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Mariëtte regelt adoptie

Mariëtte  regelt adoptie

 

CASTRICUM - De uit Castricum afkomstige Mariëtte Asagbo-Krouwel (27), die in Ghana een weeshuis runt, heeft een adoptie begeleid.

Zaterdag was Mariëtte op tv te zien bij het programma van Karin Bloemen, 100%TV, op SBS6. Ze kreeg een paar minuten de tijd om iets te vertellen over haar 'Hanukkah Children's Home'. "En dat is belangrijk'' vertelt haar moeder Marjo van Dijck. "Zeker nu het kabinet weer een miljard gaat bezuinigingen op ontwikkelingswerk. Wij krijgen geen enkele steun of subsidie van de Nederlandse overheid, omdat het beleid nu niet meer is om kleinschalige kindertehuizen te steunen maar om de kinderen in gastgezinnen te plaatsen. Helaas gaat dit niet op voor kinderen met een beperking, dus blijven kleinschalige kindertehuizen als Hanukkah nodig."

Mariëtte is inmiddels vertegenwoordiger geworden voor de Nederlandse Adoptie Stichting die voor (Ghanese) kinderen met een beperking een adoptie in Nederland mogelijk maakt. De Ghanese overheid heeft bepaald dat alleen kinderen met een beperking ter adoptie aangeboden mogen worden. De eerste adoptie door Mariëtte is succesvol afgerond en Vera is vorige week aangekomen in Nederland.

MdM: Aux origines de la mission Adoption

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En France, MDM est la seule organisation non gouvernementale (ONG) médicale à avoir intégré dans ses statuts l’adoption internationale et être reconnue Organisme autorisé pour l’adoption internationale (OAA) depuis 1988. Geneviève André-Trévennec et Luc Jarrige reviennent sur la naissance, le rôle et l’évolution de cette mission pas comme les autres au sein de l’une des ONG emblématiques des French doctors

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Médecins du Monde (MdM), Adoption
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GErman Radio CAP - Wereldkinderen

ADOPTION

Beiträge, Interviews und Interviewpartner:

Nicole Wilbers - Sozialarbeiterin bei Wereldkinderen.nl - Thema: Die Adoption von Kindern mit HIV

Birgit Lengeling - Sozialpädagogin bei "Children and Parents" - Thema: Adoption aus Bulgarien

Georgi Kremenliev - Rechtsanwalt bei "Kindheit ohne Grenzen" - Thema: Adoption aus Bulgarien

Voyage en Roumanie et France (de Quebec) - Cristian (aved De Combret)

La vie avec un « bébé » de 12 ans…

22 AVRIL 2012 / 3 COMMENTAIRES

Ce texte fait suite à Un oui doublement initié par nos enfants qu’il est préférable de lire avant… Pour un sommaire de tous les articles de ce blogue, on consultera Pour une lecture suivie de ce blogue.

Christian et son sourire ravageur

Le jour de son arrivée parmi nous, il ne nous a fallu que quelques minutes pour prendre conscience de l’ampleur des soins que le handicap physique de Cristi, que nous avions convenu d’appeler Christian, allaient exiger. Opéré à sept ans pour des séquelles de poliomyélite, Christian portait depuis une sorte de structure métallique au bas du corps, attaché à un corset rigide servant à garder sa colonne droite. Cet appareil devait peser au moins 10 kg. C’est beaucoup pour un enfant. Et difficile à décrire. C’était franchement émouvant de le voir déambuler avec cet attirail. Avec ses deux cannes canadiennes, il avait appris à marcher en balançant les deux pieds ensemble vers l’avant et en ramenant ensuite ses cannes. Il était très habile. C’était quelque chose à voir lorsque venait le temps de monter les escaliers. Après son premier souper, le soir de son arrivée, il fallait qu’il « grimpe » à l’étage, là où se trouvait sa chambre. Je le suivis et je constatai l’effort qu’il devait accomplir pour monter les marches une à une. Il devait « débarrer » le genou avec une main pour qu’il plie, le barrer de nouveau après avoir déposé le pied sur la marche suivante pour qu’il puisse se porter dessus, débarrer l’autre genou, etc. Chaque marche ainsi montée me donnait l’impression d’une conquête. J’avais conclu durant cette montée qu’il lui faudrait une chambre au rez-de-chaussée, ce que j’allais m’empresser de proposer à notre propriétaire dès le lendemain.

Haiti. Toward a resumption of international adoptions?

 


Therefore it must be repeated yet again that the right of the child does exist, when the child is declared adoptable, to give priority to finding a foster family in the country of residence, and subsidiarily in another country if there is no other solution; but no right is recognized to the families to dispose of a child whatever the motivations of the families wishing to adopt. Additionally, it is the sole competence of the country of origin (in this case Haiti) to decide to authorize the adoption, it is not up to the foster country to exercise pressure to obtain children.

 

 

Haiti. Toward a resumption of international adoptions?

 

Editorial by M. Jean Zermatten

 

For many years, Haiti has been a country of origin for international adoptions. At the time of the earthquake, the press related a very high number of children who had been adopted in the days and weeks following the tragic event.

 

In 2009, we estimate that 1'200 children were subject to international adoption. In 2010, that is to say after the earthquake (12.01), this number rose to 2’400 children. In relation to the total number of 37’500 children having been subject to international adoption worldwide, this signifies that in 2010, Haiti, a country of 10 million inhabitants, practiced 6,4% of all international adoptions!

 

It is indeed an alarming number. All the more when one knows of the weakness of the control system and the inexistence of a Haitian central authority, while awaiting the ratification of the Hague Convention. It is proof of an observation made many times: the lower the exigencies for international adoption are and the more haphazard the control, the more a country is at risk of seeing their children outbound towards foster countries. Currently Haiti is a country where one comes too easily to adopt children.

 

 

In addition, numerous adoptions are done directly, without going through the Institute of Social Well-Being and Research which should function as a control body, by the contact between an adoptive family (or an adoption agency) and a nursery through the exchange of money, either directly or indirectly, to provide care, housing and food to the child, the candidate for adoption. The monthly amounts thus allocated are very high compared to the local standard of living, which often leads to the slowness of the process in order to secure a substantial revenue for a longer period of time. These practices are known and are being fought by the IBESR, which has already shut down several nurseries; the reasons for these shutdowns are not solely motivated by these practices, but also by the unsanitary conditions of certain places and the unsuitability of the care provided to little children.

 

Additionally, the documents permitting the child to exit Haiti are often falsified, as are those related to the child’s age and identity, and those which counterfeit the authorizations of the IBESR. This question also brings up that of the complicity of certain lawyers and the weakness of birth registrations.

 

After the media hype, the situation concerning adoptions was "frozen" by some countries, on their own initiative and for more than a year, in order to permit Haiti to ratify the Hague Convention on Protection of children in respect to inter-country adoption (1993), and in order to adopt a national law on adoption as well as to designate a central Authority. These procedures have not achieved their goal, even if the parliament is considering a bill and the State has signed The Hague Convention (02.03.2011) and President Martelly announced his upcoming ratification; nevertheless the countries which had auto limited themselves announced the imminent resumption of the practices of international adoption.

 

This situations remains preoccupying, since in reality nothing has changed and Haitian children are not protected against fraudulent adoptions; their best interest is not guaranteed and there are high risks of child sale, as it is proscribed by the Optional Protocol of the sale of children, child prostitution and child pornography (2000) to which most countries are a party to.

 

Therefore it must be repeated yet again that the right of the child does exist, when the child is declared adoptable, to give priority to finding a foster family in the country of residence, and subsidiarily in another country if there is no other solution; but no right is recognized to the families to dispose of a child whatever the motivations of the families wishing to adopt. Additionally, it is the sole competence of the country of origin (in this case Haiti) to decide to authorize the adoption, it is not up to the foster country to exercise pressure to obtain children.

 

The continuation of the freezing of adoptions in Haiti seems to be required!

 

 

 

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Fallout From 'Trouble Of Defiled Minor'

Fallout From 'Trouble Of Defiled Minor'
Story: LAWYER RUNS FOR COVER! ...Seeks To
Gag This Paper For Publishing Official Document


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Datum uitspraak: 21-03-2012

Datum publicatie: 03-07-2012

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Claude Cahn (UN Human Rights Adviser)


Adoption
3.0




Claude Cahn (UN Human Rights Adviser)



15 March 2012 - Plans are underway for the second
revision to Moldova’s rules on adoption in less than two years.  The current
legal framework – an improvement on the previous one – nevertheless has a number
of problematic elements, so the changes will be timely and important.   There is
not yet a vibrant public discussion about how the current rules should change.  
There should be:   this area of law has important implications for questions of
social inclusion and fundamental human rights, questions which are not yet the
subject of sufficient public attention.



Rules on adoption are informed by a number of areas of international
law.  First and foremost is the Convention on the Rights of the Child, with its
core, guiding principle that the best interests of the child are primary.   The
Convention, adopted in 1989, considerably elaborates the original child
protection provisions set out under international law in the International
Covenant on Economic, Social and Cultural Rights.   In recent years, a global
consensus – expressed in the adoption in 2006 of the Convention on the Rights of
Persons with Disability – has invigorated a commitment to end stigma on – and
discrimination against – persons with disabilities, including children. 
Finally, concerns about the exploitation of children in international adoption
led to The Hague Convention on the Protection of Children and Co-operation in
Respect of Inter-Country Adoption, which entered into force in 2008.  



Perspectives on problems in Moldovan adoption vary.  Inter-country
adoption is potentially a window for corruption.  Estimates of “informal”
payments – i.e. those not linked to Hague Convention procedures – tend to run
into a number of thousands of USD per adoption, largely as informal “gifts”.   
Following the legal changes of 2010, which imposed a bar on inter-country
adoption for two years, unless the child was certified as having a problematic
health condition, opened new opportunities for graft by embedding an incentive
for doctors to certify children as unhealthy.   



The corruption element however is overshadowed by a deeper – and
ultimately very troubling one – hinted at above:   the role of perceptions of
health, disease and disability weighing on the system.   A first issue – taken
as given by many of the policy-makers involved in designing the rules – is that
Moldovans do not adopt children with disabilities or health conditions.   A
general presumption of the discussion is that “for the next fifty years,
Moldovans will never accept adopting children with disabilities”.   This view
has, in the very recent past, been embedded in law in the most perverse possible
fashion:  until 2010, children with disabilities were barred by Moldovan law
from being adopted. 



For reasons ultimately mysterious to many involved in the system in
Moldova, Americans and Italians (the two largest categories of people involved
in inter-country adoption in Moldova) are apparently willing to adopt children
with disabilities.   From this fact follows a key assumption guiding the current
revision of the law, the logic of which appears to be approximately the
following: “If Moldovans will not adopt children with disabilities, but crazy
foreigners will, then the key to the reform should be to facilitate the
possibility for foreigners to adopt children with disabilities and other
‘unhealthy children’ (so they at least can have some sort of positive life
elsewhere).   At the same time (the same theory continues), Moldovans will be
outbid by foreigners in the bribery competition for ‘healthy children’, so
protective measures should be included in the law to make sure that Moldovans
get first pick of ‘healthy children’”.    Hence the new proposal:  children may
be eligible for inter-country adoption after only one year (as compared to the
current two years), but “special needs” children – including children with
disabilities, older children, and others  -- may be released for inter-country
adoption within six months.



This discussion – together with its troubling presumptions -- now
threatens to go to Parliament, as well as to be broadcast into the public
space.    It is a discussion which can degrade the already troubling treatment
of persons with disabilities, who occupy a stigmatized and pariah category, in
many cases fully excluded from mainstream Moldovan society.  Its underlying
message invigorates a vision of children with special needs as, in the final
analysis, at best meriting pity, and in no case enjoying equal dignity.



Moldovan lawmakers have done a good job of improving the legal regime
surrounding adoption in recent years. The ambition of the current rules is Hague
Convention compliance, and Moldova has moved steadily in that direction, in
particular by setting out rules to combat the real dangers of exploitation of
children in inter-country adoption.   At the same time, the lawmaker has removed
Soviet-era bans on the adoption of children with disabilities, and the new
proposals would further remove a number of medical and psychological
contraindications to adoption which should have no place in law in a democratic
society.   Further work can still be done for example to improve recognition of
documents from other Hague Convention states parties, and to reduce arbitrary
steps unrelated to the best interests of the child.



These improvements should not be purchased, however, at the price of
amplifying the stigma on disability and disease currently so prevalent.  
Moldova is owed a serious discussion on the rights of all children to be raised
in a loving family environment.    Above all, this discussion should be aimed at
significantly reducing the stigma on persons with disabilities, and with it to
encourage local, in-country adoption of all kinds of children.    It should also
be coupled with public recognition that inter-country adoption is a better
option than long periods in institutional care, provided that all safeguards are
in place to ensure the best interests of the child in an inter-country
context.


   
The task at hand in the current legal reform is therefore at least
two-fold: (1) improve law and procedures to better secure the best interests of
the child in the context of national and inter-country adoption; (2) advance
public discussion to reduce the stigma on persons with disabilities.  All have
an interest in ensuring that children can benefit from being raised in a loving
family environment, wherever possible.

1930 Federation of Institutions for Unmarried Mothers and their Children (FIOM) From paternalism to support

Traditionally, unmarried pregnant women were a vulnerable group. Premarital sex was taboo, but it happened, voluntarily or not. A 'fallen woman' was a disgrace to the family. She was rejected by her family and anyone who worked was fired (unmarried pregnancies were common among servants). She stood on the street with her child: the just reward for her 'whoreish behaviour'.

Around 1850, wealthy citizens began to care about these 'fallen' women. In 1848, Rev. Ottho Gerhard Heldring and deaconess Petronella Voûte founded the Asyl Steenbeek in Zetten, intended for unmarried mothers, prostitutes who wanted to leave the profession and ex-prisoners who would otherwise end up in prostitution. The assistance went hand in hand with combating prostitution. Young mothers were subjected to a strict resocialisation programme in which the cultivation of a sense of sin was central, combined with education and childcare. Such a paternalistic civilising offensive would be unthinkable today, but for the girls at the time it was perhaps the only acceptable way out of their predicament. The initiative was followed, initially mainly in Protestant circles, later also among Catholics. The homes were mainly financed by donations via the church. Government support was rare.

The latter changed with the establishment of the FIOM in 1930. After the Sickness Benefits Act was passed in 1913, a heated debate broke out over the question of whether unmarried pregnant women were entitled to benefits just like married women (pregnancy was considered an illness by law). The proponents of equality drew the short straw; it was believed to promote debauchery. Unmarried motherhood therefore remained a private matter. The aid organisations joined forces and in 1930 united in the national, cross-pillar Federation of Institutions for Unmarried Mothers and their Child (FIOM), which aimed to create conditions for better care. At the founding meeting, 25 institutions were already affiliated. FIOM received subsidies from the government.

The focus of aid began to shift at that time. The idea gained ground that an unmarried mother could best give up her child. This was good for the child, because it would grow up in a loving environment. Adoptive parents benefited from this, because adoption was the only way to combat unwanted childlessness at the time. It was also good for the mother herself, the reasoning went, because she could start with a clean slate. The emotional implications of being separated for mother and child were not discussed.

However, the number of unmarried pregnancies did not decrease. Despite all the help, it still happened that children were abandoned or offered to childless couples without the intervention of third parties. In 1940, the FIOM set up a committee that advocated the prevention of 'unorganised' relinquishment of children and a better selection of foster parents. In 1956, the Adoption Act came into force. Since then, the FIOM has focused on the guidance of relinquishment and adoption. Between 1956 and the end of the seventies, approximately 25,000 mothers in the Netherlands relinquished their babies. Relinquishment was now almost completely accepted. Later, this attitude was criticised. Today, it is difficult to imagine the moral compulsion that emanated from it.

Under the influence of the democratisation movement of the sixties, with the emancipation of women and a more open morality with regard to sexuality in its wake, the paternalistic approach of the FIOM came under fire. Unmarried motherhood was no longer a 'punishment' for 'sin' and relinquishment was no longer promoted. FIOM faced competition from the new, radically oriented shelters for abused women . In addition, the introduction of 'the pill' had led to a drastic decrease in the number of unwanted pregnancies. All this forced FIOM to reconsider its course.

FIOM now also focused on finding housing, and the target group was expanded to include all single parents. The shelters were transformed into shelters and support centres for single parents in crisis or emergency situations. In addition, the organisation played an important role in the legalisation of abortion.
In 2012, FIOM is still active. Now as a national outpatient organisation that offers psychosocial help, information and advice to anyone with problems in the areas of desired and unwanted pregnancy, teenage pregnancy or parenthood, miscarriage and abortion, relinquishment, adoption, adoptive parenthood and searches for a parent or child in connection with adoption.