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Real life: Sam discovered that her adoption has been cheated

After her adoption at the age of 2.5, Sam (40, but according to the law 41 years old) ended up in an unsafe family situation in the Netherlands. She was abused by her adoptive father and felt little warmth with her adoptive mother. She also found out that her adoption papers had been tampered with. 'I was just sold.'

Second choice

“I don't remember much of my first two years of life. I was born in Sri Lanka in 1981 and was adopted in 1984 by my Dutch adoptive parents. According to them, my biological mother had given me up because she could no longer take care of me. My adoptive parents also told me that they would actually adopt another girl from Indonesia,” says Sam in Grazia's Winterboek . “They had everything ready for her and suddenly that adoption was cancelled. Finally they came to me. To me, that always felt like I was second choice. And to be honest, I've never really felt comfortable at home.”

“Even at school I didn't feel at home. Because I got all the clothes from my adoptive brothers and my adoptive mother cut my hair short, I looked like a boy. I was bullied a lot about that. Meanwhile, I was abused by my adoptive father from the age of six. This developed very gradually.”

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Dutch nun (89) accused of baby robbery: she told mothers that their child was stillborn

Dutch nun (89) accused of baby robbery: she told mothers that their child was stillborn.

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An 89-year-old Dutch nun is accused of baby theft and illegal adoption from Chile. In the 1970s and 1980s, she would have taken children without permission from the mothers for adoption in the Netherlands. Some Chilean adoptees and mothers have filed a report in recent years.

September 1979. An underage mother is admitted to the hospital in Paillaco, southern Chile, with her newborn son. She gave birth at home but lost a lot of blood. When the mother wants to breastfeed the next day, a Dutch nun and a Chilean social worker tell her that her baby has died. She can't see him anymore, his little body is already gone.

The 'deceased' baby ? Alejandro Quezada ? is, in fact, very much alive. He is now 43 years old and lives near Amsterdam. “My mother hated that she wasn't even allowed to take me to say goodbye. Because she started screaming, they drugged her. She came to three days later."

Raised on Patna’s streets, 8-yr-old orphan to board US flight

Patna (Bihar) [India], December 2 (ANI): ‘There are angels in human shape’ — so goes the phrase on the lips of everyone who received the heartwarming news about Arjit, an orphan boy from Patna.

Raised on Patna’s streets, the eight-year-old is all set board a transcontinental flight to the United States to shart a new chapter of his life.

The specially-abled orphan was found abandoned on the streets amid biting cold in Patna’s Bihta, three years ago. However, the boy is about to turn a corner in his young life as he has been adopted by a doctor couple in the US.

It is understood that the couple will fly down to Patna and head back with an adopted son, having already completed all the necessary paperwork.

According to sources, the couple will fund his medical treatment in the US.

Abandoned on road, differently-abled boy from Bihar adopted by US doctor couple

Bihar News: The couple from Washington in the US was on a tour of India when they came across 3-year-old Arjit from Danapur in Bihar. The couple completed the documentation process for adopting the child on Thursday.

Danapur (Bihar): A 3-year-old differently-abled boy, who was abandoned by his parents on a road during a chilling winter night three years ago, was adopted by a doctor couple from the United States recently.

The couple from Washington in the US was on a tour of India when they came across Arjit from Danapur in Bihar. The couple completed the documentation process for adopting the child on Thursday.

On Thursday, Danapur SDO Pradeep Kumar handed over the Arjit to the couple after verifying all the details and other legal proceedings.

Meanwhile, the American couple- Dr. Carlin Roy Miller and her husband Kathleen Shublian- has applied for Arjit’s passport to take him to his new home in Washington. The couple already has three children, including two sons and a daughter.

CARA - Celebrates ‘Adoption Awareness Month' in November, 2022

CARA organises 200 special Social media campaigns, 10 State Orientation Programmes, and Interactive meets with more than 700 Prospective Adoptive Parents and Adoptive Parents

Celebrates ‘Adoption Awareness Month' in November, 2022

Posted On: 01 DEC 2022 7:48PM by PIB Delhi

As part of the ‘Adoption Awareness Month' , Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA) organised 10 State orientation programmes, ran 200 special social media campaigns, held interactive meets with more than 700 Prospective Adoptive Parents and Adoptive Parents in November ,2022. The key features of the new Adoption Regulations, 2022 notified by the Central Government on September 23, 2022 were also shared with them. CARA engaged with the adoption community by offering in-depth knowledge and resources for families.

Adoption Awareness Month was celebrated in the States of Maharashtra, Karnataka, Daman & Diu, Chhattisgarh, Kerala, Andhra Pradesh and Madhya Pradesh.

Holocaust survivors offered DNA tests to help find family

NEW YORK (AP) — For decades, Jackie Young had been searching.

Orphaned as an infant, he spent the first few years of his life in a Nazi internment camp in what is now the Czech Republic. After World War II he was taken to England, adopted and given a new name.

As an adult, he struggled to learn of his origins and his family. He had some scant information about his birth mother, who died in a concentration camp. But about his father? Nothing. Just a blank space on a birth certificate.

That changed earlier this year when genealogists used a DNA sample to help find a name — and some relatives he never knew he had.

Having that answer to a lifelong question has been “amazing,” said Young, now 80 and living in London. It “opened the door that I thought would never get opened.”

The glory of Chhath Maiya.... The separated family met after 43 years

The glory of Chhath Maiya.... The separated family met after 43 years: Sheela of Belgium reached Patna to celebrate Diwali-Chhath; Real brothers and sisters met in Muzaffarpur

Five sons, one Dhiwa, Dhiwa Mangwai Zaroor... This song of asking for a daughter in Chhath became true today. For 43 years, by the grace of Chhath Maiya, a daughter was reunited with her family. Late Toofani Paswan's daughter of Chamrua of Mansoorpur in Muzaffarpur was reunited with her family after 43 years. She had come to Patna to celebrate Diwali and Chhath. Amidst the grief of not seeing her parents, Shila of Belgium cried profusely hugging her siblings. In 1981, Sheela, separated from her loved ones, was adopted in Belgium.

He was adopted from the Padri's mansion. Sheela had come to Patna on Diwali. Reached the pastor's mansion and got his information. On that basis, she reached Mansoorpur in Muzaffarpur. She is a teacher in Belgium. Husband Avin is a businessman. Has come to Patna with three children. She had brought her childhood picture.

She was searching after reaching Patna, cried a lot hugging her brothers and sisters

Knowing about Chhath,

SELLING CHILDREN ON THE GLOBAL MARKET: THE RECREATION OF THE TRANSNATIONAL ADOPTION DISCOURSE

Zineb Khemissi is an Algerian final year PhD researcher at Portsmouth University, School of Area Studies, History, Politics, and Literature. Funded by the Algerian Embassy in London, her research explores the experience of Korean American adoptees’ identity formation processes within the realm of third space theories. She is interested in history, psychology, literature, and international relations.

Transnational and transracial adoptions are an ongoing phenomenon that have not received enough interest from within academia. The marketisation of children from poor to rich countries might not be of importance to all, or it might be another reality ‘hidden in plain sight,’ one in which hundreds of thousands of ‘unwanted’ mixed-race children and ‘war orphans’ are de-rooted, displaced, and transplanted into majority ‘White’ backgrounds. Transnational adoption (TNA) is the inclusion of nationally different children within white households (Barn, 2013). Transracial adoption (TRA) refers to adoptees’ different racial and ethnic backgrounds, foregrounding their race as the main concern in the processes of integration and self-identification.

Saving Children by Selling Them

A global market of adoption was established in the aftermath of the Korean War (1950-1953), to ‘save war orphans’ and ‘pitiful victims’ of that tragedy. Such rhetoric emanated from the American discourse of rescue and was emphasized by the media as a solid justification for child displacement. The US is the leading receiving country, while South Korea has the longest programme for international child adoption, spanning over sixty years (McKee, 2016). One reason for the dominance of the US in international child adoption has been the sense of duty of the ‘Christian Americanists’ (Oh, 2015), i.e. a dogma of religious beliefs used during the post-Cold War period as a political justification to obtain the transnational community’s consent for international adoption.

The constant flow of adopted children from poor to rich countries is a lucrative source of revenue that benefits the institutions and organizations that grant child transfers. ‘The Transnational Adoption Industrial Complex’ (TAIC) (McKee, 2016) goes beyond the valuation of human beings, dehumanising children through commodification under the call of capitalist gain. For example, child trafficking offered a source of revenue for the South Korean government; it brought in an estimated sum of US $15–$20 million in annual income (Korean Ministry of Health and Welfare, 2008, cited by McKee, 2016). This commodification is both dehumanising and victimising children.

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Bringing a piece of Peru home and back again: how an adoption came full circle with Outreach effort

It might seem lucky that Cristian Johnston met his wife while on a trip to Peru, although that’s not quite the beginning or the end of the story.

This fairytale of sorts begins with Cristian growing up in an orphanage in Peru and then being adopted by Kathy Houlihan and her husband, Daniel Johnston, a couple from Corfu. It was when Cristian, 26, went back to visit that same orphanage that he first reconnected with the house mother who cared for him as a baby.

And then he met her daughter, Rosita. They fell in love and got married, and now have a son, Iker. The story unfolds into a full circle, as Cristian decided to give back to his roots by helping out financially and through hands-on labor.

Consider it luck or fate or happenstance, he has immense gratitude for what he’s been given by his adopted parents and his life ever since.

“It’s a night and day difference. It’s quite a privilege to see my life — I had two very different possibilities,” Cristian said during an interview with The Batavian. “It’s very eye-opening from where I stand.”