaving children at restaurants. And when she suggested vacationing at Disneyland, he declined because, naturally, kids would be there.

All true.

 

But only days earlier, during a 2006 golf game with a friend, the friend mentioned he had adopted two girls from Haiti. Between the 14th and 17th holes, Juntunen knew he was going to Haiti, too.

Juntunen got a vasectomy at age 30, retired at 40 and lived a life of golf and skiing in Scottsdale and the Colorado Rockies. Juntunen said he chose never to have children because as he was building his consulting business, he never wanted to feel conflicted.

"I didn't want to be looking at my watch, thinking it's time to go home now," he said.

And life was fun after retirement, but also hollow.

"I had become disenchanted. I remember standing at the first tee and thinking, 'There's got to be more to life than this.' "

At 51, Juntunen went to Haiti on an exploration trip, he said. He wanted to see the impoverished conditions. He returned, having adopted three children, Amelec, 5, Espie, 4, and Quinn, less than a year old.

The children, Juntunen found, each had their own way of making it known they were meant to be his and Kathi's. As he walked around the orphanage holding Espie's hand, she suddenly broke into the cartoon walk Juntunen often does as he walks the dogs. Amelec fit the exact specifications of the child in their adoption dreams. And Quinn, then maybe only 2 months old, grabbed his thumb and wouldn't let go. He still grabs Juntunen's thumb today.

Kathi, then 48, said she, too, had tried to fill the emptiness she felt with volunteer work. "But I always felt like there was something missing."

When the three children who spoke no English arrived seven months later it was like having triplets.

"It was hard. We didn't know what we were doing," he said. "I was never the dad guy. But I always said to myself, 'What a great mom Kathi would be.' And she is great mom."

There were great highs and great lows. Everything was new to the children. Ice cream. Coke. A belt.

Only 10 days after they arrived at their home in DC Ranch, the oldest children began attending El Dorado private school.

Juntunen, his wife said, threw himself into the job. He changed diapers, bought groceries and rolled around on the floor with the kids. It's clear when Espie drapes herself around him and Quinn backs up against his legs that they love him.

"I was completely overwhelmed," he said. "But if I could do it and love it, and I do, anyone can."

Shortly after adopting the children, Juntunen started Chances for Children, an organization aimed at streamlining the adoption process and making what can be a $15,000 to $24,000 procedure more affordable. Last year, the organization aided in 30 adoptions at an orphanage it sponsors, and this year it's on track for 40 adoptions.

Now, three years later, the children are ages 8, 7 and 3. Amelec plays baseball and soccer. Espie is in ballet. And Quinn can sing his alphabet.

This year, Juntunen published a book, "Both Ends Burning," about his transformation from a life of leisure man to family man.

In one of the later chapters in the book, Juntunen describes how he overcame his fear of Disneyland and how he found his three days there came too fast. At the end of the trip, Amelec asked his father, "Dad is this a magic place?"

"What do you think son?"

"Yes, Dad, I think so."

"Amelec," he says, "you are right."

 


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Dozens of human smugglers captured

Dozens of human smugglers captured

‘MOMMIES’: : The human smuggling ring uses women as mules to transport Chinese girls to the US, where they are likely to wind up trapped in brothels or sweatshops

By Jenny W. hsu

STAFF REPORTER

Friday, Jun 19, 2009, Page 1

Taiwan's 'largest' human smuggling ring smashed

Taiwan's 'largest' human smuggling ring smashed

Taiwan News, Staff Writer

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2009-06-19 12:08 AM

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Sozialbehörde fordert Aufklärung von SterniPark Wo sind die Babys aus der Babyklappe?

Sozialbehörde fordert Aufklärung von SterniPark Wo sind die Babys aus der Babyklappe?

Babys aus Babyklappe

Baby Flo (9 Wochen) guckt etwas kritisch in die Welt. Das Neugeborene ist eins der Kinder, die in SterniPark-Babyklappen abgelegt wurden

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Nigeria: Saving the Orphan

Nigeria: Saving the Orphan

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Cécile Brossard is jailed for eight years over bondage murder

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June 19, 2009

Cécile Brossard is jailed for eight years over bondage murder

Charles Bremner, in Paris

A mistress who murdered a billionaire banker during a bondage session was jailed for 8½ years yesterday after a Swiss jury accepted that he had humiliated and harassed her.

Taiwan smashes 'largest-ever' human smuggling ring

Taiwan smashes 'largest-ever' human smuggling ring

Central News Agency

2009-06-18 06:48 PM

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Adoption of Ethiopian children halted, then resumed

Adoption of Ethiopian children halted, then resumed

POSTED: 18 JUNE, 2009

Topics in this story: abandoned children , addis ababa , bethany christian services , ethiopiaEthiopia (MNN) ? In a city where the number of abandoned children has recently increased tremendously, Ethiopian Courts are no longer accepting cases involving abandoned children from orphanages in Addis Ababa, according to Bethany Christian Services.

This decision affected three orphanages in Addis Ababa: Kebebe Tsehay Orphanage, Ketchene Orphanage and Kolfe Youth Center.

The courts observed a great increase in children being brought for adoption from the Addis Ababa orphanages. Because the number of abandoned children has increased so dramatically in past months, Ethiopian authorities suspect immoral practices in some of the cases.

Two lawyers in the scheme of child trafficking

SANS lawyers arrested after the publication of the newspaper The Telegraph

Three lawyers in the scheme of child trafficking

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MONITOR 06/18/2009 Two lawyers were arrested by agents of the National Security Agency on suspicion of being involved in the scheme of child trafficking. For 72 hours were detained lawyer Emil Kostadinov, a junior lawyer and Albena Stoyanova Dilyana Cherimi. The action of the SANS and the National Investigation was conducted after the publication of the Gazette Telegraph.

The three are charged with the formation of an organized criminal group that operates in the recruitment, transportation, concealment and acceptance of pregnant women to sell their children.

Taiwan smashes 'largest-ever' human smuggling ring

Taiwan smashes 'largest-ever' human smuggling ring
 
 
 
Central News Agency
2009-06-18 06:48 PM
 
Taipei, June 18 (CNA) Immigration authorities announced Thursday that they have smashed the largest-ever human smuggling ring in Taiwan's history, a case that involved over 50 Chinese children who were taken to the United States using fake documents obtained from Taiwanese parents and accompanied by a Taiwanese chaperone. Members of the human trafficking gang swindled local children's ID documents from their parents and used them to apply for Republic of China passports which were later doctored with photos of the Chinese children, according to the Border Affairs Corps of the National Immigration Agency.

Ring members then used these forged passports to apply for U.S.

visas. Once they got the visas in Taiwan, they took the fake passports to Hong Kong, where the fake passport holders, mainly underage children from China, would use them to travel to the United States, accompanied by one of several Taiwanese women hired by the gang to serve as a pseudo parent or guardian for the child to dupe U.S. immigration officials.

These Taiwanese women, aware or unaware of the scheme, were paid US$1,000 to US$1,500 in reward for each trip.

Under the fraudulent scheme, more than 50 Chinese children, all underage girls, have successfully entered the United States using the fake ROC passports, the corps said.

A total of 74 Taiwanese suspects allegedly involved in the smuggling operation have been handed over to the Taoyuan Prosecutors Office for further investigation, according to the agency.

The corps said it tracked down the ring after analyzing clues from scores of cases which seemed irrelevant on the surface. It finally solved the case following months of investigations.

(By Flor Wang)