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  Goedbedoeld, maar toch mislukt

Nederland telt honderden particulieren initiatieven gericht op hulp aan arme landen. Die hulp is altijd goed bedoeld en komt ook heel vaak echt aan bij de mensen die het nodig hebben. Maar soms gaat het mis. Zoals in het geval van oud CDA-statenlid Maarten Brekelmans.

Disability Rights International Launches New Name and Website

Disability Rights International Launches New Name and Website

August 6, 2010, Washington, DC– We are proud to announce our organization’s new name, Disability Rights International. Our mission has not changed. Formerly Mental Disability Rights International, we remain committed to protecting the human rights and promoting the integration into society of people with disabilities. Our new name reflects the reality that people with any kind of disability—whether mental or physical—are often shut away from society, locked in institutions, and denied basic human dignity and rights.


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The Worldwide Campaign to End the Institutionalization of Children

After years of fighting abuses against children on a country-by-country basis, Disability Rights International has gathered much evidence that the institutionalization of children with disabilities is a worldwide problem. Over the past 16 years we have documented abuses against children in over 25 countries in the Americas, the United States, Eastern Europe and Russia, the Middle East and Asia.  The dangers of institutionalizing children are pervasive and take place all over the world, including well-resourced, developed countries.  Disability Rights International is calling for an end to the institutionalization and abuse of children.      

The goal of the Worldwide Campaign to End the Institutionalization of Children, including our forthcoming report and follow-up advocacy, is to challenge underlying policies that lead to abuses against children on a global scale.  One of the main drivers of institutionalization – particularly in developing countries – is the use of misdirected foreign assistance funding to build new institutions or rebuild old crumbling facilities, instead of providing assistance and access to services for families who want to keep their children at home. Disability Rights International’s worldwide report will document the role of international funders in perpetuating the segregation of children with disabilities.       

Locked away and forgotten      

Children with disabilities around the world are locked away in institutions and forgotten – many from birth. We have seen children left permanently tied into cribs and beds where many die. Some die from intentional lack of medical care as their lives are not deemed worthy. Some die from lack of touch and love. Most in these conditions never make it to adolescence. And those who do are condemned to a lifetime inside the walls of an institution just for having a disability. Children with disabilities are rarely eligible for foster care in countries where it is available and parents who do want to keep their children with a disability almost never receive any help or support. And governments and international donors spend millions worldwide building and rebuilding these torture chambers for children with disabilities instead of supporting families, substitute families when necessary and community services and education.     

    

Child in Restraint Chair

Child in restraint chair at the Judge Rotenberg Center in the US

Atrophied Child in Romania

A teenager in Romania, muscles atrophied from a lifetime in a crib

Jorge in cage

A teenager with austism, Jorge, locked in a filthy cell in Paraguay

Findings by Disability Rights International on conditions of institutionalized children includes:    

– In Mexico, there is almost no official oversight of children in private institutions, and children have literally “disappeared” from public record. Preliminary evidence suggests that children with disabilities have been “trafficked” into forced labor or sex slavery; 

– In the United States, children with autism and other mental disabilities living at a residential school in Massachusetts are being given electric shocks as a form of “behavior modification”; 

– We have found children with autism in Paraguay and Uruguay locked in cages;

– In Turkey, children as young as 9 years old were being given electro-shock treatments without anesthesia until we exposed the barbaric treatment; 

– In Romania, we found teenagers with both mental and physical disabilities hidden away in an adult psychiatric institution – near death from intentional starvation. Some of the teens weighed less than 30 pounds;

– In Russia, we uncovered thousands of neglected infants and babies in the “lying down rooms,” where row after row of babies with disabilities both live and die in their cribs.

– In almost all institutions with children, we find them rocking back and forth, chewing their fingers or hands or gouging at their eyes or hitting themselves – all attempts to feel something rather than nothing and a reaction to total sensory deprivation and a lack of human love or contact;

Instead of providing children with the families or caregivers and the love they need, self abusive children in institutions are tied into cribs and chairs, tethered into strait jackets, wrapped tightly into blankets, and hands covered completely in plastic bottles, causing more pain to a child already living a horribly abused and neglected life.  

The reform of international development policy is essential to our goal of ending the worldwide institutionalization of children with disabilities.  We have found that the United Nations, European governments, and other international donors play a major role in perpetuating the institutionalization of children with disabilities. In developing countries, the infusion of foreign financial support can have tremendous influence on social policies and human rights.  Well-meaning but misguided international donors have, unfortunately, been part of the problem in much of the world.  International support has often been used to rebuild and refurbish orphanages, psychiatric facilities, and other institutions at the expense of community programs and families. This support reinforces outmoded systems of institution-based services and perpetuates discrimination and segregation of children with disabilities worldwide.     

We need to establish a worldwide consensus that institutionalization of children with disabilities can and should be brought to an end. We need to fight to protect those children suffering today and to stop the next generation of children with disabilities from ever being locked away and forgotten   

Surgeons arrested in Ukraine for selling transplant organs

Surgeons arrested in Ukraine for selling transplant organs

Donors were recruited and paid up to $10,000 for their kidneys and other organs

Ukraine's interior ministry says four surgeons and four others have been arrested for taking part in a scheme to recruit organ donors from former Soviet countries and transplant the organs into wealthy foreigners.

The head of the ministry's department on human trafficking, Yuriy Kucher, says the scheme was headed by an Israeli who was arrested last month.

Kucher said yesterday that they sought mostly kidneys from people in Ukraine and other countries. Most of those who sold their organs for up to $10,000 (£6,300) were impoverished young women.

Surgeries were performed in Kiev, Azerbaijan and Ecuador, Kucher said. The surgeries cost up to $200,000 apiece.Those arrested have been charged with human trafficking and face up to 15 years in prison if convicted.

China police rescue 22 abducted women, children

China police rescue 22 abducted women, children

BEIJING — Police rescued 22 women and children abducted by a human-trafficking ring that operated in southern China for two decades, state media reported Thursday.

Eighteen victims were reunited with family members during an emotional ceremony Wednesday in Nanning city in southern Guangxi province, the official Xinhua News Agency said.

Guangxi police uncovered the ring during a three-month investigation and arrested seven people in coastal Fujian province on July 22, Xinhua said. One of the suspects confessed to police the group had operated since 1989, kidnapping women and children from cities in Guangxi to sell in Fujian.

Human trafficking is a serious problem in China, which has a thriving black market in girls and women who are sold as brides. Babies are also abducted or bought from poor families to sell to childless couples.

Newspaper photos and television images showed an emotional reunion, with weeping mothers hugging their children.

State broadcaster China Central Television showed one father crying as he sat next to his son, telling reporters: "It has been a few years. Every time I saw other people with their children on the streets I would think of him. I missed him so much."

Introducing Andrew-Aleksandar Thomas Santor!!

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 4, 2010

Introducing Andrew-Aleksandar Thomas Santor!!

We have just received word this evening that the Bulgarian court has approved our adoption. He is officially our son!!! We had been checking our email ALL day, knowing that our case was being heard today, and had finally given up on hearing anything. Jen checked one last time around 6:30 while we were heating up dinner and getting ready for the college home group we host. There was the email! We all started screaming and kissing. We've been wired ever since. You can imagine how difficult it was to put the kids to bed tonight!









We are told that the actual court decree will take another two weeks. After that the Bulgarian agency will work on getting his new birth certificate and paperwork required by the Hague convention. We will not know our travel dates until this happens, but we are expecting no later than early September.

Money for the remaining amount continues to trickle in. On Monday night, our 3yr. old niece emptied her piggy bank into our donation jar that sits on the counter. We've learned to thank God for every penny of provision and not discard even the smallest gift.

We are still needing over $9,000 to finally bring our son home. This amount includes air fare, agency fees, medical exit exam and a weeks worth of accomodations while we travel. If you would like to be a part of bringing Andrew home please click on one of the fundraisers listed on the sides of this post. Just in the last few weeks we've received $40 from a friend at church, $10 for a loaf of Jen's bread, the piggy bank money from our niece, and even a $10 donation via the "Donate" button on this page.

Another friend from church is offering a photography class. The cost of the class will be donated to our adoption fund. Just to have someone help by taking up our cause is a tremendous blessing and we are so grateful.


God has provided every cost upfront from the first $550 application fee. So we are in no positon to doubt his provision now. This is His story and He will be faithful to finish what He started.

On a side note:
Two weekends ago Jen suddenly felt the urgent need (nesting?)to make sure everything was in place for Andrew's homecoming, even though we had no news. We needed two dressers for the boys and wanted bookshelves to organize our home (specifically the homeschool materials that had accumulated in piles throughout the house).

We decided to take a trip to IKEA to see what we could find. We found two solid wood dresser within our budget, but were not sure if the dimensions would fit so we decided to go home and check the measurements. On our way out the door we notice the "As Is" section. There we discovered two 4' w X 6'h solid wood bookshelves. $62 a piece, marked down from $250! We grabbed them.

When they were assembled at home they not only fit all of our home school supplies but also all of Aaron's books that have been sitting in boxes in our attic for the past 7yrs. We took some measurements and realized that it would not be difficult to build in a corner desk between the bookshelves. Jen's mom and dad eagerly planned the whole thing out so that once we had the money we could finish it off.


The following weekend we returned to pick up the two dressers that we now knew would fit; however, this weekend there was only one on the shelf. As we spoke with a service guy in the "As Is" section, Jen's dad noticed two solid wood dressers already loaded on a cart, bigger and better than the two we were trying to buy. $49 a piece, marked down from $200!

Jen's dad was determined to make our desk happen now and suggested quickly looking down an aisle for desk tops. We found an exact sized piece of wood for the desk and the shelf above only $20 a piece, so now we wouldn't have to wait. The very next day her parents came and worked until 1a.m. to finish the desk.

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Altogether we bought 2 brand new, solid wood dressers, 2 brand new, solid wood bookshelves and a custom built, solid wood desk for only $328!! Again God provides.

Supreme Court asks Union govt to modify adoption laws

Supreme Court asks Union govt to modify adoption laws
Published: Wednesday, Aug 4, 2010, 2:20 IST
By Rakesh Bhatnagar | Place: New Delhi | Agency: DNA




The Supreme Court has asked the Centre to re-examine the country’s archaic adoption laws that make it difficult for foreigners to adopt Indian children, pointing out that there are at least 12 million orphan children in the country who are forced to beg, work as domestic helps, or languish in government’s orphanages.

A bench of Justices Markandey Katju and TS Thakur on Monday said the Law Commission could consider recommending legislation for inter-country adoptions since there are no laws at present.

The court also sought solicitor general Gopal Subramanium’s assistance in a matter concerning an aged American couple whose plea to adopt an orphan from India have been rejected by the Delhi courts.

The judges are hearing a petition by Craig Allen Coates and his wife, Cynthia Ann Coates, residents of Westfield Street Oshkosh, Winnebago, Wisconsin, USA. The couple, with three grown-up children, claim to be medically and financially fit and have a “strong desire” to adopt a minor male child in order to “further expand their family”.

They want to adopt 11-year-old Anil, who was found abandoned by the police and transferred to an orphanage. The Child Welfare Committee, which is in charge of adoption of abandoned children, had granted the ‘no-objection’ certificate to adopting Anil while the Coordinating Voluntary Adoption Resource Agency (CVARA) and the Central Adoption Resource Authority (CARA) took care of the inter-country adoption details.

But the Delhi district court judge, which is the legal guardian of all abandoned and orphaned children, rejected Coates’ application for adoption.

The couple moved the Delhi high court, which upheld the lower court’s judgment. The Delhi HC expressed its doubts on the Coates’ plea of “further expanding the family”, noting that Craig Allen has cerebral palsy and that Cynthia Ann, a working medical nurse, needs to take care of him.

“It is quite likely that an additional child may get neglected. Also one cannot completely rule out the possibility that child may be exploited and used as a mere helper for Coates, who is disabled, once the child reaches foreign land,” the HC added.

The couple also couldn’t offer a satisfactory reply to the HC’s query as to why it was so keen on adopting an Indian child rather than an American. Thus, the HC said the “real intention” of the Coates in adopting an Indian “appears to be to use him as a domestic help” and rejected their claim.

The Supreme Court will now examine whether Anil should be given for adoption to the Coateseven as it seeks a law for inter-country adoptions.

Government extends suspension of adoptions

http://www.times.co.sz/index.php?news=19219

Government extends suspension of adoptions

By SIBONGILE SUKATI on August 04,2010



MBABANE — Government has extended the suspension period for the adoption of Swazi children.

According to the Deputy Prime Minister, Themba Masuku, there was an increasing demand for Swazi children by foreign nationals and this was one of the many concerns that his office had.

Although he did not have the specific number of applications, Masuku said he had seen a huge increase in the applications between last year and March hence one of the reasons for suspending it in order to review the act.

The suspension was announced by the DPM in March but it had been expected that it would be lifted by the end of June. However this did not happen as there were many issues to be sorted out.

Masuku said another problem was that there were very few applications for adoption from Swazi nationals and said this was also worry to government.

Interviewed in his Parliament office on Monday, the DPM said the Adoption Act of 1952 was no longer relevant in the context of new laws, especially those international laws that concern human trafficking.

He said Swaziland was in the process of ratifying the 1993 Hague Convention.

The DPM said he was further awaiting a report that was compiled by a joint task team from the welfare offices and ministry of Health and Justice.

"There is a serious lack of internal adoption and further there is a need for them to be streamlined," he said.

He said they also wanted adopted children to be able to trace their roots should they want to in the future.

He said, for example, if a child with a Dlamini surname is adopted, then that child’s surname should not be totally changed to that of the adoptive parents.

"They should be able to be called Dlamini-Anderson for example and then the children can be allowed to change their surname should they wish to, once they are all grown up," he said.

He said the number of orphans in Swaziland was shocking as evidenced by the 90 000 figure for the recently paid school fees for Orphaned and Vulnerable Children (OVCs).

Masuku said the recently reported adoption case where an American was allowed to take a child out of the country happened in December 2009.

Bombay high court registry gets a week to trace adoption papers

Bombay high court registry gets a week to trace adoption papers

Published: Tuesday, Aug 3, 2010, 2:37 IST

By Mayura Janwalkar | Place: Mumbai | Agency: DNA

The high court registry may have to search for 35-year-old original documents, perhaps stored in a forgotten shelf, in the case of the inter-country adoption of Daksha Van Dijck, 34, a Dutch psychologist who has sought to trace her biological roots.

Van Dijck, adopted in 1975 by Dutch national Johan Van Dijck and raised in Netherlands, returned to India 2001 in search of her biological parents.

Romania and international adoptions: Exclusive confessions of a European official.

Translation from Romanian :
Romania and international adoptions.
Exclusive confessions of a European official.

Romania is subject to huge pressure to resume international
adoptions.There is intensive lobbying on three fronts: European,
American and national by certain organisations that collect signatures
to force the Romanian authorities to change the law.
A European official speaks exclusively on TVR about the inside of
international adoptions, and the years in which our country was one of
the major exporters of children.

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România ?i adop?iile interna?ionale. M?rturii în exclusivitate ale
unui func?ionar european

România e supus? unor presiuni uria?e pentru reluarea adop?iilor
interna?ionale. Se face lobby intens pe trei fronturi: european,
american ?i intern, prin anumite organiza?ii care strâng semn?turi
pentru a for?a autorit??ile române s? schimbe legea.
Un func?ionar european vorbe?te în exclusivitate pentru TVR despre
culisele adop?iilor interna?ionale ?i despre anii în care ?ara noastr?
era unul dintre marii exportatori de copii.

After Haiti Quake, the Chaos of U.S. Adoptions

After Haiti Quake, the Chaos of U.S. Adoptions

Ruth Fremson/The New York Times Lunchtime at God’s Littlest Angels, an orphanage in Pétionville, Haiti, in June. Adoptions emptied some Haitian orphanages.

By GINGER THOMPSON Published: August 3, 2010 FACEBOOK TWITTER RECOMMEND COMMENTS SIGN IN TO E-MAIL PRINT REPRINTS SHARE BAXTER, Minn. —

Beechestore and Rosecarline, two Haitian teenagers in the throes of puberty, were not supposed to be adopted.

The New York Times After years of trying, the Stroot family was able to adopt Beechestore and Rosecarline after Haiti’s quake. At the end of last year, American authorities denied the petition of a couple here, Marc and Teresa Stroot, to adopt the brother and sister after their biological father opposed relinquishing custody. Reluctantly, Mr. and Mrs. Stroot, a special-needs teaching assistant and a sales executive with four children of their own, decided to move on. Then on Jan. 12, a devastating earthquake toppled Haiti’s capital and set off an international adoption bonanza in which some safeguards meant to protect children were ignored. Leading the way was the Obama administration, which responded to the crisis, and to the pleas of prospective adoptive parents and the lawmakers assisting them, by lifting visa requirements for children in the process of being adopted by Americans. Although initially planned as a short-term, small-scale evacuation, the rescue effort quickly evolved into a baby lift unlike anything since the Vietnam War. It went on for months; fell briefly under the cloud of scandal involving 10 Baptist missionaries who improperly took custody of 33 children; ignited tensions between the United States and child protection organizations; and swept up about 1,150 Haitian children, more than were adopted by American families in the previous three years, according to interviews with government officials, adoption agencies and child advocacy groups. Among the first to get out of Haiti were Beechestore and Rosecarline. “It’s definitely a miracle,” Mrs. Stroot said of their arrival here, “because this wasn’t going to happen.” Under a sparingly used immigration program, called humanitarian parole, adoptions were expedited regardless of whether children were in peril, and without the screening required to make sure they had not been improperly separated from their relatives or placed in homes that could not adequately care for them. Some Haitian orphanages were nearly emptied, even though they had not been affected by the quake or licensed to handle adoptions. Children were released without legal documents showing they were orphans and without regard for evidence suggesting fraud. In at least one case, two siblings were evacuated even though American authorities had determined through DNA tests that the man who had given them to an orphanage was not a relative. “I feel a weird sense of survivor’s guilt,” said Dawn Shelton of Minnesota, who hopes to adopt the siblings. “So many people died in Haiti, and I was able to get the life I’ve wanted.” In other cases, children were given to families who had not been screened or to families who no longer wanted them. The results are playing out across the country. At least 12 children, brought here without being formally matched with new families, have spent months in a Pennsylvania juvenile care center while Red Cross officials try to determine their fate. An unknown number of children whose prospective parents have backed out of their adoptions are in foster care. While the authorities said they knew of only a handful of such cases, adoption agents said they had heard about as many as 20, including that of an 8-year-old girl who was bounced from an orphanage in Haiti to a home in Ithaca, N.Y., to a juvenile care center in Queens after the psychologist who had petitioned to adopt her decided she could not raise a young child. Dozens of children, approaching the age of 16 or older, are too old to win legal permanent status as adoptees, prompting lawmakers in Congress to consider raising the age limit to 18. Meanwhile, other children face years of legal limbo because they have arrived with so little proof of who they are, how they got here and why they have been placed for adoption that state courts are balking at completing their adoptions. One Kansas lawyer said he satisfied a judge’s questions about whether the Haitian boy his clients had adopted was an orphan by broadcasting announcements on Haitian radio stations over two days, urging any relatives of the child to come forward if they wanted to claim him. Another couple seeking to adopt, Daniel and Jess McKee of Mansfield, Pa., said Owen, 3, who can dribble a basketball better than children twice his age, arrived from Haiti with an invalid birth certificate — it shows him as 4 — a letter in French signed by a Haitian mayor that declared him an orphan, and stacks of handwritten medical records from his time in a Haitian orphanage. Their prospective daughter, Emersyn, also 3, came with no documents at all. “As things stand,” Mrs. McKee said, “I’m basically going to show up in court and tell a judge, ‘These kids are who I say they are,’ and hope that he takes my word for it, because if he asks me to prove it, I can’t.” Later, she added, “I guess the government said, ‘Let’s just get the kids out of Haiti, and we’ll worry about the details later.’ ” Decisions Made in Haste Administration officials defended the humanitarian parole program, saying it had strict limits and several levels of scrutiny, including reviews of adoption petitions by the State Department and the Department of Homeland Security in Washington and Port-au-Prince, the Haitian capital. But they also acknowledged that the administration’s priority was getting children out of harm’s way, not the safeguards the United States is obligated to enforce under international law. Matt Chandler, a spokesman at the Department of Homeland Security, said the evacuations were done in the best interests of children who faced “an uncertain and likely dangerous situation that could worsen by the day, if not by the hour.” Whitney Reitz, who oversaw the parole program at the Department of Homeland Security, acknowledged that the decisions were hastily made. “We did something so fast,” Ms. Reitz said at a conference in New York in March. “We did something that normally takes a couple of years and that we normally do with excruciating care and delay. There’s so much time for deliberation in the way the program normally goes, and we condensed all that into a matter of days.” There is no evidence to suggest that the evacuations were driven by anything other than the best of intentions. And with untold numbers of unaccompanied children in Haiti, the hemisphere’s poorest country, left fending for themselves or languishing in institutions, it is not hard to make the case that those who were evacuated are better off than they would have been in the hemisphere’s poorest country. Many now live in the kind of quiet, scenic towns depicted in Norman Rockwell paintings. They are enrolled in school for the first time. They have grown inches, gotten eyeglasses and had their cavities filled. And they are learning what it feels like to have a mother and father wake them up every morning and tuck them into bed every night. But child protection advocates like Marlène Hofstetter at Terre des Hommes, an international child advocacy organization, contend that those ends do not justify the means. Rushing children out of familiar environments in a crisis can worsen their trauma, she said. Expediting adoptions in countries like Haiti — where it is not uncommon for people to turn children over to orphanages for money — violates children’s rights and leaves them at risk of trafficking, she added. “I’m certain that one day these children are going to ask questions about what happened to them,” Ms. Hofstetter said. “I’m not sure that telling them their lifestyles were better in the United States is going to be a satisfactory answer.” Even though the humanitarian parole program has officially ended, it remains a source of tensions between American-run orphanages in Haiti and international child protection organizations. The advocates, led by Unicef, have refused to place children who have lost their parents or been separated from them in some foreign-run orphanages, fearing they would be improperly put into the adoption pipeline before they had the chance to be reunited with surviving relatives. And the pro-adoption groups, led by the Joint Council on International Children’s Services, accuse the advocates of using endless, often unsuccessful, attempts to locate the children’s biological relatives to deny tens of thousands of needy Haitian orphans the opportunity to be placed in loving homes. “Unicef’s idea is to house children in tents, and tell them that maybe in five years their relatives will be found,” said Dixie Bickel, who has run a Haitian orphanage called God’s Littlest Angels for more than two decades. “What kind of plan is that?” Washington Feels Pressure Concerns about child trafficking led China, after its 2008 earthquake, and Indonesia, after the 2004 tsunami, to suspend all international adoptions, despite intense pressure by pro-adoption groups in the United States, according to Chuck Johnson at the National Council for Adoption. After January’s quake, Haiti, though, was hardly able to stand on its own feet, much less push back, Haitian officials acknowledged. Orphanage directors with political connections in Washington said they saw an opportunity to turn the tragedy into a miracle. Some issued urgent pleas, saying that the children in their care had had been left without shelter, and that the orphanages’ limited stocks of food and water made them prime targets for looting. In the United States, adoptive parents contacted anyone they knew who might have money, private planes and political connections to help them get children out of Haiti. Evangelical Christian churches, which have increasingly taken up orphan care as a tenet of their faith, were also mobilized. Before long, legislators and administration officials were getting calls from constituents. Senator Mary L. Landrieu, a Louisiana Democrat and adoptive mother, has been a champion of the cause and pushed administration officials to help bring Haitian children here after the quake. “I wouldn’t be the least bit surprised if there are some errors that were made,” Senator Landrieu said in an interview about the rescue effort, “but you want to err on the side of keeping children safe.” On Jan. 18, less than a week after the earthquake hit, the secretary of homeland security, Janet Napolitano, announced that the United States would lift visa requirements for those orphans whose adoptions had already been approved by Haitian authorities and those who had been matched with prospective parents in the United States. The requirements were written so broadly, adoption experts said, that almost any child in an orphanage could qualify as long as there were e-mails, letters or photographs showing that the child had some connection to a family in the United States. And by the time Ms. Napolitano announced the program, military flights filled with children were already in the air. “The standard of proof was very low,” said Kathleen Strottman, executive director of the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute, a nonprofit group that is a leading voice on American adoption policy. “That’s why the administration ended the program as quickly as they did,” she added, “because they worried the longer it was open, the more opportunities they would give people to manufacture evidence.” Obstacles to Adoption Vanish Over the next several weeks, orphanages big and small were nearly emptied, whether or not they had been affected by the earthquake. The staff at Children of the Promise, about 90 miles from Haiti’s capital, barely felt the temblor. But 39 of the 50 children there were approved for humanitarian parole, even though none of them had been affected by the disaster and the orphanage had not yet received the proper license to place children. Rosemika, 2; Alex, 1; and Roselinda, 1, offer a look at the typical humanitarian parole case. Rosemika’s mother died before the quake. The other two children were given up for adoption because their parents could not provide for them. Jenny and Jamie Groen, a missionary couple from Minnesota who were volunteering at the orphanage, had fallen in love with the children and decided to adopt them. Under normal circumstances the couple would have had to get special permission from Haiti’s president to adopt because they are both 28, and the government requires at least one of the prospective parents to be older than 35. After the quake, Prime Minister Jean-Max Bellerive summarily signed off on their adoption — as he did with all humanitarian parole petitions submitted to him by the United States — without checking the Groens’ qualifications. Meanwhile, the couple rushed back to the United States for the background checks and home study their own country required for them to take children into their care. And they submitted e-mails, photographs and a Dec. 2 newspaper clipping to prove that their commitment to adopt the children predated the earthquake. During a recent visit to the orphanage in Haiti, surrounded by peasant hovels and sugar-cane fields, Ms. Groen, now pregnant, said she and her husband were still trying to absorb how quickly they were going from an empty nest to a full one. It has been a whirlwind for the children’s biological relatives as well. The girls’ relatives still regularly visit the orphanage. “That’s the thing that’s so different about Haiti,” Ms. Groen said. “It’s not full of unwanted children. It’s full of children whose families are too poor to provide for them.” That appeared to be the predicament shared by Beechestore, 14, and Rosecarline, 13, who are going through all the turmoil of adolescence, exacerbated by a confusing legal tug of war. In the spring of 2008, their biological father had told the American authorities that he had placed the children for adoption only because he thought they would be educated in the United States and then returned to Haiti. Once he understood the implications of adoption, he refused to give them up. In November 2009, American authorities formally notified the Stroots that their adoption petition had been denied. By then, the Stroots were spent — emotionally and financially. The effort to adopt the children had taken four years and $40,000. Rather than appeal, the Minnesota couple decided it would be best for everyone to end their efforts. Then the earthquake hit. Homeland Security, which earlier had denied visas to the children, reversed course without consulting the children’s biological father or the Stroots. “One day, we’re being told we can’t have the kids,” Mrs. Stroot said. “The next minute, we’re getting a call telling us we need to get them winter coats. It was crazy.” In late July, a Minnesota judge awarded the Stroots legal custody of the children. Neither the previous denial nor the views of the children’s biological father were mentioned during the proceeding, the Stroots said. Since then, the newly expanded family has moved on to more mundane matters, like dentist appointments, vaccinations and back-to-school shopping. “God got done in 10 days,” Mr. Stroot said, “something human beings couldn’t do in years.” Erin Siegal contributed reporting from Oakland, Calif. Barclay Walsh contributed research from Washington.