Adopted Bibi Hasenaar: 'My life is broken for the money'
'I think I can demand a reimbursement', says the adopted Bibi Hasenaar in response to the investigation that Minister Dekker is adopting for adoption. "It was vulgar trafficking."
"I think I am now 46 years old," says Bibi Hasenaar. The independent entrepreneur from Muiderberg does not know exactly what it is. As a four-and-a-half-year-old, the Bangladeshi-born girl was adopted, later her files were no longer there. "I celebrate my birthday on April 1, and then I feel really happy."
"I can still laugh," says Hasenaar at the end of the conversation, which is about her adoption. How the young Bibi and her brother are first disassembled in the Netherlands - against the rules - and how after three days of continuous crying they are replaced in the adoptive family of her brother. That was terrible, she says. "I did not feel wanted anywhere in my youth. My mother in Bangladesh did not want me anymore, I thought, and in that new family I was not wanted as an extra child. "The contact with her adoptive parents was bad from the start, she says. "In retrospect, I'm sure that I was brought up in Bangladesh with much more love."
On Thursday, Minister Dekker announced that investigations into malpractice in intercountry adoption, including those from Bangladesh. Hasenaar finds the reaction from The Hague very late. "Adopted people have been looking for answers for decades." A laugh sounds. "Actually, I have never been that person myself. I have not let myself get carried away by my past, I have tried to make something of my life here. "