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La demanda de adopciones desata todo tipo de irregularidades en el país africano

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Aynalem Zacharias, una mujer etíope de 22 años, no está donde se suponía que debía estar para contarle a este periódico la desaparición de sus dos niños gemelos, robados por un policía de la zona hace tres meses y entregados irregularmente a un orfanato del pueblo de al lado.Tras toda una mañana buscándola por la ciudad de Zwai, a tres horas en coche de la capital etíope, un anciano ciego abre la puerta y cuenta que Aynalem también ha desaparecido. "Después de que le quitaran a los gemelos, la mujer se volvió loca. Andaba sola por la calle todo el día llorando y le preguntaba a todo el mundo si había visto a los niños. Hace días que se fue y no la he vuelto a ver", relata la cascada voz del viejo.


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La historia del anciano coincide con la versión de Kemal Nagu, un funcionario de la Oficina de Asuntos Sociales de Zwai encargado del caso. Kemal corrobora la información con la ayuda de los archivos que almacena en su oficina y expresa su enfado por la actuación policial. "No sabemos dónde están los niños. Algunos testigos han dicho que lo llevaron a un orfanato cerca de aquí, pero allí dicen que nunca los han tenido. Sospechamos que han acabado en el circuito de las adopciones", explica.

Etiopía se ha convertido en los últimos años en uno de los destinos más solicitados por las familias occidentales que quieren adoptar, con unos 2.000 casos al año, según el Ministerio de la Mujer. En España, Etiopía ocupa la tercera posición en la lista de países con mayor número de niños adoptados (304 en 2006) por detrás de China y Rusia. Y la previsión es que ocupe la segunda plaza en los próximos años, según el Ministerio de Asuntos Sociales.

Pese a que la actual legislación etíope establece unas exigencias muy altas para los procesos de adopción, lo cierto es que la continua demanda de las familias permite a algunos etíopes trampear por los flecos del sistema. Uno de esos flecos está siendo corregido poco a poco, pero aún persiste: los representantes de algunas de las 60 agencias extranjeras establecidas en Etiopía para facilitar las adopciones cobran por cada expediente tramitado. La mayoría de los trabajadores de las agencias son empleados locales. En un país que ocupa el puesto 169 de una lista de 177 países según su índice de desarrollo (Informe sobre Desarrollo Humano, 2007, de Naciones Unidas) esas comisiones pueden provocar irregularidades. De ahí que algunos gobiernos, como el de la Comunidad de Madrid, hayan prohibido ese sistema de pago. En su lugar, el empleado recibe un salario.

"Es uno de los problemas con los que nos hemos encontrado. Demasiada presión sobre los orfanatos y sobre las familias pobres para que den a los niños en adopción", señala Kemal Nagu. El funcionario de Zwai prosigue su relato con otros casos similares. Habla de dinero pagado a algunas familias pobres por llevarse a los niños y de otros abandonados por madres solteras que son reclutados para el trabajo en el campo desde muy pequeños: "Nosotros decidimos qué hacer con un niño en esa situación. Cualquier acuerdo o transacción con pequeños de por medio se castiga con la cárcel".

Las supuestas anomalías en las adopciones son apuntadas por Kassaye Haile, encargado de uno de los orfanatos más grandes del país, en la ciudad de Nazareth. Al responsable, no le sorprende demasiado que existan fallos en un sistema que considera estricto y con "muchos ojos continuamente vigilando". "El tráfico de niños existe. Puede ocurrir que alguien intente saltarse los pasos, que dé dinero a alguna mujer que mendiga con sus hijos, que intente hacer negocio", comenta.

Kassaye usa la palabra negocio sin mucho reparo. Para él si hay dinero de por medio es porque hay oferta y demanda y eso no quiere decir que se esté incumpliendo ninguna norma. Lo cierto es que en toda adopción hay dinero de por medio, aunque esté justificado. El precio que pagan las familias por la tramitación de los expedientes está en torno a los 6.000 euros. Pero es antes de todo esto cuando se producen las irregularidades. Según Kassaye, el problema está en las pequeñas aldeas, donde las pequeñas oficinas como la del funcionario Kemal en Zwai no tienen capacidad para controlar lo que ocurre con todos los niños que andan por la calle.

Las familias españolas con las que este periódico ha hablado señalan que su experiencia en la adopción en Etiopía ha sido positiva. "Me sorprendería mucho que hubiera problemas, pero si hay irregularidades en ese primer momento, antes de que los niños entren en el proceso de adopción, espero que se tomen medidas. El máximo control es necesario para que los padres no tengamos ninguna duda de que todo se ha hecho con rigor", concluye una madre adoptiva.

Los papeles decían que era huérfano

Un joven que actuó como traductor en un proceso de adopción relató a este periódico que el niño, de cinco años, le confesó que tenía parientes poco antes de marchar a España. "Los padres no sabían nada. Pensaban que era huérfano, según los papeles oficiales que tenían. Pero el niño me dijo que tenía padres y hermanos", asegura el joven, que prefiere no dar su nombre.

Los continuos controles hacen que casos como ese sean cada vez más difíciles. Son muchos los filtros que previenen para que nada de eso ocurra. En España, el proceso para adoptar es competencia autonómica. Tras conseguir el certificado de idoneidad de la comunidad las familias tienen que contactar con una de las agencias españolas acreditadas por la región y por el país, en este caso Etiopía. Estas agencias se llaman Entidades Colaboradoras de Adopción Internacional (ECAI). Son las que tramitan el proceso, que puede tardar unos 18 meses. Tras comprobar la documentación, el gobierno etíope asigna un menor a los padres adoptantes. Finalmente, una autoridad judicial da el visto bueno con el consentimiento de los padres biológicos o los parientes más cercanos del niño, si es que los hay.

Las ECAI aseguran que los procesos son rigurosos. "Todas somos auditadas en España y en Etiopía. Se comprueba nuestro trabajo y las gestión de las cuentas", asegura la reprentante de una ECAI acreditada en Madrid. "Hay cosas que mejorar. No se necesitan sólo adopciones de bebés. Hay niños con hermanos o con enfermedades que también necesitan familia", explica.

Memorandum by Baroness Nicholson of Winterbourne MEP (EU Charter - UNCRC)

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Memorandum by Baroness Nicholson of Winterbourne MEP

A. SUMMARY

1. I support the Charter of Fundamental Rights as a restatement of the core values of the European Union since its inception.

GUATEMALA PASSES ADOPTION LAW, POTENTIALLY ENDING NOTORIOUS INTERNATIONAL CHILD-TRAFFICKING RACKET.

GUATEMALA PASSES ADOPTION LAW, POTENTIALLY ENDING NOTORIOUS INTERNATIONAL CHILD-TRAFFICKING RACKET.

 

Publication: NotiCen: Central American & Caribbean Affairs

Publication Date: 13-DEC-07

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Guatemala's legislature passed a law Dec. 11 that could and should put an end to the country's deserved reputation as a free market for trafficking in babies, the adoptions racket. Social groups within the country and the international community have been exerting great pressure for years to end the system by which pretty much anyone could buy a baby for about US$30,000 and be able to have it sooner than would be the case in any other country in the world (see NotiCen, 2007-05-24).

Eighty votes, or two-thirds of the total, were needed to get the law passed in the unicameral Congress, and it was uncertain as late as the day before whether the required number of deputies could be rounded up from their vacations to do the job.

Pressure on the deputies came from the very pinnacles of the international presence in Guatemala. The diplomatic corps dropped in en masse to observe the floor proceedings and party-delegation chiefs promised to muster their people on time. Party whips counted four legislators who had presented excuses not to show up and several more were said to be traveling. The legislature has been in recess since Nov. 28.

President-elect Alvaro Colom said he had appealed to his Unidad Nacional de la Esperanza (UNE) delegation, the legislature's largest. Ex-Gen. Otto Perez Molina, leader of the opposition Partido Patriota (PP), whom Colom beat for the presidency, also marshaled his forces in favor of the adoption law. Delegation chief Roxana Baldetti promised 11 of her 14 deputies would be there.

Part of what brings the opposing parties together on this legislation is the scandalous nature of a for-profit adoption system in which the state plays almost no role, regulatory or otherwise. The new law will create a national adoption council composed of a delegate from the Corte Suprema de Justicia (CSJ), a representative of the Foreign Ministry, and one from the Secretaria de Bienestar Social (social welfare secretariat).

Congress president Ruben Dario Morales said in anticipation of the vote, "Passage of the law is an obligation of the legislature and of its leadership. I'm confident that the will be there among the parties to show up and to pass it. If not, I will resign." That level of commitment gave observers some certainty on the theory that he had a pretty good idea of the count.

Even the often fractious Frente Republicano Guatemalteco (FRG), led by ex-de facto President Efrain Rios Montt (1982-1983), seemed to be aboard. "Our party is in favor of approving the law of adoptions," said delegation chief Aristides Crespo. "We are confident that there will be a quorum, but it is the responsibility of each legislator to attend the plenary sessions that are convened."

The next day the confidence of the leaders was justified. The law passed, but stopping the adoptions already in the pipeline was not in the cards. The law stipulates that the 3,700 children already tagged to specific adoptive parents will be delivered, without being subject to the new rules.

The law will take effect next year. "Starting Dec. 31, the business of adoptions is over," said Deputy Rolando Morales. No longer will the US$30,000 prospective parents fork over be used to encourage mothers to sell their babies, women to be used as breeding stock, people to steal children off the streets, notaries to become rich through the most corrupt of practices, and adoptive parents abroad to remain ignorant of where their babies came from.

By far, the largest proportion of Guatemalan adopted children goes to the US. The process was so quick under the unregulated free-market system that now one in every 100 Guatemalan children grows up as an adopted US citizen. Guatemala exported 4,728 children worldwide last fiscal year, up from 4,135 in fiscal 2006. The country was second only to the largest country in the world, China, in providing babies to US parents, according to the US State Department. China exported 5,453 children, down from 6,493 the year before.

After Guatemala:

Russia, at 2,310, down from 3,706 in 2006.

Ethiopia, 1,255, up from 732

South Korea, 939, down from 1,376

Vietnam, 626, up from 163

Ukraine, 606, up from 460

Kazakhstan, 540, down from 587

India; 416, up from 320

Liberia; 314, down from 353.

Stricter laws mean fewer US adoptions

Guatemala's tougher standards might contribute to a three-year trend toward lower numbers of foreign children adopted in the US. Tougher standards in China and Russia are thought to have brought on the declines seen in those countries. Over all, reported the State Department, adoptions from abroad have fallen to 19,411, a 15% decline in two years.

The decline in response to better safeguards might indicate that adoptive parents in the US do not care very much about the circumstances under which they get their children, but it is apparently a bad moment for the US adoption industry. "A drop in international adoptions is sad for children," said Thomas Atwood, president of the National Council for Adoption. "National boundaries and national pride shouldn't get in the way of children having families."

Other factors contributing to the decline, according to the State Department, are an increase in domestic adoptions in China as economic conditions improve there and the restrictions tighten giving priority to stable married couples between 30 and 50 and excluding single people, obese people, and people with financial or health problems.

Tighter scrutiny in China also means longer waiting periods. At 24 months or more, it takes more than twice as long to adopt a Chinese baby as it does one from Guatemala.

Russia, too, has seen sharp drops as its economy improves. Authorities there suspended all foreign adoption-agency operations and have been carefully, and slowly, reaccrediting them.

The upsurge in Guatemalan adoptions last year was seen as an offset as adoptions got more difficult elsewhere. With the new standards, Tom DeFilipo, president of the Joint Council on International Children's Services, said Guatemalan adoptions could decline too, now that the industry's swamp is to be drained of fraud, theft, and extortion (see NotiCen, 2006-05-25).

De Filipo's organization represents international adoption agencies, and he was generally optimistic about the trends because he anticipates plenty of supply from elsewhere to fill the gap. "What you're seeing is fewer countries sending very large numbers of children and a broader range of countries participating. Over the long term, I think this is a healthy trend." He saw Kenya, Peru, and Brazil as countries likely to produce more children for international adoption.

Harvard law professor Elizabeth Bartholet, however, saw the trends as "totally depressing." She placed her hopes in UNICEF and other international organizations to encourage countries to keep their kids at home, even when domestic programs are inadequate, as they clearly would be in Guatemala, where there has been no economic boom to support an upsurge in domestic adoption, and where endemic racism militates against it (see NotiCen, 2006-05-25).

Bartholet, an adoption expert, said that "UNICEF is a major force. They've played a major role in jumping on any country sending large numbers of kids abroad, identifying it as a problem rather than a good thing."

It is the agency's policy, said UNICEF child-protection spokesman Geoffrey Keele, that "the best interests of the child must be the guiding principle. We don't go around discouraging international adoption. We just want to be sure it's done properly." With its new law, Guatemala is set to become one more country where international adoption is done properly. (Sources: Reuters, 11/30/07; 12/01/07; The Washington Post, 12/02/07; Arkansas Democrat-Gazette, 12/04/07; El Periodico (Guatemala), 12/10/07; Prensa Libre (Guatemala), 12/11/07; Associated Press, 12/12/07 )

Baby R Judgement

Baby R Judgement

ARK Bulgaria - Small Group Homes for Children Leaving Institutional Care

December 2007, 07/12/2007

Dear Valued Stara Planina Properties Client,

Christmas is time to be with the family and enjoy the warmth of home but it is also time to remember the people in need.

ARK Bulgaria - Small Group Homes for Children Leaving Institutional Care

Some of you may have watched the recent BBC broadcast concerning Bulgarian orphanages. It was a very negative portrayal of the plight of the kids living in one of these institutions. Bulgaria has an extremely poor legacy from the communist times when all the homeless kids had to be hidden not to disturb the perception of the "ideal" society. Nowadays the Bulgarian society does not accept the situation with the kids in the state institutions and there are many positive examples however the knowledge and experience how to bring the kids back to the community had to be brought to Bulgaria from other European countries which have had more positive experience dealing with such problems.

ARK is a UK charity, committed to transforming the lives of these children by providing them with better care, wherever possible based in families. ARK Bulgaria is developing foster care and adoption services and wherever possible supporting parents to take their children back home. Laura Partker, Managing Director of ARK Bulgaria, explained more about one of their projects in the Bulgarian city of Stara Zagora.

"Throughout Bulgaria, several thousand children live in institutions - often called 'orphanages', although only 2% of the children in these homes have no parents. These children are often very isolated, going to school as well as living in the institutions with little chance to socialise with others. The care which they receive does not allow them to develop fully and the emotional, intellectual and physical developmental damage which the children experience is often irreversible.

Unfortunately, it is not possible to find family placements for all of the children. For those who have nowhere else to go, ARK is developing small-scale, high quality children's homes. In these 'Small Group Homes', 8 children will live with teams of dedicated, trained carers.

ARK is piloting this new approach for the first time in Bulgaria in Stara Zagora where 5 Small Group Homes are currently being finalised. Working with 'Stara Planina Properties', ARK has financed the refurbishment of two properties provided by the Municipality, built one home on Municipal land and purchased two apartments.

The first of the Small Group Homes opened in September 2007; the last one will open at the end of December. A total of 40 children will leave the institution Nadejda to live in these new homes - and to enjoy a quality of care and individual attention which will radically improve their long-term life chances.

After only a few weeks we have already seen dramatic differences in the behaviour of the children who moved into the new homes in September. Their physical appearance has also started to change: all of the children are putting on weight and one little girl who suffers from alopecia now has hair growing. The children are thriving, loving going to school in the community and enjoying having their own home and possessions - in many cases, for the first time in their lives."

Eva Ward, an expert involved in the creation of the model being applied in Stara Zagora, have assessed the needs of the kids for toys.

"It has been difficult to be able to buy enough for the five homes from our budget. Our children have never actually had any proper toys before and we are desperate to give them the opportunity of some good quality play materials. I took a plastic tea set and a simple road track and cars to each of the three established Small Group Homes recently and could not believe the excitement and pleasure the children got from them.

The children are aged between 3 and 7 but many have developmental delay and need the kind of toys normally enjoyed by younger children - this will also help us to work with development issues. These are some ideas - 

Cuddly soft toys - we would like each child to have a good quality teddy or other animal soft toy to keep on their beds and to cuddle at bedtime. This would be their very own and they would keep it forever! There would need to be 8 different types to ensure that there are not two the same in each home - so no confusion or fights! The children have never had anything of their own before.

Baby dolls - we would like one for each Small Group Homes - again quite a big one so it is like a real baby. We do lots of 'playing families' with the children which is very much 'learning through play' as of course our children have no idea about families or caring for babies. There are quite nice ones that come in a set with baby bottles and various extras! A dolls pram or pushchair for the above baby!

Strong plastic trucks and cars - the children are quite heavy handed with toys due to their lack of experience and so toys need to be as robust as possible.

Lego or other building/construction toys - I know lego is very expensive but it is such good value for co-ordination and concentration. We will try to accumulate collections for each Small Group Homes over time.

Educational toys - I've seen sets of matching cards (classic pairs games) and numbers games etc here now. Anything in this category is always welcome.

If by any chance you are in the UK and wish to buy from there absolutely anything from the Early Learning Centre would be fantastic!"

Each home is fully equipped but there are items which would be good to have in addition to what has been provided by the foundation. These are kitchen robots (one costing about 80 levs), toasters (40 levs), kettles (35 levs) for each home and one camera for all the kids so that they have pictures of their birthdays, Christmas parties, first school days and other event arranged in their own albums.

The team of Stara Planina Properties' Sofia office were touched by the kids and bought winter jackets for all of them. We will also contribute to purchase some toys and other necessary items but the kids grow and always need support - new toys, clothes, shoes. So if any of you, our clients, wish to contribute we will be able to help with the logistics.

If you would like to learn more about ARK's work or are interested in supporting the programme, please do get in touch with Laura Parker, Managing Director of ARK Bulgaria - Laura@arkonline.org, tel: 00 359 (0) 2 983 3480 / mobile: 00 359 (0) 889 223 467.

Bulgarian Christmas Charity Launched for the Fifth Time

The fifth consecutive charity campaign Bulgarian Christmas was launched on 1st December. This is the most popular charity campaign in Bulgaria and more and more funds have been donated every other year.

Bulgarian Christmas raises funds for medical treatment of children and for purchase of medical equipment for children hospitals. Bulgarian Christmas 2007 aims at helping 37 children. The former four campaigns raised over 7 million levs. The sum was utilised for medical treatment of nearly 170 children. Almost 50 children wards received equipment worth nearly 6 million levs.

Main organisers of the initiative are Bulgaria's President Georgi Parvanov, Bulgarian National Television and other media.

Kostelich, Aamod and Girardelli To Visit Bansko for Opening of The Ski Season

The stars of the world alpine skiing Yanitsa Kostelich, Kjetil Andre Aamod and Marc Girardelli will be official guests of the opening of the ski season in the winter resort of Bansko on December 15th.

This summer the Bansko ski zones were upgrated and equipped with additional snow machines. There is a new lift with capacity of 2,000 passengers per hour as well as a draw lift for beginners. Other extras have also been added such as facilities for night skiing. The total length of the pistes is now 70 km and the snow guns - from 75 last winter are 160.

Monthly Travel Guide

Below is a link to the Jamadvice HRG Bulgaria Monthly Travel Guide. It provides useful information as well as some interesting facts from the travel industry.

eerste alleenstaande adoptie-ouder in Nederland

first single adoptive parent in the Netherlands

An interview with Hannemieke Stamperius

Astrid Werdmuller

In 1987, Hannemieke Stamperius adopted her daughter Vita in Brazil. In 1995 she defied the Dutch adoption law by initiating and winning a trial. With that, she officially became the first single adoptive parent in the Netherlands.

The work of Hannemieke Stamperius / Hannes Meinkema is characterized by the great knowledge and enthusiasm, the consistent thinking of things, the deep understanding and the breaking of taboos.

"Babyexporteure" Guatemala und Haiti

"Babyexporteure" Guatemala und Haiti

VON REDAKTION | 03. Dezember 2007, 17:10

Die Nachfrage nach Neugeborenen ist immens

Lateinamerikanische Adoptionsparadiese mit zweifelhaften Praktiken - Kinderhändler kaufen Schwangeren das Baby oft noch im Bauch ab

MEHR ZUM THEMA

crazy discussion on Romania

 

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29.11.2007, 10:56 clock by Walter
Does anyone know about themselves from adopting a child from Romania?
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29.11.2007, 18:57 clock by Stefana

Hello I know me a little bit of
what do you want to know??

Lg
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29.11.2007, 21:49 by Marita Clock
Adoptions from Romania abroad dzt. are still forbidden. But many clubs are working out that it is changed.
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30.11.2007, 14:18 clock by Walter
Hi Stefana,

I am concerned about whether adoptions are generally durchfürbar or not and how complicated such procedures are ... the children's homes are still filled with street children, and I think, as one might do good.

Best regards,

Walter
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30.11.2007, 14:39 clock by LustigerFuchs Registered users (see profile)
Why do adoptierst a home child from De?
It seems here there en masse, even some celebrity's grew up in foster homes.
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30.11.2007, 14:45 clock from German in Adriatic German
@ Funny Fox
Why do not disappear after Ro? There seems there are masses of work for you!
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30.11.2007, 15:26 clock by LustigerFuchs Registered users (see profile)
But no better paid.
Anyway, working only in Ro brings little revenue.
Perhaps I can tell you sometime when you tell why you turned to tax and what requirements you had for the tax audit. The way I was brought on ideas.
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30.11.2007, 19:58 clock by Carpathian holidays Registered users (see profile)
to Walter,

you can have a child from Russia, from Bulgaria, but not to adopt from Romania. Romanian law bans adoptions abroad. Who else tells is wrong. - If you want to help, so help a child in their own country, Romania. There are many ....
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30.11.2007, 20:22 clock by maxebaumann Registered users (see profile)
Carpathian holidays, to have this child, what do you want to help in the country, but then you build an electric fence. If the child is certainly nothing.
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02.12.2007, 14:24 clock by Carpathian holidays Registered users (see profile)
Hello Walter,
you should not believe all the people are so giving of himself to write what is often ............... who have no idea.
I have been running since 1989, an organization of orphans in Romania. True, there was much lost, may have other children for pleasure through, but now it has become easier.
Turn it to a HO near you, you sure like to give information.
It depends mainly on whether you want to help or do something for yourself. Helpers usually get nothing back, except maybe to see moments where she happy faces.
If you still want to adopt a child, the first path leads to the youth in your district.
After the OK is the second way a 9-month preparatory course.
Then you can register with the authorities documents jungle to deal with. That costs money and nerves. Then you possibly get "your" child.
Much love, and do not be downed
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02.12.2007, 14:37 clock by maxebaumann Registered users (see profile)
Carpathian holidays, I can not quite understand it. Since 89 When you're working in the sector, one can hardly be so naive. The problems with the targeted children, work is harder today than it was years ago. The barriers continue to fall forever.
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02.12.2007, 17:17 clock by Stefana
to Walter.!
I do not know how the location is now ...
but it is always a long lasting affair.
naja .. I think it was enough e gsesaggt ..
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02.12.2007, 17:19 clock by Stefana

PS: such matters are very complicated. but it's worth it.
yes, the homes are fully gstopft ..

Much luck
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02.12.2007, 19:27 @ Clock by maxebaumann
maxe the best all want to be your stupid snout, it pisses me stay out with your stupid know-it, shut up you are senile and too stupid to bring something sensible about the series!
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02.12.2007, 20:15 clock by maxebaumann Registered users (see profile)
Stefana, according to the new EU Directive, the homes are supposed to be drastically reduced. Where these children will end up, that's probably not so hard to guess. Allegedly converted into private families. but as I got my reasonable doubt. This one has so far attempted to treat with all kinds of it, but little resonance.
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02.12.2007, 20:21 clock by Stefana

hey I'm in a
Children growing up in romania!
and I was happy.
made me what good has become.



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02.12.2007, 20:40 @ Clock by Stefana
That is not to maxe his view, the old blockhead knows everything better and he has again be stupid legitimate doubt.
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02.12.2007, 21:50 clock by maxebaumann Registered users (see profile)
Stefana, I think you have that lucky. Assist in the home which we handle almost all of the boys with a vocational training course in life. Happiness does not have but so many of them.

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02.12.2007, 21:59 clock by ICh
For me, incomprehensible how someone adopting a little gypsy can. Know of 2 cases of adoption of a Romanian child to Germany, and both times walked beside ists who are petty criminals become. Against the genes we can do nothing! Even when good will does not help. Ok man is lucky, perhaps, that the child has somewhere either German or Russian genes, but that I would not bet! Romanian-country adoption is a roulette game with a lot of rivets! That is why the CIA and other Western intelligence agencies have stopped the adoption of the Romanians abroad. In order to curb the harmful influence! Everything, of course, totally secret, but I have my info channels! Otherwise, it would not be so hot secret service!
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02.12.2007, 22:09 clock by NicolaeCeausescu Registered users (see profile)
If the intelligence agencies say something stupid, it remains nevertheless a stupidity.
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02.12.2007, 22:10 clock by Patric Registered users (see profile)
Well if that deal even with children? ... The intelligence agencies.
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02.12.2007, 23:12 clock by ICh
The intelligence agencies take care to imagine many more things than the ordinary citizen can! That ought ANY Romanian Securitate from our own experience to know! They are with you but even still everywhere! That is also a base in Romania, why it still is so shit. Some Securitate people have the most property seized under the nail .. but are still nochmehr (unproductive) worked!

You think those are the only lazy Gypsy .. But it is really something else!
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03.12.2007, 18:34 clock by Stefana
I @

hey .. I dare to say that
you with your meaningful
all (or fastalle) children adopted from Romania
turn to crime lies completely wrong!.

a child is not automatically a criminal just because it comes from Romania.!
against the gene you can not do anything that stimbt.
But many do with the education of the adoptive parents!!

Children are children! whether German or
Romanian origin!

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12.04.2008, 23:52 clock by Nadja
Sorry, of course, meant CARPATHIANS HOLIDAY ...
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13.04.2008, 08:28 clock of I
Most children, however, come only after a few years in the home. Until then be characterized as strong as it hardly makes what. Later, sit down by the early life experiences, even in the subconscious. Therefore, the probation will ever get, because of severe childhood, etc. And with the genes, it is so that the Romanians living since 100en of years mostly by criminals. Thus, these genes have been enforced. It's like the dog breed, it just gives aggressive breeds (Rottweiler, etc), and brave, because you can do something but the basic trend is there.

Even the children's homes in Romania are not bad, but on the contrary usually much much better than a Romanian child-rearing at home. Because all involved there, particularly abroad, with high expectations. What happens when the Romanians at home not interested. Whether Dad nailed her daughter, whether or not the children go to school .. not really interested with this.

So siehts out.

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Adoption : Le Maroc change !

Adoption : Le Maroc change !

28 novembre 2007 - Commentaires? - En discuter sur les forums? - Facebook TwitterAdoption : Le Maroc change !

La crèche de Tanger est l’unique lieu de la ville où sont recueillis les bébés abandonnés. Sur le bureau de sa présidente, s’accumulent une centaine de dossiers : les demandes d’adoption qui attendent d’être satisfaites. Ceux auxquels la vie n’a pas donné la chance d’enfanter n’hésitent plus aujourd’hui à venir frapper à la porte de la crèche. Que l’on cesse donc de répéter que rien ne change au Maroc.

 

A force de les vivre au quotidien, on ne prend plus la mesure des changements intervenus dans notre société au cours des dernières décennies. Pourtant, en matière d’évolution des mentalités, ils sont parfois impressionnants. L’exemple suivant en offre une bonne illustration. A Tanger, quand vous pénétrez dans l’enceinte de l’hôpital Kortobi, l’ancien hôpital français, vous trouvez tout de suite sur votre droite une maisonnette ouverte sur un jardinet coquet. Sur son fronton se lit l’inscription « Crèche de Tanger ». C’est là que sont recueillis les nourrissons abandonnés à la naissance.

Retrouvés pour beaucoup dans la rue, ces enfants rendent compte de la permanence de l’intolérance sociale envers la mère célibataire, intolérance qui pousse cette dernière à commettre l’irréparable à l’égard de l’enfant auquel elle donne le jour. Une cinquantaine de petits locataires, pour l’essentiel âgés de quelques mois, séjournent dans cette institution. Tous ont déjà une famille adoptive qui attend d’achever les formalités juridiques de la kafala pour venir les chercher. Choyés et dorlotés par un personnel dévoué, ils reprennent vie après avoir connu le rejet, leur premier cri à peine lancé. Loin de l’orphelinat froid et sans âme, la crèche de Tanger assure à ces bébés le cocon de chaleur dont ils ont été privés à la naissance, jugés coupables avant que d’être.

Retour maintenant vingt ans en arrière. Haj Hayat, directeur d’une institution bancaire, est réveillé en sursaut au milieu de la nuit par le gardien de nuit. Celui-ci l’appelle en catastrophe car la fille d’une des femmes de ménage employées par la banque menace d’accoucher sur le perron de celle-ci. Au commencement des douleurs, les deux femmes se sont rendues dans un premier temps à l’hôpital. Mais elles y ont trouvé porte close, l’honorable lieu n’ayant pas de place pour les pécheresses. En désespoir de cause, la mère a donc ramené la fille sur son lieu de travail. Devant l’urgence de la situation, Haj Hayat et sa femme se rendent sur place, prennent les malheureuses et les ramènent à l’hôpital où cette fois-ci, intervention d’un notable oblige, on est bien obligé de les recevoir.

Pendant que son épouse assiste à l’accouchement, Haj Hayat tue le temps en se promenant dans les couloirs. C’est alors que des pleurs en provenance d’une pièce fermée arrêtent ses pas. Interpellé, il s’enquiert de ce qu’il y a derrière la porte. Quand, sur sa demande, celle-ci lui est entrouverte, il est tout d’abord saisi par l’insupportable odeur qui emplit l’atmosphère. Puis il aperçoit, jetés comme des objets mis au rebut, des nouveaux-nés, sales et affamés, qui braillent avec toute la force de leur petit être. Ce sont là des bébés dont personne ne veut ni ne se soucie. Profondément choqué par ce spectacle, Haj Hayat décide de tout mettre en œuvre pour arracher ces infortunés nourrissons à ce mouroir.

Plusieurs contacts sont pris, notamment avec l’autorité religieuse de la région susceptible s’opposer à l’initiative. De cette grande âme, il s’entend dire que les oulad zna n’ont droit à rien en islam. Que donc, leur destin ne peut être, sinon la mort, que le rejet et l’exclusion. Mais notre homme, pieux croyant au fait du texte coranique et des hadiths, rappelle à son interlocuteur les propos du Prophète plaçant le kafil (celui qui assume la kafala d’un enfant) à sa droite au paradis. Neutralisée par cet argument, la personnalité en question n’a d’autre choix que de laisser faire. C’est ainsi que la crèche de Tanger, après moult péripéties, voit le jour. Vingt ans plus tard, pour ces enfants qui, hier, mouraient dans un coin sombre de l’hôpital, quand ce n’était pas dans une poubelle, la demande excède l’offre. La crèche de Tanger reste l’unique lieu de la ville où sont recueillis les bébés abandonnés. Mais sur le bureau de Khadija Bouebaidi, son énergique présidente, transitaire de son état, s’accumulent une centaine de dossiers : les demandes d’adoption qui attendent d’être satisfaites. Ceux auxquels la vie n’a pas donné la chance d’enfanter n’hésitent plus aujourd’hui à venir frapper à la porte de la crèche, prêts à faire leurs ces petits êtres à qui, jusque-là, la société ne réservait que rejet et mépris.

Que l’on cesse donc de répéter que les choses ne changent pas autour de nous. Quand, dans un domaine aussi sensible que celui-ci, des évolutions de ce style sont enregistrées, preuve est donnée que rien n’est jamais définitivement figé. Certes, sur ce plan comme sur tant d’autres, on n’en est encore qu’au tout début du chemin. Mais dès lors que quelqu’un ose le premier pas, l’ostracisme se fissure et la société, doucement, s’éduque à penser et à se comporter différemment. Mais pour ce faire, il est besoin de grands cœurs capables de se lever au milieu de la nuit pour secourir un être dans l’adversité puis, ensuite, de s’engager dans des batailles dont l’objectif n’est autre que de rappeler chacun à son devoir d’humain.

La vie éco - Hinde Taarji