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Proud mum gives birth to 'eBaby' after hitting 'buy it now' on online sperm

A proud mum desperate for a second child gave birth to 'eBaby' after turning to the internet to pick up some sperm and an insemination kit.

Stephenie Taylor, 33, was dismayed when she discovered how much private fertility clinics cost and for a moment thought she would have to abandon her plans of having a second child.

But then she discovered the Just A Baby app which she used to order some sperm, then she turned to eBay to order an insemination kit - before learning how to use it with YouTube tutorials, as the Daily Star reports.

Stephenie conceived on the first try and later gave birth to baby Eden, and described her as a "miracle" and a "real online baby".

She said: "If I didn't have access to all that electronically then she wouldn't be here. But I'm over the moon to be a mum again and I'm proud of the way she came into the world."

Aanvulling naar aanleiding van Brandpuntuizending

In the report, Brandpunt lets two other women speak next to Betty. The first woman says that she gave up her child with the expectation that she would receive financial support. The mother said in this broadcast that she knocked on the door of the foster home in vain for information. However, the story is not fully portrayed. After an investigation by Wereldkinderen, the woman turned out to be the mother. She went back on her decision to distance herself. The child then went back to this mother, of course. Wereldkinderen also helped with her housing. Wereldkinderen has not been involved in hair renunciation procedure nor was it aware of her expectation of financial support. In the meantime, Wereldkinderen has received information from Brandpunt from the woman whom the journalist addresses at the end of the report. It concerns an adoption that was made eight years ago. Wereldkinderen will investigate the case on the basis of this information.

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Focal point broadcast Ethiopia

On Sunday evening, a broadcast of Brandpunt is devoted to adoption from Ethiopia. The KRO tries to show a failing adoption practice based on the story of a girl. However, Brandpunt paints a wrong picture of the girl portrayed. Although there are errors in her papers, all those involved were aware that the biological parents were still alive and clarity was also given about her age during the procedure. For privacy reasons, Wereldkinderen cannot disclose any information that shows that this adoption has been made in a responsible manner.

Wereldkinderen is not the party that has filed the summary proceedings against the broadcast. Wereldkinderen is in favor of openness about adoption, but prefers not to go into individual cases publicly.

Wereldkinderen has had research carried out and stopped with new adoptions in 2009.

Wereldkinderen has been mediating for adoptions from Ethiopia since 1985. In order to learn from our work in the past and to continuously improve the quality of our work, Wereldkinderen commissioned a study in 2009 into the background of 18 randomly selected mediations from the period 2004-2008. In 2009 the conclusions of this investigation gave rise to the temporary non-processing of new adoption applications. Questions about the results of the investigation were also asked in the House of Representatives at the time. The result was a stricter procedure for new mediations from Ethiopia. The stricter procedure means, among other things, that the backgrounds of the children are examined extra before their adoption is heard in court. And that information about distance and adoption is provided to the biological relatives at an early stage to make them aware of alternative care and the impact of giving up.

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In Hungary, Slovakia, Romania and Bulgaria, hundreds of thousands of Roma live in poverty without medical care, heating or running water. Open discrimination, high unemployment and a lack of school and vocational training determine everyday life. Organized crime also takes advantage of the desire for a better life. Christiane Feller reports.

Frida Uyttebrouck is on patrol again. The policewoman has been roaming downtown Brussels with her two colleagues for many years, making sure that everything is okay. A woman is sitting on the side of the road with a small child. You hold your hands on. The policemen politely ask for the ID.

The beggar woman's papers from Romania are in order. Only the three-year-old daughter belongs in kindergarten, the policewoman warns, and not to go begging on the street.

Begging mothers with their toddlers, twelve-year-old girls who wrest a few cents from motorists on the four-lane incursion to the EU quarter for cleaning the windshield - this is a common sight not only in Brussels, but also in other large cities. But what sometimes seems annoying to the morning driver is often born of necessity, says the Roma Valeriu Nicolae:

“Most children run away from home, flee from extremely poor circumstances because they simply can no longer bear it. Some of them have been abused and have alcoholic fathers. They then go to the big cities in Romania, Slovakia, Bulgaria and Moldova. There they also live in poor conditions. The west appears as a land of milk and honey. The criminals know that. "

Clifford Chance and the Human Rights Campaign agree global partnership to advance LGBT+ equality

International law firm Clifford Chance announces its pro bono partnership with the Human Rights Campaign ("HRC") to bring strategic impact litigation in support of LGBT+ rights and equality worldwide. The Firm will serve as international legal partner in this initiative, working jointly with Washington-based HRC to advocate for change and hold organisations and governments that discriminate against the LGBT+ community accountable. HRC is the world's largest LGBT+ civil rights organisation, with more than 3.5 million members and supporters.

The Firm will advise and help HRC staff attorneys write and analyse legislation and regulations, direct and draft amicus briefs, and advise legislators at all levels of government on a wide variety of legal issues related to LGBTQ equality.

Managing Partner Matthew Layton said, "As signatories of the UN's Standard of Conduct for Business for Tackling Discrimination against lesbian, Bi, Trans and Intersex people, Clifford Chance shares HRC's commitment to equality and campaigning. We are uniquely prepared to use the knowledge and skills of our preeminent global Firm to take on these issues, fight for justice and live our values."

“We are proud to collaborate with Clifford Chance as we expand our existing legal work both in the United States and around the globe," said HRC President Alphonso David. "Adding domestic and international impact litigation to our approach gives us a critical tool to fight against oppressive legislative and policy measures, and better advocate for LGBTQ rights. This is a natural extension of the legal advocacy the Human Rights Campaign has been doing for nearly four decades."

Tiernan Brady, Global Head of Inclusion added: “At Clifford Chance we are committed to ensuring that LGBT+ people enjoy the same status and standing as everyone else. And when you believe in a set of values then you have to go out and fight for them every day, and that's exactly what we intend to do. We are delighted to be partnering with the HRC in this shared mission."

Normalising Adoption: Belongingness Does Not Only Depend On Biological Parenting

If one was to dive into Indian English literature, one would probably come across Bhisham Sahni’s renowned short story – Pali. Set against the backdrop of the partition of India, Pali narrates the story of a young boy (the titular character) who gets accidentally separated from his family as they leave from the then newly formed Pakistan and make their way to India.

Stranded and scared, Pali desperately tries to find his parents at the railway station and hopes to return to the safety of his family. He is soon found by a man who sells chinaware for a living. The man takes pity on the boy and brings him home to his wife. The kind couple then decide to adopt him and raise him as their own. Though this story touches on the many political aspects of the partition like religion, love, loss, and family, it also explores the emotion of belonginess in adopted children.

In India, there is a taboo around the concept of adoption. Firstly, our society puts immense importance on the idea of a woman conceiving and giving birth to a child. Since times immemorial women are repeatedly conditioned to believe that one of the most important purposes of their being is to give birth to a child.

Women are taught that failing to comply with this expectation will put a stain on their “femininity” because motherhood is positioned as the ultimate role that “completes” a woman. The inability to bear a child is considered to be a ‘curse‘ and often renders the lady socially ostracized, as well as branded ‘inauspicious‘. The reinforcement of this idea puts enormous pressure on women who face difficulty in conceiving.

All these beliefs and perceptions are something families who have adopted kids have to deal with all the time. But it is paramount to recognise that these choices are entirely personal, and nobody is allowed to dictate what type of family is a “true” or “real” family. A family is made of similarities and differences. It is composed of arguments and agreements

Flemish Government will translate political agreement on reform of intercountry adoption into concrete action plan

Last week, the Flemish Government concluded a political agreement that should lay the foundation for an ambitious reform of the Flemish legislation on intercountry adoption. The Flemish Government has decided today that it will accept the expert panel's proposal to draw up a concrete action plan to guarantee that future intercountry adoptions take place correctly and ethically. Minister responsible Wouter Beke: 'This plan will be drawn up in close consultation with the stakeholders. The Growing Up Agency has already made the first contacts for this. Hearings in parliament will also start next week. I'm looking forward to the debate.'

The action plan will contain the following guidelines:

There is still a future for intercountry adoption in Flanders , always in the interest of the child;

' Multi-parenting ' is an important basic idea in adoption, which means, among other things, that 'first parents' remain involved as much as possible;

We are strengthening cooperation with the countries of origin ;

Justin Chon on his heartbreaking "Blue Bayou": "I wanted to do justice to the adoptee community"

From the director of acclaimed independent films "Gook" and "Ms. Purple," "Blue Bayou," tells the story of a uniquely American family, faced with a devastating dilemma. Justin Chon directs, wrote and stars in the project, set in a vibrant and diverse Louisiana community.

Chon portrays Antonio LeBlanc, a Korean American man who was adopted and came to the U.S. at age 3, and has lived a life of struggle and tragedy. He finds purpose and joy in his family, including his pregnant wife Kathy (Alicia Vikander), and his young stepdaughter Jessie (Sydney Kowalske). But Antonio stands to lose everything when an incident with a racist local cop leads to his detainment by ICE, which threatens to deport Antonio over a complex loophole in immigration policy despite the U.S. being the only country he's ever known.

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Through the many challenges and heartbreaking moments of "Blue Bayou," Antonio's loving relationship with stepdaughter Jessie, and his deep connection with a local Vietnamese woman named Parker (Linh Dan Pham), who is struggling to come to terms with her own fate, radiate comfort and warmth. Antonio's is a fundamentally human story, shining light on the real families that suffer from rigid and dehumanizing immigration policies, on the vibrant and expansive Asian communities in the South, and the diverse faces and stories of adoptees.

"I wanted to do justice to the adoptee community and their experience," Chon told Salon. His movie is dedicated to them, and with the guidance of real adoptees, it's meant to shatter myths and honor their struggles and experiences.

Ringleader of US-Marshall Islands illegal adoption scheme hit with more prison time

The man at the centre of an illegal adoption scheme involving Marshall Islands babies is facing even more time in American prison after sentencing by an Arizona court.

Paul Petersen was an adoption lawyer and county assessor in the US state of Arizona, who was already serving a six year federal sentence for conspiring to smuggle Marshall Islands women and babies in the state of Arkansas.

Petersen will now spend at least 11 years in jail after being hit with an additional five year sentence for running a similar scheme in Arizona.

His crimes included fraudulently enrolling Marshallese birth mothers in Arizona's Medicaid system and cheating the state out of USD $800,000 as part of his adoption business.

One of the US-based adoptive mothers told the court that Petersen's crimes had caused great damage to her family.

'It is our moral duty to put the best interests of the adoptee first'

The public outcry about the adoption break, which has since been discontinued, diverts attention from what the discussion should really be about. So says Sophie Withaeckx, who was part of the expert panel on intercountry adoption for two years. "The experience of adoptees who have been victims of systematic malpractice is real."

BI was part of the expert panel on intercountry adoption for almost two years. In this I contributed to a thorough reflection on the question of whether and how it is possible to prevent malpractice in intercountry adoption. The final report was drawn up on the basis of intensive research from various scientific disciplines.

The report includes 20 recommendations. On the one hand, they are aimed at a thorough reform of the adoption landscape, and on the other hand, they aim to do justice to adoptees who have become victims of malpractice. The latter can be done, among other things, by expanding aftercare, providing remedial measures and offering public apologies to victims.

The adoption break is necessary for a thoroughly reformed adoption practice that must be free from malpractice.

After the report was published, there was immediate outrage. Unfortunately not because intercountry adoption can still be accompanied by malpractice, but because of the recommendation to take an adoption break pending the reform of the system. That pause is, however, necessary for a thoroughly reformed adoption practice that must be free from malpractice.