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WOENSDAG 19 DECEMBER 2001 - OCHTENDVERGADERING

(Vervolg)

In the fall of 1985, I flew from Boston to Lima, Peru, to adopt a four-month-old child. some 18 years earlier I had given birth to my first child. During the last 10 of those years, I had struggled to give birth again, combating an infertility problem that had resulted, as is often the case, from use of a contraceptive device during the intervening years. I had been married when I produced my first child, but my husband and I divorced when my son was just a few years old. Years later I decided I wanted more children, regardless of whether I was married. But I found that I was unable to conceive.

I subjected myself to every form of medical treatment that offered any possibility of success. I had operations to diagnose my problem, I took fertility drugs and charted my menstrual cycles and my temperature, and I had sexual intercourse according to the prescribed schedule. I had surgery to remove scar tissue from my fallopian tubes. And I went through in vitro fertilization (IVF) repeatedly in programs in three different states. As a single person in my early forties, I was officially excluded from every IVF program in the country that I learned about. Almost all had a maximum age of 40, and all limited their services to married couples. But I was determined. I begged my way into programs that were willing to consider bending their age rules, and I presented myself as married, with the help of a loyal and loving friend who was willing to play the part of husband. Unaccustomed to a life of fraud, I spent much of my IVF existence terrified that I would be discovered.

Then I got lucky. I ran out of money. IVF treatment was excluded from health insurance coverage during this period, and I had cursed my fate and timing, as it seemed likely that the exclusion would eventually be eliminated. I had been paying the going price, $5,000 for a full treatment cycle, and had about run through what savings I had.

I woke one morning in March 1985--I learned later that it was the month, and for all I know the very day, my son-to-be was born--and lay in bed thinking that I didn't want to spend all my remaining money on IVF. I would need it if I was to adopt. And I didn't want to spend any more time and energy or any more of my life on the fertility pursuit. I wanted a child, and I wanted to move on. I called my IVF program that day and said I would not go forward with another treatment cycle.

I was one of the fortunate infertility patients, because I did move on to adoption and to parenting. Treatment enables only a limited number of the infertile to conceive and bear children, and it prevents many from ever considering adoption as a form of parenting. I now look back in amazement at the person I was, traversing the country from one IVF program to another in search of an infertility fix. I am bemused at my shifting notions of "natural" and of "choice." It had seemed natural to pursue biologic parenting, even when the pursuit led me into the high-tech world of IVF where the doctors and lab technicians took over the business of conception, "harvesting" the eggs they had cultivated in the patient's body and inseminating them in glass dishes. It also had seemed that I was making choices when I decided to move on to new stages of treatment. Indeed, I had felt thrilled with the sense that I was pushing against the social and biologic constraints that prevented a single woman with damaged fallopian tubes from giving birth. Now I look back and see a woman driven by the forces that had told her since birth that she should go forth and multiply, that her ability to bear a child was central to her meaning as a human being, and that "real" parenting involved raising that biologically linked child.

Last update - 01:18 12/12/2001

Romania probes Israeli adoption agency link in organ trafficking

By Ran Reznick

Romanian authorities are looking into possible links between Israeli adoption agencies and an illegal global conspiracy to sell organs for transplants.

The Romanian Embassy in Israel has asked for, and received from the Labor and Social Affairs Ministry, a list of all children born in Romania who have been brought to Israel for adoption in recent years. The Romanian officials are trying to ascertain if all such children arrived in Israel with all organs in their bodies.

Tandur: adoption racketeers did not just try to take advantage of women who had several daughters and convince them to give away one; they even targetted women who had just one daughter, to make money in the process. the plight of sita bai of chindanur thanda at kunchawaram in gulbarga district of karnataka is unimaginable. for the last nine months she has been desparately trying to locate her baby. "no one is helping me," sita bai told the times of india.with tears rolling down her eyes, she said she had been deceived by parvathi bai, an agent of savithri, into giving away her daughter. sita bai's daughter deepya was nine months old when parvathi bai approached her. "she told me she would show me my daughter every week and took her to the adoption home in tandur. i have never got to see my daughter after that," sita bai said. the woman had given away her daughter just eight days before the racket was busted. when she got to know what happened, she went along with three other women from her village, who had also given away their daughters, to the john abraham memorial bethany home at tandur. but the babies had been shifted from there. she, however, has not come to hyderabad to the sishu vihar to trace her daughter there. "my husband left me long back. i do not have anyone who can accompany me.the police said they would help me but so far i have not got back my daughter," sita bai said. from her village, another lambada kamli bai had given away her three-day-old daughter and another woman, poona babi her four-day-old baby girl. sita bai has a son but her heart is going out for her daughter from whom she has been separated. "i was paagal (mad) to have given away my daughter. i want her back," she cried narrating her tale of woe, near the kunchawaram police station in bordering karnataka state. they had heard it before too, but did little to help sita bai get back her daughter,who could be at the sishu vihar in hyderabad.

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SCHRIFTLICHE ANFRAGE E-3261/01 von Joke Swiebel (PSE) an die
Kommission. Verordnung (EG) Nr. 1347/2000 und Ermöglichung der
bürgerlichen Ehe und Adoption durch gleichgeschlechtliche Paare in den
Niederlanden. 




Amtsblatt Nr. 028 E vom 06/02/2003 S. 0002 - 0003

Meeting of Nina Kostina with Krasnodar Governor
    
    On November 21, 2005 the President of the Frank Foundation, Nina Kostina
    met with the Governor of Krasnodar region Alexander Tkachev to discuss
    the humanitarian programs that Frank Foundation is conducting in the
    region. The Foundation is launching "Crossing the Rubicon", a program
    aimed at financially supporting the higher education of orphan children.
    In the Krasnodar region, 15 students will receive Frank Foundation
    scholarships for a total value of 150,000 rubles. Frank Foundation is
    greatly honored that Krasnodar’s Governor, Mr. Tkachev, has agreed to
    attend the official award ceremony in January 2006

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