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In search of adoption, childless German couples go abroad

In search of adoption, childless German couples go abroad
22.09.2010


Großansicht des Bildes mit der Bildunterschrift: Couples are increasingly going abroad to find children
Nowadays in Germany, people who are hoping to adopt a child are more likely than before to search abroad. Sometimes their reasons are altruistic, but other times it just comes down to one thing: supply and demand.


Ralf Bockstedte, a successful lawyer from Essen who represents soccer clubs and players, said he and his wife Tanja decided 15 years ago to have children, but were "shattered" when they discovered they could not do it biologically. They first decided to adopt a child four years ago, but never did they consider an adoption within Germany.

"To adopt within Germany in our age is quite difficult," he said. "The child would probably have been something from 10 years on. And we rather wanted a baby."

German law allows a maximum age gap of 40 years between adoptive parents and the child. While both Ralf and Tanja are 39, being at the upper end of the age bracket would likely make things more difficult - a longer waiting time, or no baby at all.

Bildunterschrift: Großansicht des Bildes mit der Bildunterschrift: Poor countries need adoption to give parentless children basic rights, Katz says

They also could have tried for an open adoption in Germany, where the biological parent or parents maintain some contact with the child throughout its life, but Ralf said that did not have the same appeal as adopting an infant.

"Obviously it's great if there is a family doing that, but it wasn't our way," he said.

Developing world

So the Bockstedtes went for an adoption from Colombia, and four years later came home with their new daughter Maria - the eighth child of a housekeeper and the fourth to be put up for adoption.

Colombia is one of the most common countries for German couples to adopt from. The country has developed a relatively strong system of protection for orphaned and abandoned children, and it is one of the strictest adherents to the 1993 Hague Convention, which regulates international adoption.

Adoptions from Colombia take longer than those from closer countries like Russia, which is also popular among Germans. But they also tend to be more transparent and structured, according to Susana Katz, founder and director of AdA, the adoption agency that the Bockstedtes worked with.

Bildunterschrift: Großansicht des Bildes mit der Bildunterschrift: Germany's declining birthrate makes domestic adoption difficult

"Inter-country adoptions are working now because the countries of origin of the children are poor," Katz said. "In Germany, there are no children for adoption, almost. The children aren't hungry; they are financed by the state. In other countries, for example Colombia, the state needs inter-country adoptions to give the children basic rights, like eating."

Supply and demand

While Colombia has more parentless children than it can take care of, increasing its supply, Germany has not only a low birth rate, but also a stronger social welfare system. Children of parents who cannot take care of them are placed in foster homes, supported by state money, or with other relatives, Katz said.

This has contributed to the steadily declining rate of adoptions in Germany over the past decade. In 2009, just under 4,000 adoptions took place - about half of them from step-parents.

Bildunterschrift: Großansicht des Bildes mit der Bildunterschrift: Wealthier countries are often following the same trend as Germany

But for those couples who choose to bypass Germany's adoption system and turn abroad, cost can also be a prohibitive factor. Translation, consultation, legal review, travel, etc. amount to between 15,000 and 20,000 euros for a foreign adoption from Germany.

Despite its limited supply of children for adoption, the German domestic adoption system is almost entirely financed by the state - parents only pay a few small fees for background checks and medical examinations.

Application process

In order to qualify for an adoption, domestic or international, couples or individuals must undergo a series of inspections and consultations with state representatives to confirm their fitness to be parents.

David Fermer, a 36-year-old author living in Cologne, and his wife Phillis, a 42-year-old filmmaker, are relatively early on in the application process. They said they were also told that adoption from within Germany can take much longer and be much more difficult than going abroad. And after Phillis visited an orphanage in Mali for work, they decided to adopt a child from Africa.

"The nice thing about the adoption process which I find is that it makes you reflect about who you are, where you are, where you come from," said David. "And it also starts a dialogue as a couple."

He said at a meeting with the state social worker, he and his wife had to write a report on their family of origin, detailing how their history has influenced them. He said coming from a troubled childhood himself, he found inspiration from his wife's story.

"I was so moved because I could see what a happy family she came from," he said. "That's what you want to do for your children, make sure they're as happy as possible."

Author: Andrew Bowen
Editor: Andreas Illmer

Court rules on adoption by grandparent

Wednesday, 22 September, 2010, 13:29

Court rules on adoption by grandparent


Unless a child has no ties with their biological parents, adoption by the grandparents must remain an exceptional circumstance.

That’s a ruling today by the Federal Supreme Court.

It came on an appeal from a couple in Bern who have so far raised their 10-year-old grandson but were denied the right to officially adopt him.

That’s because their daughter, his mother, lives nearby and the whole family has a close relationship.

The Court said that while adoption by grandparents is allowed by law, it should only be permitted when the child has no contact at all with one of their parents regardless of who is raising the child.

Adoption agency seeks HC nod to process pending cases

Adoption agency seeks HC nod to process pending cases
Swati Deshpande, TNN, Sep 21, 2010, 04.25am IST

MUMBAI: The Central Adoption and Resource Agency (CARA), the governing agency that looks into the adoption process in India, filed an application before the Bombay HC on Monday, seeking permission to process the 17 pending cases of inter-country adoption.

These cases have been pending since the Pune-based adoption agency Preet Mandir has had its licence suspended, the agency said. Central government lawyer Vinod Joshi who made the application stated that there are two Criminal Writ Petitions, filed by Sakhee, an NGO, and Advait Foundation pending before the HC in which the court permitted the CBI to carry out further investigations in November 2009.

According to CARA, it had given Preet Mandir recognition between July 2009 to July 2011 and that the agency was permitted to place children in inter-country adoption. It said that since the November order of the HC, CARA decided not to issue NOCs for inter-country adoption cases put up by Preet Mandir. CARA also directed Preet Mandir "not to send any referral to any foreign agency or central authority till it is given a clean chit by the CBI or HC.

But CARA had said that cases which had already received an NOC prior to February 15 would not be affected. CARA's application said that in May it had revoked its recognition to Preet Mandir to act as an agency for inter country adoptions. But now, CARA informed the court that 17 cases, which it had received from Preet Mandir prior to May, needs to be considered as the children are growing up.

"It is necessary to take appropriate steps in respect of pending files,'' said the CARA application presented before a bench of Justices Ajay Khanwilkar and U D Shinde. The bench has said that the Chief Justice should be approached so that the three pending cases be clubbed.

CARA said it wants to get these inter-country adoption cases processed through other agencies to avoid delay. On September 8, the HC had directed CARA to have a "more humane approach'' to pending cases in which inter-country adoptions have been stalled for three years because it has not issued NOC.


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Busy with Bombay high court case, Pune home denies care to child

Busy with Bombay high court case, Pune home denies care to child
Published: Tuesday, Sep 21, 2010, 0:10 IST
Place: Mumbai | Agency: DNA

Pune’s contentious adoption home Preet Mandir has challenged the revocation of its licence before the Bombay high court.
However, while the decision for the adoption centre may go either way, a one-year-old girl with special needs is being denied parental care as her adoption cannot be processed.
The girl, who has been matched with an overseas citizen of India couple (name withheld), is one among 17 children from Preet Mandir whose case the Central Adoption Resources Authority (Cara) was asked to process in January.
The couple has been waiting to adopt her and take her home to South Africa. Shirin Merchant, the couple’s advocate, said, “The girl suffers from a major hearing problem. The couple had wanted to take her to South Africa and give her the necessary treatment. If she is not given the medical attention soon she may even lose her ability to hear.”
While the Cara had moved for the grant of a no-objection certificate on January 30, Preet Mandir’s licence was revoked on May 20.
Counsel for the Cara told the court on Monday that after the revocation, the transfer of the children from Preet Mandir to other institutions had been stayed by another bench of the court.
Merchant said, “Now we either have to wait for court orders in the case of transferring children or file a separate application for
our case.”


Pakistani marauders abducting women and children

Pakistani marauders abducting women and children

It is a growing phenomenon, observed by local charitable and non-governmental organizations in Pakistan. Among the flood refugees there are a rising number of cases of abductions and disappearances of women and children by human traffickers. The alert, already launched in recent weeks by Christian charitable groups is now, through great effort, seeing concrete facts, testimonies, and figures.

According to data from the National Disaster Management Authority, circulated by the NGO "Roshni Missing Children Helpline, 400 cases of missing children have been recorded in the last month. The volunteers of Roshni Missing Children Helpline, an NGO based in Karachi, visited several refugee camps in Karachi, Thatta, Dadu, and Sukkur, conducting a specific investigation on child trafficking. They noted 23 cases of missing children, between 5 and 17 years of age.

"We continue to collect stories from organizations involved on the ground. But the government and international agencies of the United Nations do not want to seriously consider this. Only local NGOs are working on it, because they receive complaints of desperate families affected by it," says Tahira Abdullah Fides, a Muslim human rights activist involved in various national organizations. "There are no official figures because the institutions do not deal with it, so it is impossible to make an adequate estimate," he notes. Therefore, as reported to Fides, many local NGOs are being organized to collect data and stories, especially in the inland areas of Sindh and Punjab.

One report noted that a large refugee family, composed of several smaller families, took refuge in a camp in the area of Muzaffargarh, in Punjab. Some men brought food to the refugees and all were fed. They then fell into a deep sleep, because the food was drugged. In the morning, they realized that all the girls in the family, between 14 and 18 years had disappeared. "These are criminal gangs that enter the tent areas. In these cases, probably, the girls are forced into prostitution," notes Tahira Abdullah.

For children, however, their fate is the network of organized beggars, domestic labor, forced labor, trafficking of drugs or organ transplantation, volunteers say. Haider Yaqub, Pakistani Director of the NGO Plan International, committed to the protection of minors, said "We know, having worked after disasters like the tsunami or the earthquake in Kashmir, that traffickers seek to benefit from situations of displacement and misery. Currently, we operate in three districts of Sindh and three in southern Punjab, and we have not found serious cases of child abduction, but only cases of missing children whom we strive to reunite with their family. However, I fear that the phenomenon is growing. We are conducting a research to collect data and cases.

The Asian Human Rights Commission, urging Pakistani institutions to take appropriate action, said: "In this flood disaster, there is a lack of planning, coordination, and concrete measures to help women and children avoid violence, including that of human traffickers."

Source: FIDES

Italian official claims link between homosexual adoption and human trafficking

Italian official claims link between homosexual adoption and human trafficking

Rome, Italy, Sep 21, 2010 / 02:58 pm (CNA).- The Secretary of State for Family Policy in Italy, Carlo Giovanardi, stated in an interview this week that he believes there is a connection between adoption by same-sex couples and the increase in the human trafficking of minors.

In the interview with political analyst Klaus Davi, Giovanardi noted that “where the adoption by gay couples is allowed, such as in the U.S. and Brazil,” the countries have exploded with the “buying and selling of children.”

“It is something that at least this government will never accept and I want to denounce it from here.”

“To impose two parents of the same sex on a child is to subject that child to psychological violence,” Giovanardi continued. “A child has the right to grow up” in an environment where “a paternal and maternal figure complement each other and guarantee the child balanced development,” he added.

Crisi dell’adozione internazionale (3), Roma: le idoneità diminuiscono del 74%

Data: 21-09-10

Crisi dell’adozione internazionale (3), Roma: le idoneità diminuiscono del 74%

Continua il servizio di approfondimento di “Ai.Bi. News” dedicato alla crisi delle adozioni internazionali e al crollo dei decreti di idoneità emessi dai Tribunali per i Minorenni alle aspiranti coppie adottive.

La realtà di Roma rappresenta uno dei casi più significativi: nel 2007 erano stati 630 i decreti emessi dal Tribunale per i Minorenni della capitale, 545 quelli rilasciati nel 2008 e 165 del 2009.

Un crollo ancora più preoccupante rispetto a quello che si è avuto a Bologna e Firenze. Nel capoluogo emiliano si è registrato un sensibile calo delle idoneità, (da 400 a 229 decreti in 4 anni), anche dalla Toscana è arrivata una secca battuta di arresto (dal 2006 al 2009 siamo passati da 616 decreti di idoneità concessi nel 2006 ad appena 341 nel 2009).

Sulla questione abbiamo interpellato Melita Cavallopresidente del Tribunale per i Minorenni di Roma e già presidente della Commissione per le Adozioni Internazionali (CAI).

“E’ vero, c’è stato un calo nei decreti emessi dai Tribunali per i Minorenni però a mio avviso il problema più grave a cui dobbiamo far fronte oggi è un altro: molte autorità straniere vedono l’adozione internazionale come un canale per dare una famiglia a bambini in età avanzata e con problemi di salute molto gravi. Nel mio Tribunale ho dovuto gestire storie di fallimenti adottivi dolorose per i figli, che una volta arrivati in Italia sono stati abbandonati dalla loro famiglia adottiva, e altrettanto gravi per le coppie, che non hanno saputo gestire l’accoglienza di adolescenti di 13 anni o con problemi di salute irreversibili.

Non possiamo chiudere gli occhi di fronte a questa realtà, ma dobbiamo impegnarci, Tribunali per i Minorenni, enti autorizzati e Commissione per le Adozioni internazionali (CAI) per tutelare sia i bambini che le famiglie.” ha concluso Cavallo


Of international crisis (3), Rome: the eligibility decreases by 74% 
Continues the service that "Ai.Bi. News "devoted to the crisis of international adoptions and the collapse of the eligibility decrees issued by the Juvenile Courts to prospective adoptive couples. 

The reality of Rome is one of the most significant cases, in 2007 were 630 decrees issued by the Juvenile Court in the capital, 545 certificates issued in 2008 and 165 in 2009. 

A collapse even more disturbing than what we had in Bologna and Florence. In the capital of Emilia has been a marked decline in decrees (from 400 to 229 orders in four years), also from Tuscany came a sharp setback (from 2006 to 2009 we went from 616 decrees granted in 2006 to just fit 341 in 2009). 

 On this question we asked Melita Cavallo, chairman of the Juvenile Court of Rome and former Chairman of the Commission for International Adoptions (CAI). 

'It is true, there was a decrease in the decrees issued by the Juvenile Courts, however, I think the biggest problem that we face today is another: many foreign authorities see international adoption as a channel to give a family with children older and very serious health problems. In my court I had to deal with painful stories of failures for adoptive children, who once arrived in Italy were abandoned by their adoptive family,this is also serious for couples who have not been able to manage the hosting of 13 year old adolescents or with irreversible health problems. 

We can not close our eyes to this reality, but we must strive, Juvenile Courts, authorized institutions and the Commission for International Adoptions (CAI) to protect both children and families. "Cavallo concluded.

Baby left at hospital in first use of child abandonment program

Baby left at hospital in first use of child abandonment program

Dr. Geoffrey Cundiff, head of obstetrics and gyneocology at St Paul's Hospital with the  "Angel's Crib" where mothers can abandon their babies anonymously, in Vancouver

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Dr. Geoffrey Cundiff, head of obstetrics and gyneocology at St Paul's Hospital with the "Angel's Crib" where mothers can abandon their babies anonymously, in Vancouver

Tom Blackwell, National Post · Monday, Sept. 20, 2010

Someone opened a door at Vancouver’s St. Paul’s Hospital, slipped a two-day-old baby into the bassinet on the other side and promptly walked out of the newborn’s life. Thirty seconds later, an alarm sounded inside, alerting emergency department staff to the new arrival, and giving the reluctant mother or father time to leave undetected and anonymously.

In doing so, he or she became the inaugural user of the first program in Canada that encourages parents to safely abandon unwanted children.

The safe-haven concept, lauded for protecting the most vulnerable and now under consideration in Alberta, has opened a debate on whether the program can really save babies in the most desperate circumstances.

St. Paul’s officials say the incident in mid-July — kept under wraps until now — has underlined for them the human value of the “Angel’s Cradle” project.

The baby would “without a doubt” have met a grimmer fate if not for the drop-off site, argues Dr. Geoffrey Cundiff, who supervises the project.

“It was somebody without means who ... could not keep the baby,” said Dr. Cundiff, head of obstetrics and gynecology for Providence Health, which oversees St. Paul’s. “It was most likely an immigrant who didn’t have other options, and didn’t know what the alternatives were.”

To protect the baby patient’s confidentiality and the anonymity of the parents, the hospital will not disclose its sex or other identifying information.

The child was in good health and left with a note that briefly described when he or she was born, its ethnic origin and family history, Dr. Cundiff said. After an overnight stay, the newborn was handed over to B.C.’s Ministry of Children and Family Development.

Christine Ash, a ministry spokeswoman, said she could not comment specifically on the case. But she said that in such circumstances the ministry would generally publish an ad saying it had taken in an abandoned baby, allowing parents to make a claim, then look for an adoptive family if none do. During the baby’s first six months with that family, the birth parents could still come forward and take custody, if they could prove parentage with DNA tests, Ms. Ash said.

“At least the child is being abandoned in a safe manner, rather than in what could be a terrible manner,” she said of the St. Paul’s program.

Under the project, police have agreed that parents who drop babies at the St. Paul’s site would not be prosecuted. The concept was seen as an answer to sporadic horror stories of infants being discarded in public places or even killed by desperate parents.

Representatives of Covenant Health, a Catholic organization like Providence, which manages several hospitals and other health facilities in Alberta, have inquired about the Vancouver program and are planning to visit the hospital to find out more, said Dr. Cundiff. Covenant officials could not be reached for comment.

Ms. Ash said baby abandonments are rare in B.C., with an average of about one child a year ending up in the care of the province’s child-welfare authorities.

The safe-haven idea has become widespread in the United States, where most states have instituted “Baby Moses” laws that allow parents to deposit babies at hospitals and other designated locations without repercussion. Those jurisdictions argue that any infant left at a safe-haven site is a potential life saved.

Not all experts agree. In a 2003 report, the New York-based Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute noted that the scant, mostly anecdotal, evidence available suggested the number of dangerous abandonments does not drop after legislation is introduced.

And in the seven years since that report was published, the limited evidence indicates “these laws are even more counterproductive than we’d expected,” Adam Pertman, the institute’s executive director, said yesterday.

The problem is that mothers who kill or discard their newborns in a dangerous way are unstable and panicked, not cogently thinking people who would seek out a safe-haven drop-off, said Mr. Pertman.

Those who do use the sites are likely women who would otherwise contact an adoption agency but have now been convinced to take an easier way out, he said. With counselling at an agency, they might even have decided to keep the baby; they would at least be ensuring that adoptive parents had access to the infant’s family medical background, something not possible with legal abandonment.

“Everybody thinks they have found an answer,” said Mr. Pertman. “It feels good, it’s intuitive, we can clap our hands and say ‘We’ve solved that one and move on.’ The problem is, we haven’t solved it.”

National Post



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Snag in Nepali Adoptions to U.S.

Snag in Nepali Adoptions to U.S.

Tupelo, Miss.

Twelve Mississippi couples are caught in an international adoption web that has prevented them from bringing Nepali children to the U.S.

Posted: 7:53 PM Sep 20, 2010

Reporter: Jessica Dealy

Bulgaria to investigate hundreds of children deaths in orphanages

Bulgaria to investigate hundreds of children deaths in orphanages
Mon, Sep 20 2010 16:01 CET byThe Sofia Echo staff 1199 Views 12 Comments 1 of 1
The plight of Bulgaria's disabled children was highlighted by a BBC documentary on the Mogilino children home in 2007.


Bulgaria's Prosecutor's Office was investigating 166 cases of deaths in children homes over the past decade following a joint probe by prosecutors and the Bulgarian Helsinki Committee that uncovered 238 deaths over the period, Prosecutor-General Boris Velchev said on September 20.

"In these cases there is enough to suspect criminal negligence to avoid the deaths. The pre-trial investigations now being started are against unknown perpetrators," Velchev said, as quoted by Dnevnik daily.

Charges to be pressed could include negligent manslaughter, bodily harm, sexual harassment, mismanagement and corruption, he said. The check showed that several homes for disabled children tied the children down, which is a form of abuse, and found instances in which medication was used to control the children instead as therapy.

Although the sweeping investigation would not solve the problem, it could improve prevention, Velchev said.

"What we can do is dispense retribution and strengthen prevention. We've uncovered troubling things. I cannot imagine that in 10 years, 238 citizens from the most vulnerable part of the society have passed away in this way," Velchev said.

Margarita Ilieva, head of the Bulgarian Helsinki Committee legal programme, said: "These children died not of their disabilities, but of things that no one should experience. We are talking about facilities with drastically poor hygiene; 31 of the children died of hunger."

"We do not need retribution and someone going to jail. We need prevention," she said.