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Brandpunt mag misstanden adoptie Ethiopië uitzenden

Brandpunt mag misstanden adoptie Ethiopië uitzenden

Brandpunt heeft vanochtend het kort geding gewonnen over de uitzending van komende zondag. Daarin brengt het KRO-programma een reportage over de misstanden rondom adopties uit Ethiopië. De aanklagende partij wenste vergaande aanpassingen in de uitzending. 

De rechter besliste dat onvoldoende aannemelijk is gebleken dat de privacy van de eisers zou worden geschonden. Het belang van de vrije meningsuiting van de KRO prevaleert en alle vorderingen zijn afgewezen, meldt de omroep. De rechtzaak diende vanochtend voor de rechtbank in Amsterdam.

Brandpunt laat in de reportage zien dat er nog steeds heel veel mis is rondom adopties uit Ethiopië: gesjoemel met geboortebewijzen, vervalsen van afstandsverklaringen en misleiden van biologische ouders. In deze uitzending is de reconstructie te zien van het indrukwekkende verhaal van Betty, een Ethiopisch meisje van 12 jaar.

Het verhaal gaat over Betty die vijf jaar geleden naar Nederland kwam, maar met de adoptieprocedure blijkt van alles misgegaan. Haar leeftijd is vervalst, verjongd van 7 naar 6, en in de adoptiepapieren staat dat haar biologische ouders zouden zijn overleden. Maar ook dat klopt niet. Haar ouders zijn springlevend. Eenmaal in Nederland gaat het mis met het meisje. Ze kan hier niet aarden en belandt bij bureau jeugdzorg.

In de kerstvakantie is Betty voor eerst sinds de adoptie terug naar Ethiopië gegaan, op zoek naar haar dood gewaande ouders. Verslaggever Aart Zeeman reist mee en stuit naast het verhaal van Betty op andere schokkende zaken. Zoals kinderen die formeel geadopteerd worden maar in de praktijk onder valse voorwendselen aan hun ouders zijn ontfutseld. Volgens onderzoekers in de reportage is er in Ethiopië in veel gevallen sprake van kinderhandel.

Brandpunt heeft in dit verband tevens de hand weten te leggen op een onderzoek van Wereldkinderen uit 2009 naar de achtergrondinformatie van adoptiekinderen uit Ethiopië. De uitslag van dit onderzoek heeft er in 2009 toe geleid dat er geen nieuwe adoptieverzoeken meer in behandeling zijn genomen en dat de procedure voor nieuwe bemiddelingen uit Ethiopië is aangescherpt, aldus Wereldkinderen.

Les ONG Francaise, cheval de troie de l'Empire

Mis en ligne le 6 janvier 2011, par Mecanopolis. 3 Commentaires

Les relations franco-américaines ? L’un des vecteurs de la globalisation et, pire que tout, l’un de ses verrous. En effet, la construction européenne, Cheval de Troie de la gouvernance mondiale, n’aurait pas pu arriver là où elle en est sans la collaboration de la France. Dur à admettre, mais c’est ainsi…

L’histoire de la France et les possibles alliances stratégiques qu’elle pourrait initier sur la scène internationale sont telles que sa neutralisation a de longue date été prioritaire. Cette mise en quarantaine, nécessaire pour le processus globalisant, est exponentielle depuis son intégration dans l’Europe. Les États-Unis, quant à eux, ont incorporé une dimension humanitaire à toute entreprise expansionniste depuis la fin de la Seconde guerre mondiale avec le Plan Marshall. Cette stratégie leur a permis de compenser les « dégâts collatéraux » de leurs expéditions militaires par des bénéfices médiatiques et politiques. Ce qui explique que les relations franco-américaines d’après-guerre révèlent un flagrant ajustement de certaines ONG avec les volontés expansionnistes des États-Unis.

Dans le cadre du Plan Marshall, outre la contribution financière à la reconstruction de l’Europe, une ONG est alors créée : CARE(1), qui devient plus tard CARE International. Des colis alimentaires sont gracieusement distribués par l’ONG dans les pays européens dévastés par la guerre. En France, les fonds du Plan Marshall sont administrés par le Commissariat général au Plan, où officie Jean Guyot. Puis ce dernier occupe le poste de Directeur financier de la CECA (Communauté européenne du Charbon et de l’Acier) – l’ancêtre de l’actuelle Union européenne – sous la direction de Jean Monnet. Ce dernier en démissionne en 1954 pour prendre la tête du Comité d’action pour les États-Unis d’Europe. Jean Guyot entre ensuite chez Lazard dont il est associé-gérant pendant près de cinquante ans et où il participe à la renommée internationale de la banque. En 1983, il crée le bureau français de l’ONG Care, qui est actuellement présidée par Arielle de Rothschild.

Les États-Unis affirment donc, dès la fin de la Seconde guerre mondiale, le besoin de camoufler leurs ambitions impériales en employant des moyens subversifs. Cette nécessité se fait de plus en plus grande durant la Guerre froide : jusqu’en 1969, Charles de Gaulle est au pouvoir et résiste aux pressions américaines en refusant tant qu’il peut la construction d’une Europe inféodée aux intérêts américains. Il ira même jusqu’à proposer à Willy Brandt le développement d’un projet européen alternatif à celui de la Maison Blanche. Au lendemain de la chute du Général, la France est alors à la fois dans l’orbite des États-Unis et dans l’incapacité de répondre à leurs tentatives de cooptation.

04-01-2011 - Brandpunt twittert over adopties uit Ethiopië

KRO's Brandpunt has decided to make a broadcast about adoptions from Ethiopia. The broadcast will be next Sunday, January 9. In addition to a general picture, one mediation will probably be explored in depth. It concerns the case of two girls, whose adoptive parents and biological parents have given full consent to the adoption and also met each other in Ethiopia, but where the court has ruled that the biological parents have died.

The reason for this report lies in the fact that Wereldkinderen conducted a study in 2009 into the background information of adopted children from Ethiopia. This internal confidential investigation was handed over to Brandpunt by the researcher against the agreements!

Wereldkinderen has been mediating for adoptions from Ethiopia since 1985. In order to learn from our work in the past and to continuously improve the quality of our work, Wereldkinderen commissioned an investigation in 2009 into the background of 18 randomly selected mediations from the period 2004-2008. In 2009 the conclusions of this investigation gave rise to the temporary non-processing of new adoption applications. Questions about the results of the investigation were also asked in the House of Representatives at the time. The result was a stricter procedure for new mediations from Ethiopia. The tightened procedure means, among other things, that the backgrounds of the children are examined extra before their adoption is dealt with in court. And that information about distance and adoption is given to the biological relatives at an early stage to make them aware of alternative care and the impact of giving up.

As indicated, Wereldkinderen has not accepted any new requests since 2009. However, an extra examination was carried out for the children who were already included in our Foster Home. The adoption procedure has now been completed for the children whose second background request was positive.

The research initiated by Wereldkinderen has had many consequences. In addition to temporarily halting procedures and tightening up background investigations, measures have also been taken in Ethiopia. The Ministry of Women's Affairs responsible for international adoption has also conducted its own investigation. The guidelines for international adoptions have been tightened and some children's homes no longer play a role in the international adoption process.

Elton John 'broke promise to take care of tragic Ukranian orphan'

Elton John 'broke promise to take care of tragic Ukranian orphan'

 
2011-01-02 15:30:00
 
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Sir Elton John has failed to keep his promise to rebuild the life of a tragic Ukranian orphan, claims the boy's granny.

The singer and his partner David Furnish said their hearts were 'stolen' by 14-month-old Lev, when they met him in an orphanage in 2009.

After failing to adopt him, they publicly pledged to find him a home in his native country and send regular financial help.

Now the celebrities have welcomed their newborn surrogate son in the New Year in Los Angeles but Lev remained in the same orphanage in a bleak industrial town on the Russian border.

Accusing them of reneging on their promise, his grandmother, Yulia Ageyeva said she had heard nothing from Sir Elton in 15 months.

She said the singer had also promised to help Lev's four-year-old, HIV-positive brother, Artyom.

"I have not given up hope that Elton will fulfil his promise to help Lev and Artyom, but now he has his new American baby I doubt we will ever hear from him," the Daily Mail quoted Ageyeva as saying.

Last week Furnish said he and Sir Elton would continue with their attempts to find a Ukranian family for the brothers and had retained local lawyers to help them.

But it remains news to both Ageyeva and the orphanage.

"We know of no specific assistance," deputy director of the orphanage, Lyudmila Batikhina said.

"I don't know his reasons for forgetting. Maybe he made a big fuss over Lev for public relations, to show the world he was caring," Ageyeva added.

Sir Elton's rep declined to comment but said last night: "If you look through the cuttings you can see that Sir Elton has said he's financially supporting them". (ANI)

 

The 30,000 lost children of the Franco years are set to be saved from oblivion

The 30,000 lost children of the Franco years are set to be saved from oblivion

Pressure is growing to illuminate the fate decreed by the Spanish dictator to the families of his Republican enemies

By Alasdair Fotheringham

Sunday, 2 January 2011

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"Did my child die or was he kidnapped?" is something no parent should ever have to ask, and still less so when the kidnappers are the government. But that is exactly the question hundreds of Spanish families are currently demanding that their courts resolve for once and for all about the so-called "lost children of General Franco". They were already estimated to total around 30,000, and now, it appears, there may be many more.

In Franco's early years, "child-stealing" by the Spanish state was politically motivated, with its key instigator, Antonio Vallejo-Nagera, the army's crackpot chief psychiatrist who championed Nazi theories that Communism was a mental illness caused by the wrong kind of environment. Inspired by Vallejo-Nagera, Franco's government passed laws in 1940 that, as one judicial report in 2008 put it, "ensured that families that did not have ideas considered ideal [ie, supporters of Spain's defeated republic] did not have contact with their offspring".

Putting this policy into practice was brutally straightforward and efficient. In 1943, records show 9,000 children of political prisoners had been removed to state-run orphanages, and in 1944 that total had risen to more than 12,000.

Arguably the most infamous case took place at the Saturraran women's prison in the Basque country, when around 100 Republican children were removed in one fell swoop. Their mothers, who had been tricked into leaving their children alone for a few minutes, were told they would be shot if they so much as shouted when they came back and found them gone.

Julia Manzanal, 95, no longer talks to the press because her family say that it upsets her too much. But as a Communist whose 10-month-old baby died of meningitis in one of Franco's prisons she was a first-hand witness of the enforced adoption policy. When last interviewed in 2003 she said : "I never let my child out of my sight because when mothers were condemned [to death], they would rip the babies out of their arms. They would give them to priests, to military families, to illegal adoption rings and educate them in their own ideology. Conditions there were terrible... there were huge rats, lice, virtually no food, women would give birth in the washrooms with no help... I saw children die of hunger and thirst, and their mothers would go mad as a result."

Having the wrong name could be fatal. In a television documentary in 2002, Ms Manzanal described how when Franco's police discovered that one prisoner's child's name was Lenin, they picked it up by the legs and smashed its head against a wall.

Even after the collapse of Nazi Germany, the enforced adoption policies continued, and even intensified to include Republicans living abroad. As late as 1949, official documents of the ruling Falange party give detailed instructions on how children born to their former enemies then exiled outside Spain were to be kidnapped and brought back across the border for re-education. Their names were then changed to ensure no further contact was possible.

But by the 1960s what had begun as a politically motivated state policy slowly morphed into a more straightforward adoption trade – in some cases with the state's connivance. Parents were simply told their infants had died shortly after birth, and the babies were then sold on to families.

Mar Soriano told El Pais newspaper last year: "My sister was born on 3 July 1964, and my mother was breastfeeding her until they told her they had to take her baby to the incubator. When my parents went to look for her later, they told them she had died of an ear infection. My father wanted to see her and bury her, but they said they had taken care of everything and she was in a mass grave."

Other cases, like that of Maria Jose Estevez, were eerily similar. Ms Estevez's baby was born on 3 September 1965 in Cadiz, but even though she could hear him crying later in the next room, she was told she was imagining things and that he was dead. She was informed he had already been buried, next to the amputated leg of a recently operated patient.

With cases now up to six decades old, any hope of resolving them seemed doomed. But a recent wave of media interest has seen bereaved family after bereaved family recalling the same bizarre circumstances: the death of their newborns from ear infections or an equally implausible cause, followed by the hospital's point-blank refusal to show them the body.

By late November, Javier Zaragoza, Spain's chief prosecutor, had more than 300 new cases on his desk. Faced with growing demands, he formally requested that the Ministry of Justice set up a specific department to compile a list of the missing infants.

However, there was a catch. Mr Zaragoza was willing to run the investigation to cover a massive four-decade period – up until 1980, five years after Franco's death – but he also said that it would be purely administrative. In other words, even if crimes were uncovered, nobody would go to jail.

Discouraging as that may sound, it represents progress compared with 2008, when the first official report made into the cases of all the "disappeared" during the Franco years ordered by the crusading judge Baltasar Garzon, including the missing infants, ended up being shelved. Judge Garzon was accused by various extreme right-wing organisations of acting outside his legal powers, something for which he now faces trial.

This time round, though, the victims of enforced adoption are determined that they will not be shunted into a legal siding and forgotten. So far, they are succeeding. In Madrid, the hospitals have opted for a full-scale investigation of all infant deaths between 1961 and 1971.

In Cadiz, Algeciras, Malaga and Granada, four big cities in the south, the local state attorneys are reported to believe cases should be opened. In Valencia, a leading lawyer specialising in the cases, Enrique Vila, aims to open another legal front later this month when he files a formal complaint of mass kidnapping with Spain's equivalent of the Crown Prosecution Service.

There could even shortly be an international investigation. The Foros por la Memoria movement has taken the cases of all those missing from the Franco years to the United Nations to plead that they cannot simply be shelved. An answer is expected this summer.

As for the women of Saturraran prison, last year, for the first time, a film, Izarren argia [now Stars to Wish Upon], was made about their experiences. When it had its premiere at the San Sebastian Film Festival, a 93-year-old former internee, Ana Morales, stood up in the audience and thanked the director for "finally letting some light be shed on that terrible place".

Mrs Morales said she was lucky: she could place her own child out of harm's way with a sympathiser outside prison until she herself was released. But many others in the same predicament are still fighting to find out what happened to theirs.

Adoption of grandchild to help daughter’s marriage blocked

Adoption of grandchild to help daughter’s marriage blocked

2011-01-02 18:02

A couple’s attempt to adopt their granddaughter to pave the way for their daughter’s marriage was barred by the Supreme Court on Sunday. 

The confusion the child will undergo after the adoption is graver issue than whether her biological mother has a smooth marriage procedure, Justice Min Young-il said in upholding a lower court’s decision. 

The ruling is expected to set standards for the adoption of blood relatives, which became increasingly popular after a law was enforced in 2008 deleting all past records of biological parents and foster families of the adoptive children. 

According to the court file, the couple identified by their family name Lee has been taking care of their 5-year-old granddaughter since 2006, when their daughter and her boyfriend split right after the baby’s birth. The cou­ple thought that the child born out of wedlock would be an obstacle for the daughter’s future relationship with another man and decided to adopt the child to let the daughter start a new life. 

The request was rejected by local and high courts. 

Min said the amount of stress caused to the child would be immense. 

“Her grandparents will become the parents and her mother will become the sister in no time. When the child learns about the abnormal family relations, she will be shocked. In the case of adoption, the first thing considered is the welfare of the child,” he said. 

“The plaintiffs have no trouble in raising the granddaughter in the current status and it should be maintained.” 

By Bae Ji-sook  (baejisook@heraldm.com)
 

Nepal -Parents caught in adoption dispute

Parents caught in adoption dispute

After investigating orphanages and adoption practices in Nepal, the U.S. Citizen and Immigration Services found no evidence of fraud but the families who are waiting for visas for their adopted children still must prove the children were really abandoned.

Seattle Times staff reporter

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Karalyn Carlton's thoughts rarely stray far from the child she left behind in Nepal.

What is her daughter doing? Is she healthy? Will the child recognize her when they are reunited?

Ever since Aug. 6, when the U.S. stopped granting visas to children from Nepal because of concerns about child trafficking, dozens of families, including four from Washington, have faced a difficult choice: Stay there with their children, risking financial ruin as the investigation runs its course, or return to the U.S. and live with the anguish of separation.

Several weeks ago, the families received what should have been good news: Wally Bird, the deputy chief of International Operations Division, U.S. Citizen and Immigration Services (CIS), said investigators could find no evidence of fraud on the part of the adoption agencies. But, he added, visas won't be granted until parents prove their adopted children really were abandoned.

The purpose for the extra step is to be sure the children were not taken from families who now might be looking for them, say officials. But in a poor country with minimal record-keeping and no regular practice of issuing birth certificates — as well as a law sentencing a mother to prison for years if she's caught abandoning a child — adoptive parents say that kind of proof is unrealistic.

Bird said he didn't know if those factors would hamper parents' attempts to prove abandonment. He added that if a birth mother was identified, she'd have to receive some kind of protection from prosecution but, he said, the situation has never come up.

To try to meet the U.S. government's requirements, the families have hired investigators in Nepal and attorneys in the U.S. And they've banded together and written a petition asking members of Congress to pressure the Department of Homeland Security and CIS to quickly resolve the cases.

"Broadsided" by ban

Between 2007 and 2009, Nepal shut down international adoptions as it investigated claims of child trafficking. There were numerous claims of older children being sent to India to work in circuses or the sex trade.

In 2009, after a new parliament came into power, Nepal reopened adoptions with new regulations. Many single women looked to Nepal to adopt because it didn't require two parents. That same year, Nepal joined the international Hague Convention on the Protection of Children, an attempt to standardize adoption practices worldwide.

As is the common practice when countries want to join, a committee from The Hague came to Nepal and investigated the adoption agencies. The committee accused the agencies of falsifying documents to make children (who never arrive with birth certificates) more adoptable, as well as committing other fraud.

The committee also requested orphanages provide medical and social history of the birth parents, among other things.

Irene Steffas, a Marietta, Ga., attorney who represents about 20 adoptive parents, said she found the report so out of touch with the realities of Nepal, she wondered "what planet they (Hague investigators) were living on."

Following the report, the U.S. joined 12 countries in stopping the visas. It was the start of heartache and frustration for the 80 U.S. "pipeline families" who were in the process of adoption when the visas ended.

"We were completely broadsided by this," said Carlton, who had been in the process of adopting for three years before the ban.

"The Hague Committee criticized the (Nepali) process and I don't believe the committee understood all the checks and balances in place," Steffas said. "They condemned adoption in Nepal only because they didn't dig very deeply."

Now that the CIS has found no evidence of the fraud cited in The Hague report, the families believe the visas should be granted with no additional steps required for proving abandonment. Of the original 80 families in the process of adopting children in Nepal, nine families have been granted visas. Fifty-four are still being investigated. The remaining families have apparently given up.

"I can't give up on her"

It was mid-August, when Carlton, her husband, Scott Holter, and their son, Emmett Carlton, 8, traveled to Katmandu to meet 18-month-old Swashti. Carlton said a shopkeeper saw Swashti, then just a baby, in an area where the bodies of deceased children were discarded among trash.

Police took the baby to an orphanage.

In the meantime, the couple wanted one more child and had spent thousands of dollars before going to Nepal to meet the shy toddler.

Finalizing adoptions is up to Nepal's Ministry of Women and Children, but once done, the child cannot be left at the orphanage — even if the U.S. doesn't grant a visa. New adoptive parents have no option but to wait in Nepal until the visa is granted.

Staying for that long wasn't an option for Carlton, 41. So the family didn't finalize the adoption. Like the others from Washington, Carlton has hired an attorney.

"I can't give up on her," Carlton said.

Karen Culver, 42, of Bellevue, and her husband, John, have three young boys of their own but, as she put it, they had room in their hearts for one more child. "Nepal resonated with us," said Culver, a stay-at-home mother. They were matched with 3-year-old Sachyi.

As soon as they opened the file and saw her photo, their hearts melted, Culver said, and she thought: "She is adorable and we are so lucky."

Like Carlton, they, too, hesitated making the adoption final until the visa was approved because it would be difficult for either of them to remain in Katmandu, and they didn't want Sachyi to "be orphaned twice."

"How heartbreaking it would be for me to show up and leave," she said.

In Nepal, Chris Kirchoff, of Seattle, and Jenni Lund, of Leavenworth, live in the same apartment building, spending holidays together and supporting each other as they wait for CIS to determine their fate.

Kirchoff, 40, can't imagine leaving her newly adopted daughter, Orion, behind. When she met the-now 14-month-old, "I saw her little face, she smiled, I cried and we have been inseparable ever since."

For Kirchoff, a personal trainer, her Seattle business is on hold. Her elderly father is ill and she hopes Orion will get to meet him.

Lund, 45, who owns a yoga studio, also has a business on hold and has seen her savings dwindle as she waits with her son, Pukar, 2.

"I miss my family and friends, I miss my home, and I want to get medical help for Pukar's rickets," she said.

In the meantime, "Pukar is absolutely thriving. Each day it seems he is happier, his eyes brighter and smile wider. He has a great sense of humor, loves to laugh and learn," she said.

As Lund played with Pukar a few nights ago she thought about the children remaining in the orphanages, how cold it is and how there aren't enough warm clothes, blankets or even socks for all of them. She thought, too, how unwanted children in Nepal, where the caste system survives, have few options in life. Then she looked at Pukar, asleep in her bed, dressed in a bathrobe and slippers.

"What a gift adoption is to these children. Truly, I cannot believe anything else."

Nancy Bartley: 206-464-8522 or nbartley@seattletimes.com

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Parents caught in adoption dispute

Parents caught in adoption dispute

After investigating orphanages and adoption practices in Nepal, the U.S. Citizen and Immigration Services found no evidence of fraud but the families who are waiting for visas for their adopted children still must prove the children were really abandoned.

By Nancy Bartley

Seattle Times staff reporter

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Karalyn Carlton of Seattle was in the process of adopting a girl from Nepal when the U.S. stopped granting visas to children from the country Aug. 6. "We were completely broadsided by this," she said.

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Karalyn Carlton of Seattle was in the process of adopting a girl from Nepal when the U.S. stopped granting visas to children from the country Aug. 6. "We were completely broadsided by this," she said.

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Seeking help

TO SEE THE PETITION the "pipeline families" are circulating that asks members of Congress for help resolving their cases, go to www.petition2congress.com/3710/go

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Karalyn Carlton's thoughts rarely stray far from the child she left behind in Nepal.

What is her daughter doing? Is she healthy? Will the child recognize her when they are reunited?

Ever since Aug. 6, when the U.S. stopped granting visas to children from Nepal because of concerns about child trafficking, dozens of families, including four from Washington, have faced a difficult choice: Stay there with their children, risking financial ruin as the investigation runs its course, or return to the U.S. and live with the anguish of separation.

Several weeks ago, the families received what should have been good news: Wally Bird, the deputy chief of International Operations Division, U.S. Citizen and Immigration Services (CIS), said investigators could find no evidence of fraud on the part of the adoption agencies. But, he added, visas won't be granted until parents prove their adopted children really were abandoned.

The purpose for the extra step is to be sure the children were not taken from families who now might be looking for them, say officials. But in a poor country with minimal record-keeping and no regular practice of issuing birth certificates — as well as a law sentencing a mother to prison for years if she's caught abandoning a child — adoptive parents say that kind of proof is unrealistic.

Bird said he didn't know if those factors would hamper parents' attempts to prove abandonment. He added that if a birth mother was identified, she'd have to receive some kind of protection from prosecution but, he said, the situation has never come up.

To try to meet the U.S. government's requirements, the families have hired investigators in Nepal and attorneys in the U.S. And they've banded together and written a petition asking members of Congress to pressure the Department of Homeland Security and CIS to quickly resolve the cases.

"Broadsided" by ban

Between 2007 and 2009, Nepal shut down international adoptions as it investigated claims of child trafficking. There were numerous claims of older children being sent to India to work in circuses or the sex trade.

In 2009, after a new parliament came into power, Nepal reopened adoptions with new regulations. Many single women looked to Nepal to adopt because it didn't require two parents. That same year, Nepal joined the international Hague Convention on the Protection of Children, an attempt to standardize adoption practices worldwide.

As is the common practice when countries want to join, a committee from The Hague came to Nepal and investigated the adoption agencies. The committee accused the agencies of falsifying documents to make children (who never arrive with birth certificates) more adoptable, as well as committing other fraud.

The committee also requested orphanages provide medical and social history of the birth parents, among other things.

Irene Steffas, a Marietta, Ga., attorney who represents about 20 adoptive parents, said she found the report so out of touch with the realities of Nepal, she wondered "what planet they (Hague investigators) were living on."

Following the report, the U.S. joined 12 countries in stopping the visas. It was the start of heartache and frustration for the 80 U.S. "pipeline families" who were in the process of adoption when the visas ended.

"We were completely broadsided by this," said Carlton, who had been in the process of adopting for three years before the ban.

"The Hague Committee criticized the (Nepali) process and I don't believe the committee understood all the checks and balances in place," Steffas said. "They condemned adoption in Nepal only because they didn't dig very deeply."

Now that the CIS has found no evidence of the fraud cited in The Hague report, the families believe the visas should be granted with no additional steps required for proving abandonment. Of the original 80 families in the process of adopting children in Nepal, nine families have been granted visas. Fifty-four are still being investigated. The remaining families have apparently given up.

"I can't give up on her"

It was mid-August, when Carlton, her husband, Scott Holter, and their son, Emmett Carlton, 8, traveled to Katmandu to meet 18-month-old Swashti. Carlton said a shopkeeper saw Swashti, then just a baby, in an area where the bodies of deceased children were discarded among trash.

Police took the baby to an orphanage.

In the meantime, the couple wanted one more child and had spent thousands of dollars before going to Nepal to meet the shy toddler.

Finalizing adoptions is up to Nepal's Ministry of Women and Children, but once done, the child cannot be left at the orphanage — even if the U.S. doesn't grant a visa. New adoptive parents have no option but to wait in Nepal until the visa is granted.

Staying for that long wasn't an option for Carlton, 41. So the family didn't finalize the adoption. Like the others from Washington, Carlton has hired an attorney.

"I can't give up on her," Carlton said.

Karen Culver, 42, of Bellevue, and her husband, John, have three young boys of their own but, as she put it, they had room in their hearts for one more child. "Nepal resonated with us," said Culver, a stay-at-home mother. They were matched with 3-year-old Sachyi.

As soon as they opened the file and saw her photo, their hearts melted, Culver said, and she thought: "She is adorable and we are so lucky."

Like Carlton, they, too, hesitated making the adoption final until the visa was approved because it would be difficult for either of them to remain in Katmandu, and they didn't want Sachyi to "be orphaned twice."

"How heartbreaking it would be for me to show up and leave," she said.

In Nepal, Chris Kirchoff, of Seattle, and Jenni Lund, of Leavenworth, live in the same apartment building, spending holidays together and supporting each other as they wait for CIS to determine their fate.

Kirchoff, 40, can't imagine leaving her newly adopted daughter, Orion, behind. When she met the-now 14-month-old, "I saw her little face, she smiled, I cried and we have been inseparable ever since."

For Kirchoff, a personal trainer, her Seattle business is on hold. Her elderly father is ill and she hopes Orion will get to meet him.

Lund, 45, who owns a yoga studio, also has a business on hold and has seen her savings dwindle as she waits with her son, Pukar, 2.

"I miss my family and friends, I miss my home, and I want to get medical help for Pukar's rickets," she said.

In the meantime, "Pukar is absolutely thriving. Each day it seems he is happier, his eyes brighter and smile wider. He has a great sense of humor, loves to laugh and learn," she said.

As Lund played with Pukar a few nights ago she thought about the children remaining in the orphanages, how cold it is and how there aren't enough warm clothes, blankets or even socks for all of them. She thought, too, how unwanted children in Nepal, where the caste system survives, have few options in life. Then she looked at Pukar, asleep in her bed, dressed in a bathrobe and slippers.

"What a gift adoption is to these children. Truly, I cannot believe anything else."

Nancy Bartley: 206-464-8522 or nbartley@seattletimes.com

Spanish adoption delight for English couple

Spanish adoption delight for English couple

January 1, 2011

A BRITISH couple had the perfect Christmas present when the Spanish authorities overruled a forced adoption order in the UK.

Valencia social services decided to give the couple’s 10-month-old baby Daniel back, despite Suffolk council insisting they were psychologically ‘unfit’.

The East Anglian couple, whose names have been withheld for legal reasons, fled to Spain in February after their other child, Poppy, now two, was seized by social workers and put up for adoption.

Daniel was still being breast fed in hospital when Spanish authorities, acting on a tip-off from Suffolk, took him away.

The father told the Daily Mail in the UK: “To find our son had gone was cruelty beyond belief.

“My wife couldn’t bear to have another child snatched from her ever again. So she decided to be sterilized there and then.”

It emerges that English social workers were acting on unproven allegations about the mother’s mental health made by her ex-husband.

But after conducting numerous psychological tests, Spain’s social services deemed the couple were perfectly fit to be parents.

“The Spanish social services say we meet all their criteria for being good parents and we’re delighted.”

The decision has spurred the couple to try and get their daughter Poppy back. She is currently being looked after by foster parents, who want to adopt her.

The couple are now taking their case to the European Court of Human Rights to get her back.

The return of Daniel is a break-through for scores of British families who have fled t Spain to escape the clutches of the UK social services.