The search for the origins of adoptees now gives rise to a real business. Intermediaries offer their services for remuneration, even if it means inventing false parents.
Jessica was born in Sri Lanka in 1982. At the age of two, she was adopted in France by a loving family. She led a happy life until Christmas Eve in 2017. “I learned that adoption trafficking took place in Sri Lanka in the 1980s, right at the time of my adoption,” she explains. . " I also learned that the person who served as an intermediary for my adoption is involved in this traffic. It's a big shock. I feel the need to find my biological family.” People contacted via adoptee groups on Facebook give him the contact details of an intermediary who lives there. She contacts him to ask him to look for his biological mother.
A fake mother
The man demands 350 euros from him for food, accommodation and travel costs. “He says the search will not last more than four days. The time, he says, it took him to find other relatives.” Confident and full of hope, Jessica makes a transfer to him and sends him the information she has on his adoption. The result lived up to his expectations: “After three days, he told me that he found a woman who had information that matched my file.” According to him, it was his aunt.
Upset, Jessica decides to go meet her in Sri Lanka. “It’s a magical moment. We hug each other. We cry. I’ve been waiting for this moment for so many years!” , she remembers. Back in France, Jessica continues to talk with her aunt. But a few weeks later, her husband at the time, overcome with doubt, advised her to request a DNA test. It’s a blow: “The test is negative. She's not my aunt. I’m completely falling apart.”