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Children Have Fewer Health Problems in a Family Environment

Children Have Fewer Health Problems in a Family Environment
Posted on 03 November 2011 by Stefan Darabus
In the experience of the last 12 years in closing institutions for children, we learned that the love of a family leads to better health for children. When they linger in institutions, they suffer from loneliness, even if they are surrounded by so many other people: each child is alone in his or her own way, as the family spirit is missing. Institutions try to cover for this chronic lack of love by a large number of medical nurses, medical doctors and pills. But sedating children with medicine and the white gowns do not replace the love of a family.
The children with special needs, when getting into a family environment from an institutional one, they get much healthier. Suddenly, they do not catch colds, they do not fall victims to intoxication, they do not show the anxiety specific to the institutional environment. The warmth of a family and the humane environment give children a general positive and healthy state.
The trauma of family separation leads to shocking manifestations: the children stop talking; they stop eating; they stop learning to walk; they simply do not grow up, they do not develop physically. We observed a direct link between children’s development in a family environment and the acquisitions  specific to their age. When they do not get the affection of a family, the children somehow refuse to develop and are hit by different types of disease, one after another. In a way, they leave their guard down, they do not have the power to fight with the world around them, conquered by the harsh blow of the lack of a family and love they get in a family.

Remembering Naomi Bronstein: A Homegrown Activist for Children Worldwide






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Remembering Naomi Bronstein: A Homegrown Activist for Children Worldwide 
By Brendan Cavanaugh, Secretary-General of TDH Canada
Published January 2011

Description: Naomi Bronstein and two children

Index of Articles


  1. Remembering Naomi Bronstein: A Homegrown Activist for Children Worldwide
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  2. Kon Tum & the Central Highlands
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  3. The List
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  4. An Important Update on the Process of Child Proposals from Vietnam
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  5. Terre des hommes (TDH) Founder Edmund Kaiser
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  6. Memories of Vietnam
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Naomi Bronstein was a hands-on, do-it-herself activist for children. She established orphanages in Vietnam, Cambodia and Guatemala. She was running a mobile medical clinic for rural children in Guatemala when she went to sleep on December 23, 2010 and died during the night. She had poor health including heart disease for a number of years and her heart finally gave out. She was 65.
Her death marks the beginning of the end of an era. She was part of the social phenomenon in Montreal that initiated and developed international adoption in Canada.
A Child of the Times
North America in the late 50s to early 70s was the era of the Beatles, President Jack Kennedy and Rev. Martin Luther King, Pierre Elliot Trudeau, and most pervasive of all, it was the era of the amorphous spirit of the youth-inspired Peace Movement which promoted many other things, some of them good, some of them not-so-good. Among the good was a concern for racial equality and global responsibility. Mottoes like ‘Make Love, not War!’ and ‘We are the Human Family!’ were everywhere. Books were being published threatening a future of overcrowding and scarcity of food. The war in Vietnam produced an awareness of war-orphaned and war-wounded children. All those things combined to produce a social attitude out of which arose the idea in the mind of many couples that both having children and adopting children would be a good thing and some couples took the concrete action of exploring international adoption.

Your father abandoned your mother... who should have aborted you’

Your father abandoned your mother... who should have aborted you’



 





MAYURA JANWALKAR : Mumbai, Tue Nov 01 2011, 02:55 hrs
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Martin Narey writing in 'The Times': 'A fresh start is vital to reform near-ludicrous adoption rules'.

Martin Narey writing in 'The Times': 'A fresh start is vital to reform near-ludicrous adoption rules'.

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Over the past few months my proposition that there might be more adoptions and they might be completed more speedily has been challenged only by those who are opposed to the very concept of adoption.

But there is still, generally, a gulf between me and most of those who are pro-adoption when it comes to discussing the magnitude of the improvement that might be achievable.

My challenge that adoptions might double in number, and that the time taken to complete them might be halved, is, I am told, too ambitious. I have become used to hearing that, because I believe the interests of neglected children call for dramatically more adoptions and quicker adoptions, that I am oversimplifying issues – as the Association of Directors of Children’s Services told ‘The Guardian’ recently. And I am “cavalier”, as I was described last week by a social worker.

Congo fatigue: EU funding in the heart of Africa

Congo fatigue: EU funding in the heart of Africa

The DRC is currently the largest recipient of EU support amongst the African, Caribbean and Pacific Group of States (Photo: Andrew Willis)

By ANDREW WILLIS

KINSHASA, 1. NOV 2011, 09:02

Pastor Jean Tshibuabua stares bleakly into his coffee and considers the future of the Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC). It is early morning but already the cacophony of battered minibuses plying Kinshasa’s clogged and potholed streets can be heard above the religious compound’s tall protective walls. "We will end up with a state that is run completely by international institutions," says the middle-aged clergyman in frustration with his country’s political elite. "The government is totally absent in DRC."

Beyond Borders Conference 2011 Dates and Keynote Speakers Announced

Beyond Borders Conference 2011 Dates and Keynote Speakers Announced

The 11th annual Beyond Borders Conference dates and location have been announced. It will take place on October 29 & 30, 2011, in Austin, TX. The keynote speakers will be Dr. Todd Ochs and Craig Juntunen, prominent figures in international adoption.

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PRLog (Press Release) – Mar 25, 2011 – Great Wall China Adoption & Children of All Nations is pleased to announce that the dates for its eleventh annual Beyond Borders Conference, formerly known as East Meets West, is set for October 29 & 30, 2011, in its hometown of Austin, Texas. This annual conference provides a weekend of education, inspiration and networking for professionals, international adoption authorities and adoptive families.

The Indian preacher and the fake orphan scandal

The Indian preacher and the fake orphan scandal

An Indian missionary charity falsely portrayed young Buddhist girls from Nepal as "orphans" of murdered Christians in a global fund-raising operation involving British and American churches.

An Indian missionary charity falsely portrayed young Buddhist girls from Nepal as
Dr PP Job, a well-known evangelist, admitted that many of the girls were not orphans 

Parents paid a child-trafficker more than £100 to take their daughters to good schools in Nepal's capital, Kathmandu, but instead they were taken more than 1,200 miles to Tamil Nadu, southern India.

At the Michael Job Centre, a Christian orphanage and school in Coimbatore, they were converted to Christianity, given western names and told that its charismatic founder, Dr PP Job, was now their father.

On websites, the children were given serial numbers and profiles. The charity claimed they had been either abandoned by their parents who did not want the financial burden of raising girls, or orphaned after their "Christian" parents were murdered by Nepal's Maoist insurgents.

The profiles were used to attract financial sponsors from around the world.

Many of the donors were in the United States, Holland and Britain, where Dr Jobs's sister organisation, Love in Action, is run from St Mary's C of E Church in Stoke-sub-Hamdon, Somerset.

An anti-trafficking charity run by Lt Col Philip Holmes, a retired British Army officer, assisted Indian officials in a raid on the Coimbatore centre last month, when 23 children were rescued.

His group, the Esther Benjamins Trust, discovered that none of the children were from Christian families, very few were, in fact, orphans and some of the girls had been kept apart from their families for up to 10 years. Among those rescued were six girls from one extended Buddhist family in Humla district in northern Nepal who were all renamed on their first day at the Michael Job Centre.

One 17 year-old, "Daniele", whose real name is Tara, told The Daily Telegraph yesterday she was seven when she was taken from her village with her five-year-old sister, "Anna Bella", whose real name is Upaal. On the charity's website, "Daniele" is presented as "an orphan girl from the area bordering India and Nepal", while her sister is described as an orphan whose parents were killed by Maoists.

"There was nobody to take care of her. Our Nepal missionary brought her to the Michael Job Centre," her profile reads. "Anna Bella" is listed as child number 146, and "Daniele" 148, part of a batch of six girls including their four cousins who were renamed Tryphosa (143), Tryphena (150), Jael, and Persis (144).

"Daniele" said: "My mother and father couldn't afford our education and food. There was no threat from the Maoists. We are all Buddhists but now we have two religions.

"Our parents thought girl children should get married, and that if we got an education we would get money. They thought we were going to Kathmandu. They did not know it was a Christian school."

Dr Job, the "orphanage" founder, has left India for the United States, where he did not respond to enquiries. But in a letter to the Indian child welfare authority in Coimbatore last month, he admitted many of the Nepalese children were not orphans and blamed Dal Bahadur Phadera, the alleged trafficker who brought the girls to India, for misleading him.

"Most of the children mentioned were brought by Himalayan Orphanage Development Centre, Humla, run by Mr Dal Bahadur Phadera ... atthe time of admission it was brought to attention that the children are uncared [for] and that they are living within India. The children were neglected by the society and [were] in [the] orphanage. Till today we are taking care of children properly," he wrote.

The charity Love in Action raised around £18,000 for the Michael Job Centre between 2007 and 2010, but Tom Reeves, churchwarden at St Mary's, declined to comment on whether he and his colleagues had been duped.

Mr Phadera was unavailable for comment. A 2006 Unicef report said his organisation was acting in "direct violation of the international convention of children's rights".

In an interview with Avenues TV, a Nepalese channel, he denounced Lt Col Holmes's charity and its role in the raid. "At the time we took our children, there was conflict and we didn't have any problems that the school took our children. But this is a rescue done in the name of rescue. It's like they are looking for treatment when there is no need," he said.

Lt Col Holmes said he had no regrets over the raid. The trafficking of girls from Nepal was "a total abuse of child rights", he said.

SERA România: Românii au obiceiul de a dona doar de S?rb?tori

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Funda?ia SERA România este o organiza?ie cu o îndelungat? experien?? în dezinstitu?ionalizarea copiilor, care a închis, pân? acum, 34 din cele 37 de c?mine-spital de tip vechi ?i a desfiin?at multe alte centre de plasament. Directorul SERA, Bogdan Simion, a povestit, într-un interviu pentru Curierul Na?ional, c? majoritatea fondurilor funda?iei provin din afara ??rii, iar de cele mai multe ori, donatorii doresc s? r?mân? anonimi.
În ceea ce prive?te ?ara noastr?, exist? un fel de "festivism al dona?iilor" la români, care nu prea au obiceiul de a dona bani, o fac sporadic ?i, de obicei, doar de Cr?ciun ?i de Pa?te.
"Probabil c? suntem obi?nui?i ca dup? 50 de ani de comunism s? ne juc?m numai cu datele festive, de genul 23 august, 1 iunie, 25 decembrie. Majoritatea doar atunci doneaz?. Probabil c? avem repere în timp, altfel nu-mi explic de ce", ne-a spus pre?edintele funda?iei SERA România, Bogdan Simion.

Funda?ia a strâns peste 60 milioane euro, pentru copiii defavoriza?i

De la înfiin?are, în 1996, funda?ia SERA România a strâns peste 60 de milioane de euro pentru ajutorarea ?i reintegrarea în societate a copiilor defavoriza?i.
"De la înfiin?are, în 1996, pân? în prezent, am fost unii dintre principalii donatori în domeniul ajutor?rii copiilor, al?turi de Uniunea European?, de Banca Mondial?, al?turi de Banca de Dezvoltare a Consiliului Europei, iar cifrele din 1996 pân? în prezent, arat? c? SERA a cheltuit mai mult de 60 de milioane de euro în domeniul protec?iei copilului, ceea ce este o cifr? apreciabil? pentru o singur? organiza?ie neguvernamental?", a subliniat directorul SERA.
Majoritatea fondurilor provin de la organiza?ia CARE France, care sus?ine planul de activitate al SERA România.
"Dona?iile provin în cea mai mare parte din Fran?a, pentru c? SERA are o r?d?cin? francez?, iar de-a lungul timpului, cele mai multe dona?ii au venit de la asocia?ia SERA Fran?a ?i, ulterior, de la CARE France", a precizat Bogdan Simion.

Principalele piedici: legisla?ia defectuoas? ?i s?r?cirea resurselor

În ceea ce prive?te piedicile întâlnite de organiza?iile neguvernamentale în desf??urarea activit??ii, directorul SERA ne-a spus c? acestea s-au schimbat de-a lungul timpului, dar sunt legate în principal de legisla?ia defectuoas? privind protec?ia copilului, precum ?i de o s?r?cire a resurselor.
"Funda?ia SERA România se ocup? din 1996 de problematica copiilor afla?i în dificultate în România, iar problemele s-au schimbat în timp. Totu?i, cred c?, în ultima vreme, dificult??ile cele mai des întâlnite sunt cele legate de legisla?ia pentru protec?ia copilului, de relativa lips? de interes a autorit??ilor centrale, precum ?i de o s?r?cire a resurselor, în ultima vreme. Acest lucru nu este valabil numai pentru SERA, ci cam pentru toate organiza?iile neguvernamentale care lucreaz? în domeniu. Aceast? s?r?cire coincide, culmea, cu aderarea României la Uniunea European?. Cât? vreme România era în afara Uniunii, era ajutat? fie prin programe interna?ionale, fie prin dona?ii ale priva?ilor, pentru c? era într-o situa?ie dificil?. Odat? cu intarea în Uniunea European?, toate sursele acestea au început s? sece. Programe interna?ionale nu mai sunt, dona?iile private sunt ?i ele din ce în ce mai pu?ine, pentru c? nu prea doneaz? nimeni unei ??ri care este în Uniune", a explicat directorul SERA.

Prin interven?iile sale, SERA România a încercat s? sus?in? autorit??ile publice, pentru a proteja drepturile copiilor ?i pentru a dezvolta servicii specifice, capabile s? garanteze un mediu corespunz?tor cre?terii ?i educ?rii normale a copiilor din comunitatea pe care o reprezint?.
Printre principalele obiective ?i programe ale SERA România se num?r? sus?inerea financiar? a serviciilor sociale înfiin?ate de funda?ie, amenajarea ?i dotarea de centre de ocrotire, construc?ia de centre de recupere, educare ?i resocializare a copiilor defavoriza?i ?i cu deficien?e. Totodat?, funda?ia sus?ine diversificare activit??ilor desf??urate în favoarea copiilor de c?tre centrele maternale, re?elele de asisten?i maternali profesioni?ti ?i alte sevicii complexe capabile s? garanteze fiec?rui copil o familie.

Guatemalan court sentences 2 women for trafficking baby adopted by US family

Guatemalan court sentences 2 women for trafficking baby adopted by US family

GUATEMALA CITY — A Guatemalan court sentenced two women to 16 and 21 years in prison on Monday for trafficking a stolen baby who was given for adoption to a U.S. family.

Special prosecutor Lorena Maldonado said the sentences handed down to a lawyer and the legal representative of an adoption agency will reinforce the birth mother’s bid to get her daughter returned from the United States.

“Even though the criminal proceedings are separate from the adoption process, these sentences help, and confirm the argument of the mother, Loyda Rodriguez, that this girl is her daughter and was stolen from in front of her house, and that there is a criminal structure in Guatemala that steals children,” said Maldonado.

The Eighth Penal Tribunal sentenced lawyer Beatriz Valle Flores to 21 years in prison for human trafficking, criminal association and using false documents. She signed papers in the adoption.

A 16-year sentence went to the legal representative of the adoption agency, Enriqueta Noriega Cano, where the girl spent a year before being adopted. The girl left the country on Dec. 9, 2008.

Both women were also ordered to pay 100,000 quetzales ($25,600) apiece to the mother for damages.

Rodriguez, the mother, obtained a Guatemalan court order in July for the return of the seven-year-old, but it is unclear if it can be enforced.

The girl, Anyeli Liseth Hernandez Rodriguez was born Oct. 1, 2004, the second child of Rodriguez, a housewife, and her bricklayer husband, Dayner Orlando Hernandez. The girl disappeared Nov. 3, 2006, as Rodriguez was distracted while opening the door to their house in a working class suburb, San Miguel Petapa. She turned to see a woman whisk the girl, then two, away in a taxi.

If U.S. authorities intervene to return the child as the Guatemalan court has asked, it would be a first for any international adoption case, experts say.

In August, a construction-paper sign taped to the door of the girl’s U.S. address, a two-story suburban Kansas City home, read: “Please respect our families (sic) privacy during this difficult and confusing time. We ask that you not trespass on our property for the sake of our children. Thank you.”

Guatemala’s quick adoptions once made this Central American nation of 13 million people a top source of children for the U.S., leading or ranking second only to China with about 4,000 adoptions a year. But the Guatemalan government suspended adoptions in late 2007 after widespread cases of fraud, including falsified paperwork, fake birth certificates and charges of baby theft — though they still allowed many already in process.

The International Commission Against Impunity in Guatemala, a U.N.-created agency prosecuting organized crime cases in Guatemala, has reviewed more than 3,000 adoptions completed or in process and found nearly 100 grave irregularities.

The U.S. still does not allow adoptions from Guatemala, though the State Department is currently assisting with 397 children whose adoptions were in process at the time of the ban.

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Pre-Adoption Training Given to Ethiopian Adoptive Families

Pre-Adoption Training Given to Ethiopian Adoptive Families  

By Meron Tekleberhan

Kidmia FoundationOctober 25, 2011 - A first round training session for Ethiopian adoptive families was given by the KIDMIA Foundation. The first round pre-adoption training was conducted in Addis Ababa from October 07 to 08, 2011 at the Gudinea Tumsa Holistic Training Center.

The importance of expanding domestic adoption services as an alternative form of care cannot be stressed enough according to Ato Aschalew Abebe Director of Kidmia Foundation. The necessity arises from the large numbers of children left without proper care due to economic poverty and the HIV/AIDs epidemic in the country.

“The orphan crisis in Ethiopia has related to a corresponding flourish of child care institutions and adoption agencies in the country. Addressing the plight of orphans and vulnerable children through domestic adoption services is a timely issue that needs to be planned and implemented by development agencies at all levels said Ato Aschalew.

A total of 16 couples (32 people) attended the first round pre-adoption training. These participants were drawn from 5 cities and towns, including Addis Ababa, Adama, Wonji Geferssa, Zeway and Bekoje.

The first round pre-adoption training required a considerable amount of preparation according to Ato Aschalew.  

Kidimia Foundation partnered with Kingdom Vision International, Food for the Hungry Ethiopia, Evangelical Churches Fellowship of Ethiopia, and Bethany Christian Services in organizing the training said Ato Aschalew.

“These partners have contributed financial and non financial resources required to organize the planned pre-adoption training for the already committed adoptive families. Kidmia foundation took the lead in organizing the training and assigning qualified and experienced professional trainers for the purpose of conducting the training” added the Director of Kidmia Foundation.

Ato Aschalew explained that the training had the primary objective of creating awareness of the current level of the orphan crisis in Ethiopia and to promote domestic adoption as valid response to this problem. The training also hoped to establish an understanding of the existing services for orphans and vulnerable children including existing policies, procedures and guidelines of the Ethiopian Government for domestic adoption.

Along with forming a common understanding of the orphan problem and domestic adoption as one of the best alternatives to responding to the crisis the training also aimed to educate potential adoptive parents. According guidelines to assess the eligibility of adoptive families, creating awareness on the major ethics of adoption and improving the parenting and bonding skills of prospective parents formed major elements of the training said Ato Aschalew.

Nine sessions were offered to the trainees encompassing: 1. The Causes and Consequences of the OVC crisis in Ethiopia, 2. Existing services for OVC in Ethiopia and the respective challenges, 3. Domestic adoption as one of the best responses to the OVC crisis in Ethiopia, 4. Ethiopian Government policies, procedures and guidelines for Domestic Adoption, 5. Major Process Steps in Domestic Adoption, 6. Parenting Skills, 7. Home Study 8. Ethics in Adoption, 9. Attachment and Bonding.

“The planned budget for the first round pre-adoption training was Birr 38,487 Birr, however a total of 24,716 Birr was actually utilized to conduct the first round pre-adoption training and the remaining 12,500 Birr from the first round training budget will be used to cover expenses related to home study, adoption application, travel and others explained the training report” explained Ato Aschalew.

The second round pre-adoption training will be organized in Nazareth at the end of October 2011.

After the first round pre-adoption training Kidmia is now prepared and looking forward to facilitating and coordinating the placement of eligible children into loving, caring and forever families domestically in collaboration with its strong partners including Kingdom Vision International, Gladney Center for Adoption and Bethany Christian Services. 

Ato Aschalew explains the next step is going to be conducting home studies for adoptive families who received the training and clearing each and every target adoptable children for adoption. This will open the way to matching eligible children with adoptive families and compiling the required legal documents for both the children and adoptive parents.

The final steps in the process include presenting the applications for domestic adoption to the relevant court, ministry and offices of the government and all ensuing procedures.

Participants of the training were given a training certificate jointly signed and stamped by KIDMIA Foundation and Kingdom Vision International. The certificate was awarded by Mr. Eyob Kolcha, who is the founder and executive director of Kingdom Vision International/KVI.

KIDMIA foundation has also provided the trainers with certificate of appreciation to acknowledge their commitment and motivation to realize the objective of, permanently placing orphan and vulnerable children in a caring, loving and forever families domestically.

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Meron Tekleberhan

 

Meron Tekleberhan is Addis Ababa based reporter for Ezega.com. She can be reached by sending email through this form.